Iintsana zezona zinto zithandekayo nezithandekayo ezikhoyo. Ukusukela ngosuku lokuqala, yonke into abayenzayo iba liqela labazali babo abanekratshi. Awuyi kuba nakho ukususa amehlo akho kuye kwaye yonke imihla uya kuqaphela umohluko omncinci. Inqanaba elidlula ngokukhawuleza, ke kuya kufuneka ulisebenzise kakhulu. Namhlanje sifuna ukukuxelela ukuba unjani ukukhula komntwana onenyanga enye.
Injani iveki yokuqala yobomi?
Umzuzu ekudala ulindelwe ufikile, kwaye sele unomntwana wakho. Emva kokuchacha ekubelekeni esibhedlele, uya kuthunyelwa ekhaya ukonwabele eli nqanaba litsha.
Abazalisikazi baya kukuxelela ukuba awukwazi ukumhlamba de iwe umbilini. Oku kuhlala kwenzeka kwiiveki zokuqala zobomi. Oku kukhusela usulelo. Sishiya inqaku "Iingcebiso ngebhafu yokuqala yosana lwakho" apho unolwazi ngakumbi ngayo.
Oomama abaninzi bayoyika ukuthatha abantwana babo babethwe ngumoya ukuba kusekutsha kakhulu. Unokuthatha uhambo olufutshane (Inako nokutya kwayo ngokweemfuno) nakwi ngaphandle okoko nje kungekho maqondo asezantsi okanye aphezulu, kwaye ngaphandle kokuyibeka ngqo elangeni. Ukuba kusehlotyeni ungayenza ngeyure yokuqala okanye yokugqibela yemini, kwaye ebusika kwiiyure ezisembindini kwaye ukhuseleke kakuhle.
Kwinyanga yakhe yokuqala akazukuvuka. Ngokufanelekileyo, yibeke emqolo ulale kwaye ngaphandle komqamelo ukunqanda isifo sokufa ngesiquphe. Iintsana balala phakathi kweeyure ezili-16 ukuya kwezi-20 ngosukua, uya kuvuka nje ukuba atye. Kwiveki yokuqala uyakutya isixa esincinci rhoqo, kuba isisu sakhe sincinci kakhulu.
Uyakuthanda ukubanjwa, kwaye ukhathalelo olukhethekileyo kufuneka lwenziwe ngentloko nentamo. Ngokukhala, uya kunxibelelana nabanye ukuze ahlangabezane neemfuno zakhe.
Injani iveki yesibini yobomi?
Sele ekuqonda ngakumbi ukukhuthaza, Kwaye sele uyazi ukuba unxibelelana njani ngakumbi naye kunye neemfuno zakhe. Unxibelelwano lukhulu kwaye amaxesha awodwa.
Eli nqanaba lingaqala nge colic eyoyikekayo, ngakumbi ukuba une-lactation yokufakelwa, ehlala iqala kwiveki yesibini okanye yesithathu yobomi. Oku kuyakwenza ukuba ukhale ngokungalawulekiyo njengoko kuya kukwenzakalisa kancinci. Okanye unokukhula ngokukhawuleza, ngoko kuya kufuneka uncelise rhoqo.
Injani iveki yesithathu yobomi?
Akayibambi ngentloko yonke. Uyakuthanda ukujonga ubuso babantu ngaphezu kwezinto, nokuba ubona izithunzi kufutshane, unokuwela amehlo xa uzama ukubeka embindini umbono. Ukuva kwakho kuphuculwe ngokupheleleyo kunye nengqwalaselo yakho apho isandi sivela khona.
Bahlala belele amaxesha amaninzi, kodwa ungamnceda ukuba ahlule ukuba kusemini na xa kusebusuku. Sukuyiphepha ingxolo okanye ukukhanya emini ukuqhela ingxolo kunye nokukhanya. Ebusuku ngesiqhelo sakhe ungalinciphisa igumbi lakhe, umhlambe, umnike umyalezo, ucule iingoma ezilula ... ukuze abalise ukuba kusebusuku.
Injani inyanga yokuqala yobomi?
Lidlule ngokukhawuleza ixesha! Umntwana wakho sele enenyanga ubudala. Ukhulile kwaye uzuze okuninzi ngexesha elifutshane kakhulu, kwaye yonke imihla ufunda into entsha. Unomdla kwaye uqaphele kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo macala onke kwaye uyawaqonda amazwi abo basondeleyo kuye kunye nevumba labo.
Uya kuhlala evuka rhoqo ukutya, rhoqo iiyure ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-3. Njengokuba umntwana ekhula, umgama phakathi kwamaxesha okondla uya kwanda. Ukuba uqaphela nantoni na engaqhelekanga unokuyixoxa nogqirha wabantwana ukukhupha ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo.
Kuba khumbula… iintsana azizi nencwadana phantsi kwengalo yazo. Ixesha elingaphezulu niza kwazana kwaye nivumelane nemeko entsha.