Mhlawumbi wakhe waliva igama elithi, "anembryonic pregnancy" kodwa alivakali ngathi lincinci kuwe okanye awazi ukuba yintoni kanye kanye. Inkqubo ye- ukukhulelwa komzimba yingxaki exhaphake kakhulu kwabasetyhini kwaye Unepesenti ephezulu yokuphuphuma kwesisu ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwekota yokuqala.
Ukukhulelwa kwe-Anembryonic liqanda elichunyiswayo kwaye emva kokuba lifakwe esibelekweni, liyakhula kwingxowa yokukhulelwa kodwa ngaphandle kokukhulisa umbungu ngaphakathi kulo, ke ngoko inokuqondwa into yokuba ukukhulelwa kuyaqala ukukhula kodwa akukho mntwana ungekabikho.
Olu hlobo lokukhulelwa kubangelwa ziingxaki ze-chromosomal ezinxulunyaniswa neqanda okanye isidoda esisemgangathweni Bavelisa ulwazi olubi lwemfuza kwaye aluphuhlisi. Oku kungafunyaniswa nge-ultrasound kwiiveki ezisi-7 zokukhulelwa, inokufunyanwa kuba akukho kubetha kwentliziyo ngokumamela umntwana.
Emva kokuphulukana nokukhulelwa okanye ukwenza unyango lwesibeleko, ukukhulelwa kwakhona kuya kufuneka ulinde ixesha lokubuya ukuze uphinde uzame.
Ungaphoswa naziphi na iinkcukacha endiza kuzicacisa ngakumbi apha ngezantsi ukuze ube nokuqonda ngcono ukuba kukukhulelwa okungakanani na nokuba kungantoni na.
Yintoni ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic?
Ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic luhlobo lokukhulelwa kwesisu okwenzeka xa kufakwa iqanda kwisichumiso kodwa alikhuli umbungu. Kukwaziwa njengokulahleka kombungu okanye ukulahleka kombungu.
Oku kunokwenzeka ngokukhawuleza ukuba ungazi nokuba ukhulelwe, okuhlala kunjalo kwikota yokuqala yokukhulelwa. Ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo kwenzeka xa ukukhulelwa kuphela kwiiveki ezingama-23 zokuqala.
Kwimeko apho ukhulelwe, iqanda elichumileyo linamathela eludongeni lwesibeleko kwaye xa sele kudlule iiveki ezi-6 zokukhulelwa, umbungu kufuneka ubekhona. Nge-zygote, nangona kunjalo, iintlobo zokukhulelwa azikhuli. Kungenxa yoko le nto i-zygote ikwanokubizwa ngokuba kukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo.
Yintoni ebangela ukuba ukhulelwe?
Ngokwesiqhelo ukuphuphuma kwesisu okanye ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kuhlala kuyingxaki kwii-chromosomes kunye nolwakhiwo oluthwala imfuza, mhlawumbi ngenxa yesidoda esibi okanye umgangatho weqanda.
Inokwenzeka kwakhona ngenxa yokwahlukana kweseli okungaqhelekanga. Nangeyiphi ndlela Umzimba uyeke ukukhulelwa njengoko usazi ukuba kukho into engaqhelekanga kwaye uyazi ukuba ayinakuthwalwa de kuphele. Phantse ezibini kwisithathu sokungahambi kakuhle kwesisu ngenxa yokungaqheleki chromosomal.
Kubalulekile ukuba wazi ukuba akukho kwanto uyenzileyo ukubangela ukuphunyelwa sisisu okanye ukukhulelwa kombungu kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe kuthintelwe nangayiphi na indlela. Kubafazi abaninzi, i-zygote yenzeka kube kanye.
Ukuba emva kokuphulukana nokukhulelwa okanye ukuthatha Unyango lwesibeleko ufuna ukumitha kwakhona, kuya kufuneka ulinde ukuya exesheni kwakho (iintsuku ezingama-30 okanye ezingama-40)
Iimpawu zokukhulelwa kombungu
Xa ukhulelwe, uneempawu ezifanayo zokukhulelwa. Oko kukuthi, ukuba uthatha uvavanyo lokukhulelwa uya kuba neziphumo ezincumisayo kwaye uyakuba nokusilela exesheni. Ukuba kukho ubukho be-zygote, amanqanaba e-hormonal ahlala ephezulu, ke nokuba imbungu iyekile ukukhula kwaye ayisekho, iimvavanyo zokukhulelwa zingaqhubeka ukuba zilungile nokuba ukukhulelwa akuzukuqhutywa ixesha, kwaye nokuba kwenzekile kuwe, usenokuziva ngathi ukhulelwe.
Wazi njani ukuba uphunyelwa sisisu?
Ngokukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic, umzimba wakho uya kuyala xa usibona ukuba kukho into engalunganga, ngale ndlela kuya kuphelisa ukukhulelwa ngokuhamba kwesisu. Inkqubo ye- Iimpawu zokuphuma kwesisu zinokuba njalo njenge:
- Iintlungu esiswini
- Ukubonakala kwelungu lobufazi okanye ukopha
- Ukucinga ukuba unethuba elinegazi elininzi kwaye elinzima kunesiqhelo.
Ukuba unayo le mpawu, mhlawumbi uhlangabezana nokuphuphuma kwesisu, kodwa akusoloko kufuneka ukuba kunje Ukuba uphawula into eyahlukileyo emzimbeni wakho kuya kufuneka uye kugqirha akuvavanye kwaye akuxelele ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kanye kanye kuwe.
Ukuxilongwa
Kungenzeka ukuba xa ucinga ukuba ukhulelwe ngokwesiqhelo, inyani yokuba ufunyenwe ukhulelwe iya kukwenza uzive umbi kwaye ulusizi, kodwa cinga lonto ngenxa yokuba isenzeka kuwe kwakanye ayithethi ukuba izakwenzeka kuwe rhoqo.
Ukuchonga ukuba unesisu esikhulelweyo, kuya kufuneka benze i-ultrasound ukuze bazi ukuba akukho mveku.
Kwenzeka ntoni emva kokufunda ukuba ukhulelwe umntwana?
Ukuba ufumene ukuxilongwa kokukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic, kuya kufuneka uthethe nogqirha wakho ukuze ufumane ukuba wenzeni ngokulandelayo, uya kukucacisela onke amanyathelo ekufuneka elandelwe. Ukuthintela ukwenza inkqubo yotyando (ukunciphisa umlomo wesibeleko kunye nokususa imixholo yawo) kukho iyeza elinjenge-misoprostol elinceda ukugxotha zonke izicwili iintsuku ezininzi. Nangona eli chiza linokuba neziphumo ebezingalindelekanga kunye nokopha.
Kukho enye into onokukhetha kuyo, kwaye yile yokuba kukho abantu basetyhini abakhetha ukuyeka naluphi na uhlobo lwenkqubo yokufumana isisu kwaye into abayithandayo kukuvumela umzimba wabo ukuba uququzelele yonke into kunye nendalo. Nangona esi sisigqibo sobuqu, kubalulekile ukuba ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokukwenza, thetha nogqirha wakho ukuze akwazi ukulandela kwaye ajonge ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle nokuba impilo yakho ayinzima.
Ngaba wakha waya kumava okukhulelwa kumbungu? Ngaba ungathanda ukusichazela ukuba la mava ayenjani? Ngaba kwakunzima okanye ucinga ukuba ukukhupha isisu kwakuyinto eyahlukileyo ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuba kukukhulelwa komntwana?
Njengoko ubona, Ubume bendoda bubulumko kwaye ukuba ibona ukuba kukho into engalunganga ngomzimba womfazi xa ukukhulelwa kuqala ukukhula, kuphelisa nje ukukhulelwa ukuze ingaqhutywa.
Ndiyakuxelela ukuba ndikhulelwe. Ndenza impazamo ngokulala ngesonto emva kwelahleko. Umbuzo wam ngowokuba, emva kweveki, ndingakhulelwa?
Molo, xa ufunda eli nqaku, cacisa amanye amathandabuzo kodwa ndinamanye, bendineentsuku ezi-18 emva kwexesha ngoMeyi 2011, 3, ndaye ndenza uvavanyo lwegazi ukuze ndibone ukuba ndikhulelwe kwaye lwaphuma lukhona, kwangalo mini ndafumana icicic eqinileyo ndathi xa ndisiya kwigumbi lokuhlambela ndaqonda ukuba libala. Umyeni wam wandisa kugqirha kwigumbi likaxakeka kwaye ugqirha wamabhinqa wandixelela ukuba sisoyikiso sokukhupha isisu kwaye ukujonga ukuba uza kwenza i-ultrasound engaphaya, ugqirha wandixelela ukuba akukho sana apho ibingenanto kwaye kufuneka undenzele iyeza lokundithumela i-misoprostol yendlu kwaye ibikwintsuku ezimbini ukwenza unyango.
Emva kweentsuku ezimbini ndihambile, bandenzela lonto ndagula kakhulu, ndabona abanye abafazi behamba ngokungathi akwenzekanga nto bandishiya phantsi kweliso kuba ndandiphantsi koxinzelelo bandopha kakhulu, ekugqibeleni bandithumela ekhaya.
Umama kunye nogqirha bandixelele ukuba andinokwazi ukulala nomyeni wam ukuba kufuneka ndilinde iinyanga ezimbini kuba isibeleko sibuthathaka, njengoko iintsuku zihamba ndaye ndanesiyezi, ukugabha, yonke into yandigulisa, kwafuneka Phantsi kweshawa amaxesha ngamaxesha okoko amanzi ebendigcina kakuhle, isisu sam sakhula salandela nokungonwabi, ndathi kumyeni wam makandise kugqirha wabucala ngoba bashiye into kum okanye ukuba bendinayo ithumba.
Ukufika kwethu kugqirha, ndathumela umyeni wam ekhemesti ayothenga uvavanyo lokukhulelwa lwaphuma lukhona.Ugqirha wandixelela ukuba benze iyeza lokunyanga kodwa bashiye umntwana kum okanye mhlawumbi ndinezimbini Iintsana kwaye bebendikhuphile.enye, umyeni wam woyika kuba khange silale kwaye wayengayikholelwa lonto.
Bathumele i-ultrasound umntwana waphuma eshukuma ebene 4 months ubudala, benza iimvavanyo ezininzi ukubona ukuba umntwana akazalwanga enesiphene ngenxa yayo yonke into abayenzileyo kum, umntwana wam wazalwa iiveki ezingama-34 ngenxa into abayenzileyo kum kuba wayeyiplacenta previa, sobabini sasikwigumbi elinzima iintsuku ezininzi sisecicini lokufa,
Kodwa uThixo mkhulu kwaye usana lwam luneminyaka emi-3 neenyanga ezisi-8 ubudala kwaye alunakuphila.
Kodwa, kunjalo, ndinamathandabuzo amaninzi malunga nento eyenzekileyo kum.
Ndiyathemba ukuba uyalithanda ibali lam.
ULeelaela; Libali elimnandi kangaka, uThixo ukunike isipho esikhethekileyo kwaye ndiyavuyisana nawe kuba ekugqibeleni yonke into ihambe kakuhle kakhulu. Ndiyabulela ngokuyixela, undenze ndancuma ngovuyo olukhulu, ezi ntlobo zamabali aziviwa yonke imihla. Ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic unyaka onesiqingatha eyadlulayo kwaye kwakunzima kakhulu kuba sasinethemba elikhulu lokuba nomntwana wethu wokuqala kunye nomyeni wam, kwiintsuku ezintathu ezidlulileyo ndafumanisa ukuba siphinde salindela umntwana kwaye ndijonge phambili umhla we-ultrasound kuthi.ugqirha undixelele ukuba yonke into ilungile kwaye uqe ekugqibeleni siza kuba ngabazali.
Elinjani ukuba lihle ibali .. Ndiyathandaza kuThixo ndicela ummangaliso onje… bendine-IVF ngo-Epreli kwaye kwi-8-veki ye-ultrasound akukho phuhliso okanye ukubetha kwentliziyo… ..ugqirha wam undinike iyeza le-misoprostol kwaye undithumele ekhaya .... bendisoyika kakhulu ukubeka iyeza ekhaya kwaye ngengomso ndaya emsebenzini wam kwizongxamiseko zamanina kwaye ngenxa yemilinganiselo yeembungu oogqirha bagqiba kwelokuba bamnike iveki enye ... iveki enye yokulinda nethemba ....
Molo, igama lam ndinguAna, ndizokuxelela ukuba sele ndikhulelwe 2 ke eyoku-1 yayiqhelekile, wandicacisela ugqirha ndabe ndibulela nje uThixo kuba izinto zakhe zigqibelele, bandinika ingcaciso efanayo yokuba Kweli phepha. Yonke into ileta emva kokuba bandithumele i-misoprostol, kodwa ndalinda ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi kweenyanga ezi-6 ndaphinda ndazama kwakhona kwaye kwenzeka into efanayo kum kwaye ngeli xesha andikuhoyanga oko kuthethwa ngoogqirha, andiphumlanga Ndizithambisile iipilisi ebusuku ndathi ngengomso ndavuka ndacoca ekhaya imini yonke, xa ndandiye kulawulo emva kokuba kwenziwe i-echo, bandixelela ukuba ukukhupha isisu akuphelelanga kwaye kufuneka benze unyango okanye into enjalo okanye undithumelele iipilisi ze-misoprostol kwakhona ps ndithathe isigqibo sokuba iipilisi kungenxa yokuba ndiyoyika emva kwonyango lokuba andizukuphinda ndikwazi ukumitha kwaye nomyeni wam kwaye ndifuna umntwana, ndaya kuhlolo lwesithathu baxela mna ukuba yonke into ibilungile kodwa okoko kwaqala oku ndinentlungu ebuhlungu kakhulu Kudala ndisesiswini sam ukusukela nge-8 ka-Okthobha ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kwaye ndinexhala kakhulu andazi ukuba ndinento yokubona kodwa ndiyoyika kuba iya isomelela enkosi ndiyathemba impendulo
Ndenze uvavanyo lwegazi, lwaphuma luchanekile.Ndenza i-ultrasound ukuqinisekisa ixesha.Ngokuba inyanga nenyanga bendinesiqingatha.I-echo ayiphumanga kwaphela.I-ultrasound indixelele kuphela ukuba lininzi igazi isibeleko.Iintsuku ezili-18 ezidlulileyo ndilahlekile.okanye ixesha.ndaye ndidumbile.
mmm andicingi njalo, ps koku ndikufundileyo kufuneka ukuba ixesha lakho liphinde lenzeke kwaye emva koko unokukhulelwa.
Ngoku umbuzo wam uthi:
Ndineminyaka engama-22 ubudala, ndandinemincili kakhulu malunga nokukhulelwa kwam okokuqala, kodwa kwavela ukuba yayiyimbumba, ndinamathandabuzo amaninzi malunga nokuba ingaphinda-phindwa le nto, kutheni ugqirha wam endixelele ukuba kufuneka ndiphumle kangangesiqingatha sonyaka, xa Ndifundile ukuba ungaphinda ukhulelwe emva kokuba ixesha lethu libuyile emva kokunyangwa, oko kukuthi, malunga neentsuku ezingama-30 okanye ezingama-40….
Ndiyoyika kakhulu ukuba izophinda yenzeke lento kum, andinakukwazi nokufumana umbono wento eyenzekileyo kum. i-USA
Iyaphinda-phinda, ingaba ndinomntwana?….
Molo Luz, Molo Carolina, enkosi kakhulu ngokufunda. MadresHoy.com
Ndiyakuxelela ukuba emva konyango kufuneka ulinde phakathi kweentsuku ezingama-30 ukuya kuma-50 ukuze uphinde ulale ngesondo. Oku akuthethi ukuba awukhulelwa, nangona eyona nto ingalinda ukusuka kwiinyanga ezi-6 ukuya kunyaka omnye ukuze umzimba wethu "uhlale" kwaye uphinde ube nakho ukukhulisa umntwana kwakhona.
Isizathu sokuba kutheni ukukhulelwa okumbumba kuhlala kwenzeka koomama abatsha akukaziwa kwaye ukuba ungaphinda uphinde ube nabantwana, kufuneka uthathe amanyathelo endikuxelele wona. Kwangokunjalo, ukuba ujonge ukukhulelwa kwakhona, ndincoma ukuba ubonane nogqirha wakho, ukuze akunike iingcebiso ezingcono.
Ndibulise kwaye uqhubeke ufunda MadresHoy.kunye!
Ndikhulelwe lento kodwa andifuni ukuba neyeza lokunyanga.Ndizokulinda kude kube sisisu esizenzekelayo.Ndizakulinda ixesha elingakanani? umntu uyazi?
Molo Mariya,
Ukulinda kungathatha umngcipheko. Ukuba ulawulwa ngugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini akukho ngxaki. Ukuphuma kwesisu kungenzeka nangaliphi na ixesha, oko kuxhomekeke ekubeni kuthatha ixesha elingakanani umzimba ukuwukhupha kwaye elo xesha liyahluka ngokwabantu. Awunakulinda ixesha elide kakhulu, kuba kunokuba kubi kuwe. Njalo onke amanyathelo owathathayo okanye zonke izigqibo, zigqithise kugqirha wakho.
Ndibulise kwaye uqhubeke ufunda MadresHoy.com
UMary, ndineminyaka engama-26 ubudala kwaye ndaye ndahamba noko kwenzekayo kuwe, kuphela kokuba ndilinde phantse inyanga yonke ukuba kwenzeke isisu, kwaye kwakulilize ukuba ukulinda kundosulele kwaye bahlala besenza unyango endilulo ngonyango nangokufumana kwakhona kuba kuyinyani kubuhlungu, sukulinda ixesha elide, yiya kwiziko lakho lempilo kwaye unyango lwesibeleko lwenziwe ngexesha alikho nzima bendinokukhulelwa i-anembryonic yeeveki ezili-12 kwaye bendilindele Ummangaliso kodwa ayibinathamsanqa ukuba uThixo akuncede
Ndisandula ukukhulelwa umbungu, ugqirha wam wezifo zabasetyhini wandinika ipilisi encinci ukubangela ukugxothwa kwesingxobo kwaye kuphela lusuku lokuqala ndilahlekile. Kuthathe iintsuku ezintlanu ngokuqaphela nje ukubonwa kancinci, ingaba yinto eqhelekileyo le? Kwelinye icala, kwi-transvaginal ultrasound bandifumana into endixelele ukuba inokuba ngumthambo we-varicose ekungeneni kwetyhubhu ye-fallopian yasekhohlo. Kuba befumene ukubetha kwentliziyo ukubetha kwe-82 ngomzuzu, ngaba kunokwenzeka oku? okanye yintoni enye enokuba yiyo? Zeziphi iingxaki ezinokuzisa impilo yam? lukhona unyango? iqhelekile ??
Molo, kwiintsuku ezintathu ezidlulileyo bendineyeza lokunyanga, okoko ukukhulelwa kwam kwakungu-embryonic. umbuzo wam ngowokuba ingaba le nto ingandichaphazela na ekubeni ndingakwazi ukumitha kwakhona? Kuthekani ukuba unokuphinda ukhulelwe kwakhona?
Molo kum, ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kuye kwenzeka kum, ibikukuqala kwam ukukhulelwa kwaye yona ngokwayo inqweneleka kakhulu kwaye ifunwa emva, ugqirha wamazinyo wafaka iyeza kwaye wandixelela ukuba kufuneka ndilinde iinyanga ezine ukuzama kwakhona, ayenzakalisi ukuba ndihlale kwakhona ndikhulelwe
Molo IGAMA LAM LIQHELEKILE. KWAKWENZEKA KWENZEKA KWAM NJE NGO-APRILI 7, 2011 NDIQALILE UKUTHATHA I-ACID YAMANQAKU.
Kwiveki ephelileyo bendisazi ukuba ndikhulelwe nge-anembryonic kwaye ndaziva ndiphoxekile kwaye ndibuhlungu ndisadandathekile kakhulu bendonwabile malunga nesithandwa sam, sobabini sihamba nexesha elibi, ngaphandle kweminyaka yam ndineminyaka eyi-18 kuphela ikamva liyakundichaphazela okanye Kuthekani ukuba liphinde lenzeke kum?
Molo, ndinengxaki, ndikhulelwe umntwana wam wesibini kwafumaniseka ukuba kukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo, oogqirha bandinika ezinye iipilisi kwaye ngoncedo lwezi ndazigxotha isingxobo sokukhulelwa kwaye bandinika i-intravaginal ultrasound kwaye ndibulela uThixo yonke into ihambe kakuhle, ndalala ngesondo nomyeni wam emva kweveki, umbuzo wam ngowokuba ixesha lam alikabikho oko ihambe iinyanga ezimbini, ingaba yinto eqhelekileyo? Kwaye akhona amathuba okuba ndikhulelwe nokuba ixesha alikafiki? Ndiyavuyisana nawe ngale ndawo kufuneka ukhokele oomama abafana nathi abadlula kula maxesha obunzima. Ndiyathemba ukufumana impendulo ngokukhawuleza. Enkosi.
Sawubona uMariya, ndandikhulelwe ngokufana kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo kwaye ndandingafuni ukufumana unyango kwaye ugqirha wam wayefuna ukulinda ukuphuma kwesisu kwaye ukusukela kumhla endafunyaniswa ngayo, kuphela iintsuku eziyi-2 zidlulile.
emva kokukhulelwa kombungu kuya kufuneka ulinde ixesha elingakanani ukukhulelwa kwakhona? Sele ndinonyango lokunyanga lwesibeleko iinyanga ezimbini kwaye bendisela iipilisi inyanga, ingaba le nto ingandichaphazela?
Molweni, phantse kwinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo ndikhulelwe, sele ndinentombazana eneminyaka eli-11 ubudala kwaye ndamelana ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndibenenye, ndonwabile kakhulu kodwa oko kwenzekile kum, ugqirha wandicebisa ukuba ndilinde iinyanga ezi-6, Bendicinga ukuba yenzeke kum kodwa ngoku ndiyabona ukuba kuqhelekile kubafazi abaninzi. Ndiyoyika ukuba kuyakwenzeka ngelinye ixesha bandicebise Enkosi
molo igama lam ndinguLucia,
Njengabanye, ndikhulelwe nge-anembryonic,
Ndiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu kuba ingumntwana wethu wokuqala kuthi sobabini njengesibini.
Andinantandabuzo okoko ndaye ndathatha iipilisi ezininzi zokuthintela ukukhulelwa, emva koko ezinye ukunqanda ukutyeba kwaye kwelinye icala, iqabane lam lalinomhlaza wamathumbu, wayekwichemotherapy ixesha elide kwaye ngoku uyalawulwa kwaye uphilile ngenxa yeziphumo iimvavanyo.
Oko kuya kubangela kwimeko yam, ndingaba nosana kamva, kuya kufuneka ndizilawule, ndibone ukuba ngaba ufuzo luyahambelana nolwakhe.
Ndiyoyika kwaye andazi ukuba mandithini
Ndiyabulela kwangoko ngokundinika ithuba lokuba ndizivakalise, ndingavuya kakhulu ukuba ndingazifumana iimpendulo zakho. Ngaphambili ndiyabulela kakhulu ..
Molweni, ndineeveki ezi-6 ndikhulelwe kwaye i-echo yam yokuqala yayikwiiveki ezi-5 apho umbungu ungakhange ubonwe, bandixelela ukuba ndinenye emva kweeveki ezisi-7 ndikhulelwe, ndiyaqala kwaye bendisoyika ukuba sisibeleko . Umbuzo wam ngowokuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo na ukuba umbungu ungabonakali kwiiveki ezi-5? ukusukela ngoku kwiintlanga ezininzi kwaye ndilindele impendulo yakho kuba andinakulinda ukulinda ukwanga
Ukuba umntwana wakho utyebile ngesiqhelo kwiiveki ezi-5 yindawo kwi-eco khathalela kwaye ungakhathazeki ndikho oku kumitha ngaphandle kwesibeleko ngoku sele ndiphulukene nokunye ukukhulelwa malunga neminyaka emi-6 eyadlulayo nasemva konyango kuhlala kunjalo ndilindile ukuphulukana nayo ngaphandle kwamazwi atshabalalisiweyo kodwa hey kufuneka siqhubeke silwa sifuna ukuba nosapho. Khathalela kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ingabonwa kwiiveki ezisi-7 ukuba kufanele kubonwe ewe okanye ewe. ithamsanqaeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
molo .vero.njengokuba ungoyena mvanje ukwenzeka kuwe, ndifuna ukuba undixelele ukuba yenzeke njani lento ukuba uphinde wakhulelwa.ukusukela ngolwesine odlulileyo ndafumana unyango ukuze ndikhulelwe. phezulu bantwana bendinemincili kakhulu ngalento yokuthuthuzelwa kwam kuphela kukuba ixesha lihambe kwaye ndingaphinda ndimithe.
Molo IGAMA LAM NDINGU-ARCELIS IZOLO NDIVA KAKUBI KAKHULU XA UGQIRHA. UNDINIKE ESI SIHLOMELO SEENDABA NGOKOMZUZU ENGEKWAZI UKUBA NDINOKUBA NOMNTWANA KODWA NDIHAMILE KWELI Phepha NDABONA UKUBA ASIYEDWA NDIMNYE NANGONA U Gqirha WAM ENDIXELELA OKWENZEKA KOMNTU, NDIVA KANCINCI KUNGCONO KUFUNEKA ULINDELE NGEENYANGA EZI-4 UKUZE UBONELE OKU KWENZEKA KUPHELA KOKUFUNA UTHIXO ASINCEDE ……… UKUBULISA IMIBULISO Kubo BONKE ABATYELELE ELIPHEPHA.
Molweni nonke, ndineminyaka eli-18 ubudala.Ndizakuba nenyanga ezelwe benzela unyango kuba bandixelele ukuba ndikhulelwe. Ndaphantse ndafa xa ugqirha endixelela lonto. Ngethamsanqa, ndinenkxaso yeqabane lam kwaye ndiziva ndizolile, ndiyathemba ukuba ayizukuphinda yenzeke lento kum kuba luloyiko lwam.
Molo, igama lam ndinguEli kwaye ndingathanda ukukubulela ngokundinika ithuba lokuba ndibhale ingxaki yam, eneneni ndiyakuxelela ukuba ndikhulelwe umbungu kwaye ndinexhala kakhulu malunga ne-ke3 eli lixesha lesibini ndikhulelwe kwaye Omabini la maxesha ebesele emiliselwe ndineenyanga ezi-2 i-echo yam yokuqala yayiyiminyaka eyi-6 eyadlulayo kwaye ndikhathazeke kakhulu ukuba andifuni ukuba nonyango kuba ndinamava okuqala kwaye kwakoyikisa kwaye ndifuna ukwazi4 ukuba ndinayo Olunye ukhetho ndilusizi kwaye ndinenkxalabo enkosi ngayo yonke into kunye nemibuliso efanayo kubo bonke abantu basetyhini abakwimeko ezifanayo, enkosi
Molo, bendinomntwana ngaphambi kwexesha kodwa wasweleka eneenyanga ezi-3 zokuzalwa, emva kweenyanga ezi-6 ndikhulelwe ngaphandle kwesisu kwaye bandenza unyango, emva kweminyaka emi-3 kwakhona ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kwaye bandenza iSMA ebuhlungu kakhulu ukusukela acoca isibeleko ukuze afunxwe emva kokuba ekhuphe imveliso, le nkqubo ibuhlungu yenziwa ngaphambi kokufikelela kwiinyanga ezintathu zokukhulelwa. Iminyaka emi-3 idlulile ukusukela ngoku kwaye andiphindanga ndakwazi ukukhulelwa, kwaye ngenxa yobudala bam andicingi ukuba ndiza kuphinda ndikhulelwe.
Ngoku ndiyabona ukuba ngowona mva nje le yenzekileyo kuwe, ndinabantwana ababini omnye una 17 omnye una 15, bendikhulelwe nje anembryonic bendingekayicwangcisi kodwa bendiyifuna oko ndiqonda ukuba ukhulelwe.uConzuela kukucinga ukuba ndiyaphinda ndikhulelwe.Ndineminyaka engama-39 ubudala, ndifuna ukuyizama kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ukubona ukuba uThixo uyayifuna na.Uluvo lwakho lunokundinceda
Molweni nonke, malunga nenyanga ephelileyo, bendineyeza lokunyanga oko ndakhulelwayo, yayingeyokuqala, kwaye uya kucinga ukuba unqweneleka kakhulu okanye ndinamathandabuzo okuba le nto iya kuphinda yenzeke kum ngo-Epreli 4, ndiya ku ugqirha wam wamabhinqa kodwa umbuzo wam omkhulu ngowokuba kutheni ndingezanga ukuya exesheni ukuba ndinenyanga phantse ????? umntu uyazi !! Omnye umbuzo unento yokubona ukuba ingaba unobudlelwane nekhondom? Eske sele ndiyenzile kwaye ndinoloyiko lokuba kungenzeka into enokwenzeka kwixesha elizayo
Molo, NDINEMINYAKA ENGAMA-41, NDINEMITHETHO EMITHATHU, 5 YOKUQALA, UMNTWANA WAFA NGAPHAKATHI KWESISU KWIINYANGA EZI-9, EYESIBINI, WAFA NGAPHAKATHI KWESIBHEDLE NGOKWE-TOXOPLASMA EPHAKAMILEYO, ESI SITHATHU Sishiye Isisu Kwiiveki Ezili-6. KWAYE IINTSUKU EZI-XNUMX, NDIXAKEKILE KAKHULU NGAM, NGOBA NDIFUNA UKUBA NOMNTWANA, ANDIFUNI UKUHLALA NDODWA, UMYENI WAM SEBENABANTWANA, NGOKU NDIYOyika UKUKHULELWA, NGOBA ANDIFUNI. UKUFUNYANWA KWAKHONA, UCEBISA NTONI KWAM?
Molo zinjani izinto. Ndineminyaka eyi-28 kwaye ndikwimeko efanayo ndiziva ndimbi. kwaye ndibuhlungu kakhulu kuba ibilusana lwam lwesibini, kundithathe iminyaka eyi-8 ukuba ndiphinde ndibenomnye kwaye ngoku ndineeveki ezili-9 kwaye akukho bungu lungekazalwa, ndiyoyika ukuba bazakwenza unyango. Iminyaka emi-2 eyadlulayo bandenza enye, kuba usana lwam lwasweleka esiswini sam. Iinyanga ezi-3 zika-Alos zelahleko enkulu kakhulu ebingumama wam, ukuthandabuza kwam kuya kufuneka ndenze unyango okanye kuya kufuneka ndilinde de ndiphulukane nengxowa kwaye ziziphi iziphumo ezinokuba nazo. Ndiyabulela kwaye ndiyanikhuthaza mantombazana akule meko.
Mholweni!!! Izolo bendineyeza lokunyanga oko bendikhulelwe, ubunzima kwityala elinye ngaphandle komntwana, inyani kukuba indixhasa kakhulu kodwa sele yenzekile kwaye ngoku kufuneka ndilinde ukuze ndibone ukuba kuzakwenzeka ntoni emva koko ndiyathemba ukuba ndiza kumitha kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Ekuphela kwento endikhuphele ngaphandle kukuba bandibiza imali yokunyanga, bendicinga ukuba ngokungakwazi ukuqhubeka ibizakuba yimali ephantsi bandibiza i $ 5,500 pesos
Molweni, kwiiveki ezi-3 ezidlulileyo ndafunyaniswa ukuba ndikhulelwe. Wandimisela iipilisi kwidosi yokuqala, ligazi kuphela kwidosi yesibini.Ndikwazile ukugxotha ingxowa.Yayingamava angathandekiyo, kodwa nditsho bandenza Kwakukho iintsalela .. Ndibacebisa ukuba babe sisixhobo sokunyanga kwaye bangangcungcuthekiswa ziipilisi .. kanye njengokuba ndifuna ukukhulelwa ... kodwa ndiyoyika ukuba izakuphinda yenzeke .. yiyo loo nto ndifuna ukuya kwingcali .. ,, Ukuba kukho umntu owaziyo ngendawo elungileyo, enkosi
Ndakhulelwa umbungu ngoDisemba ka-2008, emva koko ngoJanuwari bafumanisa i-follicular cyst, umbuzo wam kukuba ndingakhulelwa na?
Ndifuna ukukubulela ngeempendulo zakho ngexesha elifanelekileyo kunye neengcebiso.
Ndafunyaniswa ukuba ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic, ngeveki bendisopha kakhulu ndinee cramp ezinamandla kakhulu kunye negazi iintsuku ezi-3 zininzi kwaye ndikhuphe malunga ne-15 clots ngemini, oko kuthetha ukuba ndikhuphe isisu ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye andisenaso isingxobo sokukhulelwa ngaphakathi, okanye Kuya kufuneka wenze unyango?
Mholweni
Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba uziva njani xa ukhuphe isisu ngokuzenzekelayo, nokuba kungenxa yokugxothwa kwendalo kweqanda okanye enye.
Kuyavela ukuba ndikhuphe uhlobo oluthile lobunzima obumhlophe, andazi ukuba ndingayichaza njani kakuhle, kodwa ibibonakala ngathi yinto efana nengxowa yokukhulelwa. Ngaba ukhona umntu owaziyo ukuba ngowuphi umbala? .. kuba wawumhlophe .. kwaye ndigqibile ukuba sexesheni ecaleni koku kugxothwa ..
Ndithatha kwakhona inzala, mmm
Ukuba kukho umntu onokundinceda, ndiyabulela ngokusuka entliziyweni yam!
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Molo, njengawe, bendinento eyoyikisayo kwaye ndinxunguphalo elihlazo kwaye ndiziva ndibi kakhulu kwaye ngoku andazi ukuba ndenzeni kwaye ndifuna ukuba nomntwana, kuphela ngamanye amaxesha ndiye ndibi kakhulu kwaye ndiqale ndilile ukuba nomntwana
Ewe, malunga nokugqitha kwinyanga ephelileyo bendinengxaki efanayo yokuba nomntwana ongekazalwa xa bendixelela ukuba ndiyoyika kuba ndicinga ukuba ngandlel 'ithile ngequbuliso ndingakuqondanga, ndibuphelisile ubomi bentsana yam namhlanje ndineminyaka eli-19 ubudala kodwa ndisakhala kwaye nayo yonke into kuba bendicinga ukuba ndinaye kodwa ngethamsanqa bekungekho kuba iqabane lam landishiya xa esazi ukuba ndikhulelwe yena wakhangela enye intombi kodwa hey lonto ayisafaneleki ngoba Ndiziva ndonwabile kwaye ndiyambulela uThixo…. ! kuba ngoku ndinecala lendoda endandihleli nayo mhla kwafuneka bayokwenza unyango ndandisoyika kakhulu kuba ndandicinga ukuba ikhona into eza kwenzeka kum kodwa mantombazana ukuba abanye benu bafuna ukuyenza lento bethule ayonto ukubhala ekhaya malunga nokuba kubuhlungu nje kancinci, musa ukulinda phantse inyanga ukuba babenako ukuyenza kuba baya kuba neentlungu ezibuhlungu emqolo ngomqolo kunye nokuncipha kwamantombazana ngoko ke ... Khathalela kakhulu .. !! I-AMAG
MHOLWENI. KWIINYANGA EZIMBINI EDLULE NDANDIKHULEKILE NDAKHULELWA UMYALELO EMVA KOKUGQIBELA INXALENYE YESAKHE. NDINGATHANDA UKUKHULELWA KWAKHONA, KODWA NDIMANYANYA UKUHAMBA NGALO FANYE. OLUNYANGO KUPHELA ENDALUNIKEZELWA YIYIYONECOLOGIST YAM YAYIYI-ACID YOMNTU WAM NAM. NGOKU NDINENGXAKI NOKUQHATHA, UKUSUKA EMVA KOKUPHUMZA ISISU NDIZE NGEVEKI NOYINYE INDLELA ENDIYA KUQONDA NGAYO AYIQHELEKILEYO. BENDIQHELEKILE KAKHULU PHAMBI KOKUQHUBEKA KOKUQHUBEKA KOKUQHUBEKA KOKUQHUBEKA KOKUQHUBEKA KWESIPHUMO.
Molweni, ndineminyaka engama-23 ubudala kwaye ndikhulelwe ama-3 ngeembumba, kwaye ndilinde iinyanga ezi-5 ukuya kwezi-8 ukuba ndibuyelene.
Kwi-ultrasound yam yokugqibela bandixelela ukuba ndinee-ovari ze-polycystic, kusenokwenzeka ukuba oku kuthintela ukukhulelwa kwam ekukhuleni.
Umyeni wam unomntwana nomnye umfazi, ingaba lonto ithetha ukuba ndim onengxaki? okanye ingaba zombini ???
Molweni mantombazana !! Igama lam ndingu-fernanda, ndineminyaka eli-18 ubudala kwaye njengawe ndafumana ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kwaye ndaphunyelwa sisisu kwaye benza unyango ... yayikukukhulelwa kwam kokuqala, kwaye eneneni ndadlula kwixesha elinxunguphalisayo nelibuhlungu. Kudala ndikhangela ezona zinto zibangela le ngxaki kodwa andikafikeleli kwisigqibo esicacileyo .. Ndiyoyika kakhulu ukuba iyaziphinda. = (
Umyeni wam unohlobo lwegazi olubi kakhulu, enye yezo zinqabileyo ... kwaye ndinento eqhelekileyo nefanelekileyo. Awunakubona uhlobo lwegazi lomlingane wam .. ?? ... kuba sineempawu ezahlukileyo ..
ugqirha wamabele uthi iipesenti ezingama-90 zokuba kungenxa yeempazamo ze-chromosomal.
Ngoku kufuneka silinde iinyanga ezi-6 zokukhulelwa kwakhona .. kwaye siye kugqirha wezifo zonyango ukuze sikwazi ukuzilungiselela ukuba ngabazali .. !!
Sonke esihamba kule nto kufuneka somelele .. kwaye sicinge ngokuqinisekileyo .. ayisiyonto inkulu kwaye kufuneka siqhubeke .. !!
imibuliso!
Sawubona uFernanda! Igama lam ndinguJimena kwaye ndineminyaka engama-26 ubudala, ndikwahamba nemeko kwaye njengani nonke ndibuhlungu kakhulu kuba bendilindele umntwana wam ndinomnqweno omkhulu kunye nemibono emininzi kodwa kuyenzeka ukuba mna Yiya e chekar kwaye bandixelele ukuba ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic kum iiveki ezili-10 zokumitha yinto engaxakekiyo kwaye siyayilinda kwaye ndilinde ak meden umhla wokuthweswa kwam isidanga ndikuthumelela imibuliso emininzi konke kwaye kukho k ukomelela….!
Molweni nonke! Kukungena kwam okokuqala kule bhlog. Ndineminyaka engama-21 ubudala kwaye ngoMvulo odlulileyo, nge-22 kaJuni, ndaya kugqirha ukuya kwenza uvavanyo lokukhulelwa, olwalunesi sifo. Kwaye izolo ndaphinda ndaya kwenza i-ultrasound. Emfanekisweni unokubona kuphela ingxowa yokukhulelwa, ugqirha ekunzima ukuyifumana; Ngokwento andixelela yona, akukho nto inokuxabiseka ngaphakathi kuyo. Ndineeveki ezi-6 ndikhulelwe, ngeli xesha kunokwenzeka ukuba ukukhulelwa kwam kube ngumbungu?
Molo Laura .. Ndiza kukuxelela ukuba kwiiveki ezi-6 umbungu awusabonwa rhoqo .. linda iveki enye okanye ezimbini uphinde wenze i-echo kwakhona .. kwaye wehlise umoya.
Ewe, kuqala bendithanda ukwazi malunga nesi sihloko, kuba ndiyayiphila ndinokukhulelwa okungu-2, esinye esibelekweni, kunye nesinye isisu esizenzekelayo.Ukuba NGUYE okanye ndim ingxaki kwaye uThixo ufuna ukuba undinike intsikelelo endiyilangazelelayo kwaye kubo bonke abantu ababhale ukungathandabuzeki kunye noloyiko ndiyabaqonda, nceda undazise ngalo mba kuba njengoko abanye besitsho kuyacaphukisa ukucinga ukuba awunakukhulelwa ukuba umzimba wakho awufanelanga kulungile enkosi kakhulu
Ndineminyaka engama-27 ubudala nge-18 ndakhulelwa okokuqala kwisibeleko kwaye nge-22 ndakhulelwa ndisempilweni kwaye namhlanje nge-27 ndikhulelwe okwesibini kwimbungu ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kutheni iphindaphindwe ndiyoyika ukumitha kwamane
Molo, ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndingabelana ngesondo ngaphambi kweentsuku ezingama-30 okanye ezingama-40 emva kokwenza unyango lwesibeleko sabasetyhini abakhulelweyo.
Kwaye kuthekani ukuba ndinazo ngaphambi kwaloo mihla.
Enkosi, ndiyathemba impendulo ngokukhawuleza ...
HELLO
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Mholweni !! Ndizokuxelela ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kum
Ngokomhla wam wokuqala wam wokugqibela yayingo-Meyi 8 kwaye ukusukela ndineveki ezili-9 ubudala namhlanje bendine-ultrasound yam yokuqala kwaye kuphela ingxowa yolawulo yabonwa kwaye ugqirha wathi akukho nto yimbi ibonwayo ngaphandle kwento encinci endihlala kuyo ICarlifonia kunye noGqirha bebengazi kakuhle ukuba bangayichaza njani ndikhathazekile, ndilusizi kakhulu kukukhulelwa kwam okwesibini kwaye okokuqala yonke into ihambe kakuhle kakhulu andazi nokuba kukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo ndifuna ukucinga ukuba andikho Kodwa ndinamathandabuzo amaninzi ndinenye i-echo kwiiveki ezimbini ezingaphezulu kwaye bandithumele ndenza iimvavanyo zegazi ukuze ndazi uhlobo lwam lwegazi kunye nezinye iihormoni, ugqirha wandixelela ukuba iihormone zivukile okanye into enjalo umntwana wayekhula kodwa ukuba bebephantsi ke hayi andazi ukuba ndicinge ntoni, ndinemincili kwaye ndifuna ukuba umntwana wam akhule, nam ndingu komo ndididekile kuba bendinobudlelwane njengasekupheleni kukaMeyi kwaye ngoJuni umhla we-2 ibilusuku ixesha lam lifikile, ke mhlawumbi ndineeveki ezimbalwa kwaye yiyo loo nto ndingekamboni umntwana, ndiyathemba njalo kwaye Ewe, inkuthazo kubo bonke abantu basetyhini abenzeka kubo, ugqirha wandibuza ukuba ndiziva njani kwaye ndiphilile kakhulu andikophisi, okanye nantoni na kwezo zinto ndinethemba lokuba ezi veki zimbini zishiyekileyo zidlula ngokukhawuleza kwaye ndiyazibona baby !!! Enkosi kunye nethamsanqa kubo bonke !!
Molo Karolina, ndikwimeko efana neyakho kwaye ndikhathazekile kakhulu, ungandixelela ukuba kwaqhubeka kanjani ukukhulelwa kwakho? enkosi nemibuliso, ndiyathemba ukuba konke kuhamba kakuhle
Molo uKarolina, ndiyazi ukuba bekuyiminyaka emithathu ukusukela ukuba uphawule, kodwa ndiya kwinto enye, sele ndineeveki ezisi-8 kwaye akukho nto inokuthi ibonakale kumbungu ukuba ugqirha undixelele ukuba ndibekhona kule veki izayo. unyango kwaye lundibi kakhulu
Ndandinayo neyeza lokunyanga, kodwa ndifuna umntwana womyeni wam kakhulu, ndifuna ukumitha kwakhona, ndingenza ntoni?
Molo, ndineeveki ezisixhenxe ndikhulelwe kwaye umntwana wam akabonwa, kuphela ingxowa ekhoyo, ugqirha undixelele ukuba kufuneka ndilinde enye iveki kuba inokufihlwa ndonwabile kwaye ndicinga nje ukuba ndingaphulukana nayo kundenza ndidandathekile kakhulu ndifuna ukwazi ukuba kukho ithemba lokwenyani lokuba liyakubonwa
Molo WONKE UMNTU NDINEMINYAKA ELI-11 YENTombazana EYIMINYAKA EYI-11 YOKUGQIBELA I-ACA KANYE NDANDINESIKHUMBUZO SESI-2 SOKUKHUMBULA. IMINYAKA emi-3 OKANYE emi-4 edlulileyo EYESIBILI YAYINGUMDEC. 23 INYANISO andiyazi ukuba YINTONI INGXAKI EBANGELA LE NGXAKI, NGOKUQINISEKILEYO KUFUNEKA NDENZE ILIFA KUKHULELWA OKU-2011 NGOMHLA WOKUQALA. KUFIKE KUPHELA KODWA OWESIBINI WAVAVANYWA KUYADABUKISA KAKHULU UKUBA NGOKWENYANISO AKUKHO EMBRYO, KODWA NGENXA YAM EBALULEKILEYO ENIKELA I-EMBRYO YAYE IYIKHUMBULE, UKUBA NDIBUHLUNGU NGENXA YOKUBA NDIYAZI UKUBA ANDINABANTWANA NDIYABULELA UTHIXO NGAYO UKUBA NDIFUNA, WANDINIKELA INTOMBAZANE, KODWA UKUBA NDIFUNA UKUNIKELA UMZALWANA KWINTOMBAZANE YAM. NGOKU NDIZOKUVAKALISA IMEYA KWIMIKHUMBUZO EMIBINI.TUBA IINKQUBO EZINYE, YINTONI EBONAKALAYO KAKHULU '? KUKUBA KWIMIBINI ENDIQALILE UKUNCIPHISA UKUHAMBA KWAYO KAKHULU, NDIFUNA UKUQINISEKA UKUBA LE YIMPAWU YOKUKHULELWA OKUKHULULEKILEYO.
Molo KUWONKE UMNTU NDIKUXELELA OKWENZEKA KUM NDIKHULELWE KWAYE KWIVEKI EZINGU-4 BENZE I-ECHO BANDIXELELE UKUBA BABONA BHEKE KUPHELA KODWA KWAKUYINTO EQHELEKILEYO NGOKUBA UMNTWANA UMNCINCI KAKHULU, BAKWENZA UVAVANYO I-BETA UKUBA I-ORMONAS YANYUSILE KUNYE NEZIPHUMO ZIQHELEKILE …… .. NGOKU NDINEVEKI EZI-6 BAYE BAQHUTYULA ENYE I-ECHO KODWA UMNTWANA AKABONWA KUPHELA ISAKU BAKWENZA UVAVANYO LWEGAZI KWAYE UGQIRHA UTHI KWAM KULUNGILE… … Kodwa andinampawu zimbi okanye ukopha ... Ndisoyika kakhulu ukuba bazakundixelela ukuba isisu esikhulelweyo. NDICELA UTHIXO ANGANDINCEDE, AKWENZE UKUTHANDA KWAKHE ……. UKUBA UMNTU UFUNA UKUNDIPHA ULUVO NDICELA DEMELA NDIYAFUNA AMAZWI OKUNCEDA.
Molweni, ndimithe kangakanani okwesibini kwimveku engekazalwa okanye ndibanjiwe njengoko abanye beyibiza njalo, kweyokuqala bandenzela ichiza lokunyanga elenzeka ngoNovemba wonyaka ophelileyo kwaye ngoku liphinde lenzeka kum kwaye bandinika ipilisi yokugxotha Ingxowa kuba bengakwazanga ukwenza enye indlela yokunyanga okwexeshana phakathi kwenye nenye kwaye intamo yesibeleko ingonzakala, kwiintsuku ezi-2 ezidlulileyo ndikhuphe isaka yayothusa ndiyakuqinisekisa, ngoku ugqirha undixelele ukuba mandilinde okwethutyana kwaye ndiqala ukwenza uvavanyo lwegazi ukujonga ukuba yintoni ingxaki, ndiyazibuza ukuba kwenzeka ntoni ukuba umntu akhulelwe 2 kolu hlobo? INDLELA ABOYISE NGAYO KWAYE UKUBA BANGABE BENENHLANHLA YOKUBA NGUMAMA, NDIFUNA IIMPENDULO EZISELE NDIKHOLE
Molweni nonke, kubonakala ngathi oku kuphinda phindeke kunokuba bendicinga, kwiiveki ezisibhozo zokukhulelwa ugqirha wam wabonisa ukuba ndikhulelwe, sakhala kakhulu nomyeni wam, ndiyaqala ukukhulelwa, namhlanje ndishiye ikliniki kwaye indenze ndaphilisa emva kokubeka ipilisi yokwenza ukuba ingxowa iphume. Ndizolile kwaye ndinoxolo, ndingathanda ukuba nabo babenalo, inkohliso iyafa, iyinyani, kodwa isivumelwano sam sikukuba usana lwam alufanga kuba aluzange lubekho. UThixo uyazi ukuba kutheni, ndiyathemba ngokholo olukhulu ukuba uyandinika ilungelo lokuba ngumama.
Imibuliso kubo bonke kunye namandla amaninzi.
Martha, unyanisile, inkohliso iyafa ... nangona kuyinyani ukuba umntwana akafi, kunzima kakhulu ukoyisa le meko kwaye eyona nto imbi kukuba abanye abayqondi ukhulelwe utshintsha ubomi bakho; kwaye kunzima kakhulu kwabanye bethu ukuyamkela loo nto, kwimeko yam ubuncinci kwakunzima ukuba ndicinge ukuba ndikhulelwe (kwezobugcisa, kwezoqoqosho, kuba ndimncinci, njlnjl.) nasemva kokufumana uqhele uluvo, bonwabile; kwaye ekugqibeleni ukufumanisa ukuba awuyi kuba ngumama, kunzima ... Ukuxhaswa kwabathandekayo kubalulekile ukuze imeko ingakuchaphazeli ngokwengqondo.
Kwimeko yam, bendinoluhlobo lokumitha, yinto esandula ukwenzeka, ekugqibeleni ndigqibele ngokuphunyelwa sisisu kwaye ngethamsanqa ngenxa yokoyika kwam, bekunganyanzelekanga ukuba ndenze unyango lokunyanga kuba ekukhupheni isisu yonke into ivele ngokwendalo.
Kuya kufuneka unokholo ukuba ayikuko ukuba oko kwenzeka kuwe akuthethi ukuba ngekhe ube ngumama. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ubomi bandinika elinye ithuba ukuze ndibucwangcise kakuhle ubomi bam kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha ndinike usana lwam ubomi obumfaneleyo, ndizilungiselele ukubufumana. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba uphile nge-duel ... ndikule nkqubo
Ndinokukhulelwa komzimba kodwa bandifumana ngomda kunye neemilo ezingaqhelekanga kwisingxobo sokumitha esinokuba yinto enzulu
Igama lam ndingu Gleny I had a curettage in May 2009, I was 8 weeks old, inyani yeyokuba sibuhlungu kakhulu, mna nomyeni wam, xa bendixelela ukuba ukukhulelwa kwam kunengxaki, bendifuna ukufa, kodwa uThixo Usinika amandla kwaye uyazi ukuba kutheni yonke into isenzeka Usinika kuphela okusidibanisayo ukuze kuthi sonke esiye sahamba noku kufuneka sibe nokholo kuba uThixo uluthando. kwaye masihambe singabafazi hayi sanimemos.my imeyile ngu gleny832009@hotmail.com
MOLWENI NONKE
Letty, ungakhathazeki, ngokuqinisekileyo ingxowa yakho yokuthambisa sele ilungiselela ukukhupha isisu, kuba ukusukela oko kungekho mntwana, konakele, ndikhulelwe kabini, inyani iyacaphukisa, kodwa ukuba uphanda ngakumbi uyakuqonda ukuba oku kuqhelekile kubafazi ngokomndilili kwenzeka amaxesha ama-3, kwaye kuyacaca ukuba oyena nobangela uphambili kukuba enye yezi zinto zimbini, nokuba liqanda okanye isidoda, ayinayo iipesenti ezipheleleyo ze-chromosomes ukutyeba umbungu, ayonto imbi Kuyafuneka ke ukuba uqale ubonane nogqirha wakho, aze akuxelele ukuba ngaba kunjalo na okanye yinto nje entsha, ekwabizwa njalo.
Molo, ndikhulelwe ndingakhange ndibenaso, kwaye inyani kukuba bendonwabile ngomntwana wam wokuqala! Ndineyeza lokunyanga kwaye ngethamsanqa ndiphilile emzimbeni kodwa ngoku iyandichaphazela ngokuziphatha !! Ndiziva ndibuhlungu kwaye ndingafuni nto, ndenza ntoni? kuba umyeni wam ufuna ndibeke iibhetri kodwa andifuni kwanto !!!!!!
Molo, igama lam ndinguFrancis ukuba ndiyazi ukuba besinamaxesha anzima kakhulu kodwa akufuneki siphulukane nethemba kuThixo kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo ndiye ndalahlekelwa kwaye ngoku kuvela ukuba ndinenye into yokukhulelwa kwe-anembiotic ke kuya kufuneka benze unyango I Ndibuhlungu kodwa ndiyathemba ukuba uThixo uyagqitha unyaka omnye kwaye uphinde ukhulelwe ndiyathemba ukuba andizukuphulukana nokholo ngelixesha ndisebenza nabantwana abangabondliyo abo bandincedayo ndiziva ndinoxolo nothando kwaye ndingaze ndilahlekelwe lukholo imibuliso emininzi kubo bonke kwaye uThixo asikelele wena.
Molo: Ndineminyaka engama-25 ubudala kwaye ndakhulelwa i-anembryonic, ndandisele ndineeveki ezisi-8 ubudala kwaye kwafuneka benze iyeza lokuyinyanga kwaye yayilusuku lweTata oluhlobo endaziva lubi ngalo kuba ndandijonge phambili, kunzima yiya kwinto enjalo kodwa ngoku ndizolile kodwa ukuba ndiyoyika kakhulu ukuba izakwenzeka kwakhona
Molweni ndineminyaka engama-29 ubudala kwaye iiveki ezi-2 ezidlulileyo ndaphulukana nokukhulelwa kwam kuba ndandikhulelwe i-anembryonic, yeyesibini kwiinyanga ezisi-8 kwaye ilahleko lesithathu lokukhulelwa oku-4 ndikwazile ukuba nomntwana kuphela ononyaka omnye ... Ndiziva ndikhathazekile kwaye ndidandathekile kuba andazi ukuba kutheni singenakuba nabantwana abaninzi ... kuya kufuneka ndenze unyango lokuchuma ??? Ndilinde ixesha elingakanani ukuzama kwakhona .. inyani inzima kakhulu kuba ndizimisele ukuzama elinye ixesha kwaye ukuba iphinde ivele kakubi ndiza kucinga ngolunye unyango olunjenge-in vitro…. enkosi .. valeska
molweni molo igama lam ndingu diana ndafumana isisu esineembumba xa ndandinenyanga ezisixhenxe bakuyifumana ndafumana iyeza lokunyanga ndandisele ndithathe iinyanga ezimbini zoko kodwa ndiyoyika ukukhulelwa kwaye ndizodlula kwinto efanayo aunk ugqirha wamazinyo. undixelele ukuba azinakufana zonke Kodwa bendonwabile, nangona ndingalahlekanga nto, ibibuhlungu kakhulu kum nakumlingane wam. Baye bandicebisa ukuba ndikhulelwe ubuncinci iinyanga ezi-6 ukuya kunyaka omnye kodwa ndifunda ukuba ungazama emva kweentsuku ezingama-1 okanye ezingama-30 emva kokuba uye exesheni okokuqala.
Molweni, ndibuliseni, nam ndigqithile kwindlela yokunyanga abayenzileyo kum kwiintsuku ezilishumi elinesihlanu ezidlulileyo, njengabo bonke, ndibuhlungu kakhulu kodwa uThixo uyazazi iinjongo zabo kwaye ndiyakukhuthaza ukuba bekungekho kule ivulekileyo elandelayo , Ndiza kukushiya imeyile yam xa ufuna ukwabelana ngamava ngalo mbandela azucena1704p@hotmail.com
Molweni, ndineminyaka eli-17 ubudala kwaye uvavanyo lwegazi lwaphuma lukhona kwaye nesithandwa sam sicinge ngokujongana nomntu wonke, asikhathalelanga kwanto ukuba umntwana wethu uphilile, umhlaba weza kum xa usapho lwam luziva kwaye usuku oluqhelekileyo Xa wonke umntu ebenemincili malunga nosana lwam, ndiye ndaqala ukopha, benza i-ultrasound kwaye yingxowa kuphela eyenziweyo, benze unyango kwaye andikapholi kule ntlungu, andikwazi ukuyidlula kwaye kufuneka ndazi ukuba ndingaphinda ndikhulelwe na.
Molo uJulieth, unjani? Ndibuhlungu kakhulu ngalo mzuzu uhambayo, ayisiyiyo imeko entle kakhulu, kodwa umncinci kakhulu kwaye ungakhulelwa amaxesha amaninzi. Nalu unxibelelwano lokuba uqhubeke nokuzifaka ngaphakathi: http://madreshoy.com/consejos/quedar-embarazada-despues-de-sufrir-un-aborto-espontaneo_2465.html
Ndiyabulisa kwaye uqhubeke usifunda !!
Molo, kwiinyanga ezintathu ezidlulileyo ndafumana unyango, ndakhulelwa kathathu kunye neembumba ezimbini, ndalinda malunga neminyaka emibini ukuba ndikhulelwe kwakhona, kodwa kwenzeka kwakhona, ugqirha wamazinyo wandithumela ukuba ndenze iimvavanyo ezininzi, abakandiniki lonke iziphumo, kodwa kwinxalenye esele indinike iziphumo ziqhelekile, inyani andazi ukuba mandithini, ndinexhala kwaye ndiyoyika ukuba la matyala azophinda, kwaye andazi ukuba luhlobo luni Unyango kufuneka lulandelwe kwezi meko, ukuba uyazi naluphi na ulwazi ndingaluvuyela kakhulu.
Mholweni …. Kwiinyanga ezi-2 ezidlulileyo ndakhulelwa i-anembryonic, yayikukukhulelwa kwam okokuqala, ndineminyaka engama-39 ubudala, kwaye ndandinombono omkhulu. Ndiyabulela kuThixo ngokuba ndiphume kakuhle kumayeza endiwasebenzisayo, kwaye nangona bendinodandatheko olukhulu, ndiye ndakwazi ukubuyisa kancinci kancinci. Inkxaso yomyeni wam ibaluleke kakhulu. Ugqirha usixelele ukuba emva kweenyanga ezi-3 singazama kwakhona. Ndabelana nabanye ngoluvo, uninzi loloyiko kunye nokungaqiniseki ngokuzama kwakhona. Ndicebise ugqirha ukuba aqalise unyango oluthile lokuchuma, kodwa ucinga ukuba okwangoku akukho mfuneko, ukuba ndisempilweni kwaye ndingazama kwakhona. Ngoku andisaziva ndindodwa, kuba kweli phepha ndifundile ukuba ayindim ndedwa okhe wabandezeleka yiyo. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba akufuneki siphulukane nokholo, kwaye ukuba uThixo ufuna njalo, uya kusithumela umntwana. Imibuliso kunye nethamsanqa kubo bonke.
Molo Gladys, undixelele kwenzeke ntoni? Ungamfumana umntwana wakho? Ndiyathemba njalo!! Ndihamba kwinto enye kwaye ndifuna ukukhuthazwa ukuzama kwakhona kwikamva nangona sendineminyaka engama-34 ubudala! Ndikunqwenelela okuhle kodwa!
molo chikas !!! Ndikhulelwe esibelekweni kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo kwaye kwakubuhlungu kakhulu kuba ndilahlekelwe zii-3 zizonke… bendinodandatheko, kodwa ndinosana olunonyaka onesiqingatha ubudala olundivuyisa… Kwinyanga enye enesiqingatha ngaphezulu ndiza kuzama kwakhona okokugqibela njengesiqhelo kwaye ukuba asizukubona naluphi na unyango lokuchuma, inyani kukuba ndiyoyika kakhulu ukuphinda ndilahlekelwe yenye…. Khange kubelula, kodwa kundincede kakhulu ukubona ukuba ayindim ndedwa kwaye baninzi kuthi abadlula kule ntlungu,…. kodwa phezulu imimoya chikas ethembeni yinto yokugqibela elahlekileyo !!!! kwaye sizakuzama ide isebenzele thina kwaye sineentsana zethu !!!! ithamsanqa kunye neentsikelelo !!!!! valedan24@hotmail.com
Ndikhulelwe umntwana, kodwa ndakwazi ukufumanisa ukuba ayikho enye into ngaphandle kwesibeleko sam xa ndafuna ugqirha wesihlanu, owandicela i-ultrasom yesibini, nalapho waqinisekisa ukuba ndiphulukene nosana lwam. Ndixhelekile, siphupha ukuba le filhinho ... andazi ukuba ndingagir.
Mholo! Ndinendlela yokunyanga izolo kuba bendikhulelwe ngokungenasifo, ndibuhlungu kakhulu kuba ibikukuqala kwam ukukhulelwa, kwaye ndiyoyika ukuba into enye izakwenzeka kwakhona! Umbuzo wam ngowokuba ingaba ndinetyala kuba umyeni wam uneminyaka engama-25 kwaye mna ndineminyaka engama-29.
Molweni nonke, ndiyanixelela ukuba ndidandatheke kakhulu kwiveki ephelileyo ndafumana unyango, kukukhulelwa kwam okwesibini, ndididekile andazi ukuba ndenzeni ndoyika kakhulu ukuphinda ndikhulelwe kwaye izoku Phinda okwesithathu
Molo, ndineminyaka engama-21 ubudala, kwandibiza malunga neenyanga ezisi-8 ukukhulelwa kwaye xa ndicinga ukuba ndinjalo, ndamangaliswa kukuba ndakhulelwa umntwana kwaye ndafumana unyango kwiiveki ezisi-8 kunyaka odlulileyo. kwaye khange ndizinyamekele iinyanga ezi-6 kwaye khange ndibekho eBarazada ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kutheni enkosi, ndiphendule
Molo ndilusizi kakhulu kuba bendineeveki eziyi-11.5 ndikhulelwe endinayo i-echo kuba ndinenkunkuma, kule bandixelela ukuba andinaso isibeleko x ekufuneka ndisenzile ukuze ndinyange kodwa oku kwakunzima x ukwenza i-hysterectomy, ngoku ndiziva ndidandathekile kuba ndiyazi ukuba ngekhe ndikwazi ukuba nabantwana abaninzi kwaye nangona ndinenkxaso yomyeni wam kunye nonyana oneminyaka eyi-4 andiyeki ukuziva kabuhlungu. banethuba labantwana, batye kakuhle, bathathe i-ferramine, iivithamini, benze umthambo kwaye iZero igalele amanzi amaninzi kwaye baya kubona ukuba baya kuyiphumelela, ukuba ndinoku… ..
Molo, ndineminyaka eli-19 ubudala kwaye ndakhulelwa okokuqala kwaye yayiyimbumba. Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba ingaba kwenzeka into efanayo ukuba ndingaphinda ndikhulelwe.
Ndineminyaka engama-21 ubudala, yayikukuqala kwam ukukhulelwa kwaye ndandinemincili malunga nosana lwam… Bafumanise ukunqongophala kwemveku engekazalwa emva kweeveki ezisi-8 kwaneeveki ezili-10 baqinisekisa ukuba yayikukukhulelwa okungaphefumlelwanga oko… kwakufuneka ndibeneyeza lokunyanga kuba bandixelele ukuba kungabakho iingxaki ukuba ndilinde ukuphuma kwesisu ... Kwakungamava anzima kakhulu ukwazi ukuba usana lwam alukho, emva koko uye emva koxinzelelo lonyango ... Ndiyathemba ukuba oku kuyenzeka ayenzeki kum kwakhona ...
Ndaphinda ndakhulelwa umbungu kwaye eyona nto imbi kukuba babengamawele kwaye akukho nelinye elenziwe
Kulungile molo, ndizokuxelela ukuba kwenzeka into efanayo kum kwiinyanga ezine ezidlulileyo kodwa ngoku ndinexhala kuba kule nyanga khange ndiye exesheni kwaye andazi nokuba ndizakukhulelwa na, ndiyoyika kakhulu ukuba into enye inokwenzeka nakum, andizukulinda okanye ndisele into, undicebisa ntoni? yakho?
Ndikhulelwe esibelekweni phantse kwinyanga ephelileyo kodwa umbuzo wam ngowokuba kutheni ndisaqhubeka nokopha xa kusondele inyanga emva konyango kwaye umbuzo wam ngowokuba ukuphuma kwegazi kuza kuyeka nini kwaye ixesha lam liza kubuyela esiqhelweni?
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Molo !!!! NdinguRosana kwaye ndakhulelwa nge-anembryonic, ndandikwiveki ye-10, kwiveki yesi-8 ndafumana i-ultrasound kwaye ingxowa yokuthwala yaphuma ngaphandle kwembungu, ugqirha wam wandixelela ukuba ndilinde kude kube yiveki yesi-9 ndenze enye phambi kokuba ndifike kwiveki yesi-9 ndaye ndalahlekelwa ngumdaka kwaye emva koko ndopha ndenza i-echo yangaphantsi kwaye ndandisengowesingxobo sokukhulelwa, ndizinyanga amayeza ezinye iipilisi ze-BASOFORTINA kangange veki ndize ndenze enye i-echo ukubona ukuba iyenzeka Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba ukhona na kuni oye wadlula kule meko, ndiyoyika ukosuleleka .Nangona ugqirha endixelele ukuba ndiza kuyikhupha ngokwendalo.loyeza.Ndicela undixelele ngamava abo. .
Molo! Ndineminyaka engama-34 ubudala kwaye ndineeveki ezili-12 ndikhulelwe.Ngokukhulelwa kwam kokuqala, umyeni wam, usapho, abahlobo kwaye sonwabe kakhulu, kodwa nangona kunjalo ndiye ndaya kudibana kwaye ndiye ndothuka bandixelela ukuba akukho mntwana, hayi bendisazi ukuba ndiza kusabela njani apho, kodwa njengoko iiyure zihamba ndiba buhlungu ngalo lonke ixesha, (andinayo i-inshurensi) ngomso ndiza kwenza i-inshurensi eyaziwayo ukuze benze izifundo ezihambelana nayo okanye unyango, kulungile konke kuxhomekeke kugqirha ukuba yintoni le ayicebisayo, kwi-Intanethi ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba kuyenzeka kubantu basetyhini abaninzi, kodwa ndiyoyika kuba ithuba lam lokukhulelwa kwakhona liyaphela, ndiyathemba ukuba ukuba ngumama kuyakubakho ikamva elingekude. Ndiyoyika, kodwa kufuneka ndomelele kwaye nina mantombazana nindincede ndingabinayo, kuba niyabalisa ngamava enu kwaye ekugqibeleni ngamava angathandekiyo kodwa ayakudlula.
Molo Arely! Kwenzeke ntoni kwityala lakho? Ndineminyaka engama-34 ubudala, yayikukukhulelwa kwam okokuqala kwaye ndityiwa yimeko efanayo, ndiziva ndonakele.
Ukwazile ukuba nomntwana wakho? Ndiyathemba ukuba! Ukuwola!
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Ndineminyaka engama-20 ubudala kwaye ngo-Novemba 18 ndafumana unyango ngenxa yokukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic, yayikukukhulelwa kwam okokuqala, kodwa emva kweeveki ezimbini zokuziqhelanisa naphambi kokuba ndiye exesheni kwakhona ndaba neentlobano zesini, athini amathuba okuba ndikhulelwe kwaye zeziphi iingozi endizivezileyo, ndingathanda ukufumana impendulo kungekudala ……… ..nkosi
Molo Jacky, xa ndijonga eli phepha ndiyayiqonda le nto yenzekayo kuwe, kwaye inyani kukuba ndikucebisa ukuba ungalindi ukuphuma kwesisu kuwe, kuba ngelishwa akukho mntwana kwaye lo mbala umdaka awukhankanyayo yile wena Umzimba ufuna ukuyilahla, ndincoma ukuba wenze unyango ngenxa yento enye eyenzekileyo kum kwaye kuye kwafuneka bayenze ... kuba bendinosulelo ke ngoko khathalela kwaye wonwabe! »» »
Molo, ndineminyaka engama-41 ubudala, ndandikhulelwe ama-2 anembryonic, awazi, ndasokola kakhulu, ndandinombono wokuba nonyana wam, ndaya kugqirha wam ukuya kwenza iimviwo zam tochs, enkosi uThixo yonke into ihambile Kulungile, ndiyoyika ukuphinda ndikwimeko efanayo kwakhona, ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba Loluphi uvavanyo ekufuneka ndilwenzile ngaphandle kwetotshi? Ugqirha wam undixelele ukuba ndiqhubeke ndizama, kuba ukuba ndenza isifundo semfuzo koku akukho unyango endimele ndilwenze.
Molweni, ndivele nje ndakhulelwa umbungu kwaye ndizakufumana unyango kwaye inyani yile, ndiyafuna ukukhulelwa kwakhona kodwa andifuni kuphinda ndiphinde ndihambe kwinto enye, kuba sisifo esibuhlungu kakhulu.
Imbali yam ngokukhulelwa iye yababuhlungu kuba oku kulandelayo
Okwangoku ndinonyana oneminyaka eli-10 ozelwe enenyanga ezisi-8 ngoncedo lwemikhosi okanye amacephe, kwiminyaka emi-6 ubudala ndiyazama kwakhona kwaye xa ndineenyanga ezi-6 ndikhulelwe umntwana wam wazalwa ngumsebenzi owanyanzeliswayo ngenxa yokuba iplacenta ikhulile, Iminyaka emibini idlulile kwaye ndiyaphinda ndikhulelwe kwaye yi-anembryon benza unyango lokunyanga olubangelwa liyeza endilinikwa ngugqirha, emva koko kunyaka olandelayo kukhokelele ekukhulelweni kodwa ngeli xesha li-eptopic kwaye emva kweenyanga ezili-15 ndikhulelwe kwakhona kwaye yenye yeembungu ndifuna uncedo lukaNcedani, ndenzeni? Besele ndinyangwa ngugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini kwaye yonke into ilungile, kuzakwenzeka ntoni kum?
Molo kwakhona xfa ndifuna ukubuza into ukuze ndibone ukuba umntu uyandinceda na ndifuna ukwazi ukuba ikhona na indlela yokungaziva ngathi ndiziva ndinemincili malunga noku kukhulelwa kunye neqabane lam tbm kodwa ndiyoyika ukuba izakubuya iphinde iyenzeka kwakhona okanye ndingayinceda njani, nceda undincede
Ndibhalela nje ukubabuza ii-xikas ezenzekayo x le ukuba bomelele ukuba kukukhulelwa kwabo kokuqala ndilindile ukuba bazokunyanga na okanye ayibuhlungu kakhulu kukukhulelwa kwam kokuqala nokuba mna neqabane lam bonwabe kakhulu banokholo kwaye kuidense muxo, usana yeyona nto intle enokubakho kuidense
Ndineminyaka engama-33 ubudala kwaye ndingumntwana ogqibeleleyo.Ingxaki yeza xa mna nomyeni wam sagqiba kwelokuba siye kulo bhuti omncinci, ndikhuphe izisu ezibini, enye ineeveki ezisi-8 enye ine-9, ngoku ndikhulelwe kwakhona kodwa ukutyeba ukuba kukho into engahambi kakuhle ayishiyi, kwaye uye kwi-gyne ehlawulelweyo, ithiyori ndineeveki ezi-6-7 kodwa undixelele ukuba umbungu awubonakali, kufuneka ndibuye kwiveki e-1 andazi kuba umntu akakwazi ukwenza iimeko yeempawu, kuba ngamanye amaxesha ngokungazi ukuba udlala ngobuqhetseba ngokwakho, nokuba kunjalo ndilungele yonke into kwaye andizukuyilahla itawuli, ukuba kukukhulelwa ngaphandle kwesibeleko, andizukutshona, kusapho lwam , Ndiza kuqhubekeka akukho nto ukuzisola ngento esingenakwenza yona ayilotyala lethu, yinto yendalo, ke sukuma uzame kwakhona ukuba oku kuyenzeka kwiintsapho ezilungileyo, uzokubona ukuba kungekudala siyabonisa usana oluhle
Molweni, inye into endiyifunayo kwaye ndiyanicela kukuba ndilahle intandabuzo ... ndiye kwi-ultrasound yam namhlanje ndineeveki ezisi-8 ndikhulelwe kwaye babona i-sako yokukhulelwa kodwa ababonanga umbungu. Ndixelele ukuba kukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic okanye ndingalinda iiveki ezimbalwa ukuze ndibone umbungu, enkosi!
Intombi yam uYolibet uneminyaka engama-26 ubudala kwaye wakhulelwa kwaye kwiveki ezili-12 waqala ukopha kakhulu, waya kwagqirha wayalela i-ultrasound, nesiphumo saso kukuhlazeka kwe-anembryonic, unyango lwenziwe izolo yonke into yahamba kakuhle. ngoku kufuneka uphephe ukuhlala kwakhona ukuze uphinde uchache kodwa kwi-fam yam kwiminyaka engama-35 eyadlulayo umakazi wam wayenayo, iya kuba lilifa kuzakubakho isifundo sentombi yam kunye nesoka lakhe ukuze babe nexesha elibi kakhulu ukusukela bonwabile Umntwana kuzakufuneka enze uviwo, naye okanye afunde kwaye kuya kuba kulungile, ukubingelela
Molweni nonke !!! NdinguSilvana, ndineminyaka engama-25 ubudala kwaye kwiinyanga ezi-5 ezidlulileyo kuye kwafuneka ndinyangwe ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo nesabo bonke, ndaziva ndilusizi kakhulu, ndisoyika ngaxeshanye !!. Namhlanje yonke into kulungile kwaye ndijonga kwakhona umntwana wokuqala… ..
Nangona kulusizi, ungoyiki ukuba kuya kufuneka undenzele iyeza, babenayo iinyanga kunye nesiqingatha ngelahleko, kwaye nakwimpilo yam ndikhetha unyango, akulunganga njengoko kubonakala, badlala ngakumbi ngokuchasene nemithambo-luvo yakho kunayo nayiphi na enye into ... kamva yonke into yenzeka ngokukhawuleza, ndiyathemba ukuba wonke umntu unethamsanqa kwaye angalahli themba, lonto ayifane iphindaphindwe .. ukubulisa kunye nethamsanqa !!!!
Molweni, ndaye ndakhulelwa esibelekweni kwaye emva kweenyanga ezili-16 ndikhulelwe kwakhona kodwa ndiyoyika ukuba izophinda yenzeke kum, xa ndandikhulelwe ndingakhange ndive nasabela sokumitha kuba ngoku ndiyakuva.
Ungandixelela ukuba unako, ndaphinda ndakhulelwa kwakhona.
Molo ndineminyaka engama-21 ubudala kwaye ngoku ndikhulelwe ndingakhange ndibenaso
Kodwa xa ndandineminyaka eli-19 ndandinayo kanye njengokuba ugqirha wam wandixelela ukuba olu hlobo lokukhulelwa lunokuphindwa kodwa umbuzo wam ngowokuba ingaba kamva ndizokwazi na ukukhulelwa okuqhelekileyo?
Ndifunda ulwazi kwaye bandixelela ukuba inokuba sesona sizathu sokuba omnye wabazali afake izinto zeekhemikhali kunye nesithandwa sam sisebenzisa iziyobisi, ingaba esi sisizathu sokuba ndikhulelwe zimbini ngoluhlobo?
Molweni, ndineminyaka engama-30 ubudala kwaye ndinonyana oneminyaka esi-8 emva kwakhe, ndikhulelwe ama-3 anembryonic, namhlanje ndilinde enye i-echo ukuba yenze iyeza lokunyanga.Ndixelelwe ukuba i-rh ayinokuhambelana Ukwazi oku ukusukela kuthi sobathathu kwakumnandi kakhulu, kodwa hay… uThixo uyayazi indlela azenza ngayo izinto kwaye ngoba. uloyiko lokuhamba ngento enye kwakhona luyoyikeka kuba umzuzu ngamnye unale nto yokungazithembi kodwa amantombazana aya phambili kunye nethamsanqa kubo bonke.
Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba zeziphi ezinye izizathu zoku kukukhulelwa okungafakwanga esibelekweni kunxulumene, kutheni iimeko ezinje zisenzeka kwaye ziziphi ezinye iziphumo ezinokuzisa oku?
kodwa xa ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kuphinda-phindwe kathathu, kuya kuba nakho ukukhulelwa ????
Molo, ndineminyaka engama-38 ubudala kwaye ndakhulelwa umntwana, indlela yam yokunyanga yayiyiveki ephelileyo, ndizolile kuba ndilungile, bandicacisela ukuba akukho sana, ndaqonda ukuba mandingakhathazeki , enkosi Thixo ndinabanye abantwana aba-2
Ndinabantwana ababini abahle, bebekhulelwe ngokugqibeleleyo kodwa kwiveki ephelileyo bendinonyango lokukhulelwa kweembumba, bekubuhlungu kodwa ndiyazi ukuba bekungekho sana kwaye amathuba okukhulelwa aqhelekileyo aphezulu
Molweni, ndibulise nje ndineminyaka engama-30 ubudala bendifuna ulwazi malunga nokukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kwaye ndifumene eli phepha lihle apho ndinokuziqhelanisa ngcono malunga nentsingiselo yale nto kwaye ndifumene inkxaso yokwenyani ndisazi ukuba andinguye Inye kuphela eye yadlula andindedwa ... kutshanje kwiiveki ezimbini ezidlulileyo bendikhulelwe okwesithathu ngembungu, kum nomyeni wam le nto sele iyinto edanisayo nedanisayo kuba sinomdla wokuba nomntwana wethu nangona ndinaye Amakhwenkwe amabini kumtshato wam wangaphambili kwaye yena unaye. Ndifuna ngokwenene ukwazi ukuba kutheni le nto isenzeka kwaye ndive kumntu oye wakhulelwa okuqhelekileyo emva koku, ndiyoyika kakhulu ndicinga ukuba mhlawumbi kukuba akukho kungqinelana phakathi kwesidoda somyeni wam namaqanda am, kwaye mhlawumbi sinako soze ndibenomntwana wethu ... PF ndincede
Molweni nonke ps ndibuhlungu kakhulu kukwazi ukuba emzimbeni wam sisiqingatha nje sesingxobo esiveliswe ngaphandle kwembungu kwaye ugqirha wam undixelela ukuba umzimba wam uwukhupha kuphela ukuba awuchaphazeli iziyobisi .. ndaziva ndibuhlungu ... Andazi ngequbuliso ndicinga ukuba akazivumeli ukuba ndibonwe ndiyazi ukuba ndicinga ntoni kuya kufana nosana lwam lokuqala ndina 22 ...
Molo, ndineminyaka eli-18 ubudala, bendisandula ukukhulelwa umbungu kwaye khange ndikwazi ukuwoyisa, into endiyenzayo iya kwiinyanga ezintlanu ukusukela ngoko kwaye ndisenayo entlokweni yam ukuba ndinomntwana a. Ndenza ntoni? bendifuna umntwana kwaye andazi ukuba mandithini, ndincede, kwaye ndiyabulela ngokusinika indawo yokuveza izimvo zethu….
Umbuzo wam ngowokuba xa inokwenzeka kum okwesihlandlo sesithathu ukuba ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic ukusukela oko yenzeke kum okwesibini ngoku ndifundile ukuba oonobangela inokuba iqanda okanye isidoda sinokuba nomgangatho ophantsi apho umbuzo wam zeziphi izifundo onokuthi undibuze ukuba zinomgangatho ophantsi ngokwenene.
Molo, igama lam ndinguPatricia, emva konyaka onesiqingatha ndikhangela umntwana nomyeni wam ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic, kuye kwafuneka benze unyango ekupheleni kukaSeptemba, emva kokuba sexesheni kokuqala i-gyne yathi singakhangela kwakhona, ke ngoku sisajongile, kuba andikakufezekisi ukukhulelwa kwam ... kodwa andizithobi iingalo zam kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba uThixo uza kuyithumela kum !! ... ..
Molo Neyeli, ndiyakuxelela ukuba umyeni wam uthunyelwe ukuba athathe ispermogram kunye nenkcubeko yamadlozi, adibane ne-gyne yakho, kwaye bandinike i-metformin endinceda ukuba ndiphume ngakumbi, kuba ndinama-cysts kwizibeleko.
Molweni, ninjani? Nam ndikhulelwe, kubuhlungu kakhulu nakum ukuyithetha kuba ibingumntwana wam wokuqala kwaye ilindwe kakhulu liqabane lam. Ndandinonyango lwe-1 kunyaka ophelileyo, bandithumela ukuba bandikhathalele nge-mezigyna, inaliti yenyanga yandikhathalela iinyanga ezi-1 kwaye ukusukela apho ndijonge ukukhulelwa kwaye andikayifumani Ndiyoyika andazi ukuba kukho into echaphazele umbutho wam, andazi Ukuba ndingakhulelwa okanye yintoni isizathu sokuba ndingaphumi. Enkosi
Molo uJulieth, nam ndinguwe ... ndineminyaka engama-22 kwaye ibikukukhulelwa kwam kokuqala, mna nomyeni wam besinemincili kodwa ibikukukhulelwa ngaphandle kwembungu, wakhawuleza wakoyisa nangona esoyika lokuzama ukuphinda abe nomntwana kwaye eyona nto imbi kukuba umhlobo wam naye ukhulelwe kwaye wayeneeveki ezimbini kuphela ubudala kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha ndimbona enesisu esineenyanga ezintlanu ndifuna ukukhala. Ndicinga ukuba oku akunakwenzeka ukoyisa, ndiya kuhlala ndicinga ngomntwana endinokuba naye
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba xa ndenza i-ultrasound umbungu ungabonakali apho kwaye inokuthi emva kweeveki ikhule kwaye yenziwe?
Molweni nonke, ndi ngokweakhawunti iiveki ezisi-7 ndikhulelwe, izolo bendine-echo yam yokuqala kwaye iphume inengxowa yokuthwala engenanto, ndibuhlungu kakhulu, ugqirha undixelele ukuba ndibuye kwintsuku ezintlanu ukuza kujonga ukuba siyambona na umntwana. Ungumntwana wam wesithathu kwaye nabanye abantwana bam ababini oku akwenzekanga kum, ndababona kwaye ndeva intliziyo yabo encinci kwi-ultrasound yokuqala. Ndiyathemba ukuba kwiintsuku ezi-5 usana lwam luza kubonakala, kuba ndinombono omkhulu, ekuqaleni ndandimangalisiwe ukuba ndikhulelwe kwakhona, kodwa emva kweentsuku ezimbini ndandisele ndithandana nombono wokuba nomnye umntwana.
Ixesha olucelile liphelile Nceda uphinde uzame isicelo!
Molo, bendikhangela ulwazi kumfazi okhulelweyo okhulelweyo, kuyacaca ukuba kwinyanga ephelileyo bafumanise ukuba kwi-ultrasound, bendonwabile ukuphinda ndibenomnye umntwana, uGqirha undixelele ukuba kufana nokuba neqanda elincinci ngaphandle yenkukhu ngaphakathi esiswini sam, kodwa akazange andinike zinkcazo, undixelele ukuba uzakumgxotha yedwa, kodwa sele kudlule iinyanga ezintathu kwaye akukabikho nto yenzekayo.
Ndiyoyika kuba ubomi bam buyaqhubeka nokukhula kwaye ndiziva iimpawu ezifanayo zokukhulelwa
Molweni uMaria noLu ... ukusukela ngoku ndininqwenelela amathamsanqa, ngalento andifuni kukuvuyisa kuba emva koko isenokuba mandundu ... ndiyakuxelela ukuba ngethuba lokukhulelwa kwam kokuqala kwenzeka into efanayo kum kodwa Ndineeveki ze-8 ndikhulelwe kwaye usizi lwam kunye nayo yonke into yayinkulu ukwazi ukuba andinayo imbungu ... kodwa sobabini ugqirha kunye nam sigqibe kwelokuba singalindi iintsuku ezi-5 kodwa iiveki ezi-2 zesandi esilandelayo kwaye ndiyakuxelela wena ukuba usana lwam alufikanga kwiveki ye-11 kwaye nge-Xq transvaginal enesisu esiswini ibingabonakali ... namhlanje usana lwam luneenyanga ezisixhenxe kwaye luyintombazana entle ... ndiyathemba ukuba le yimeko yakho, kungenjalo ungakhathazeki uThixo uyayazi indlela azenza ngayo izinto ...
Molweni, ndinabantwana ababini kumtshato wam wokuqala, omnye uneminyaka eli-15 kwaye omnye unesi-6, ngoku ndineminyaka engama-35 ubudala kwaye ndinomnye umlingane ngo-Agasti ndikhulelwe iiveki ezisi-7 ngaphandle kwesisu, kwaye emva kweenyanga ezi-4 ndaphinda ndakhulelwa kwaye okunye ukukhulelwa bekufana Kunye kodwa kule veki ziyi-9 ngaphandle kwenqanaba lentliziyo, ndibuhlungu kakhulu ndiziva ukuba andinakoyisa, kunzima kakhulu kwaye okona kubi kukuba ndichaphazela ubudlelwane bam neqabane lam kuba uthi asizami ukuzama kwakhona kuba yinto engathandekiyo emva kokukhohlisa okuninzi .. ndixelele ukuba umntu emva kwemizamo eliqela ukwazile ukukhulelwa umntwana. ndiyacela.
Imibuliso uThixo anisikelele nonke
Molo, ngo-2004 ndakhulelwa esibelekweni ndandizakuba sisihlandlo sokuqala, andizange ndithathe iipilisi zoqingqo-nzala, kwakamsinya nje ukuba ndilungile kugqirha wamamagqirha saqala ukujonga kwakhona kude kube ngoku asinakuze sikhulelwe, bafumanisa phezulu Iprolactin bandinyangile ngoku banciphisa amayeza am ndina-170 kodwa bandixelele ukuba ayisosithintelo ukuhlala, uphononongo lundixelela ukuba ukuba ndiyaphuma kwaye ispermogram yomyeni wam inike okuhle, olunye uphononongo lubonise ukuba une-varicoccele enesiqingatha kodwa Ugqirha womchamo akakuthatheli ngqalelo utyando okanye akunakwenzeka ukuba sihlale.Into ekufuneka ndiyenzile kukufunda ukuze ndibone ukuba iityhubhu zam ziyafikeleleka na, andazi kodwa lixesha elide ukujonga njengoko kunokuba njalo!
Molweni zihlobo, kuba ndineentsana ezimbini ezivela ngoqhaqho, olona lutshanje ngoDisemba ... Ndishiywe lixesha, ndiye ndenza uvavanyo lwasekhaya lwaza lwaphuma likhona ... emva koko ndenze uvavanyo lwegazi lwaza lwalunga-5. Kwiiveki ezidlulileyo kwiintsuku ezi-2 ezidlulileyo benze i-echo kwaye ingxowa yokukhulelwa ibonwa iiveki ezi-6 kodwa ngaphandle kwesibeleko kwaye bandibeka ekutolikeni ukuba kukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo ... baya kwenza i-echo kwiiveki ezi-2 ngaphezulu kwaye ndiyathemba intando kaThixo yenziwe ... uyabona bendisele ndinemincili kwaye ndikwinqanaba elinzima lokulinda kunye nokungaqiniseki kodwa ukuba iba yinto engacacanga, uThixo sele endithumele iintsana ezimbini ezintle kwaye owesithathu angaba semngciphekweni ngenxa Kwicandelo lam lokuyekiswa kunye nokuchaphazeleka kwam kokuphazamiseka koxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka kwaye ukuba bayandingqinela kwaye ukuba umbungu ubonwa, ndiya konwaba kakhulu kuba iintsana ziyintsikelelo kaThixo nokuba yiKesareya kunye neyesithathu kuba ndinokholo ukuba yonke into izakulunga ... ngelixesha ukulinda ndiza kukuxelela okwenzekileyo kum .. Ndiyinyani ngaphandle kwengoziIngayinto yesithathu, ndilindele ukubonwa ngumntwana wam .. kuba uThixo ubathumela okuthile.
Molweni, ndineminyaka engama-32 kwaye kanye kwiminyaka emi-2 eyadlulayo (nge-31 kaMatshi) ndandineyeza lokunyanga kuba ndandikhulelwe kwaye ndineqanda elingekazalwa. Xa ndaye ndaya kugqirha wababhinqileyo ndaya kudibana kwaye wandinika i-echo wathi kum, Mama, kufuneka ndenze i-echo kwakhona malunga neentsuku ezili-15. Ndimbuzile ukuba kutheni? Undicacisele wandixelela ukuba akajonganga mbungu kwaye ingxowa ibingaqhelekanga kakhulu. Ndabuya emva kweentsuku ezili-15 ndaya kwi-echo yam entsha kwaye wabuya wandijonga kwaye ngenene kwakungekho sisibeleko. Emva koko wathi yayililungu leqanda. Ngaphezu koko, bendisopha kwilungu lobufazi kancinci ngombala wetshokholethi emnyama kwaye yayiyimveliso yeqanda le-anembryonic. Ndandinayo ichiza lokunyanga, ndizikhathalela kakuhle, khange ndicwangcise kwakhona nganto ndide ndibenolibaziseko kwaye ngoJanuwari 13, 2010 ndiye ndenza uvavanyo lwegazi lwaphuma lune-HIV ngoku ndineeveki ezili-14 ndikhulelwe kwaye ndiyasela kulungile enkosi kuThixo.
Molweni zihlobo, nam ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic kwaye kwiintsuku ezili-15 ezidlulileyo bendineyeza lokunyanga kwaye bendiza kugqiba iiveki ezili-13 kuba iindaba zandishiye zimbi kakhulu, ndacinga ukuba andizokwazi ukuyinyamezela, ndalila kakhulu kwaye ndaziva ndingenanto ineentlungu kunye nomsindo kwaye eyona nto imbi kakhulu kukuba bendinemincili kuba unyana wam wokuqala uneminyaka eli-14 ubudala. Kodwa enkosi Thixo ndikwazile ukuqhubela phambili ndifunde zonke iikhomenti zakho ndiye ndabona ukuba le yinto rhoqo kodwa kufuneka uqhubeke ngomthandazo noncedo lukaThixo.
Molo, ndikhulelwe phantsi kwezo meko, bendinexesha elibi kakhulu, libi kakhulu kuba uyavuya emva koko ulahlekelwe yinto yonke. Kubi, amantombazana enza itsheki ngexesha.
Umbuzo wam ngowokuba ingaba ukukhulelwa komzimba kufuneka kuphele kunyango lwesibeleko okanye umnqweno, kuba ndicinga ukuba ukuba umntwana akakhuli, kuya kufuneka aphele ngokukhupha isisu, okanye yintoni ingxaki enokubakho, ndineeveki ezisi-8 mdala, hayi andinangxaki okanye ndopha, kwaye kwiiveki ezi-5 kunye neeveki ezisi-7 ze-ultrasound, iphuma njengokukhulelwa okungafunekiyo, kwaye ndiye ndacetyiswa ngonyango lwesibeleko, kwaye ndifuna nje ukulinda ukuphuma kwesisu ukuba kuyenzeka.
Molo, bendinokukhulelwa ekuthiwa ngokulinganayo okanye ukukhulelwa, ndicinga ukuba bayikhuphile i-molar kuba khange benze lonyango, kodwa unyango abalwenzileyo LULOLOYIKEKILEYO ndaphazamiseka kwaye uThixo evuma ukuba ayindichaphazeli konke konke, impazamo yam bendikwabelana ngesondo kunye neveki yesibini kwaye ukuza kuthi ga ngoku andikayi exesheni, ndakuba ndiziva kakubi isisu sam sidumbile kwaye ii-ovari zam zibuhlungu kakhulu, ndafumana i-ultrasound scan kwaye ndinokudumba kwama-ovari wam, ugqirha wandixelela ukuba ixesha lam kodwa ukuza kuthi ga ngoku akukho nto ngaphandle kokuba ndenze uvavanyo lwegazi lwaza lwaphuma lungelulo, sele ngaphezulu kweenyanga ezimbini kwaye ndikhathazekile kakhulu kuba ixesha lam alizi ????? ndincede nceda, mna Ndiyoyika, ndiyoyika ukuba bekupholile kwaye mhlawumbi oogqirha khange bandixelele
Molweni, ndaye nje ndakhulelwa i-anembryonic kwaye kunyaka ophelileyo ndaye ndaphulukana nokukhulelwa kodwa le yayinombungu kwaye yayikukuphuma kwesisu ngeeveki ezili-1, kwangelo xesha ndandinalo kule, ndiyoyika kakhulu ukungakwazi ukuba nabantwana bam, abazali bam ngabazala bokuqala ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ingxaki yam inento yokwenza nayo kuba bandenzile la mazwi kwaye luhlobo luni lonyango endingaluqala. Enkosi ngenxaxheba yakho.
I-ultrasound yam yokuqala eyayithunyelwe ngugqirha wamama ugqirha wam yaphuma ukuba ndinesiqu sokukhulelwa kuphela kwaye kwakungekho sisibeleko, inyani yayikukuba, ndadana kakhulu kwaye yandoyikisa.Wacacisa wandixelela ukuba kuyakufuneka ndinyangwe kodwa Khange ndifike kumhla obekiweyo ngoba bendiphambi kwam ndiqala ukopha kuqala kwafika kum njengonyanga kwaye ke eyona ntlungu ibiqatha xa ndiqala ukopha igazi kwaye into encinci engaqhelekanga ndiyifundisile ugqirha wam wamazi kwaye undixelele ukuba wena ziyaxubusha izicubu zesikhwama, bekungasekho mfuneko yeepilisi abazokundibeka kuzo ukuze zide zande ... baye benza ukopha wathi mandizihoye iinyanga ezi-1 ndibuye ndizokufumana unyango lwam. kwaye kamva ukuze ndikwazi ukuba nosana lwam. Ndacinga ukuba yiyo kuphela, yayingamava am oku-2. Ndacinga ukuba andinakuze ndibenabo abantwana, kodwa ukuba unako, nokuba kungathatha ixesha, kodwa ukuba unako, kukuba nokholo kuphela kwaye ulandele unyango… kulungile ithamsanqa kubo bonke abahlobo… uThixo uyasazi isizathu sokuba enze izinto…
Molweni nonke emantombazaneni abhalayo, ndiyanixelela ukuba malunga neenyanga ezine ezidlulileyo ndafunyaniswa ukuba ndikhulelwe kwaye ndopha kwaye kwabakho apho ndawukhupha khona kwaye ndandinesingxobo sokuthwala esingenanto ngoku ndineeveki ezili-9 ndikhulelwe, ummangaliso kaThixo
Ewe imeko yam inqabile ndinonyana ona-10 kodwa emva kokuba ndinaye ndiye ndafuna abantwana abaninzi kwaye ndikhulelwe kwaye ndomitha kabini nge-anembryonic, ndingathanda ukwazi izizathu, sifuna omnye umntwana
Molweni, ndize kweli phepha ukusukela usibali wam ebekhulelwe kwaye ndifuna ukuyiqonda ukuze ndikwazi ukumnceda. Kodwa ulwazi oluninzi kunye namatyala ahlukeneyo andinike uloyiko kuba ndise sibini kwaye sifuna ukuba nabantwana. Kodwa ndineminyaka engama-29 ubudala kwaye kusafuneka ndilinde eminye iminyaka emi-2 ngezinye izizathu. Umbuzo uthi ... ubudala kunye nokuba lixesha lokuqala kungangunobangela wokuba namathuba amakhulu okukhulelwa ngolu hlobo? Ngaba ikhona into enokwenziwa ukukhusela oku okanye ukuphucula ukulungiswa koomama?
Ndineminyaka engama-40 ubudala, kufuneka ndihlale nale ngxaki, ugqirha wandixelela ukuba kufuneka ndilinde ukuphuma kwegazi ukuza nje ukuze ndifumane unyango kodwa andizange ndimbuze ukuba ngaba ndinokusuleleka de kwenzeke le nto? linda impendulo yakho kungekudala, enkosi.
Molo, igama lam ndinguAmanda, ndivela eVenezuela, ndinosana oluneminyaka emi-3 oluhle, okothusayo ukufumanisa ukuba ndikhulelwe ngoJanuwari walo nyaka, nto leyo yandothusayo kuba ndandisebenzisa iikhonsepthi zomlomo, mna Ndaya kugqirha wamazinyo wandivumela ukuba ndingabinangxaki ndandineeveki ezisibhozo ndikhulelwe wandixelela ukuba yonke into ilungile ... kwinyanga ezimbini ezinesiqingatha andonelisekanga kukubonisana kwakhe ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiye komnye ugqirha, enesithathu iinyanga zokukhulelwa, ndimisele ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic, okundichaphazele kakhulu kuba bendingenguye bendimlindele, ndinesisu nazo zonke iimpawu, undixelele ukuba oku kungenxa yento ethile yengqondo kwaye ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kwenzeka kubantu abaninzi Abasetyhini kodwa ifunyenwe ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba iqhubele phambili ngakumbi njengoko yenzekile kum, iyakuba kukusetyenziswa kwezicwangcisi kunento yokubona? Kwaye ngawaphi amathuba okuba iphinde yenzeke kum?
Mhlawumbi yayingumnqweno wokuba nomnye umntwana. Sele ukhulelwe kwakhona, sele uneenyanga ezisi-8 ubudala ngoNovemba, uza kuba nomnye umntwana, njengoko kuyinyani, yonke into ikuhambele kakuhle, ntombazana.
Molo, ndigqithile kwimeko enje, ndinesisu sokukhulelwa, ndikholelwe ukuba imeko ibuhlungu kakhulu kuba nokuba akukho mntwana uyakhulelwa kwaye ubeke zonke iinkohliso zakho kubomi obutsha, it kutsha nje okoko i-curettage yile Bayenzileyo nge-14/05/2010 kwaye ndiyazi ukuba kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukuba ndiphinde ndibuyise kule nto, kuba ngoku ndiyoyika ukuyizama kwakhona kodwa kuyinto yesiqhelo, sendifundile ngayo ukukhulelwa kweembungu kwaye kwenzeka ngesiqhelo, ngoku ndinokuthi kwabo kwenzekileyo, ukuba ungalahli ithemba okanye umphike uThixo ngale nto kuba uyazi ukuba kutheni esenza izinto nangona ngamanye amaxesha singazamkeli, akaphosisi, mna ndikuthumele ukwanga kwaye uThixo akusikelele kwaye kungekudala uza kuba nazo ezingalweni zakho ukuba bafuna kakhulu.
Ndiphinde ndaphila loo mava amabi, enkosi kuThixo ndineentsana ezimbini ezintle, kwaye ukukhulelwa kwesithathu yayingu-anebrionado one. Ewe, uThixo uyazi ukuba kutheni esenza izinto, ndashiyeka ndinamathandabuzo amaninzi kodwa ngayo yonke into endiyifundileyo kwaye ndiyicacisa ngelixesha bandixelela ukuba andiqondi nto, nokuba ndingafuni ukuchukunyiswa ngoogqirha. Kubo bonke abo benzekileyo ukuba uThixo amnike i-resin yomelele kwaye ibuhlungu ndicinga ukuba zenzekile kum zisuka kwi-nestecia kwaye ndiseneziphumo zokuba enkosi ngeli phepha lifundisa kakhulu
Ukhuphe isisu esiyi-anembryonic 2 kwiinyanga ezinesiqingatha ezidlulileyo, andikayifumani into endiyenzayo okanye ndiyithathayo
Mholweni:
Ndaphinda ndangena kwingxaki efanayo ngo-Epreli 18, ndakhulelwa umbungu kwaye ndiziva ndikhumbula kakubi lonke ixesha lokukhulelwa, kwaye ndilinde ukuba isingxobo sokukhulelwa sigxothwe ngokwendalo kunye nomzuzu wokunyanga. kwaye ngenxa yokuba bendingenazo iintsuku zokuphumla kuba bendisebenza kwaye ngoku ndinentandabuzo kuba bendinobudlelwane kwiintsuku ezingama-20 ngenxa yokunyanzelwa liqabane lam inkxalabo yam kukuba isibeleko sam sele silungile ukuba nobudlelwane kuba ndiziva ndibi ngayo yonke into eyenzekileyo kum kwaye neqabane lam alindixabisi njengowasetyhini (owam umsebenzi kukuphakamisa okanye ukwenza umzamo omkhulu) .Enkosi.
Mholweni!!! Ndineminyaka engama-23 ubudala kuba njengani nonke ndikhulelwe nge-anembryonic, xa usithi i-vdd ngalo Lwesihlanu abayi kukwenza unyango ngoku ndandisele ndineeveki ezisi-7 ubudala kwaye ukufumanisa ukuba akukho mntwana wayedandathekisa, kuyandithuthuzela yazi ukuba ayindim ndedwa onale ngxaki, kodwa yintoni endoyikisayo kukufunda ukuba uninzi lwenu ukhe wakhulelwa ukuya ku-3 kolo hlobo. Ngaba ukhona kuni okhe wakhulelwa ama-3 alolo hlobo kwaye wamitha ngolwesine? Ndidimazeke kakhulu, andifuni iphinde yenzeke into efanayo.
I had anembryonic pregnancy and it feels horrible because I was 17 years old and is that I got married at 16 and well, ngokuya ndikhulelwe kodwa bekungafani nokuba bendine 9 weeks ndizelwe kwaye ndiqale ukulawula noko Ndandisoyika kakhulu from there we went to hospital and bandingenisa ngomgqibelo bandikhulula ngecawe safika kwam ndalala 3hours ndaye ndama ebathroom ndaqonda uba ndiphinde ndehlike
Molweni, nam, njengaye wonke umntu, ndakhulelwa yingqele, ndaziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu kuba mna nesoka lam sasonwabile kakhulu nangona sasineminyaka engama-22 kuphela ubudala, ngengcebiso kagqirha wam wezifo zonyango benza unyango, ngoku ndiyoyika ukuba izokwenzeka kwakhona bendingazokwazi ukunyamezela ukuba nomntwana, ingaba ikhona into endinokuyenza ukuze ingaphindi yenzeke?
Molweni, bendisazi kunyaka ophelileyo ngo-Epreli ukuba ndineqanda elingekazalwa
kwaye kede usizi olukhulu kuba yayikukukhulelwa kwam kokuqala
Ngoku unyaka udlulile, ndikhulelwe, ndineeveki ezintlanu kude kube ngu
Okwangoku yonke into ilungile kodwa kuya kufuneka ndenze enye i-echo ukuqinisekisa
Ndiyoyika yonke kodwa ndinokholo.Ndiyathemba ukuba ayenzeki nakum ... xao
Uyazi ukuba ndineqanda elineembumba kwaye sele ndisebenze iinyanga ezintlanu kunye nalo esiswini sam kwaye ndiye esibhedlele kathathu kwaye abenzi unyango ngenxa yokuba bandixelela ukuba kufuneka ndithanjisiwe ukuze ndenze, indalo usisilumko nokuba ngalo naliphi na ixesha ndimgxotha, bandixelele ukuba kwinyanga yesithathu okanye uzakugxothwa kungabikho nto yenzekileyo, ingaba unayo ingxaki? Ukusukela ngoko ndopha ngohlobo lweesampulu kuphela, ndithetha okuncinci, kodwa enyanisweni bendinzima kakhulu inyanga kwaye khange ndikwazi ukugqiba ngeli bali
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Kwiintsuku ezintlanu ezidlulileyo xa bendifumana i-transvajinal ultrasound bandixelela ukuba ndikhulelwe, kwakunzima ukusukela kwiinyanga ezili-9 ezidlulileyo bendinendlela yokuzikhethela kwaye eyona nto ndiyifunayo kukuba ngumama. Ndiyachacha ekhaya; Kodwa ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndingaphinda ndimithe ixesha elingakanani kwakhona, ndingenza ntoni ukuze le nto ibuhlungu nenzima ingaphindi yenzeke, kufuneka ndihlolisise mna okanye umyeni wam.Ndiyabulela ngokusimamela kwakho kwaye Indlela esinceda ngayo kwintlungu kamama.
Molo kwiveki ephelileyo, xa ndandineeveki ezisi-8 ubudala, ndaye ndafumana i-ultrasound yesibini, kwaye ugqirha wandixelela ukuba ndikhulelwe umbungu, ndaziva ndibi kakhulu kuba ndandonwabile.
Umbuzo wam ngulo, kule veki iphelileyo ndizive ndinesicaphucaphu nokugabha nokudinwa okuninzi, kunokwenzeka ukuba ngoku ukuba ndinenye i-ultrasound, umbungu uzakubonwa?, Khange ndifune ukukrwela kukoyika ukwenza impazamo nangokukhohlisa ukuba ngoku yonke into ihamba kakuhle nceda undincede !!!!
Molweni .. inyani yile, ulwazi endilucelileyo lubonakala lunomdla kakhulu kum, inyani kukuba bendingenalo nofifi lokuba kwakutheni malunga nokukhulelwa kombungu. Ukubulisa. Vane
Mholweni!! Okokuqala ndifuna ukuthi ndicela uxolo ngayo yonke into eyenzekileyo kuwo onke loo mantombazana akhulelweyo, ndicinga ukuba abenexesha elibi kakhulu, kwaye ndithi ndiyacinga kuba enyanisweni andinguye Ngubani owenzekileyo x into elolo hlobo, kodwa ke dade wethu endimthandayo, uye wakhulelwa ngoluhlobo kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo kwaye inyani yayinexesha elibi kakhulu, malunga nayo yonke into kuba malunga neenyanga ezintandathu phambi kokuba aphulukane nomntwana wakhe wokuqala ngelishwa Akakhuli kakuhle, kwaye wazalwa eneenyanga ezisixhenxe kodwa wazalwa efile.Ndingathanda ukuba basasaze xa bethetha ngalo mbandela kuba ndicinga ukuba bonke abo bafazi badlule entweni enje banamathandabuzo angenasiphelo kunye nodadewethu othandekayo. wena ngayo yonke into….
Mholweni..!!! Ewe ndiyakuxelela ukuba kwiintsuku ezi-2 ezidlulileyo ndafumanisa ukuba ndikhulelwe kwaye sele kumbi kakhulu, nangona sele ndinomntwana olungileyo ndandisele ndinemibono emininzi ngomntwana wam wesibini, ndade ndanamagama Ukuba yintombazana okanye inkwenkwe ... Yimeko enzima leyo kuba nangona kungekho sana lwakha lwakhona okanye oluya kubakho, ndandisele ndenza umbono wokuba ndizokufumana abantwana bam ababini kwaye ndade ndaxelela nosana lwam ukuba umntana kabhuti ... UThixo uyazi kuphela ukuba kutheni esenza izinto nokuba uzenza nini kwaye nangona kunzima kum ukuyamkela le meko, emazantsi enzulu ndiyazi ukuba yeyona ilungileyo…. Imibuliso kubo bonke kwaye ndiyamkhuthaza uThixo ukuba azi ukuba angasivuza njani ngale lahleko ...
molo ndiyazi kubonakala ngathi kuyamangalisa ukuba umntu ufunda le kodwa ndiyoyika ukuba kwenzeka ntoni oku kulandelayo
Umfazi wam wayekhulelwe nge-anembryonic kwiinyanga ezi-5 ezidlulileyo, benza unyango kwaye ngoku ukhulelwe kwakhona kwaye bendifuna ukwazi ukuba kungenzeka njani ukuba ukukhulelwa kolu hlobo kwenzeke kwakhona? Nceda undincede!
Molo, ndinguNoelia, ndineminyaka engama-27 ubudala, andizange ndicinge ukuba oku kuya kwenzeka kum, ndandonwabile kakhulu, ndaziva ngathi umhlaba uwile, kwaye iveki idlulile oko ndafumana unyango, ndingu ndisesezintlungwini, kuye kwafuneka baphindaphinde indawo yokunyanga kwi-echo, ndifumana ulwelo olundivelisa okuninzi.intlungu, umbuzo ngowokuba ndingaba nabo na abantwana
Molweni nonke, njengani, ndakhulelwa isisu kwaye ndaziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu kuba yayikukuqala kwam ukukhulelwa kwaye andizange ndicinge ukuba le nto ingenzeka kum kwaye mhla ndafunyaniswa ukuba ndilile kakhulu kwaye ekugqibeleni ndiyamkele into eyenzekayo Ngenxa yemeko engathandekiyo kum kwaye oku kuchaphazele usapho lwam lonke, besele ndibonisene nogqirha wam kwaye wandixelela ukuba ndingaphinda ndikhulelwe kwaye kuba ndinonyango lokuthatha i-5 mg folic acid ugqirha wam Ndinconyiwe kwaye ndinokholo kuThixo kwaye ndiyazi ukuba yonke into izakuhamba kakuhle kwaye ndibaxelela bonke abo bafazi abadlule kule meko ukuba babe nokholo kwaye bacele uThixo kakhulu ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle
Umhlobo wam oneminyaka eli-16 ubudala uneeveki ezintlanu ekhulelwe, ngokwe-ultrasound engaphaya kwento eyenziweyo, ingxowa yesithambiso ithi, kodwa akukho nto ikhoyo ngoku ... Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba angakanani amathuba okuba yimpazamo kwisifundo okanye ukuba ngaphakathi abanamntwana
Ukukhulelwa kwam kokuqala yayiyi-anembryonic, emva koko ndaba nentombazana kwaye ngexesha lokugqibela ndaphinda ndafumana enye i-anembryonic kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo ezenzeke kum.
Molo ndineminyaka engama-29 ubudala, ityala lam lilandelayo:
Ndithathe I pregnancy test yaphuma i positive, ngengomso ndaya kwa Gqirha wandixelela uba ndine 7 to 8 weeks ndikhulelwe wandithuma ndayofumana i-ultrasound, kodwa akhonto ivelayo kulento, ngathi ukungakhulelwa, Ukuzilahlela kundikhokelele ekubeni ndenze olunye uvavanyo lokukhulelwa kwaye labuya likhona, ugqirha wacinga ukuba kuyamangalisa kwaye wandithuma ukuba ndiyokwenza ezinye iimvavanyo zokukhulelwa kodwa zisezingeni, ndazisa iziphumo kugqirha kwaye into andixelele yona kukuba Kwakukho amathuba ama-2 okuba ndikhulelwe umbungu okanye ukuba kukukhulelwa okuqhelekileyo kodwa ayikakhuli kakuhle, incinci kakhulu yiyo loo nto ingabonwa kwi-ultrasound, ukuthandabuza kwam nombuzo, ziziphi iziphumo ezinokubakho okanye umntwana wam, ukuba akakakhuli kwaye mncinci kakhulu?
Ngo-Meyi ka-2010 ndaye ndaneyeza lokunyanga ngenxa yokukhulelwa esibelekweni, phantse iinyanga ezi-2 kamva, ndingathanda ukwazi, kungenzeka ntoni ukuba ndikhulelwe kwaye kufuneka ndilinde ixesha elingakanani?… Ukukhulelwa usana lwam… .umyeni wam Ndifuna ukuba nosana lwethu lwesibini olulandelayo… Ndiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu, kuba ndandiphantse ndaneenyanga ezine ubudala kwaye usana lwam lwalunqweneleka kakhulu …… nceda undincede; Enkosi kwaye uThixo akusikelele.
Molweni mantombazana, ndiza kunibalisela ibali lam ngo-Epreli, ndakhulelwa umntwana kodwa kwafumaniseka ukuba yayikukukhulelwa okungafakwanga imbumba kwaye kwafuneka benze unyango kwiiveki ezisi-8, ndithetha ukuba kwiintsuku ezingama-50 ezidlulileyo kwaye kuvela ukuba Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo bendiziva ndingaqhelekanga kakhulu ngokuba nesicaphucaphu sobushushu esinezothe kunye nokurhawuzelela kancinci ngaphakathi kwilungu lobufazi kungoko namhlanje ndityelele ugqirha wandixelela ukuba inokuba ngumngundo kwaye iimpawu zibonakaliswe kakhulu ukuba bebekhulelwe, wandithumelela uvavanyo kwaye andinokwazi ukuzibamba ndaze ndangumfazi wasekhaya ndaza ndanikezela ngeyona ndlela, ndicinge ukumangaliswa kwam kunye novuyo lwam bendiyazi into engaphakathi kum endinike yona ngoku into endixhalabisayo kukuba izakuba nengxaki yokungalindi ixesha elide… ndixelele amabali akho…
Molo, ndinguJohana, ndineminyaka engama-24 ubudala kwaye ndikhulelwe namhlanje ekuseni benze i-ultrasound kwaye kwavela ukuba ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic kuba bandithumelele iipilisi kwaye bazokwenza unyango.
Oko kundigulisa ndisoyika, ndiyathemba ukuba yonke into izakuhamba kakuhle, kuba endlini yam umyeni wam nonyana wam oneminyaka emi-6 ubudala babenemincili ngomntwana kodwa zikhona izinto kwaye asinakho ukuzitshintsha.
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Molo, ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic ezimbini, andikaze ndibenayo i-cysts okanye nantoni na, iqabane lam sele linomntwana kubudlelwane bangaphambili kwaye amalungu am angaphakathi aqhelekile, umbuzo wam ngowokuba, ndingamfumana na umntwana? Ukuba ndiyakhulelwa, ngawaphi amathuba okuba iphinde yenzeke kum? ... enkosi
Mholweni :
Ndineminyaka engama-24 kwaye ndina-21,
I had a molar pregnancy and at about 6 months enye anembryo, umbuzo wam yile ngxaki ndinayo? Ndingathini ukuba ndikhulelwe kakuhle? ekufuneka ndiyenzile?
Molo igama lam ndinguSandra kwiintsuku ezingamashumi amabini ezidlulileyo ndaye ndanyangwa kuba ndandikhulelwe i-anembryonic, ngaphambi koko ndandingazi ukuba ukukhulelwa okunjalo kukhona, ndinomfana oneminyaka eli-9 kwaye lo izakuba ngumntwana wam wesibini, ndina 34 Iminyaka ubudala, uxinzelelo lwegazi kunye Ngomhla omnye wokunyanga, ndasebenza ukunqanda ukuba nabantwana abaninzi kuba kwimeko yam kungakho iingozi, ke ndenza isigqibo esinzima sokungazivezi ngakumbi kwaye ndithande kwaye ndikhathalele lowo sele ndinayo, ndiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu kodwa uThixo uyazi ukuba kutheni esenza izinto zakhe.
Molweni mantombazana, nam, njengani, ndikhulelwe kwaye ngamava abuhlungu kakhulu kuba umntu unemincili kangangokuba yonke into ijikeleze ukukhulelwa kwakho.Umbuzo wam uthi: Ndineminyaka engama-34 ubudala kwaye kufuneka ndichithe ixesha elingakanani ukuze ndikwazi ukhulelwe kwakhona? "» »»
Molweni nonke, ndakhulelwa umntwana esibelekweni ... kodwa ndaphinda ndakhulelwa emva kweenyanga ezimbini emva kokunyangwa kwesibeleko ... Ndiyoyika ukuphinda ndisebenzise itruna yonyango kwakhona, ukukhulelwa okungaphindi kwenzeke okwesibini? ..kuba kuvela ukuba ndineempawu ezifanayo .Enkosi
Uxolo ngopelo …… ndinovalo kancinci… uxolo lwewaka
Molo, ndineminyaka eli-18, umbuzo wam ngoku andazi ukuba ndikhulelwe na, kodwa sele ndinenyanga ezimbini ndingasayi exesheni kwaye uloyiko lwam olukhulu alunaso, kodwa bandixelela ukuba kukumitha kweembungu kwaye andifuni ukuba iphinde yenzeke kum, kodwa eyona nto ndiyivileyo ngaphandle kweempawu zeentlungu zizifo zevajitos kwaye ndiye ndaphelelwa ngamandla.ingaba ndikhulelwe okanye ndim Ndigula nje yinto eza kuba?
Molweni mantombazana, ndikwanesisu sokumitha esasisembewini kwaye kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo bendinesidanga. inyani kukuba kudala ndizama ukumitha kwaye andikwazi.Ndifanele ndithini ukuze ndikhulelwe?
Molo NDICINGA UKUBA SINGABAKHO KE SINGA AKI SIKHULELE KODWA EBANGELA IINTETHO EZININZI NJENGOKUVAKALEKA KUNYE NOKUXHAPHA: (IKIERO FUMANA UKUKHULEKA KODWA NDIYAZI UKUBA KUNOKWENZEKA KWAM
Ncedani nishiye ii-imeyile ukuze nazi ukuba niza kujongana nabani, abanye bethu banokuba nesisombululo
Mholweni!! Enkosi ngolwazi olunikiweyo, phantse kwiinyanga ezintathu ezidlulileyo ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic kwaye ngoku ndineenyanga ezimbini ndikhulelwe.Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba inokwenzeka njani into efanayo ukuba iphinde yenzeke?
Molweni mantombazana,
Ndinamava afanayo okukhulelwa okungaphefumlelwanga. Kwi-ultrasound bandixelele ukuba andinantliziyo, ukulinda iveki ngolunye uhlolo olulandelayo: bendingenalo ixesha, usuku nosuku bendisopha ngakumbi de iphume yodwa. Iintsuku ezintandathu ezinje, kwaye konke kuphele izolo emva kwentlungu eyoyikekayo. Ndikubhalela le nto xa kungekadluli iiyure ezingama-24.
Kodwa emva kokufunda onke la magqabantshintshi ndigqithisela la mava kuwe ukuze sonke sikhuthazwe kwaye siqinisekiswe: ukuba siyaqhubeka nokukhathazeka, kunye neerves kunye ne-hysterics, ekuphela kwento esiyenzayo kukuphikisana nathi.
Kuya kufuneka sicinge intetho yomfazi efudukele kunyaka wokubeleka kuba ukuba akunjalo, sizakuphambana kwaye ngenxa yoko ngamaqabane ethu.
Ngendlela, amagama endixelelwe ngugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini ngale ntsasa kwigumbi likaxakeka emva kokundijonga malunga nokuqhomfa angaphezulu okanye angaphantsi kwala: uyagula iveki yonke, uyazenzela, ulinde imithetho emibini okanye emithathu ngesiqhelo, kwaye kunyaka olandelayo ndiza kuzala apha.
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Molweni inyani ndiyoyika ukusukela kwiveki e-1 enesiqingatha eyadlulayo ndaya kufuna i-ultrasound kwaye kukho isaka kodwa umbungu awukabonakali i-doc yam yathi mandilinde iveki ye-8 kuba ngelo xesha ndandineminyaka emihlanu kuphela ndineeveki ubudala ndiyoyika lo ngumntwana wam wesibini kodwa sele ndigqibile unyango kwaye inyani ibuhlungu ndiyazi ukuba kufuneka ndilinde kodwa kukho enye into engandishiyi ndedwa ngaphambi kokundinika ukuba ndithatha malini X-reyi kwiimolars kwaye ndithatha unyango lwala ntlungu ndithatha i-sibutramine kwaye ekugqibeleni izinto ezininzi kangaka…. Ndiyathemba ukuba kukho umntu oza kundinceda …… enkosi kakhulu
molo umbuzo wam ngulo ulandelayo, bendineyeza lokunyanga nge-16 ka-Agasti, linda ishumi ukuba ndilale njengoko i-gyne yam indixelele ukuba ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndingakhulelwa na.
Amantombazana ndiyanixelela ukuba ndikhulelwe izi-2 zolu hlobo: 1 kwi-19 enye kwi-24 kwaye ndiyafunga kuThixo ukuba andifuni ukuzama kwakhona iyandoyikisa, iqabane lam liyafa ukuba nomntwana kodwa Inyaniso Ewe, andifuni nokuyicinga ... ngoku ndineminyaka engama-28 kwaye andikho ksada, mhlawumbi kungenxa efanayo; ukuba kukho umntu owaziyo ngezifundo ezifunekayo ukuze azi ukuba kufanelekile kwimfuza okanye into enjalo, ndicela uyithumele apha ndiyathembisa ukuphonononga izimvo zakho ENKOSI KUTHIXO ASISODWA, baninzi kuthi abanengxaki efanayo kwaye kufuneka ibe nesisombululo.
Molo ndineminyaka engama-28 ubudala ndiyigqithile le nto kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha ndiyikhumbula indenza buhlungu, okokuqala ndafumana ukukhulelwa okungaphefumlelwanga emva koko ndane-trisonia 21 oku kundenza ndoyike kakhulu ukungakwazi ukuba nabantwana ndiyathemba ukuba abanye banabo kwaye kakhulu yamandla kufuneka ndibene !!!!
Molweni, kwaye ndifunde lukhulu malunga nathi sonke abakhubazekileyo, kwaye ndicinga ukuba eyona ndlela esinokuthi sizincede ngayo kukwenza uluhlu lweemvavanyo esizenzileyo ukuze sikwazi ukuthelekisa abanye kwaye bayazi ukuba siphoswa nayiphina okanye enye esingayaziyo, kuba sendikhe ndakhathazwa kukukhulelwa okungathathu kwaye inyani kukuba ngenye imini ndingathanda ukufumana isisombululo sengxaki yam ndiyathemba siyancedana
Molo, ndineminyaka engama-22 ubudala kwaye ndineeveki ezisi-7 ndikhulelwe kodwa ugqirha wam undixelela ukuba kukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo kwaye kufuneka ndibenonyango kodwa kude kube ngoku abanakuyenza kuba andisophisi kwaye Ndiyoyika kakhulu ukuba ndingayenza okanye ndingayenza njani ukuze ndingabinayo indawo yokunyanga.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ngokuthe ngqo ngakumbi ukuba yintoni ukukhulelwa komjunipha, ngokobuqu bendinamava ngayo kwaye bekunzima kakhulu kuba umntu ucinga ukuba awunakho ukukhulelwa obunye ubomi ngokuba kutheni zisenzeka ezi zinto, ukuba sele unabo abantwana ngaphambili ., into engacacanga kum, ukuba ngaba impazamo ingabonakaliswa yindoda okanye ngumfazi? Ewe, yeyiphi indima edlalwa ngumntu ngamnye koku?
Molo, ndineminyaka engama-41 ubudala, ndibuhlungu ngento eyenzekileyo kum, ukukhulelwa okumbumba, andizange ndeva ngomntu owenzekileyo kwindawo endikuyo, iziphumo zovavanyo zandinika ukuba ndiqinisekile, nokuba ukuba ngumama kuyintsikelelo kanjani ndibaxelele bonke ... bendonwabe kakhulu ... ibiziiveki ezisixhenxe zokukhohlisa ... kodwa ndiyazi ukuba uThixo uyazi ukuba kutheni le nto ... kubo bonke abantu basetyhini abakule meko ndibaxelela ukuba bangathobi iingalo zabo , ukuqhubeka uzama ... ukuba ngumama yeyona nto intle emhlabeni ....! ithamsanqa…
Ndiye ndakhulelwa izihlwitha ezibini zilandelelana emva kokuba ndiye exesheni ndaphinda ndakhulelwa kwaye ibikukukhulelwa okungaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana ... ukuthandabuza kwam kukuba sele ndinabantwana ababini phambi kwale nto kwaye ndinomntu omnye… kwaye bendifuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni izizathu ezinokubangela oku enkosi kakhulu
Molweni, ndivele nje ndakhulelwa esibelekweni, endingazange ndeva ngaso ebomini bam, kwakubuhlungu kakhulu kum nakusapho lwam kuba sasisele simcwangcisele yonke into umntwana, ndinabantwana abathathu, kwaye ke ngoko sasijonge phambili kuyo, kodwa ke, singamakholwa kakhulu kuThixo kwaye sinokuqonda ukuba yile ndlela ekufanele ukuba ibe yiyo.
molo ngalo mzuzu ndicinga ukuba ndinolu hlobo lokukhulelwa kwaye ndinenyanga enesiqingatha kwaye i-sonogram ibonisa iibhegi ezimbini kodwa zingenanto, ugqirha wam uthi yexeshana elifutshane. Ndifuna uluvo lwakho, nceda
Molo, bendingazi ukuba la matyala aqhelekile ndinokukhulelwa okungapheliyo kweeveki ezi-6 kunye neentsuku ezintlanu, isakhu yam ikhulelwe, akukho monakalo, unobangela wokuya kwigumbi likaxakeka kwaye ufumanise malunga nokukhulelwa ngaphandle umbungu kungenxa yokuba ndiqale ukungcolisa into ethambe kakhulu kwaye bathathe i-echo kodwa kukho into endixelela ukuba ndikhulelwe ukuba andikufumani ukuthotywa okulindelweyo kwiiveki ezili-5 kukho i-bb ethi bathathe ixesha ukuyenza ndididekile kakhulu Ndikhale kakhulu ndiyoyika mhlawumbi ukuzama ebomini bb x nceda ndifuna ilizwi lenkuthazo
Molweni kubo bonke abantu abafunda ooMama banamhlanje, niyazi ukuba ndakhulelwa nge-anembryonic ngenyanga kaMeyi bandenzela unyango, iiveki ezisi-7, yayikukukhulelwa kwam okwesine emva kweminyaka eli-13, usapho lwam lwalonwabile noko umyeni wam kunye naBantwana bam kodwa zafika iindaba ezibuhlungu zokuba ndandingumbungu, ugqirha wam wamabhinqa wandixelela ukuba ndingakhulelwa kodwa kufuneka ndisele idosi ye-folic acid yonke imihla. Sele ndineminyaka engama-45 ubudala. Ngaba umntu angandixelela ukuba ndingayifumana ukhulelwe? Ndilinde impendulo yakho nceda.
Molo …… .. Ndineminyaka engama-34 ubudala, kwiminyaka emi-6 eyadlulayo ndaye ndakhulelwa umntwana emva kokulinda lonke elixesha ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiphinde ndikhangele umntwana, kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo ndenza uvavanyo kwaye lwaphuma lundivuyisa kuba bendicinga yenzeke kube kanye kwaye lento yokumitha izakuba yinto yesiqhelo, kwiveki ephelileyo bendine ultrasound kwaye ibikukukhulelwa okungamawele kodwa kwezi mbumba zimbini khange basifumane ukubetha kwentliziyo.Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba xa ndizama kwakhona oku ingaphinda yenzeke kum ???? ikwayingxaki yemfuza kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ube nosana oluqhelekileyo. Kwaye ngawaphi amanyathelo okhuseleko ekufuneka ndiwathathile? Enkosi
Ndatshata kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezidlulileyo umyeni wam wandicela umntwana, kwaye emva kweenyanga ezintathu ndamxelela ukuba singamfumana umntwana, ndaye ndenza uvavanyo kwaye ndikhulelwe isiqaqa esikhulu sokwenza izicwangciso, saya kwagqirha nalapho ukuba ne-ultrasound kwakungekho sana, kwiiveki ezi-8 ndaqala ukopha kakhulu kwaye ndandifumana unyango, ngamava anzima.
Molo, ndinjani? Ndinezinyanga ezisi-8 ndikhulelwe kwaye namhlanje ndiye ndayokufumana i-ultrasound kodwa kwavela isikhwama sokukhulelwa kuphela kwaye umbungu awunakubonwa kwaye ugqirha wam wandixelela ukuba isenokuba kukukhulelwa okungazalwanga kodwa ndinamathandabuzo, inyani ingathanda ukwazi ukuba ngaba iimpawu ziyafana nokukhulelwa okuqhelekileyo kuba amabele am akhule kwaye ndine-nausea ndigabhe, ingaba konke oko kuqhelekile ???
Molo, phantse iinyanga ezintathu ezidlulileyo ndikhulelwe ndingenanto, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ndifumana igama lokwenyani lokukhulelwa kwam, umyeni wam kunye nam sasinemincili kakhulu, sele sinosana oluneminyaka emi-3 ubudala, andikaqondi Unobangela ukuba ibiyimpazamo yam okanye yakhe okanye bobabini ugqirha wam ucebise ukuba ndilinde iinyanga ezi-2 ukuze ndikhulelwe kwakhona kodwa ndiyoyika ukuba into enye izakwenzeka kwakhona, ngaba kunyanzelekile ukuba ndenze unyango nomyeni wam okanye mna okanye yenziwe kwezi meko ?????
Molo, ndilula, bendigqithile kuloo nto kwaye kuyadinisa ngokwasemzimbeni nangokokuziphatha, bendifuna nje ukwazi ukuba le yenzekile kum kuba bendinyangwa?
Molweni mantombazana, ndiza kunixelela ukuba ndakhulelwa nge-anembryonic ngo-Okthobha ka-2009 kwaye emva kweenyanga ezi-6 ngokutsho kwam ukuphilisa kwakhona kwi-2010 kwenzeka into efanayo kum kwaye inyani kukuba ndidandathekile kakhulu imeko yam isemhlabeni , Ugqirha wam uyandiqinisekisa k kubangelwa sisidoda sendoda kwaye ngoku ukuba indithume ukuba ndiyokwenza izifundo kubo bobabini ukuze ndifumane unobangela.
Ndifuna kuphela ukuba nokholo lokuba uThixo uya kundenza ummangaliso wokuba ngumama
molo .. usuku olungileyo
Ndilangazelela, ndinombono omkhulu wokuba nomntwana, kwaye ndikhulelwe kathathu, kubonakala ukuba ngumbungu, ugqirha akazange andixelele oko, kodwa kule nto ndiyifundileyo, kuye kwaba njalo, ndibakhuphe abathathu ngokulula , khange kubekho sidingo sonyango, ugqirha ucebise ukuba ndindwendwele ingcali yamayeza okuzala, ndivela kwiphondo kwaye azikho iingcali ezinjalo ... ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndingenza ntoni ... enkosi
Molo, ndicela undiphendule, ndikhulelwe kutshanje kwaye ngenxa yeengxaki ezithile ebendinazo kunyango, ngesinye isihlandlo bendinobudlelwane kunye neqabane lam kwiintsuku ezili-10 emva kokukhupha isisu, ngoku iveki idlulile kwaye Ndineentlungu kunye nesicaphucaphu. Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba kungenzeka kangakanani ukuba ndikhulelwe kwaye ndingenza njani ukuba yonke into ihambe kakuhle, ukuba ndikhulelwe ndifuna ukuba nosana lwam ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na into esehlabathini.
Molo, kwimeko yam bendineyeza lokunyanga okokoko ukukhulelwa kwam bekungumbungu, oku kwenziwa nge-4 kaJuni.
Namhlanje, nge-20 ka-Okthobha, ndikhulelwe iiveki ezisi-9.
Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba inokuphinda yenzeke kum ukusuka ekuvezweni ...
Enkosi kuwe.
Molo, ndineminyaka engama-37 ubudala kwaye ndibuhlungu kuba ndikhulelwe umntwana, yayiyinto ebuhlungu kwaye ibuhlungu kakhulu xa ndafumanisa ukuba ndilile kakhulu, ugqirha wamabhinqa wandicela enye i-echo kangangeentsuku ezili-14 ukuqinisekisa Ukuxilongwa kwaye ngokwenza oko unyango lokunyanga yayingumntwana wam wesibini kwaye sonwabile kwaye ekuphela kwento endithuthuzelayo ngalo mzuzu ndiyinikwa ngunyana wam oneminyaka eyi-9 kunye nomyeni wam okoko endixelela ukuba uThixo uyakwazi akwenzayo kwaye Ungazama kwakhona kuba kufuneka ndomelele.
Namhlanje ndilinde kuphela isiphumo se-echo elandelayo kunye nentlungu engaphezulu kwenyama yomphefumlo wonyango.
Molo, NDINGU-KARINA, NDIKUDLULILE UKUKHULELWA KWALOLU HLOBO NOKUBA UVA UKUBA UBOMI BAKHO BUYAPHELA NGALOMZUZU, OKUNYE XA UKUKHANYISELWA EMVA KWAYO YONKE I-GYNECOLOGIST YAM YANDITHUMELA UXOXO LWEZIFUNDO UKUZE NDILALELE LEYO NDIKHULEKILE EMVA KOKUKHULELWA KODWA KUKHO NDISEBENZILE UKUBA UBETHE KODWA ABAKHOLELWA KOKUBA NDISELE NDIGQIBE IINYANGA EZINTATHU NDISENOKOYIKA AND NDINGALIBALI OKWENZEKE KUM KODWA UTHIXO UYAYAZI IZINTO, NDIKUTHUMELA IINGCEBISO, SUKUZIPHATHALELA KWAKHONA NDIYAZI UKUBA KUNZIMA KODWA AKUNAKWENZEKA NDITHUMELA UMBUZO KUWO WONKE UTHIXO ANGAKUSIKELELE
Molweni zihlobo, inyani kukuba kubuhlungu ukuswelekelwa ngumntwana wakho wokuqala, kwenzeka into efanayo nakuwe, ndikhulelwe ndingakhange ndibenaso esibelekweni, kodwa ngoku ndazisiwe ngoonobangela ababangela olu hlobo lokukhulelwa ndizolile, Inye kuphela into eseleyo kukushiya inkonzo, ndinokholo olukhulu kuThixo kwaye ndinethemba lokukhulelwa olunye usana olusempilweni… bahlobo abazolileyo, uThixo uyakusisikelela kwakhona ngesiqu esitsha…. Ndilinde nalonto yenzeke kum ... hee
Ndaphinda ndaya kwinto enye, kubuhlungu kakhulu kodwa yonke into ihambe kakuhle
Molweni, 3 months ago ndafumana umfazi okhulelweyo, ndaphinda ndamitha, umbuzo wam ngowokuba, ingaba inokwenzeka na into efanayo kum?
Ndiphulukene nokukhulelwa iinyanga ezi-4 ezidlulileyo kum kwakunzima ukwazi ukuba andinanto phantse andiphili kwaye ndiyoyika ukuba izakuphinda yenzeke ndilinde ukugqiba iinyanga ezi-6 ezinconyelwe ngugqirha ukuze ndikwazi iyalela ukuba ndenza njani ukuze ndingoyiki ukuba ndibuye, ndincede, demen, ulwazi oluthe kratya, ndivela eColombia, Cali, Valle del Cauca.
Ukuba nje ngabantu ebesazi ukuba umfazi uziva njani xa eswelekelwa ngumntwana, lelona xesha linzima anokuthi adlule kulo umfazi, kuphela ngabo bebekhe baphila kulo, abayaziyo le ntlungu, ukukhathazeka ngokuswelekelwa ngumntwana ukhulelwe….
Kuyamangalisa ukuba njengokuba kukho abafazi abangafuni kuba nabantwana, kwelinye icala lengqekembe kukho abantu basetyhini abafuna ngayo yonke imiphefumlo yabo ukuba babe nengelosi encinci ecaleni kwabo, kodwa nguThixo kuphela owaziyo ukuba kutheni esenza izinto ngalo ndlela. Amava am ayinto eyothusayo, ndatshata uthando lobomi bam, ndingoyena mfazi wonwabileyo emhlabeni, sitshatile iminyaka emithathu kwaye saqala ukucwangcisa ngothando oluninzi ngomntwana wethu, kodwa ngekhe siyicinge into uThixo Wayesicwangcisile, nditsho ndikhumbula laa mini, ukubona uvavanyo lokukhulelwa, ndandonwabile, ndandingazi ukuba ndimxelele njani umyeni wam, imvakalelo endaziva ngayo, yonke into yayiluthando novuyo, ndalungisa ukutya, wafika Khange ndikwazi ukumelana nomnqweno wokumxelela kwaye kuye ndathi, uthando sikhulelwe ukubona ubuso bakhe obonwabileyo yeyona nto intle….
Yonke into yayihamba kakuhle kakhulu, isicaphucaphu, ukugabha kwam, yonke into …… ngesiquphe ndiyekile ukuziva ungonwabanga kodwa bathi bayahamba emva kwenyanga yesithathu kwaye ndaphantse ndafika kwinyanga yesi-3, ke ndacinga ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo, ndade ndafumana kuVavanyo lwam, xa besenza i-ultrasound ibiyinto eyothusayo, ukubona umntwana edada kwaye ugqirha esixelela, ukuba bayazisola kodwa ukuba siphulukene nosana lwethu, umyeni wam kwaye sothukile, sahlala iofisi yayikhala, ndandingazi ukuba ndicinge ntoni, ndandizikhathalela kakuhle, yonke into yayihamba kakuhle kakhulu, ibiyeyona nto imbi ebomini bam, eyona ntlungu inamandla bendikhe ndanayo, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku sele engumntu ngentliziyo yakhe, ugqirha wathi intliziyo yakhe ishiye ukubetha, andikholwanga, xa ndikhumbula enye, iinyembezi ziyaphuma, yiyo loo nto ndisazi yonke into yokuba bonke abo bafazi baweleyo baziva, kuba Ndiyazi ukuba iimvakalelo ziyafana okanye zibi. Oogqirha bandixelela ukuba ndineeveki ezimbini ndilindile ukuba umntwana uza yedwa, ukuba andinayo iyeza lokunyanga, kuye kwafuneka ndiye emsebenzini iiveki ezimbini nosana lwam olufileyo, bekusoyikeka ukwazi ukuba uselapho kodwa ndifile, yinto endiyaziyo ukuba ndingayichaza njani, kodwa iiveki ezimbini zadlula kwaye ixesha lam alizange lifike, ke umhla wokunyanga wawucwangcisiwe, mna ngaloo mihla ekuphela kwento endandiyifuna kukwenza uqhaqho kuba kwakuyinto yokufela ukholo ukuthwala usana lwam olufileyo ngaphakathi Kwam, ndandiphantse ndaneenyanga ezintathu ubudala, ndamthemba ugqirha wam ndacela kuThixo ukuba enze oko kwakuza kwenzeka …………
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Emva kweenyanga ezi-8 ndafumana usana oluhle, uyafana noyise, wandikhathalela kakuhle andizange ndiyeke ukuthatha i-multivitamin ngaphambi kokubeleka, sabulela uThixo kakhulu ngokusinika ithuba lokuba nalo mntwana mhle, xa umntwana wam Iinyanga ezili-18 ubudala, ndahlala ndikhulelwe kwakhona, ndonwabile kwaye kwiveki yesi-6, ndafumanisa ukuba ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic kwaye emva kweentsuku ezi-3 zeza kum ngokwendalo, nangona ngeli xesha ndibuhlungu, kodwa ndisafuna ukuba nomnye umntwana kwaye andizukuncama, ndiyazi ukuba uThixo mkhulu kwaye uzakundinika ithuba lokuba nomnye, yinto nje yomonde nokuphanda ukuba kutheni izinto zisenzeka, ndiphande kakhulu kumaphepha e-intanethi kwaye ayabalisa Kuninzi ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kunye nomgangatho weqanda kunye nedlozi, ke ivestigue Kuba umgangatho weqanda kunye nedlozi liphantsi, kuyacaca ukuba yonke into inento yokwenza nokutya, kungoku nje mna ngokobuqu, kuyo yonke into endiyifunayo nendinayo ndiyabona, ndiyathemba ukuba iyandisebenzela, ndithatha ioyile yeprimrose yangokuhlwa, m I-Ultivitamin kwaye ndizama ukutya okusempilweni kangangoko, umyeni wam uthatha i-Andean maca kwaye nguThixo kuphela ozakuthetha okokugqibela, emva koko ndiza kukuxelela ukuba kuzakwenzeka ntoni, sele iyinyanga oko kwenzeke kum kwezinye iinyanga ezimbini. Ndiza kuzama ...
Ukwanga kunye nokuwola okunamandla, amandla amaninzi
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Valeria
Ndididekile ngokwenene noku kulandelayo xa ugqirha okhethekileyo kwi-ultrasound esithi i-endometrium esembindini ye-11.6 mm ubukhulu emazantsi, ngaphandle komfanekiso ohambelana nokukhulelwa okungaphezulu okanye okulingana neeveki ezi-4, apha kubhekisa kwinto ethethayo
Molo, ndineminyaka engama-33 ubudala, oku kukukhulelwa kwam kwesibini.
Ukufumanisa izolo ukuba ndinayo le sac kodwa ngaphandle kwesisu, ndibuhlungu kakhulu
Amanqanaba e-HCG anyukile kwaye inyani kukuba andisaqondi nto.
Ukuba akukhulelwa, ndifuna ukuyiyeka le nto kuba undilindile
Ukukhathazeka kakhulu.
Molo, ndina-41, ndinonyana oneminyaka eli-14 ubudala kwaye basandula ukundifumana ukuba ndikhulelwe ngaphambi kweeveki ezisi-7 kwaye sibuhlungu ngoku andazi nokuba ndingaphinda ndikhulelwe na ... eli phepha ikhuthaza kakhulu ... uyazi ... Ndicela nje uThixo elinye ithuba ... lokuba ngumama .. kunye nabo bonke abantu basetyhini abanqwenela ukuba nabantwana kule minyaka… .. ndithandazeleni… ukwanga…
Molo KARI OSECOLOMBIA NDINOKHOLO OLUHLE NDITHATHA IMINYAKA EMI-2 UKUKHULELWA NDIYAZI UKUBA KUNOBUHLUNGU KODWA MENZELE IMPUMELELO EMININZI NDANDIKOYIKELA UKUKHULELWA KODWA UTHIXO KAKHULU UKUBA NDANDISE NDIBALELE NGISUKU LOKUZALELA SUSI NESITHATHU ME SUSI NDONWABELELE IMITHI YENYANGA EZITHATHU KWAYE YONKE INTO EGQIBELELEYO NGEYONA NTO INOKWENZEKA KUWE EMPILWENI NJENGOMFAZI UKWAZI UKUBA UNOMNTU OPHILAYO NGAPHAKATHI AKWAZI UKUBA KUVAKALELWA NJANI YINTO ENDIYENZAYO UKUBA NDIKUXELELE UKUBA UZAMA YONKE NGOKUPHELELEYO INQANABA LIYA KUKWENZELA UKUBA UTHIXO AKUSIKELELE
Molo, ndikhulelwe nangumbungu, kwiintsuku ezili-10 ezidlulileyo bendinonyango, kwaye ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndilinde ixesha elingakanani ukuze ndibuyele emsebenzini kunye nokuba kufuneka ndilinde ixesha elingakanani ukuqala kwakhona ubudlelwane bezesondo, ndiyifundile ukusuka kwi-10 ukuya kwiintsuku ezili-15 kodwa ndingathanda ukuqiniseka…
Molo, ndinayo ne-enba eshushu kakhulu, sele ndinamakhwenkwe ama-3 ebomini bam, ndaziva into enje kwaye nam ndingakhange ndilifumane ibanga, kubuhlungu oko, enkosi
Kulungile kwaye ndilahlekelwe yintandabuzo yokuba bendinayo kancinci kodwa bendifuna ukwazi ukuba ngaba abantu basetyhini abaphulukene nokuphuma kwesisu banokusela
Molweni, kwinyanga ephelileyo ndikhulelwe ndineqanda elineembumba, ibisesona sidaniso sikhulu ebomini bam kuba besonwabile ngalo mzuzu.Ugqirha wezinto eziphilayo wandixelela ukuba kufuneka ndilinde iinyanga ezintathu ukuze ndikwazi ukumitha kwakhona kwaye qala ngokuthatha i-3mg folic acid. Ndifuna kakhulu kwaye ndisoyika kwangaxeshanye ukuba sele ndikhulelwe kodwa kuhlala kulungile ukulinda kwaye ndinyamezele ukuze izinto zisebenze kakuhle ndifuna ukuxelela uninzi lwabo bafazi ukuba kwenzeke into efanayo kubo, kakhulu Ukunyanzelwa ukuba izinto zenzeke entweni kwaye enjalo mhlawumbi bekungcono ukuba yenzeke ngoluhlobo ngoba mhlawumbi ngewayephume nengxaki ethile, ukwanga okuninzi kunye namandla kubo bonke
Mholo! Njengawe, kutshanje ndifumene ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kwiveki ezisi-8, bafaka iipilisi zokuvula umlomo wesibeleko iintsuku ezi-2 emva koko benza unyango, ekuqaleni andizange ndibenebala elininzi kodwa ngomhla we-5 ndagxotha ezinye izithambisi ndaza ndaqala Ukopha ngamandla, ndikwabonisa iintlungu ezomeleleyo nokudumba esiswini nasemqolo, kwaye oku kube yiveki enesiqingatha eyadlulayo kwaye ndiziva ndikhathazekile, umbuzo wam ngulo: Ndizokuthabatha ixesha elingakanani oku kopha nale ntlungu kwaye ukudumba? ndincede Nceda
Molo, ndineminyaka engama-26 ubudala, ukukhulelwa kwam okokuqala ndaphulukana neeveki ezili-17 ngenxa yokwakheka okungalunganga kwimveku engekazalwa, yayilunyango olwanyanzeliswayo kwaye emva kweentsuku ezintathu baphinda-phinda kum ngentsalela yamathambo, emva kwonyango ababendithumele lona folic acid kwaye ulinde unyaka onesiqingatha ukuzama kwakhona, kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo ndikhulelwe kwaye kwiiveki ezisi-8 kwi-echo yokuqala wandixelela ukuba ndibanjiwe, emva kokunyanga ndiye ndashiyeka ndinentlungu eninzi, ukuba kufuneka ndenze ezinye izifundo, ndifumana iingcebiso kumaziko alungileyo kwesi sihloko, enkosi ………….
Molo, ndineminyaka engama-26 ubudala, ukukhulelwa kwam okokuqala ndaphulukana neeveki ezili-17 ngenxa yokwakheka okungalunganga kwimveku engekazalwa, yayilunyango olwanyanzeliswayo kwaye emva kweentsuku ezintathu baphinda-phinda kum ngentsalela yamathambo, emva kwonyango ababendithumele lona I-folic acid ndilinde unyaka onesiqingatha ukuzama kwakhona, kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo ndikhulelwe kwaye kwiiveki ezisi-8 kwi-echo yokuqala wandixelela ukuba ndiyimbumba, emva kokuba unyango lwalushiywe ziintlungu zangasese, Kuya kufuneka ndenze ezinye izifundo, ndifumana iingcebiso kumaziko alungileyo kwesi sihloko, enkosi….
Ndikunika isisombululo sabasetyhini abaye bahamba ngokukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic .. khangela uYesu Kristu umsindisi wethu wamkele ebomini bakho ukuba uya kwenza ummangaliso njengoko wenzayo kum .. UKristu uyaphila kwaye nguye kuphela onokukwazi Ndithuthuzele kwaye ndikuncede ukuwukhangele kwaye uya kuzibona iintsikelelo eziza kubakho ebomini bakho. U-Kristu uluthando kakhulu kangangokuba wasifela emnqamlezweni ngenxa yakho kunye nam .. UThixo akusikelele …………….
Molweni nonke, ndineeveki ezintandathu ndikhulelwe kwaye i-echo ayikhange ibone umbungu ... ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ngaba kusekho ithuba lokuba kukukhulelwa okuqhelekileyo hayi i-anembryonic ... ndibuhlungu kakhulu ndifuna ukuba yiyo!
NDINEVEKI ezisi-8 zokukhulelwa amawele, KODWA KWI-ECOGRAFU KUSENZEKA UKUBA OMNYE UYAQATSHELWA KANYE OKANYE AKUKHO, NDIYAZI UKUBA NGOKUQHELEKILEYO UMZIMBA OBHALASELWEYO UMLINDELE NGOBA KULONYAKA ODLULEYO NDABE NDIPHUMELEKILE. NDINGATHANDA UKWAZI UKUBA BUPHI UBUNGOZI BOMNTWANA WAM BUQHUBEKA NOKUBA NDINGENZA NTONI UKUFUMANA
Molweni ndinexhala kakhulu ngoFebruwari ndikhulelwe kwaye bendinemincili kakhulu ngosana lwam lokuqala kwaye ibikukukhulelwa okungaphefumlelwanga kwaye ndihlupheke kakhulu, ngokungakhathali ndaphinda ndakhulelwa kwaye ndothuswa kukuba yenye into yokukhulelwa kweembumba umbuzo wam uthi ukuba ndizokwazi ukuba nabantwana okanye?
Molweni, ndikhulelwe olohlobo, sele ndinabantwana ababini, kodwa ndineeveki ezi-6 ubudala.Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ingakheka ixesha elide na okanye inene ukukhulelwa ngaphandle komntwana ...
U-OLA NDINEMINYAKA EMI-16 NDAKHULELWA KODWA NGAPHANDLE KOKUBA NOMNTWANA KUFANELE BABE NELIFA, AKUKHO KUKHWENZE KAKHULU KUNYE NAM NGOKU NDIZAMA UKUKHULELWA NGENXA YOKUBA I-CHAVO YAM KI NDIYIMNTWANA KANYE KE NDINIKELA YONKE INTO YABESIFAZANE INELUNGELO LOKUPHUNYEZWA IZIPHUMO ZAKHE UBOMI BUYAQHUBEKA NDITHEMBEKILE KE KE NDIZA KUZA XA KUFUNEKILE.
Molweni mantombazana, njengawe, ndikhulelwe ama-2 anembryonic, inyani kukuba ndibuhlungu kakhulu kuba lelinye lawona maphupha am makhulu okuba ngumama. Umbuzo wam ngowokuba ingaba konke ukukhulelwa kwam kuya kufana okanye kukhuthazwa ntoni kum ukuba ndikhulelwe ngesiqhelo…. Ukwanga, uhambe
Mholweni…. Igama lam ndinguDaniela
Kwiintsuku ezi-2 ezidlulileyo bandixelele ukuba ndikhulelwe kwaye kufuneka benze unyango okanye bahlambe kwisibeleko esibuhlungu kakhulu ...
Molo, kwiinyanga ezine ezidlulileyo bendinokumitha kwesi sitayile kwaye ndiziva ndimbi KAKHULU NGENXA YONKE IZIPHUMO ENDANDINAYO ZOKUBA NOMNTWANA WAM WOKUQALA, NDANDINENYANGA EZIMBINI EDLULEYO NAXA NDANDISENZA UMBONO WANGOKUQHELEKILEYO WAYE WAQALA BENZE ISIPHUMO UKUPHEPHA IZIFO .. EMVA KWEENYANGA NDISOYISILE KWAYE YIYO LEYO NDIBALELE NGOKU NGENDLELA, NDIVA NGOKUBA YAYINGUMFAZI KUPHELA ONOKWENZEKA. KODWA KUNDENZA NDILUNGE UKWAZI UKUBA ANDIYODWA.
Molweni, ndineminyaka engama-21 ubudala, ndaye ndathatha iindlela zokufaka inaliti kangangeminyaka emi-5 emva koko ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndibanqumamise emva kweenyanga ezisi-8 ndenze iimviwo ndaza ndaphuma, ndandikhulelwe, kubonakala ukuba ndandiphilile de ngenye imini ndaqala ukopha ndaya Ugqirha bandixelela ukuba akukho mbungu waqwalaselwayo Babenam phantsi koqwalaselo kwaye ngosuku olulandelayo bandikhupha emva kweentsuku ezi-2 ndaphinda ndaqala ngokopha kwakhona ndaya kwagqirha kwakhona kwaye ndazixelela ukuba ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic, inyani Ngaba ndadana kakhulu xk ndandisele ndinombono, iqabane lam kunye nam Sagqiba ekubeni kwenziwe unyango.
Ndiyabona ukuba oku kuqhelekile kunokuba bendicinga
Ndifuna ukukhulelwa kwakhona kodwa ndiyoyika ukuba into efanayo izakwenzeka kum
Molo, kwiinyanga ezi-3 ezidlulileyo bendinonyango lokunyanga kwaye ngoku ndikhulelwe kwakhona, ndineeveki ezi-6 ubudala ngokutsho kukagqirha wam kwaye umbungu awuzange ubonwe, kuphela ingxowa leyo ilinganisa i-15mim. Umbuzo wam ngulo ... ukukhulelwa kweqanda? Ndicela undiphendule, ndinovalo kakhulu, ugqirha wam undixelele ukuba ndilinde iveki enye kodwa khange andinike themba.
Molweni mantombazana, ndinguKaren.
Ndikhulelwe kwaye ugqirha wam wamazinyo ngokwe-ultrasound, wandixelela ukuba ndingakhulelwa umntwana. Kuya kufuneka ndibenenye i-ultrasound kwiiveki ezimbini kamva ukuze ndiqinisekise. Nangona kunjalo ndiyaqonda ukuba ukuthanda kukaThixo kugqibelele ebomini bethu. Ukuba kunjalo, ndinombungu, ndingonwaba kunjalo, kodwa ukuba akunjalo, enkosi UTHIXO kuba ikwayintando yakhe, Akasiniki mithwalo inzima singenakukwazi ukuyithwala, kwaye sithathela ingqalelo usana ngalunye Ukuzalwa ayisiyiyo xa umntu eyifuna okanye eyicwangcisa, nokuba ubala kangakanani na, ukuba ayiyiyo injongo kaThixo. Hlisa umoya kwaye ucele uThixo ukuba enze ukuthanda kwakhe kuye ngamnye wethu.
Molo Karen, ndifunde nje okushicilele kweli phepha kwaye uluvo lwakho lubonakala luphumelele kakhulu kuba ndifundile ubungqina obuninzi obubhalwe apha kodwa akukho namnye owathethileyo ngentando kaThixo, ndiyathemba ukuba ngoku uphilile iindaba zakho. Kwaye ndachonga okuninzi nawe kuba kwimeko yam ukuba ukukhulelwa kwam kwafunyaniswa njenge-anembryonic, ngoku ukuba iinyanga ezi-6 zidlulile ndiza kuqala ukuzama kwakhona kwaye njengoko usitsho ndiyathemba kuThixo ukuba kukwizicwangciso zakhe apho kuya kubakho ixesha elizayo kum kodwa ngentsikelelo yokukhulelwa ngempumelelo. Ndikuthumela ukuwola okukhulu kunye neentsikelelo eziliwaka.
Kokokuqala ukuba ndikhangele into kwiwebhu kwaye ndiyifumana kulula kwaye ibhaliwe kwaye kulula ukuyiqonda.
Molo, ndiyakuxelela ukuba ndiye ndakhulelwa iziqu ezibini zilandelelana, kwiintsuku ezintlanu ezidlulileyo ndafumana unyango lokugqibela, nangona ugqirha wam esithi ndingakhulelwa ndonwabile, ndiziva ngathi andizukukufeza .. Kwaye kubangela ukuba ndikhathazeke ngokucinga ukuba ndiphinde ndibuyele kwinto efanayo.
Ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic phantse inyanga yoku, kwaye bendikhe ndabelana ngesondo kwiveki ephelileyo, ngaba oku kuyakuchaphazela ukucoceka kwesibeleko sam ngokukhulelwa okutsha?
molo kulungile ndifuna ukuxelela ukuba kwenzeke ntoni kum ..! Ndilahlekelwe ziinyanga ezili-10 ezidlulileyo kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ayifani namatyala abo endiwafundile kweli phepha, kodwa andikabinako ukoyisa ukulahleka kwam, nangona ndandineminyaka eli-15 ubudala, usana lwam my world, it was everything to me, I lost him to At 2months, utata wandibetha ndasokola kakhulu, wade wandenza ndakhetha phakathi kwakhe nomntwana ndakhetha usana lwam, xa ndalahlekelwa nguye ngesiquphe ligazi lam. Iqale ukuwisa ndaya ebathroom ndayomgxotha bendindedwa.ezintsuku zidlulileyo bendinamabala amancinci amdaka kwaye bendingayanga kwagqirha kuba bendicinga yinto eqhelekileyo .. esibhedlele bandiphatha kakubi, ndalila ndihluphekile kwaye nabahlobo bam kunye nosapho bandixelele ukuba "yonke into yenzelwa into, ibiyinto elungileyo" kodwa akukho mntu waziyo ukubandezeleka kukamama, ndisahlupheka yile yenzekileyo, enkosi kwabo bafunde uluvo lwam ...
Inyaniso yenyani koko ndikufundileyo kuya kufuneka ulinde iinyanga ezi-6 ukuze uphinde uchache, ndincoma ukuba uye kugqirha ...
MOLONI 9 KWIINYANGA EZIDLULE NDINENTOMBAZANE YENYANGA EZI-5 KODE BANDENZELE ILIFA LENKQUBO KWAKUNZIMA KUKUFUNEKA NDOYISE YAYIKUKUKHULELWA KWAM KWESIBINI KWAYE NDILINDELEKILE KAKHULU NGOBA NDINENTOMBAZANA YENYANGA EZI-3 XNUMX KWADLULA, NDAYA I-FOLIC YANDENZA I-DIOS.UVAVANYO LOKUKHULELWA KWAYE KWENZEKA NGOKUVUSELEKILE KAKHULU KODWA KWangelo xesha linye UKUFA KUKOYIKA KAKHULU KE ANDIFUNI UKUTHABATHA UMCIMBI WENKCUKACHA
Molweni zihlobo, nam ndigqithile kule 3 yeenyanga zandifumana ukuba akukho sana kwaye inyani bendiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu kuba ibilusana lwam lokuqala kwaye ndonwabile ngayo, mna nomyeni wam, ndicwangcisile Zama kwakhona oko iinyanga ezi-6 zidlulile. watsho ugqirha kodwa ndiyoyika kwa into efanayo ukuba yenzeke kum. Ndiyathemba kwaye uThixo undinika ulonwabo lokuba ngumama !!! Ukuba kukho umntu owaziyo unyango okanye into ndiyathemba kwaye angabelani ngayo ukuba uThixo uza kubathengisa bonke
Molweni nonke, namhlanje ndisekhaya ndiphumle kwinqanaba elalilungiselelwe ukukhulelwa umntwana, mhla ugqirha wandixelela ukuba ukopha kwam kungenxa yokuba ndandinoluhlobo lokukhulelwa, ndakhawuleza ndadibana ne-intanethi jonga intsingiselo, ndifuna ukukuxelela ukuba ukuba namhlanje asinalo ithamsanqa lokuba ngoomama, kungenxa yokuba uThixo wenze njalo, bendihlala ndikholelwa ukuba into eyenzekayo ukuba sifuna ukuzama ukukhulelwa okutsha kufuneka silinde de isibeleko sethu sichache kangangeenyanga ezi-6 ubuncinci sithathe iivithamini kwaye ngakumbi i-folic acid: yitya kakuhle, ziqhelanise nezifundo ngokubanzi kwaye unqwenela ngalo lonke uthando lwethu ukuba nomntwana ophilileyo.
Molo, uyazi ukuba ndinexhala kakhulu kwiminyaka esixhenxe eyadlulayo bandibopha, ngoku ndenza i-echo kwaye ndifumana isakram yokukhulelwa kwaye iiveki ezintlanu ndenza uvavanyo lokukhulelwa KUNYE NOKUQINISEKISA UKUBA ANDIKHO LUNGISELELO, ayisiyiyo yonke le mihlanu kwiminyaka eyadlulayo yaphuma ndenza okufanayo kwaye ndayenza ngesixhobo esinobunkunkqele kwaye bandixelela yonke into eqhelekileyo, ndiyathetha, bendingakhulelwanga konke konke, ndixelele ukuba kutheni lento isenzeka, iyakuba kuba zizixhobo ezindala, Ndixelele Nceda
Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kunyanzelekile na ukufumana unyango lwe-alhfun ukuze uphinde ukhulelwe emva kokukhulelwa
Molo IGAMA LAM NGUJULIA NDINEMINYAKA ENGAMA-20 NDINGathanda UKUBUZA UMBUZO… NGOKUBA KUFUNEKA NDIHLAWULE NJANI UKUBA NDINOKUBA NOKUBA NDIBANYE NEENTSANA EZIMBINI ... UKUKHULELWA NDINEMINYAKA ELI-17 KANYE NOKUKHULELWA KWAKUNGAPHUMELEKANGA NGOBA UGQIRHA WANDixELELA UKUBA UMNTWANA WAKWI-TUBE YAM KWAYE NDANDISELE NDISELE IINYANGA EZIMBINI ZOKUKHULELWA KWAYE YAYINGUMMANGALISO ENDANDINGAWUFI KE WAYE NDIFUNDA UKUBA ANDIKWAZI UKUKHULELWA NDINOKUHLALELE KUNYE NOBUDLELWANE AKUKHO UKUBA NDIHLAWULE IMALI ENINZI UKUZE NDIKHULELWE KWAYE INYANISO KUKUBA INQWENO YAM ENKULU YOKUBA NGUMAMA UKUZE NDIVELELE UKUBA YINTLUNGU XA KUNIKWA UKUKHANYA NOKUNINZI XA KUHAMBA NGAPHAKATHI ... I-AVRA INKQUBO ENOKUNDINCEDA UKUHLAWULA ZONKE IINDLEKO NDIHAMBE INYANGA NENYANGA NDIYOKUHLAWULA LEYO MALI. UKUBA UMNTU UYA NDIQONDA UKUBA NDIQHUBA NTONI NDICELA UNDIXELELE UKUBA NDINGAKUTHANDA NCEDA UTHIXO AKUSIKELE ...
Molo, bendineyeza lokunyanga kwiveki ephelileyo, bendineeveki ezisi-8 ndikhulelwe, kodwa ibiyingxowa kuphela ngaphandle kwesifo sentliziyo kwaye bendifuna ukwazi ukuba ingaba utata womntwana wam uzisebenzisile iziyobisi, inento yokwenza nokuba kutheni umntwana wam esenza Akalufezekisi uqeqesho lwakhe, enkosi
I had a embryonic pregnancy, umyeni wam uye watshaya intsangu ... andazi nokuba kufuneka abone na, imibuliso
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Ewe, ndinomdla kuphela kwisifundo
Kwaye ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba iipilisi ezicetyiswa ngugqirha zibizwa njani
kolu hlobo lokukhulelwa ...
Ndiyathemba ukuba ungandinceda, ndingayixabisa kakhulu
Molo ndineminyaka engama-27 ubudala kwaye kwiveki ephelileyo bandinike iindaba ezimbi zokuba ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic kwaye yayomelele kakhulu kum kuba yayikukukhulelwa kwam kwesibini kwaye ndilindelwe kakhulu kwaye ndizele zizinto ezingekhoyo, kwangoko ngosuku olulandelayo ndaziqhelanisa Unyango kwaye ndizamile ukuyithatha ndinethemba kodwa okwangoku ndiziva ndikhathazekile kwaye ndicinga ukuba andizukuphinda ndibenamandla okuba ndonwabe kwakhona ngethemba kwaye olu xinzelelo luza kundidlula kungekudala. Kude kube namhlanje bendicinga ukuba yenye yezimbalwa kodwa ndiyabona ukuba ayifani naleyo, inkuthazo kubo bonke abahamba ngokufanayo
Molo ndinguAlexx, ndinamayeza amathathu okunyanga kwaye ndimbi kakhulu, ndineminyaka emi-3 nditshatile kwaye khange sikwazi ukuba nosana olu-6, owokuqala ukuba bekukho umbungu, kodwa ukubetha kwentliziyo yabo akuzange kuviwe, kwaye ezi-1 zokugqibela zazingumbungu, ndinxunguphele, oomadikiso bandixelele ukuba mhlawumbi ndiyayazi ingxaki yemfuza, nceda, umntu onokundinceda, sendizokuqhawula umtshato kwaye ndiyayithanda Umyeni kwaye ndithi uyandithanda naye, kodwa andinakumgcina ecaleni kwam ukuba ndiyazi ukuba unonyana om-2 ndiziva ukuba angazingca kwaye acinge ngokufanayo nam. Sizi praktikado izifundo kwaye sobabini senze kakuhle, sifuna kuphela izifundo zofuzo
Molo, bandithumele ukuba ndenze ezinye izifundo, zinento yokwenza nokungabikho kweprojesterone kwaye kuyanyangeka ukubonana nogqirha wakho
Ndina-18 ukukhulelwa kwam kokuqala kodwa yayiyi-anembryonic, kwakufuneka benze unyango. Ngoku ndineminyaka eli-19 ubudala kwaye ndikhulelwe, kwiiveki ezi-5 ndaya kufakwa i-ultrasound kuba ndandineentlungu esiswini kodwa ndandingenagazi, undixelele ukuba ukukhulelwa kuhamba kakuhle, baphinde basete i-ultrasound yelungu lobufazi kangangeentsuku ezili-15, ngelishwa khange ndiyenze ngenxa yeengxaki zemali. Ngoku ndinenyanga ezintathu ubudala kwaye ndisenazo iintlungu kodwa azomelelanga ngobuninzi. Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba iintlungu kungenxa yokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ibe kukukhulelwa okungaphakathi emzimbeni? okanye kutheni iintlungu
Molo ndinguLaura. Inyanga kunye neentsuku ezili-13 ezidlulileyo ndafumana unyango, ndakhulelwa eyona nto imbi kakhulu kukuba unyaka neenyanga ezi-8 ezidlulileyo ndaphulukana nokukhulelwa phantse iinyanga ezisixhenxe, kuba iimpahla zam zazigqunyiwe ndingazi kwaye andinokwazi ukuqhubeka ukuhambisa igazi okanye uLutho kwaye andikukhulanga, bandenza imeko engxamisekileyo ye-cesarean kwaye bazalwa ngaphambi kwexesha kodwa abanamalungu akhulileyo, basweleka kwiintsuku ezi-7 emva kokuzalwa. Le yinto ebuhlungu kakhulu andiyinqweneli kolona tshaba lwam lukhulu ...... Ndiyoyika kakhulu ukungakwazi ukufumana umama kangangokuba yonke imihla edlulayo ndizinika isibambo esikhulu kangangokuba ndiyoyika kakhulu ndifuna ukuba ngumama, ndifuna ukuziva, ndifuna kwaye kuphela kwento endiyifunayo kobu bomi.
Molweni ndineminyaka engama-23 ubudala kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic kwiinyanga ezimbini emva kokwenza unyango bendiqala ukuya exesheni kodwa ndinezinto ezininzi zokuqaqamba kwaye ndineentlungu ezininzi ugqirha undithumele ukuba ndenze i-echo kodwa khange andixelele nto malunga kwenzeke ntoni le ingandinika ukhetho ?? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba kukho iintsalela? okanye kwenzeke into efanayo kwakhona? Ndikhathazeke kakhulu ngempilo yam kuba ndisene ntlungu
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Kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezidlulileyo ndikhulelwe.Ndaya kugqirha wam ndayokwenza i-ultrasound wandixelela ukuba akukho sisibeleko.Ndaphantse ndafa kuba kwakwenzeke into efanayo kum ngaphambili, ndandisoyika.Ndandineengcinga ezininzi zokuba ndingumama ndaze ndatshintsha i-gynecologist yam kuba bendinethemba lokuba ugqirha wam uyaphosisa, kodwa bekungekho njalo, kodwa ugqirha wam wamanje undichazile ukuba zinjani izinto kwaye ndizolile, ngoku ndinonyango mna nomyeni wam kufuneka ndiqhubeke, ke umyeni wam kufuneka afumane idlozi lobudoda …………… kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba yile nto ifunwa nguThixo …….
Molo, ndinguLuz Amelia kwaye ndiyayazi into ohamba kuyo, ndigqithe kwinto efana nawe. Ndifumene iintsuku ezi-2 ezidlulileyo ukuba ndikhulelwe kwaye buhlungu umphefumlo wam, besele ndinenyanga ezine, izolo bendineyeza lokunyanga kwaye umyeni wam akasafuni kuzama bonke abo bafazi abadlula kule nto, unganikezeli, ukukhanya okuthandekayo
Jonga, ndinokukhulelwa okubini ke andikabinamntwana kwaye bendincamile kodwa umyeni wam akandixeleli ukuba mandiphinde ndizame kodwa ndinayo iinyanga ezi-6 ubuncinci, kwaye enye ayincami apho ngaphandle nangaphantsi ukuba kukho ithuba lokuba nomntwana omhle beautiful
Molo KE TAL NGOMEYI 29 NDINOBUDLELWANE NOMNTU ENDIQHUMANA NAYE NGOMHLA WAMA-30 NDITHATHA IPILISI YOSUKU NGEXESHA EMALUNGA NE-14 KWI-HRS EMVA KOKUTHI NGEXESHA LAMA-72 HRS NDALINDELA UKULAWULWA KWAM NGOMHLA WE-18 EMVA KOKO KUNGENZEKI KONKE NDAGQIBA UKWENZA UVAVANYO LWEGAZI KWAYE KUKHONA OKUHLE NDAYA KWI-GYNECOLOGIST WAYE NDIXELELE UKUBA NDINOKUQINISEKA UKUBA NDINEVEKI EZI-4 KODWA KE NDINGABONI UKUBA I-EMBRYO KUPHELA I-SAQUITO KWAYE IYA KUBUYA KWIINTSUKU EZILI-14, NGABA INGABE NDINGAZIBAMBI?
Ngokukwanjalo, ndinokukhulelwa okungaphefumlelwanga.Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba zisebenza njani inaliti ye-oxytocin, kuba i-misoprostol ayisebenzi, ingaba unyango lwayo lungcono?
Ngokwamava am kungcono ukunyanga ngokukhawuleza, ngokukuko kwaye ngaphandle kweziphumo, kuba ukuba uthatha iipilisi kunye nenaliti, asazi ukuba umzimba wakho uzakuphendula njani kwaye ungaqhubeka nokopha njengoko kwenzekile kum kwezi zihlandlo zam zibini zokukhulelwa, zombini undinike iyeza 1 ergotrate kwaye Kwi cytotec ezi-2, ixesha lesi-2 belibi kakhulu, bendisathathe iyeza lokunyanga ukuze u-rekomiendo ngonyango ndiyathemba ukuba uphilile kuba inqaku libulisa inyanga enye
Molweni nam ndaye ndakhulelwa esibelekweni bendineyeza lokunyanga kwaye yonke into ihambe kakuhle ndilinde ixesha lam eliqhelekileyo kwaye akhonto kodwa ndiyabona ukuba ithatha ixesha elide.Ndinomntwana omabini mhle bendineenyanga ezimbini ubudala xa befumanise lengxaki ndingumhlolokazi umyeni wam uyasweleka kwaye izakuba nguThixo wayeyifuna lento kuba nguye yedwa onesiphiwo sokupha nokuthabatha.Ukuba ibibuhlungu kancinci ngoba kufana nokukhulelwa kodwa uThixo usindisa into ekhoyo , elidlulileyo nelizayo Asinakuba nenqala ngakuThixo kuba uyasazi xa simdinga uNyana kwaye uya kusithumela kuthi ngexesha elifanelekileyo.Ndandinamandla kakhulu kuba ndingumKristu kwaye uThixo undinike Uthando kwaye ngaphezulu koko, aluzange lundityhile kuba ungutata wethu ongumdali kwaye simonzakalisile oko sigqithe kuko-awukholelwa ukuba uThixo wakho ubasikelele bonke kwaye unokholo olukhulu kuye mbuze ngothando nangedini ukuba iya kukunika isicelo sakho.
Molo, ndineveki ezi-8 ndikhulelwe i-anti-embryonic kwaye bafuna ukuba ndilinde ezinye iiveki ezi-2 xa kunokwenzeka ukuba umbungu uvele, ingaba le nto ingenzeka ??? Nceda ubaphendule kuba andikwazi ukuba nabantwana ngenxa yecandelo lokubeleka ebendinalo apho intombi yam ineenyanga ezili-11 izelwe kwaye yiyo yonke into eyam…. Ngaba kufuneka ndiqhubeke ndisebenzisa izinto zokuthintela ukukhulelwa xa kunokwenzeka? ' enkosi ndineminyaka engama-25 ubudala
Molo, ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic kwaye ugqirha undixelele into enye nawe, ukuba ndilinde iiveki ezimbini ezingaphezulu ukuze ndikwazi ukujonga ukuba ingaba umbungu uyavela na. Ke ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ivele, kodwa ubuncinci kunokwenzeka.
Molo NAMHLANJE BATHATHE INDAWO YOKUSETYENZISWA KWAYE KUBONAKALISWE NDINESI-5 IIVEKI UKUKHULELWA KODWA KUPHELA KWESAKHA ESIBONAKALAYO KODWA I-EMBRYO AYENZIWA KWENZEKA. ENKOSI NGOKUPHENDULA KWAKHO
Ndidlule kwinto enye kodwa ndagqiba kwelokuba ndilinde, kuba ndandinemincili kwaye kwakubonakala ngathi ayinakwenzeka ukuba ndingabinayo imbungu kodwa ayizange ibonwe kwi-ultrasound ... kwaye ukuba ayenzekanga ekugqibeleni kwaye ndiyikhuphe ndedwa, Awudingi unyango ... ndicinga ukuba kwiiveki ezi-7 sele ibetha intliziyo kodwa ndikuxelele, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndilinde xa kubonakala ngathi ndiyigxothisile emva kweenyanga ezintathu (BATHI UMBUTHO WALA NGAPHAMBI KWEENYANGA EZI-3 UKUBA KUKHUNJULWA)
molo ndaye ndakhulelwa i-anembryonic wathi ugqirha mandilinde i2weeks enye kungabikho kwanto ndaye ndayoba ne-ultrasound kusithiwa ndineeveki ezili-12 ndikhulelwe kwaye kwakungekho nto kwaye ichaphazela. Ndangenelela kwaye ugqirha wamabhinqa wandixelela ukuba kufuneka ndibuyele ubuncinci i-6 okanye unyaka.
MHOLWENI !! Ndithwala ukukhulelwa okungu-2 aneombratic kubo bonke, ixesha le-2 bekufana neenyanga ezi-3, bandixelele, ndiza kulinda ukuba ndibone ukuba kuyavela, kodwa ixesha lam lokugqibela lalingoJanuwari kwaye ngoMeyi ndiza kuqhubeka ndilinde, ndilinde emva koko akukho nto iqala ukopha kancinci m kubangele ukukhupha isisu okanye ukugxothwa ngepilisi ezithile ze-cytotec andikukhuthazi kuwe, kuba ibuhlungu musho, ngaphandle kwaleyo ndiye kwi-inshurensi ngaphezulu kweeveki ezi-2 ndisopha kakhulu oko akuzange kuyeke kwaye ndicinga ukuba yayizi-spastillas okokoko ndandiqala ukufumana unyango kodwa yayingebuhlungu njengaleli xesha, ndifuna ukubuza amanye amantombazana avela ku-aki k ukuba sele befumene ukukhulelwa okuqhelekileyo kwaye umntwana wabo
Molo, kulungile, jonga, ukuba kuyamangalisa na ukuba bangaphi abantu basetyhini oku kwenzekayo kuthi, njengoko ndibathanda bonke, bendicinga ukuba yiyo yodwa kwaye kuyamangalisa kuba ndilinde ukwazi ukuba kukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kuba malunga neveki edlulileyo bendine-ultrasound efanayo nayo Yonke into oyibonayo kuphela ingxowa kodwa hayi umntwana kwaye ugqirha uthe ulinde malunga neeveki ezi-2 kodwa ngokunyanisekileyo andifuni ukuba nemibono yokuba ummangaliso ungenzeka ndinayo ukulinda ndilinde kwaye ixesha likhangeleka lingunaphakade ... lo ingangunyana wam wesibini kuba owokuqala uneminyaka emi-4 ubudala, iyakuba kukuba ixesha lihambile lokukhulelwa ????
Igama lam ndinguRosario, ndiyamangaliswa ngenani lamatyala, kuba inyani kukuba andikaze ndicinge ukuba ndiza kuba kule meko, kuba bendineyeza nje lokunyanga, kude kube ngoku ndicinga ukuba ndim unobangela, ukungagcini ukuphumla, njengoko kuchaziwe ngugqirha wam, kodwa xa ndenza i-ultrasound kwiiveki ezi-6 umbungu awuzange ubonwe, kwaye ugqirha wandixelela ukuba isikhupha se-yolk sasilimele ngenxa yokungabinayo imbumba, umbuzo wam ngulo, Ndiyakuxelela futhi ukuba xa ilixesha lokumgxotha ndandinentlungu yokuqaqanjelwa kwaye kwisithuba seeyure ezi-2 ndigxotha yonke into kwaye xa besenza unyango kwakungekho phantse nto. Anjani amava amabi andicingi ukuba ndizakuzama ukumitha kwakhona. Nangona kunjalo, kwabo bazama oko, ndiyathemba ukuba ihamba kakuhle ngoncedo lukaThixo.
Ngu-MARLENY nge-3 ka-Agasti ngo-2011 ngo-6: 38 pm ndicela undixelele .. Bekunjani? Wathini ugqirha? Ukuba ungabona umbungu ??? Ndiza kulinda impendulo yakho, enkosi kakhulu
Ndidinga uncedo ndicinga ukuba ndinetyala elifana neli elinye kuba ngokweakhawunti ibinokuba phakathi kweeveki ezi-5 ukuya kwezi-6 kwaye i-ultrasound yam ithi ayibonakali ngathi ziiveki ezintathu kwaye kuvavanyo lwam oluninzi ithi ndineeveki ezi-3 zokuba ugqirha wam adlule Uthi kukukhulelwa okungazukukhula kwaye ufuna ukuba ndikhuphe isisu kodwa andazi ukuba ndenzeni okanye ndilinde okanye ndenze kuba ndininzi yeentlungu esiswini sam
Molo ndikhulelwe embryonic kwiminyaka emibini edlulileyo kwaye ngoku ndikhulelweyo ndaya kwi-ultrasound yokuqala kwaye yonke into yahamba kakuhle kodwa ndinokopha kancinci ndaya kwenye i-ultrasound kwaye ugqirha wandixelela ukuba ndikhulelwe umbungu kodwa ndinamathandabuzo, kwixesha elidlulileyo basuse isiqu esifanelekileyo kwaye ngeli xesha ngokwe-ultrasound umntwana ukwicala lasekunene, inyani kukuba, ndibhidekile kakhulu, ndiyathemba ukuba izimvo, enkosi
Molo, ndineminyaka engama-32 ubudala, yayikukukhulelwa kwam okwesithathu apho ezimbini zokugqibela yayikukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo, umyeni wam kwaye sasifuna olu sana kakhulu, kuye kwanzima kakhulu ukwenza njalo, ndiyoyika kakhulu ukucinga ukuba Andizokwazi ukuba neebbs ezininzi, ugqirha wam wezigulana wandithumela iimviwo ezizodwa kwaye ndithetha ukuba = i-hematologist kunye ne-geneticist kodwa ndiyoyika kakhulu, andinakuba nee-bbs ezininzi ???? 🙁
Ewe, ndaye ndakhulelwa esibelekweni kwiinyanga ezi-5 ezidlulileyo .. ngalo mzuzu kwaye kungekapheli neveki egqithileyo ndafumanisa ukuba ndikhulelwe kwakhona, kodwa kweli ityeli iyakuba kukumitha namawele… Ndiyoyika ukuba into enye yenzekile kwakhona ndineminyaka eli-19 ubudala kwaye .. Ngexesha le-ultrasound, akukho mbungu wabonwa kuyo nayiphi na ingxowa, abathi bandixelela ukuba kungenxa yeminyaka ephantsi yokukhulelwa (abangakhange bayibonise kuba ayihambelani nge amenorrhea) kodwa uloyiko lwam luyaqhubeka ukuba ndiza kubuya ndiphinde ndenzeke kwakhona .. umbuzo wam ngowokuba ukuba iyaphindwa na le nto .. ngaba izifundo zofuzo ziyaqhubeka mna neqabane lam? ¿? Okanye ngaba iya kuba ndim ndinengxaki ... ucinga ukuba yayihlala isibini esinye?
Enkosi kakhulu ngendawo .. ukuza kuthi ga ngoku andifumananga lwazi malunga noku!
molo .. kulungile ndikhulelwe olu hlobo kwiinyanga ezi-5 ezidlulileyo kwiveki ye-10 ndinonyango. Namhlanje ndine-amenorrhea yeeveki ezisi-7 bendine-ultrasound kwaye iimbumba azibonwa kuba zibonakala zingamawele…. Ndixelelwe ukuba inokuba kungenxa yeminyaka ephantsi yokuthwala .. kuba oku kungangqinelani ne-amenorrhea, uloyiko lwam kukuba into efanayo izakwenzeka kum kwakhona ... ngalo mzuzu bandinike ukuphumla x bendinaye Ilahleko .. andisayi buhlungu okanye andinanto ibothusayo, kufana nokuba yonke into izolile .. kodwa into enye inokwenzeka kum kabini ngokulandelelana? Ke ngoku kuxhomekeka ekubeni yonke into ihamba njani ... kufuneka ndenze isifundo esidityanisiweyo semfuza kwi-preja yam okanye ingxaki yeyam? (kuthathelwa ingqalelo ukuba kuyafana kuwo omabini la mathuba)
Enkosi ngendawo .. ndiyifumana iluncedo kakhulu .. kwaye ndijonge impendulo! Ukwanga !!
NGABA KUNOKWENZEKA UKUKHULELWA KWEGAZI NANGONA UKUKHULELWA UKUSUKA KWIVEKI EZILI-17 KUYA KU-19? NDicela undiphendule
Molweni nonke. Lihlazo ngokwenene ukuba akukho mntu unomdla wokuphendula nayiphi na imibuzo eboniswe apha.
UAlexis, malunga nombuzo wakho ukuba kunokwenzeka. Ngokuqinisekileyo khange uye kwiveki yesixhenxe okanye yesibhozo kwaye yiyo loo nto ungaqondanga ukuba akukho nto iseleyo ukuba uyenze. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha umzimba uthatha ixesha elide ukufumanisa ukuba iyimveliso engenanto kwaye yiyo loo nto ingayisusi. Sele ndikhulelwe. Eyokuqala yayineenyanga ezintathu ngaphakathi kwam kwaye andikhange ndibone, ndicinga ukuba yonke into ilungile. Ndaye ndopha kancinci, ndaya ku-dr. Kwaye apho bandibhaqa ukuba kwiiveki ezidlulileyo isikhwama besifile senziwe njengegazi, ndaye ndakhupha isisu kwangoko emva koko benza ukucoca nge-aspiration. Wayeneminyaka engama-28 ubudala. Ngoku ndineminyaka engama-36. I-ultrasound yokuqala yangemva kobufazi yenziwa phakathi kweveki yesi-4 neye-5 kwaye kuphela ingxowa yokukhulelwa yaphuma ngaphandle kwembungu. Baye bandinika ezinye iintsuku ezisi-8 zokufumana enye i-ultrasound kwaye ingxowa ibikhule ngokungaqhelekanga, ibingeyonto ingqukuva kodwa inde njenge-amorphous enesahluko esingaqhelekanga embindini. Okwangoku akukho manyungu. Ndandinayo enye i-ultrasound kwiveki yesixhenxe kwaye akukho mbungu. Ndineeveki ezisi-8 ubudala kwaye ngomso ndineyeza lokunyanga. Ingxowa yam iphazanyisiwe kwaye ilinganisa i-2 cm kwaye awukwazi ukubona umbungu. UThixo uyavuma kwaye yonke into ihamba kakuhle kwonyango lwam ngomso. Eli lixesha lam lesibini ndinengxaki efanayo kwaye ndineminyaka engama-36 ubudala. Abo banamathandabuzo, eyona nto isempilweni kukuba bazazise kakuhle kwaye baphande kwaye nceda uye ngokukhawuleza kugqirha ukuze ususe onke amathandabuzo kwaye ungaqhubeki uchitha ixesha.
Molo ndineminyaka eyi-19 kwaye ndinesisu sokukhulelwa, ndiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu kwaye sele ndikhulelwe okokuqala, ngayo yonke into endiyifundileyo ndiyaqonda ukuba le yinto rhoqo kodwa kwangaxeshanye ichaphazela kakhulu, ndiphulukana ne-2 ekografiaz okoko ndineZemanaz eziyi-8 zokukhulelwa kwaye bafumanise ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic, ndicela uzieger zaber zi ezto izakundichaphazela ekuhambeni kwexesha zi ndizokwazi ukuphinda ndikhulelwe kwakhona rezpondame kwaye tb undixelele ukuba njani ezonyango. enkosi
Molo, igama lam ndinguPriscilla kwaye ndineminyaka engama-30 ubudala… Ndikhulelwe ama-3 esesiswini. amatyeli amabini ndiye ndenziwa utyando kwaye okwesithathu kwaye okokugqibela kwenzeka ngamabona ndenzile. Yonke inzima kakhulu kuba ndifuna ukuba ngumama. Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ndiye ndaqala ukuziva kakubi kwaye ndenza uvavanyo kwaye ndikhulelwe. Ndimele nditsho ukuba hayi ngovuyo, ngumzuzu wokuba uloyiko lwakho lomelele ukuba kwenzeke okufanayo. Ndenze i-echo kwiiveki ezisi-7 kwaye ngaphandle kokufuna ukujonga iscreen… ndimamele intliziyo yakho !!!!
Namhlanje ndineeveki ezili-11 ndikhulelwe kwaye yonke imihla kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha ndibulela uThixo ngesi sipho sihle andithumele sona, intandabuzo isaqhubeka…. Ewe kulungile. Ngaba ikhona into eyakwenzeka? Ndiyazi nje ukuba ndiyathemba ukuba yonke into izakulunga.
Ndiyathemba ukuba unoxolo oluninzi entliziyweni yakho ngeli xesha linzima, ndicinga ukuba imvakalelo efanayo iyasimanya sonke. YIBA NOKHOLO ... Okwangoku, andinaxesha limnandi, ndigabha kakhulu kwaye ndinesicaphucaphu …… kodwa ndingabachitha ixesha lesigidi ukuze baphile la mava amnandi.
Ukwanga kunye nothando kuye ngamnye wenu.
UPriscilla Orellana
molo priscilla… igama lam ndinguKeyla bendifuna ukuhalalisela usana olusendleleni kwaye ndikunqwenelela iintsikelelo ezininzi… Ndidlula kwinto efanayo yayikukukhulelwa kwam kokuqala kwaye ngomso ndiza kwenza unyango ... ndininqwenelela lonke ithamsanqa emhlabeni kwaye ndiza kucela kuThixo ukuba yonke into ihambe kakuhle xa ukhulelwe ………… cdt…
Ndiyakuvuyela! Ndineminyaka engama-34 kwaye ibikukukhulelwa kwam kokuqala, kuyekile ukukhula kwiveki yesine okanye yesihlanu, ndilinde umzimba wam ukuba uwukhuphe kwaye ndiyaphambana, andazi nokuba ndizokwazi ukuba nabantwana kamva. Ndikunqwenelela okuhle kodwa ukuze umntwana wakho azalwe esempilweni kwaye emhle!
Molo Priscila !!, ukufunda amava akho kwandinika ithemba, ndaye ndakhulelwa imithambo yesi-2, ndineminyaka emi-4 nditshatile kwaye sinqwenela ngentliziyo ukuba sibe ngabazali ... Ndiyoyika ukudlula kwinto enye kodwa thina Ndifuna ukuqhubeka ndizama, ndingathanda ukuba usixelele ukuba ukhulelwe njani, ndifunde yonke into ndikhangela umntu oza kuthi emva kokudlula kule meko imbi, ndiphumelele kwaye ndikufumene ukukhulelwa okuqhelekileyo ... ukwanga kubo bonke
Ndilahlekelwe ziinyanga ezili-11 ezidlulileyo, bendineenyanga ezi-2 ndikhulelwe, bandixelela kuphela ukuba umntwana akanasigqi sentliziyo, emva koko omnye ugqirha wezamazinyo wandibona wandixelela ukuba bendisandula ukwenza ubunzima kwiveki ephelileyo, benze uphononongo kwaye bandixelele ukuba umlomo wesibeleko udumbile. Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba ndinokuba nakho na ukukhulelwa okunempilo ngaphandle kwengxaki zomngcipheko kwaye kufuneka ndilinde ixesha elingakanani ukuze ndikwazi ukubuya?
Molo Xotchitl!
Ngoku ukuba uyayazi ingxaki, kunokwenzeka ukuba ngonyango kunye naphantsi kolawulo unokufumana ukukhulelwa okukhuselekileyo kwakhona, yinto ekufuneka ayixelelwe ngugqirha wakho. Ndiyathemba ukuba uza kuyifumana kungekudala; )
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Mholweni..
Ngoku ndityiwa yimeko enje… kunzima kakhulu ukwazi ukuba ukhulelwe kwaye awukho… ndinenyanga ezimbini ezinesiqingatha ubudala… kwaye bazakuba sisixhobo sokunyanga….
Molo Keyla,
Ndiyaxolisa ngemeko yakho, kufuneka ibenzima. Ndiyathemba ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle ngomso kwaye ungakhulelwa msinyane. Umonde kunye nesibindi!
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MOLWENI UTHIXO ANISIKELELE NONKE. KUFUNEKA NDIFUMANE UKUBA NDINESIVUMELWANO ESIKHULULEKILEYO NDINEVEKI EZISI-7 UKUQALA KWENKQUBO YOKUPHILA KWIIVEKI EZI-2 NDINGABONI BESIBINI NGOKO KWIVEKI YESI-7 KWAKUFANEKA NDIYOYIKE UKUFUMANA ILIFA LEYO NAZO TOO MAYELANA NATHI SIBUHLUNGU NENDODA YAM YIYO LEYO NDINEMINYAKA EYI-25 KUNYE NOKULAWULWA KWE-ILUSIONART ZONKE NE-BB YAKHO NOKUNYE OKANYE UKUBA KUFUNWA NENYANISO YOKUQALA ... =)
Molo Mely,
Ndiyaxolisa kakhulu ngokukhulelwa kwakho esibelekweni… Umonde kunye nenkuthazo eninzi, ngokuqinisekileyo uza kulifumana kungekudala olu sana ulifunayo; )
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Molo, ndonwabile ukufumana indawo apho sonke sinento esifana ngayo, yenzekile kum kwiinyanga eziyi-8 ezidlulileyo kwaye ndakufumanisa ukuba ndicinga ukuba yenzeke kum kuphela, bendisoyika kakhulu, kakuhle nesiqhelo Sele ndiyoyisile kodwa ndisenawo amathandabuzo Ukuba izakuphinda yenzeke kum okanye iyakuba yintoni imiphumo okanye kutheni yenzekile kum? Ukubulisa kubo bonke kwaye uThixo akusikelele
AMI KWAKWENZIWA KANYE KUM IINYANGA EZINTATHU ZIDLULE NGOKU NDIFUNA UKUKHULELWA KWAKHONA KODWA NDIYE NDOYIKE KAKHULU UKUBA UMDLALANE WAM WENZE NGALINYE XA NDANDINOMNYE UMNTU KWIMINYAKA EMIBILI EDLULEYO, ANDAZI UKUBA NDENZA NTONI BANDICWABISE NAM Andazi ukuba yena okanye ndonile
Molo Kari!
Okokuqala, thatha ixesha lakho, phumla wena kunye nalowo sele udlule kwinto enye kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba nzima kuye. Funa uncedo kwezonyango, mhlawumbi bangasifumana isizathu soku kwaye kungathintelwa ngonyango oluthile okanye ukulandelelwa okwenziwe ngokobuqu.
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Kwenzeka into efanayo kum ngoFebruwari walonyaka bandicoca, ndazihoya iinyanga ezintathu ngenaliti oko bandixelela ukuba kufuneka ndilinde ngoku ndizama ukumitha kwakhona kwaye sekuphele iinyanga ezi4 Ngoku ndizama kwaye akukho nto kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba uThixo uza kundisikelela nangona inyani ndiyoyika ukuba into enye izakwenzeka kum
Nceda undincede, andazi ukuba kutheni xa ndimitha, ndiyifumana isisu se-fustro sokumitha amaxesha ama-3 aphulukene nam ngenxa yetyala elinye, nceda, ndifuna uncedo, ndifuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni oku kuyenzeka kum, enkosi
Molo uCarla!
Ndicela uxolo ngento ohamba kuyo, zinzima kakhulu ezi zinto. Ukuba sele yenzekile kuwe amaxesha ama-3, oogqirha kufuneka benze iimvavanyo ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni le nto isenzeka kuwe kwaye banokufumana isisombululo. Ndiyathemba ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle kwaye kungekudala ungonwabela ukukhulelwa okuhle.
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Molo, ngoku ndityiwa yinto enye bendinemincili malunga nonyaka ophelileyo ndaphunyelwa sisisu kwaye ngoku ndinemincili andiqondi bendicinga ukuba ukusukela kusuku lokuqala kwabakho ubomi kodwa andikho njalo Kubuhlungu kodwa ngoku ndiyayiqonda ngcono
Molo unjani?
Ndineminyaka engama-24 ubudala, abantwana abayi-2, ndandikhulelwe njengawe nge-05 kaSeptemba, ndaqala ukopha kwaye benza unyango nge-06, ndaziva ndibuthathaka kakhulu ndisoyika kakhulu, kuba ndandingazi ukuba bazakundinika umsebenzi Iintlungu njengokunye ukukhulelwa kwam, bendinokusikwa nokuba kunjani, bandenza ndaziva ndonwabile kwaye benza iCurettage, Enkosi Thixo ndilungile. Andisaqondi ukuba kwakutheni ukuze kungabikho sana, ngoba kutheni? Ndingathini ukuba ndingaphinda ndikhulelwe? Umlingane wam mdala kum andazi nokuba oko kunefuthe ... kundenzakalise kakhulu ukuphulukana naye kuba bendicwangcisile ngendlela engazange ibekho ngaphambili, ebesele enegama lakhe ekugqibeleni, ndicinga ukuba uyandiqonda ... Ndiyathemba ukufumana impendulo, imibuliso kubo bonke kunye nenkuthazo. Enkosi Thixo siyaphila !!
Molo, andazi kwenzeka ntoni ekukhulelweni kwam, ndilahlekelwe zii-2, enye yeeveki ezili-11 ethi ukuba ndive ukubetha kwentliziyo yakho kwiiveki ezisi-8 nakwiiveki ezili-11 bandenzele unyango, makudlule unyaka, ndaphinda ndakhulelwa ugqirha wamazibuko wandingqinela kwaye wandixelela ukuba ndimncinci kakhulu ukuba ndimlinde ukuba akhule kwaye emva kweentsuku ezintathu ndikhuphe isisu, oku kumitha kufuneka ndisebenzise amayeza ukuze ndikwazi ukuwufezekisa, ndaqala ukuzikhathalela, iinyanga zidlulile kwaye ekubekweni kweliso ndikhulelwe kodwa sixhalabile ukuba ugqirha wamazinyo wenze uvavanyo lobufazi kwaye kuvela ichaphaza leeveki ezi-6 kwaye benza uvavanyo lwegazi oluninzi kwaye inika isiphumo sokukhulelwa kwiiveki ezi-2 kwaye uthe ulinde kancinci Kude kube kudala ukubona ukuba iyakhula, sinexhala lokuba ayizukuhambelana ezi mvavanyo zimbini Ngaba umntu angandinceda ndicacise amathandabuzo am?
Molo Amparo
Inyani yile yokuba andinakukuxelela ngokuthe ngqo ukuba kutheni lo mahluko ubonakala, leyo yinto ugqirha wakho wezifo zabasetyhini kuya kufuneka ukuba ahlahlele ngoxolo lwengqondo. Ndicinga ukuba khange bazenze iimvavanyo zokufumanisa ukuba kutheni na ukukhupha izisu kuvela. Ndiyathemba ukuba ayizuphinda yenzeke kwaye ngeli xesha ungonwabela ukukhulelwa okuzolileyo, kodwa ukuba kuyenzeka kuwe, khumbula ukuba ukusukela ekuphumeni kwesithathu, oogqirha banyanzelekile ukuba benze iimvavanyo ukuze bafumanise unobangela wokuqhomfa (eSpain, e amanye amazwe andiwazi).
Ukubulisa kwaye yonke into ihamba kakuhle
Molweni… Ndineminyaka engama-26 ubudala kwaye kwisisu sam sesibini kuye kwavela ukuba bekungekho siswini. Ndineyeza lokunyanga kwaye iveki idlulile kwaye ndisenayo ilahleko, encinci, kodwa ekugqibeleni ndilahlekile, ngaba umntu angandixelela ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo? Enkosi
Molo Roxana
Ukuba ilahleko zincinci akufuneki ukuba ukhathazeke, mhlawumbi udityanisiwe nomhla obelifanele ixesha lakho ngawo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyabona ukuba ithatha malunga neentsuku ezi-4 ngaphezulu, ungaya kugqirha uqinisekise ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle.
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Enkosi ngempendulo, ndihlala ndizolile kancinci kwaye ke ndiza kudibana nodokotela wam wamabhinqa, enkosi kakhulu
Molweni, ndineeveki ezi-6 ndikhulelwe kwiveki yesi-4 ndiqale ngokopha okumdaka, ndiye kwangoko kwigynec ndenza i-ultrasound wandixelela ukuba azikho iintsana ezi-2 ebendizilindele kodwa zintathu, amanye amawele nenye enye, mna I know from the first ultrasound that was more than 3 but never imagine 1, kuphela usana oluva ukubetha kwentliziyo lodwa kwaye amawele akhonto, omnye ugqirha wandixelela ukuba ziziphumo zokukhulelwa kwegazi, ndiyaqhubeka nokopha nangona Kancinci, ndiphumle ngokungenasiphelo kangangeentsuku ezili-3 kwaye ndithatha i-geslutin, i-dactil ob, iivithamini zam rhoqo kunye nesibulali zintsholongwane sephepha lokuchama umbuzo wam ngulo: ingaba ukopha kulungile kuba kuthetha ukuba ndilahla amawele angakhange afezekiswe? Iya kuchaphazela kangakanani umntwana ukuba ijongeka intle? Inyani yile yokuba ndifa kukoyika kwigazi ngalinye ndicinga okona kubi kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ayincedi kodwa andikwazi ukunceda, enkosi.
Molo carmen
Inyani yile yokuba la matyala anqabile kwaye kuphela ugqirha wakho wezifo zabasetyhini okubonileyo kwaye oyaziyo imeko yakho uya kuba nakho ukukuxelela ukuba ukopha kwamawele kuza kuchaphazela omnye umntwana okanye akunjalo. Ukuba ukuxelele ukuba ugcine ukuphumla ngokupheleleyo, umphulaphule phantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko, ucele uncedo ukuba kukho imfuneko, mhlawumbi ukuphumla kuya kuthintela ukukhulelwa komzimba engaphazamisi omnye umntwana.
Imibuliso, ukuba yonke into ihambe kakuhle kwaye ukuvuyisana nokukhulelwa kwakho )
Molo, ndadlula kwinto enye kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, ibikukukhulelwa kwam okokuqala kwaye bendinemincili kakhulu, bebesebenzisa unyango kwaye bendiphola kancinci kancinci, mna nomyeni wam besonwabile kwaye inyani kukuba Ndiyathanda ukuzama kwakhona kodwa ndiyoyika ukuba iphinda yenzeke, ndingathanda ukuba omnye wenu andinike ingcebiso, ndingayivuyela kakhulu, enkosi.
Elona cebiso lilungileyo sinokukunika lona lokomelela kunye nomonde. Siyazi ukuba zilahleko ezinzima kakhulu kodwa kukho abantu ababhinqileyo abakwazileyo ukuba nosana lwabo emva kokuba bekhuphe isisu esi-2 okanye esi-3, kwaye ukuba banako, nawe unako. Musa ukoyika, yomelela kakhulu!
Kulungile :
Ndidinga uncedo!!!!! Ndineyeza lokunyanga kwinyanga ephelileyo kwaye ndalala kwiintsuku ezilandelayo ze-15 !!!!! kwaye andikayi exesheni …… ..Umbuzo wam ngowokuba ingaba ndingamitha na?
Molo carmen,
Ukuba i-ejaculation ayenzekanga ngaphandle, ewe, kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe.
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Mholo! Igama lam ndinguQuela, ndineminyaka engama-28 ubudala kwaye ndingathanda, ukuba kunokwenzeka, ukuba umntu owaziyo ngengxaki yam anike uluvo ngayo.
Ngaphezulwana kwinyanga ephelileyo ndikhulelwe kwi-IVF. Kwakungokokuqala ukuba ndenze olu nyango lokunyanga kwaye inyani yayindivuyisa kakhulu xa iintsuku ezili-15 emva kokudluliswa kombungu bandinika iindaba zokuba ndikhulelwe. Nangona kunjalo, malunga neeveki ezi-5 i-hormone yokukhulelwa yehlile kwaye kwafunyaniswa ukuba ndikhulelwe ngendlela engaqondakaliyo ukuba andazi nokuba iyafana ne-anembryonic. Sekuphantse iveki ukusukela kwiindaba kwaye bebendibeka esweni kuvavanyo kunye nee-ultrasound ukuqinisekisa ukuba i-hormone yehla iye kumanqanaba angakhulelwanga. Ngaphandle kokuya phambili, namhlanje ndiye ndafumana uhlalutyo lokugqibela kwaye ndilinde iziphumo.
Oogqirha banethemba, kuba bayayiqonda into yokuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ndikwazile ukukhulelwa ukusuka kumzamo wokuqala kwaye bandixelela ukuba yayingengxaki yomzimba wam kodwa ukuba umbungu wawungeyiyo yonke into elungileyo umgangatho ekufanele ukuba ubekho kuba bayazi ukuba ngexesha lenkqubo yokukhuthaza iihomoni kunye ne-ovari kukho ukungalingani okuncinci kwehomoni okubangele ukuba umbungu ube nomgangatho ophakathi kuphela; Ngosuku lokudluliselwa kwembungu, isazi sebhayoloji sixelele umyeni wam kunye nam ukuba ukuba kukho ixesha elizayo kuyakufuneka kulungelelaniswe idosi yehomoni. Ndiyaqonda ukuba oku kunokwenzeka ikakhulu kuba ndiyazi ukuba ngee-ovari ze-polycystic ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kakhulu ukulawula i-ovulation.
Ngokunxulumene noko ndikuxeleleyo andithandabuzi, kodwa nangona kunjalo kufuneka nditsho ukuba khange ndibenalo naluphi na uhlobo lokopha kwaye andazi ukuba oku kuqhelekile okanye akunjalo. Kwelinye icala, ugqirha undixelele ukuba akusoloko kuyimfuneko ukuvelisa ukopha ukususa umbungu emzimbeni, ngakumbi xa umncinci kakhulu, kwelinye icala, ngalo lonke ixesha kufuneka ndiye kuvavanyo lwegazi ukujonga ukwehla okuthe gca koxinzelelo lwegazi.Ihomoni ekhulelweyo (namhlanje eyokugqibela) abongikazi bandibuza ukuba ndophile na, ndiphendula ndathi hayi. Kuyenzeka ukuba kupheliswe umbungu ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi kweeveki ezine ngaphandle kokopha kwaye kwanele ngokuhla okuqinisekileyo kokukhulelwa kwehomoni ukwazi ukuba umzimba uyisusile?
Enkosi! Ndiyabulisa!
ps: Uxolo andinakukwazi ukugxininisa amagama kodwa ndihlala phesheya kwaye ikhibhodi yekhompyuter ayikuvumeli oko!
Molo uQuela,
Kukho amaxesha apho umzimba unokuzifunxa ezo seli zazizakwenza umbungu. Kukho izifundo ezenziwa ngabantu abangamanxele umzekelo, uninzi lwabo ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa lwalukhatshwa ngomnye umntwana, kodwa lo wanyamalala engakhange abonakalise mpawu. Njengoko uchaziwe kakuhle, ukuphuma kwesisu kuvela ngenxa yokunqongophala komgangatho, oku kunokwenzeka nakweliphi na ibhinqa kwaye kule mihla kuqhelekile, kangangokuba abade benze iimvavanyo zokufumanisa ukuba kanye kanye isisu sinokubangelwa zenzekile.3 ngokulandelelana.
Siyaxolisa kakhulu ngaloo lahleko, ukusuka Madres hoy Siyakukhuthaza ukuba uzame kwakhona kwaye sinethemba lokuba uza kuphumelela kwakamsinyane; )
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Molweni, kwenzeke into efanayo kum ngokukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kwaye bendixinezeleke kakhulu kodwa ndiye ndaphambana ngenani labantu ukuba kwenzeka into efanayo kuye. Ngapha koko, ndinabalingane endisebenza nabo ukuba le yenzekile kuye kulo nyaka kwaye ngoku ndibona eli phepha ndiyabona ukuba baninzi ngakumbi. Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kutheni le nto isenzeka nanamhlanje ukuba kuncinci kakhulu okubonwe ngaphambili. endaweni yoko ngoku, ugqirha wam undixelela ukuba evekini wenza i-4 ukuya kwi-6 yonyango. Yintoni enefuthe kwinjongo yakho?
Molo Karolina,
Kuyinyani ukuba ukukhupha isisu ngokukhawuleza kuye kwanda kakhulu kwinani, kuthathwa njengesiqhelo xa kusenzeka kube kanye okanye kabini, ke kude kube lixesha lesithathu bengazenzi iimvavanyo zokufumana esona sizathu ...
Izizathu zoku azaziwa, nangona ngokobuqu ndicinga ngezizathu ezininzi njengokutya okungalunganga, ungcoliseko olugqithisileyo, uxinzelelo okanye ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwezicwangcisi ndisemncinci, kodwa le yinto yobuqu, andikaziboni izifundo ezibonisa into ebonakalayo.
Ukubulisa kwaye kungekudala uza kufumana umntwana wakho; )
Molo, bendilangazelela ukukhulelwa kwiinyanga ezi-6 ezidlulileyo emva kokugxothwa (ngokukhawuleza phambi kweenyanga ezi-3) .Adingi nyango, enkosi kuThixo… Ndibe nethamsanqa kubo bonke… kwiinyanga ezimbini ndaqala ukukhangela umntwana. m okokuqala… ndiza kumitha? Ngoku kufuneka ndingene ngeentsuku ezi-2 kwaye ndinokukhutshwa okumdaka malunga neentsuku ezimbini ezidlulileyo enkosi
Molo marisol,
Ewe unokuphinda ukhulelwe, ukuphuma kwesisu namhlanje kuthathwa njengesiqhelo nokuba kwenzeka kabini, okwesithathu sele kunqabile kwaye baqala ukwenza iimvavanyo zokufumanisa ukuba kungenxa yantoni. Sukuyeka ukuzama kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke ungabi noxinzelelo 😉
Imibuliso kwaye umntwana wakho onqwenelekayo afike kungekudala!
Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngokundiphendula nangokundikhuthaza ... wonke umntu undixelela ukuba bayandibuza ukuba ndikhona hahaaaaa ... kwaye ukuba inyani kukuba bendinamaxesha amabi ngokusweleka kuka-anti kunye nomsebenzi undixinzelela, kodwa ke, ndiyathemba ngenye imini, ukubingelela
Molweni, ndicela ukubuza oku kulandelayo: ndinomntwana oneminyaka ephantse ibe mi-5 kwaye kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ndafumanisa ukuba ndikhulelwe.Ndavuya kakhulu kwiiveki ezisi-7, bandixelela ukuba yayikukukhulelwa kombungu kwaye ngenxa yokopha rhoqo kuye kwafuneka benze unyango lokunyanga… .. Ndisandula ukufumanisa ukuba ndine-toxoplasma kwaye ubukhulu becala ibangela ukungalunganga kosana olungekazalwa… ndiyoyika kuba besithi kum ndingafumana umntwana omtsha kodwa Ngeengxaki ngesiquphe ndisithulu ndingaboni kwaye ndineengxaki ezahlukeneyo… .Kuyakuba yinto yokuba ndinyangeke okanye kukhethwe ukuba ndingaphindi ndibengumama kwakhona ... .ngombuzo wokugqibela endinqwenela ukwazi ukuba emva konyango, leliphi ixesha endingalala ngalo nomyeni wam… enkosi kakhulu ndiyathemba ukuba uya kundiphendula…
Molo uVanessa,
Sukuba nexhala nge-toxoplasmosis, inonyango kwaye nje ukuba ugqibile ngayo uya kukhuseleka, into efana nenkukhu, ukuba xa uyidlulisile awuyi kuphinda uyifumane. Emva koko unokukhulelwa kwakhona ngaphandle koloyiko lokuchaphazela usana lwakho; )
Ngokumalunga nobudlelwane emva konyango, ngesiqhelo emva kweentsuku ezili-15 banokuba nazo.
Imibuliso kwaye umntwana wakho onqwenelekayo afike kungekudala!
Ndineeveki ezili-9 ndikhulelwe, ndinayo nje i-ultrasound apho ngelishwa umbungu ungabonwa, kwaye ungabethi, kuphela ingxowa yokukhulelwa, ndiziva ndimbi kuba bendicinga ukuba ndiza kuba nosana lwam lwesibini, besonwabile. Baye bandinika enye iveki ukuba ndenze i-ultrasound, ukuba akukho mbungu ufumanekayo, kuya kufuneka benze unyango. Ndiyathandabuza malunga noonobangela bokuchaphazeleka kwe-chromosomal, ukuba uyazi njani ukuba ayizuphinda yenzeke. Ndiyathemba ukuba abasetyhini abadlula kula mava mabi banethuba lokukhulelwa kungekudala. Ndiyaluxabisa ulwazi olukule ndawo, ukongeza ekubeni ndikwazi ukuveza iimvakalelo zam.
Ndivuke ndisopha ndafika kwigumbi likaxakeka labasetyhini, apho baqinisekisa ukukhulelwa kweeveki ezili-10 ndikhulelwe kwaye benza iMVA. Sele ndikhutshiwe, mna neqabane lam sibuhlungu, kuba inkohliso inkulu kakhulu. Ndiyathemba ukuba uThixo asisikelele kungekudala ngomntwana.
Inkuthazo eninzi evela Madres hoy! Siyathemba ukuba kungekudala ungamfumana umntwana omfunayo :)
Sele ndinamava ama-2 amabi, eyokuqala yayingoMeyi xa ndandikhupha isisu ngokuzenzekelayo, kodwa ndafumana umbungu, oogqirha bababhinqileyo bandixelela ukuba zizizathu zendalo zoomama bokuqala, emva kweenyanga ezimbini ndakhulelwa kwakhona Ndonwabe kakhulu malunga nokukhulelwa kwam, ndathi xa ndisiya kwi-ultrasound yam yokuqala bandixelela ukuba ndikhulelwe umntwana, sele beyenzile into yokunyanga kodwa ndiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu, uyandiqonda kwaye umbuzo wam kukuba ndiza kuphinda ndikhulelwe kwaye Enkosi x ufunda amava am, imibuliso kubo bonke kunye namathamsanqa
Molo Rosmery,
Kulusizi ukuba iimeko ezinjengezakho zihlala zikhona, nangona "ngethamsanqa" zithathwa njengeziqhelekileyo. Ngaphandle kwayo yonke into iyinto ebuhlungu kwaye ngakumbi xa usazi ukuba bekukho umbungu, kodwa xa kusenzeka oko kungenxa yokuba ibinengxaki kwaye umzimba ngokwawo uyayikhupha.
Ewe unokuphinda ukhulelwe kwaye uzakuba nomntwana wakho. Ukuba ukukhupha isisu kwenzeka okwesithathu (esithembayo ukuba akunakuba njalo), cela oogqirha bakho ukuba benze iimvavanyo ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni, kuba kuloo meko ngekhe iphinde ibe yinto eqhelekileyo.
Ukusuka Madres hoy Sikuthumelela inkuthazo enkulu kwaye sinethemba lokuba kungekudala uza kuba nomntwana wakho,
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Ndineeveki ezi-6 zokuya exesheni kwaye ndikhe ndenza i-ultrasound apho kuvela into engenanto… .. Ndiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu, umntu othile unetyala K emva kokuba umbungu uvele apho .. ndinike ithemba
Molo, kwiintsuku ezimbini ezidlulileyo bandenzele inyango kuba ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwam bekungekho mbungu ndiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu kwaye undixelele ngenxa yegazi elihambelanayo ukuba ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kunokwenzeka. kutheni isenzeka
Molo Esperanza,
Kunzima ukuya kwinto enje kwaye ngoogqirha kuphela kwiimvavanyo abanokukuxelela ukuba kutheni isenzeka. Ngelishwa, bayavuma kuphela ukwenza ezi mvavanyo xa oku kusenzeka okwesithathu ngokulandelelana kuba kumaxesha amabini okuqala bakuthatha "kuyinto eqhelekileyo" ... Nangona kunjalo, unganyanzelisa ukuba bafumane isizathu sokukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic.
Ukusuka Madres hoy Sikuthumelela inkuthazo eninzi kwaye sinethemba lokuba umntwana wakho uza kufika kungekudala!
Molo ndingathanda ukwabelana ngamava kwaye ungandinika liphi ingcebiso? Ndiqale ngenyanga ka-Okthobha nge-1 ka-Agasti ndaqala ukuba nebala elimdaka kwaye ndinesifo esibi ndaya esibhedlele bandixelela ukuba sisoyikiso ukukhupha isisu kwaye bandivuma ke emva koko ndafumana i-ultrasound ezimbini, i-echo yelungu lobufazi, uvavanyo lwegazi kunye nomchamo, ugqirha wandixelela ukuba yayikukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo, benza unyango lokukhulelwa iiveki ezintlanu, kodwa abahlobo bam bandixelela ukuba kutheni Bayeke benze kum, phantse lonke ixesha ugqirha ushiya ixesha elingangeeveki ezisi-5 kwenziwa i-ultrasound kuba kulapho sele kukho ukubetha kwentliziyo, oku kwandoyikisa kakhulu kuba ugqirha wandixelela kuphela ukuba yayikukukhulelwa komzimba Kwakufuneka ndiziqhelise ngokunyanga ,,, kwakungasekho zimpawu zamachaphaza egazi kwaye iicramps zazisele zilunge kakhulu.Ndiphumile kakhulu.Andazi ukuba ibiyinto elungileyo ukuyenza okanye hayi? Ungandicebisa ntoni ???
Molweni, kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo bendiqala ukopha kancinci emdaka, ndiye kwigumbi likaxakeka kwaye umbelekisi akayivanga intliziyo yomntwana obefanele ukuba uneeveki ezili-12 ubudala, emva koko bandidlulisela kugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini kwaye I-intravaginal ultrasound kwaye njengesiphelo Undixelele ukuba usana luchithakele kwaye alubangahlanga kakuhle, nokuba ibikukukhulelwa kombungu. Umbuzo wam ngowokuba ingaba umbungu ubonwe kwi-ultrasound yokuqala endiyenzileyo kwiiveki ezi-6 zokukhulelwa kwaye bekukho ukubetha, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba kukukhulelwa kombungu? Kwaye ingaba umbungu unokuqhekeka kwaye ngoba?
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Molo Paulina,
Ngelishwa ewe, umbungu unganyamalala kwaye oku kuhlala kwenzeka xa unengxaki, uyaqhekeka kwaye umzimba uyisuse ngokwendalo. Oku kuthathwa “njengesiqhelo” ngoogqirha xa kusenzeka de kube kabini, okwesithathu bekubona kungaqhelekanga kwaye baqala ukwenza iimvavanyo.
Ukusuka Madres hoy Siyakukhuthaza kwaye sinethemba lokuba uza kufumana umntwana wakho kungekudala.
Molo, kulo nyaka uphelileyo ndikhulelwe ndingakhulelwanga kwaye ngoku ndinentsuku eziyi-7m emva kwexesha, ndingakhulelwa, ndingathatha umngcipheko ofanayo okanye kukho amathuba amaninzi okuba usana lwam lukhangeleke, nceda uphendule
Molo, ndingathanda ukwabelana ngamava am nabanye abafazi ababenethamsanqa lokukhulelwa i-anembryonic. Ndineminyaka eyi-31, ndiyintombazana eneminyaka eyi-10 kwaye ekuqaleni kwalo nyaka emva kokukhangela unyana phantse iinyanga ezi-6 ndikhulelwe, emva kothotho lweeveki ze-ultrasound kwaye kuba ndiqale ngelahleko ugqirha wam wamachiza wafumanisa ukuba ukhulelwe, enkosi Thixo umzimba wam ugxothe isingxobo sokukhulelwa ngokwendalo ngaphandle kwesidingo sonyango. Emva kokuphulukana bandicebisa ukuba ndingaphinde ndikhulelwe ukuba kufuneka ndilinde ubuncinci iinyanga ezi-6, ke kwaba semva kwelo xesha saphinda sazama kwaye ndamitha. Kwiveki ephelileyo ngeeveki ezi-6 zokumitha bendine-echo apho umbungu ungakhange ubonwe, izolo emva kwemini ugqirha wam wenze i-intravaginal echo apho andifumanise ukuba yayiphinde yakhulelwa i-anembryonic, ungaluthelekelela udano lwam. Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndiqhuba njani? Zeziphi izifundo ekufuneka ndizenzile mna okanye umyeni wam ukufezekisa umnqweno wethu wokuba ngabazali kwakhona? Ugqirha wam ugqirha wam uya kundithumela kwi-hematologist kuba ucebisa ukuba ingaba luhlobo oluthile lwe-thrombophilia, akunjalo? yintoni enye enokuba yiyo? Ngokucacileyo ndilinde ilahleko yendalo kwimeko yam yokuqala. Enkosi kakhulu kwaye ndilinde impendulo
Molo mary, ngenyanga kaFebruwari, ndakhulelwa nge-etopic apho waphulukana netyhubhu yakhe yasekunene, kwiintsuku ezili-18 ezidlulileyo ndafumanisa ukuba ndikhulelwe ndenza uvavanyo lwe-gonus beta ngalo lonke ixesha ndisenza oko kodwa xa ndenza i-transvaginal echo isikhwama somzimba akukho ndawo, kwiintsuku ezininzi ndikhutshiwe into emdaka .... Ndifuna ukundinika umbono wakho weli tyala ndiphelelwe lithemba
Molweni kuwo onke amantombazana .. inyani kukuba, ndibuhlungu, ndibhidekile kwaye ndiziva ndinetyala .. Ndineminyaka engama-22 ubudala kwaye ndinosana oluneenyanga ezisixhenxe ubudala kwaye ukuzalwa kwenziwa ngecandelo lokuhlinzwa, kwiintsuku ezi-7 ezidlulileyo Ndenza unyango lokunyanga kuba ndikhulelwe bendineeveki ezi-2 kwaye ibikukukhulelwa okungazalwa.Bazokuzibuza ukuba kutheni ndiziva ndinetyala ... kuba umntwana wam mncinci kakhulu kwaye ngekhe ndikhulelwe kwangoko kwaye xa ndijonga kwiziphumo zovavanyo lwegazi kwaye ndathi andizuku ... Emva koko ndacela ukuxolelwa kulowo ukholelwa ukuba yi-bb yam esiswini sam ndamxelela ukuba ndiyamthanda kwaye ndilindele ukuba abe Ndonwabile ngesimo sam kwaye ukuba kuidaria d naye kunye nosisi wakhe omncinci..ac kwiveki enye ndaqala ukulahla i-kafe kwaye bandinika ukuphumla Kwaye i-medikamento ugqirha wathi ndiza kuba ne-ultra ukubona usana lwam kwaye kutheni inkunkuma .. Isimanga sokuba bendiyi-yebe kukuba bathi ibingeyiyo i-avia bb kodwa ingxowa engenanto kwaye ndithe ndinonyango olukhawulezileyo ... yore kakhulu kuba hayi bendiyiqonda kakuhle into abayithethileyo kum keria ami bb kwaye hayi keria qm icieran curettage ndacinga Ukuba mhlawumbi abamjonganga kuba wayeyedwaño..babalule ichiza lokunyanga kwaye asta orita m uzive ulungile, ayibuhlungu nto..kodwa umbuzo wam apha ... bendineeveki ezi-4 ndikhulelwe ukuba bendilindile Iiveki ezi-4 okanye ezi-1 ndizibonile umbungu? .. Ndiyathemba ukuba niyaphendula .. ukubulisa kubo bonke kunye namathamsanqa ku-stan uzama !!!!!!
Molweni nonke, bendigqibile ukuyenza le nto kwiintsuku nje ezimbalwa kwaye iyandothusa, ndiyikhuphe ngokwendalo, awazi, besele sonwabile kuba intombi yam encinci ineminyaka emi-6 ubudala ………… .. Ugqirha undixelele ewe ndingaphinda ndikhulelwe nje kuba kufuneka ndilinde iinyanga ezi-5 kwaye ndiqale ukuthatha i-folic acid eninzi kwaye ndingabelani ngesondo kude kube kuhlambulukile isibeleko.
Mholo! Ndineeveki ezisi-7 ndikhulelwe umhla we-LMP yam kwaye kukukhulelwa kwam kokuqala. Kude kube namhlanje ukukhulelwa kwam bekuqhelekile ndade ndane-transvaginal echo yokuvavanya ukukhulelwa kwam. Kwi-echo akukho mbungu kuphela kwesingxobo sokukhulelwa, ugqirha undixelele ukuba ndilinde iintsuku ezisibhozo ukuphinda ndenze i-echo kwakhona kwaye ndiqinisekise ukuba kukukhulelwa kwe-aneembryonic ... undixelele ukuba unyango lwale nto lunyango kunye nenyaniso ndiyoyika kakhulu Ngale nto, andazi ukuba kubuhlungu kangakanani kwaye zeziphi iingxaki ezinokukhokelela kwikamva. Umbuzo wam ngulo: ngaba kufanelekile ukulinda ezinye iintsuku ezisi-8 ukuqinisekisa oku kufunyaniswa? Njengonobangela, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba kubekho ubukho be-cyst ye-4,5 cm ebuye yabonwa kwi-echo? Ndilindele iimpendulo zakho kwaye ndingavuya kakhulu… Enkosi
Mholweni'? Namhlanje bendine-ultrasound yam yesibini kwaye umbungu awubonakali ... kuthiwa izakuba ziiveki ezi-7, andazi kakuhle kuba andikhumbuli kakuhle ukuba sexesheni kokugqibela. Ndimele ndilinde enye iveki ndenze enye i-ultrasound, sele ndinentombazana eneminyaka ephantse ibe li-XNUMX ubudala.Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndinokubanakho na ukwenza i-echo kwaye le yimbungu ... amanqaku anokwenzeka ukuba eli lixesha elincinci? ???
molo umbuzo wam ngulo ulandelayo ndinemithi emibini engafunwayo kwaye bendineyeza lokunyanga ngoFebruwari ka-2 emva koko ngoFebruwari ka-2010 ndaphinda ndafumanisa ukuba ndikhulelwe kwaye kwafumaniseka ukuba kukukhulelwa okungumbungu ngoko ke kuye kwafuneka ndiphilise kwakhona namhlanje Ndikhulelwe, ngumntwana onqweneleka kakhulu, kodwa ndiyoyika ukuba izakuphinda ibe kukukhulelwa okungaphiliyo, inokwenzeka njani le nto?
Molo, ndikhulelwe esibelekweni kodwa ndinee volcitas ezimbini, kuyakubakho ukuba ndibanethuba lokuba omnye kwaba babini abe nomntwana okanye akukho namnye kubo nakanjani.
Molo, ndineminyaka eli-19 ubudala kwaye ndineeveki ezi-6 ndikhulelwe. Ndenze i-ultrasound namhlanje kwaye bandixelele ukuba umbungu awunakubonwa, kufuneka ndiye kwiveki ezayo (izakuba ziiveki ezisi-7) ndiyokwenza enye i-echo. Ndineentlungu ezibuhlungu esiswini, ndidiniwe (ndilala ngaphezulu kweeyure ezili-13 zilandelelana ... kunqabile kum) kodwa andopheli ... kwizinto endizifundileyo ndiyoyika ukuba bazakundixelela ukuba anembryonic, with my boyfriend we were deleded ... we thought to put if it is a Harmony girl and if it is a boy othandekayo. kodwa ngalento ndinoloyiko ..
Molo Snow..jonga ndikhulelwe umbungu kwaye ndawukhupha phantse kwiinyanga ezi-3, bendingadingi kunyangwa, kwi-echoes umbungu awuzange ubonwe, bathi kwiiveki ezi-7 ungabona ukuba ndinokholo olukhulu. .. ngoku ndikhulelwe kwakhona emva kweenyanga ezi-6 ndikhangela kwaye ndinoloyiko kodwa ukholo ngaxeshanye mhlawumbi yonke into ilungile ngethemba ... uphawu lwam ekuphela kwalo yintlungu yamabele ayikho enye into .... ukuba unayo iimpawu ke mhlawumbi yonke ithamsanqa kuwe !!
Molo Langa, ndiyazisola ngoku khulelwa okulahlekileyo, kwaye ndiyavuya kwaye ndiyavuyisana nawe ngomntwana omtsha, thandaza kuThixo, akuncede, yonke into izakulunga, kwaye lomntwana uzakuba yintsikelelo ebomini babo. Kwiveki ezayo ndenza i-echo (esele i-7 iiveki) kwaye ndibaxelele ukuba kuhambe njani, ndinethuba ngoLwesibini 🙁 Ndiyoyika ... kodwa ekugqibeleni ukuba kufanelekile, iyakuba nguThixo olawula oku, Asithathi sigqibo ... Ndiyathemba ukuba ndingamfumana umntwana wam ukusukela oko ndafumanisa malunga nokukhulelwa (kwiveki ezi-5) oko kukuthi, kwiveki e-1 edlulileyo ndafumanisa malunga nokukhulelwa.Ndivele ndathandana kwaphela nale nkwenkwana endinethemba lokuba ndisesiswini sam.
NDINQWENELELA OKUQHELEKILEYO NOMNTWANA WAKHO, YINTSIKELELO ONIKE UTHIXO
Iminqweno yam emihle
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Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba ingakanani into umntu ekufuneka eyihoyile emva kokwenza unyango ???
Enkosi ngekhephu, ndiyakuxelela ukuba ngoLwesibini kwi-echo sabona ichaphaza okanye isithunzi kwaye i-doc yandixelela ukuba le yingxowa ye-yolk! Kuya kufuneka ndiyiphinde ngeentsuku ezili-15 (iiveki ezisi-7) kuba i-echo yandinika ukuba ndingu-5 .... ndinokholo olukhulu kuba ekukhulelweni kwe-anembryonic akukho nto yabonwa ivuyisana nokukhulelwa kwakho kwaye ndinqwenela ukusuka Intliziyo yam ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle ukuba nokholo kwaye uthandaze looooong… .ndixelele unyaka omtsha ka-2012 !!!
Molweni .. Ndinentombazana eneminyaka emi-6 ubudala kwiqabane lam elidala ... ndikhulelwe okwangoku, kulungile, kucingelwa ukuba kwiiveki ezimbini ezidlulileyo ndaya kwintsholongwane..ym ndayihlela ukuba kungenzeka ukuba Umntwana okhulelweyo ngoJanuwari 4 ndinesivumelwano kwakhona .. Kwaye oh ugqirha uzakuxelela umyeni wam kunye nam ukuba ukhona umntwana okanye hayi ... kwaye kufanelekile ukuba enze i-aspirate ... inyani yile, ndi ndibuhlungu kancinci kwaye yiyo loo nto besiyikhangele kwaye bekulindelwe ... kodwa njani? Ayindim ndedwa kwamanye amantombazana ... kwaye ndiyaqonda ukuba kuqhelekile ... Ndiyathemba ukuba yonke into ilungile ... kwaye ndininqwenelela unyaka obalaseleyo ...
Ndine-MVA kwiiveki ezili-10 zokukhulelwa kwam, benza ii-ultrasound kwaye bandixelela ukuba kukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic, kodwa ndandine-ultrasound yabucala kwiiveki ezisi-8 kwaye ugqirha wamazinyo wandibonisa ukuba intliziyo yakhe ibetha kwaye wandixelela ukuba une Isoyikiso sokuqhomfa, andiqondi ukuba kutheni xa besenza i-MVA bandixelela ukuba kukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo kwaye kutheni i-gynecolo indibonisile ukuba intliziyo yakhe ibetha ukuba kucingelwa ukuba olu hlobo lokukhulelwa luyi-sac kuphela.
molweni bantu !!! Ndifuna ukukuxelela ukuba ndonwabile ngandlela ithile kuba kuyacaca ukuba yonke into izakulunga koku kukhulelwa emva kwembungu ... asikayiboni kodwa izinzile ... kude kube ziiveki ezisi-8 esingazukuyibona, bathe ... sabona ichaphaza kuphela elingu-sac yolk ...
Ndiyakuvuyela! 😀
enkosi, asonwabanga kakhulu okwangoku
ahh cacisa ndingula mntu ubhale ngaphambili njengoMarisol
Molweni .. Ndisandula ukufumanisa izolo ukuba ndinokukhulelwa kweeveki ezili-12 kodwa yi-anembryonic 🙁 ndiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu kuba mna neqabane lam besele sinemibono emininzi ngokuba nomntwana .. i-gyne indibhalele ileta yokwenza unyango .. umbuzo wam kukuba kufuneka ndinyangwe ixesha elingakanani? Ndingumntwana omncinci, ndina-17 kwaye andithandi ukuba abazali bam bafumanise ngale nto
Molo, ndiyaxolisa, jonga, bendinayo kwaye ngoku ndikhulelwe kwakhona… .Ndingathi kwangoko xa unokufumana unyango kuba lunokuba yingozi, ndilukhuphe nje kwiveki ezilishumi elinesibini (iinyanga ezintathu) … okuhle kodwa !!
kodwa ndiyopha ngokungathi ndikwixesha lam .. is it normal? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukuphindaphinda sele kuphuma?
kodwa ndiyopha ngokungathi ndikwixesha lam .. is it normal? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukuphindaphinda sele kuphuma? okanye yinto embi ..
Ke ukuba kunokwenzeka njalo, kuya kufuneka uye kwagqirha! ukopha kweza kum, amathamsanqa !!
Hayi, ayilunganga, musa ukoyika, kodwa ukuba ubonane nogqirha
Molweni, eli lixesha lokuqala ukuba ndilapha kuba ndifuna ukunixelela ngetyala lam, ndineminyaka engama-22 ubudala kwaye ndakhulelwa i-anembryonic, kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezidlulileyo, kwaye ngoku ndifuna ukumitha kwakhona kodwa ndiyoyika ukuba into enye izokwenzeka nakum kuba ndingumntu omtsha, kwaye bendizinyamekela ngeepilisi, sele ndineminyaka esi-7 ndikunye neqabane lam
Molweni zihlobo, niyazi ukuba ndibuhlungu kakhulu kwaye ndinxanelwe kakhulu ngo-Agasti ka-2011 ndikhulelwe ndisandul 'ukwenza isisu ndandifuna ukufa ndandonwabile ngomntwana wam andiqondi nto kwaye namhlanje uJanuwari 2012 ndikhulelwe kwakhona ndineeveki ezisi-7 kwaye it is also embryonic why is this happening I have Abanye abantwana and they are healthy khange ndibenangxaki nabo kuba ngoku if I want to die together with my baby, please help me.
Molo ... igama lam ndinguAntonia, bandifumanisa ndikhulelwe i-anembryonic yeeveki ezintlanu, bandicacisela ukuba akukho mbungu ngaphakathi kwenyongo, kwaye bandinika ixesha leveki enye ukuba akukho zimpawu zobomi , kuya kufuneka benze unyango ... benze, linda ngaphezulu kweentsuku okanye akukho themba ...
Umhlobo uAntonia:
Ndaye ndahamba nokukhulelwa emzimbeni, kodwa ndafumanisa kwiveki ye-10 yokukhulelwa, ndala ukubanonyango okanye unyango kwaye njengoko indalo inobulumko kwiveki elandelayo umzimba wam wawuyikhupha ... Ndicebisa ukuba ulinde iiveki ezi-3 ubuncinci, kuba umntwana usemncinci kakhulu ukuba angabonwa kwi-ultrasound, hleze ukuba ngokungxama wenze impazamo kwaye ukhuphe isisu.
Molweni inyani ndididekile kakhulu, ps ukukhulelwa kwam kukwanayo i-anembryonic, andifuni ukuba nonyango, kwaye ndifuna ukuba yenzeke ngokuzenzekelayo, kodwa bandixelele ukuba kuyingozi kakhulu ukuba ndilinde ukuyisusa, Ingaba yinyani? Ukuba unento oyaziyo malunga noku, ndiyathemba ukuba uza kundixelela, okanye ukuba uyazi ezinye zeepilisi ezindinceda ndizikhuphe, ndingakubulela.
Elena:
Ndidlule kwinto efanayo nawe kodwa ndaye ndabona ukuba ukukhulelwa kwam bekuyi-anembryonic kwiveki ephelileyo kwaye kude kube ngoku andikayi kwagqirha ndiyokufumana unyango, kwaye ukusukela ngoLwesine odlulileyo ndiqale ukopha njengomthetho oqhelekileyo, ekuseni ngeCawa kusasa. yeza kum njengokuphuma kwegazi, yaphosa amahlwili kwaye ayizukunqanda ukopha, ndinazo neekram ezininzi. Kwenzeka into efanayo kum ngoMvulo, kwaye namhlanje ukopha kuqhelekile ... ndingenza ntoni? Kuzofuneka ndiye kwagqirha?
Khange ubenayo iyeza lokunyanga? khange ube nazingxaki? 🙁
Mayra:
Ndiza kukuxelela ukuba ndaqala ukungcola umbala omdaka kwaye ukusuka apho amabala am ahamba, esiba bomvu ngakumbi, ngobunye ubusuku ndafikelwa sisisu, isiyezi, ndagabha ndazisusa zonke iimbumba ezingumbungu kunye namahlwili ngobo busuku ... isingqengqelo, ndagoba ... hayi ndaya kulala ... kulungile, umyeni wam wandixelela ukuba ukuba ndinomkhuhlane, nokuba ubuncinci, kungenxa yokuba yayilusulelo kwaye kwakufuneka ndibalekele kwimeko engxamisekileyo Igumbi kuba bekuya kubakho iintsalela ... Ndiyabulela kuThixo ukuba kwakungekho njalo kwaye emva kweentsuku ezili-15 xa ndigqiba ixesha lam ngokupheleleyo ndenza i-transvaginal ultrasound eyaqinisekisa ukuba ndiyisuse ngokupheleleyo yonke into. Abakhange benze unyango ... bendingenangxaki.
Uqinisekile ukuba awuzilahli iimbumba ezingumbungu? bezingaphi iiveki ukhulelwe? Ukuba ibingaphantsi kwe-6, kusenokwenzeka ukuba isingxobo singanyibilika kunye namahlwili. Ngaba uye waba nomkhuhlane omncinci?
Molo ELENA UTHE IXESHA ELINGAKUMBI UKUBA ULAWULE IIVEKI EZI-2 EDLULEYO NDIQALILE UKUHLALA IMARON NGOKUBA YAYIYI-5 IIDLOPHU NGALONKE NDANDISELE NDITHATHA IIVEKI EZI-2 UKUZE NDITHANDA UKWAZI UKUBA I-STAIN YAKHO IXAKEKE KANGAKANANI UKUBA IBHANTSHWE NGU-CYTA KUNYE KWIVEKI ENYE NDINAYO NGEVEKI EZI-9 KODWA KUSUKELA KWIVEKI 7 UGQIRHA WANDixELELA UKUBA KUNOKWENZEKA IGAZI ELIFILEYO INYANISO ANDIFUNI LILUNGISELELO NDINGABI NEFIVA NDIBUKELE UKUBA KUPHELA IBALA. AMADANGALA ASEKHO NGEGAZI
Molo IGAMA LAM NDI IVON 4 IINYANGA EZIDLULE NDABANESIKHUMBUZO SOKUKHULELWA BANDIFUMANA UKUZE NDENZE ILIFA LEGYNECOLOGIST BANDIXELELE KUFUNEKA NDILINDE IINYANGA EZI-6 UKUZE NDIPHINDE NDIVUME KODWA NGOKU NDIPHINDE NDIKHULELE UKUKHULELWA AKUQHUTYELWANGA NALUTHI
U-Ivan:
Ndiza kukuxelela ukuba ndifunde lukhulu kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukukhulelwa kwakho kube yimbumbulu kwakhona kodwa amathuba okude. Umntu othile wandixelela ukuba ndibenokholo lokuba ayizuphinda yenzeke lonto, kodwa ndifana nawe, ndikhulelwe futhi emva kokukhulelwa kweembumba kunye nokuphuma kwesisu kwaye ndisoyika kakhulu kuba ngengomso ngengomso izakuba yi-ultrasound yam yokuqala yale yokumitha. ngeeveki ezi-8 ...
Into enomdla kakhulu endiyifundileyo kukuba ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kwenzeka ngenxa yokutya okungalunganga (ukutya okungenamsoco okunesondlo ezimbalwa) okwenza iqanda okanye isidoda singabinayo into efanelekileyo yesondlo ... kwaye uyazi ndicinga ukuba inokuba ilungile isizathu kuba mna nomyeni wam besingondli kakuhle iminyaka.
Ndikunqwenelela amathamsanqa kwaye ngethemba lokuba oku kukhulelwa kuhamba kakuhle kakhulu ... Zama ukuba nokholo, ndiyaqonda ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ... kodwa sinokholo kuphela.
Wanga uThixo angaba nathi.
Okokuqala, ukuvuyela ukukhulelwa kwakho okutsha. Umba wokukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kunokwenzeka kaninzi, ukuba kuyenzeka kwakhona, ngokuqinisekileyo abayi kwenza naluphi na uvavanyo, kodwa ukuba kwenzeka okwesithathu kuwe, unelungelo lokufuna ukuba bazenze ukuze bafumane ukuba kutheni le nto isenzeka kuwe. Siyathemba ukuba ngeli xesha yonke into ihamba kakuhle, amathamsanqa!
Elena:
Bendineeveki ezili-9 ndikhulelwe kodwa inyani khange ndiqaphele ukuba umbungu sele uphumile .. ligazi nje elininzi, isiyezi, ukugabha kunye ne-colic eyomeleleyo .. khange ndibenomkhuhlane .. namhlanje ndiphantse andophuma encinci kakhulu .. ucinga ntoni?
Mayra:
Ngokucacileyo awuyiphelisanga ngokupheleleyo yonke into, kodwa inyani yokuba awunomkhuhlane ilunge kakhulu. Ngapha koko, ndingacebisa ukuba uye kwi-transvaginal ultrasound ukuze ubone ukuba kutheni ngoku ulawula ubungakanani obuncinci kangaka ... kufanelekile ukwenza ukulahla kwaye wazi ukuba uyiphelisile yonke into ... Ndikunqwenelela ithamsanqa.
Molo, igama lam ndinguCarmen Rojas kwaye bendihamba kwinto enye kwiintsuku ezili-15 ezidlulileyo ndafumana unyango lweeveki ezisi-8 iintsuku ezi-5 zokukhulelwa okungaphenduliyo kwaye ndaqala ukuziva iimpawu ezifanayo nezam, neqabane lam esinye ugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini kunye nokwenza i-ultrasound safumanisa ukuba ndinentsalela kwaye kwiintsuku ezisibhozo kamva ndafumana unyango lwesibini, namhlanje ndiziintsuku ezisi-8 ngaphezulu zeliyeza lesibini kwaye ndiziva ndingcono emzimbeni; Ngomso ndineteyiphu yokujonga ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle na kwaye ndithintele i-anemia ... Ndiziva ndonakele ngokwasemphefumlweni kwaye ndicela kuphela uThixo asinike amandla okufumana oko besikade sikuyo kwaye siqhubeke. Akaze aphosise kwaye mhlawumbi unokuthile okungcono ngathi, xa bendinika iindaba bendiziva ngathi ndiyafa kodwa namhlanje ndiqonda ukuba ayindim ndedwa endiziva ngcono ………. imibuliso kwaye uThixo anisikelele nonke
ngoku siiiiiiiii sabona umntwana wethu kwaye samamela intliziyo yakhe ukuze amantombazana onke anokholo oluninzi ... Ndiphumelele iinyanga ezimbini ezinesiqingatha !!!!!!!!
Molo, ndinexhala kwiminyaka eli-11 eyadlulayo ndikhulelwe kwaye kwiinyanga ezi-6 ndikhulelwe kwaye ndafumana umntwana, intombi yam yayineminyaka esi-8 ubudala ukukhulelwa kwam kodwa ngelinye ixesha yayikukukhulelwa okungaphefumlelwanga kwaye ngoku uneminyaka eli-10. Ndimithi kwaye ndonwabile kwaye kwangaxeshanye ndisoyika kakhulu ukuba iyakuba sesinye isisu esikhulelweyo. Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kutheni le nto isenzeka kwaye ucinga ntoni?
Molo, ndinguElizabeth kwaye ndineminyaka engama-30 ubudala, kukukhulelwa kwam okwesibini kwaye kubonakala ngathi kuyimbumba, ukuba kunokwenzeka ngomso ndibenesiqhelo sesibini kwenye indawo kuba kwezangaphambili bekubonwa isaka kuphela, inyani yile Ndiyoyika kakhulu umbono wokuba bandenzele iyeza lokunyanga ndithandaza kuThixo ukuba ukuya exesheni kuze yonke into ihambe kwaphela, andiyeki ukulila ebusuku ndikufumanisa kunzima ukulala kwaye eyona ininzi kukuba Iimpawu zokukhulelwa, kubuhlungu, ndiyayamkela into yokuba kufuneka ndiphulukane nayo kodwa ngazo zonke izinto endizifundileyo ngoku ndiyoyika kakhulu kunakuqala kwaye zingasulela kuwe nakwabanye. Ndidinga ukukhuthazwa kwakho kunye namaKrestu Umthandazo ngempilo yam. Enkosi….
Ndingathanda ukuba umntu afunde oku nceda undithumelele isimemo ngobuso bonke, ndiyabamkela kuba ndifuna ukuthetha nomntu owayekade ekho okanye owayefanele ukwenzeka ngokufanayo, NCEDA ndifuna ukhuthazo ndiyoyika kakhulu !!!
NDIBINGELELE KWIINTSUKU EZILI-15 KUFUNEKA NDIQINISEKE NOKUBA I-EMBRYO IBONWA OKANYE AYIBONAKALISWA NGOKUBA NDIYANGOYIKELA ILIFA KODWA YINTO UTHIXO AYIFUNAYO KODWA NDINGAYITHANDA NAKHO NJENGOKO UZA KUM KODWA
Enkosi ngokuphendula, ethubeni ndizokuphinda ndiyichaze kwenye indawo ukuqinisekisa into esele ndiyazi kwaye ndiyilinde ize kum, ndiyoyika kakhulu… ndiyabulisa Gaby !!!
Molo ELIZABETH WAYENJANI NAWE}
Molo, ndinguFabiana. Ndineminyaka engama-34 ubudala kwaye ndineeveki ezintlanu ndikhulelwe. Ndiphantse okokuqala kuba ndinentombi endala kuneminyaka eyi-5 kwaye ndakwazi ukuphulukana namava. Ndiye kwi-echo kutsha nje kwaye ndaxelelwa ukuba kukukhulelwa kwe-embryonic kodwa amanqanaba e-gonadotropin ayaqhubeka enyuka. Ngaba iyenzeka lento ?? Ngaba kukukhulelwa kombungu okanye akunjalo? Kungangcono xa ndibona omnye ugqirha onamava angaphezulu ??. Iphepha lakho lihle kakhulu. U-Esperon undiphendule ngokukhawuleza kwaye ndiyabulela ngokumamela kwakho.
Bekungayi kuba yinto ephosakeleyo ukudibana nomnye ugqirha, ubuncinci ukukhusela ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba benza impazamo. Unethamsanqa!
Molo Fabiana, ndafumana umbungu kwaye ihomoni yam yenyuka… ngoku ndiyathemba ukuba ndingumntwana, enkosi uThixo, ndiza kuba malunga neenyanga ezi-6 kuba khange bandiphilise ukholo olungaka, ithamsanqa!
Molo FABIANA ndikwanombungu kwaye ukuba ihomoni inyuke ngesiqhelo ke kuyenzeka kodwa ulumke! 5weeks is very early now I expect a baby and at 5weeks only a dot was seen that was the lucky yolk sac !!
Molweni nonke, ndineeveki ezili-12 ndikhulelwe nge-anembryonic, kwiintsuku ezintathu ezidlulileyo baphazamise ukukhulelwa kwam, kunye neepilisi zecytotex kwaye bekubuhlungu kakhulu, bendineeyure ezili-9 zesisu, ndigabha kwaye ndirhuda, iintlungu bezinganyamezeleki, kodwa xa bendigxotha Intlungu yanyamalala, kwaye ngoku ndixhelekile kuba yayikukukhulelwa kwam kokuqala, mna neqabane lam sasinemincili, ngokwengqondo bendonakele kakhulu, kwaye ngoku ekuphela kwento endiyifunayo kukuphinda ndikhulelwe, kodwa ndinexhala kuba kundibize iminyaka emibini ukukhulelwa, andazi nokuba kuza kufuneka ndilandele unyango na….
Molo, ungandixelela ukuba zingaphi iipilisi zecytotec ozisebenzisileyo?
Sukuzithatha iipilisi zeCYTOTEC nceda, zinokubangela ukuba usweleke kwaye ungaze uphinde ube nabantwana!
NDIKHUMBILE NDINETHEMBA LONTO LOKUBA NDIKHUPHE ISIPHUMO NGOKUPHELELEYO KWAYE AKUFUNI NDINIKELELE KWILIFA
Molo NDINGUYE UQ QHA NDIBHALA KUWE NDAYA KUGQIRHA NGOLWESIHLANU WANDIXELELA UKUBA WENA WAYEGEGA NDAMUXELELA UKUTHI UNGANDITSHELI Makhe SIKWENZELE UKUGQIBELA UKUZE NDIBONE OKWENZEKILEYO KWISIBHEDLELE SAKHO BENDINGANAYO YOKUNGXAKI NGENXA YOKUBA BENDINGAQINISEKI NOKUTHI AKUKHO NTO KUKHO NDITHI NDIYABULELA KUKHO UMNTWANA WAKHO AND NDIQ ... NDIJIKELELE KWISIKRAYIBHILE KWAKUKHO UMNTWANA WEeveki ezili-11 EHAMBA NGOBUHLE. NDILINDE NGOBA BENDISABA UMTHETHO BAYAJONGA OKANYE BAMANGALISEKE KUKHO UMNTWANA NGOKU NDIBONA UKUBA KULUNGILE UKUNDILINDELA FOR
Molo Gabriela, ndiyavuyisana nawe ngomntwana wakho, kuye kwanyanzeleka ukuba benze iyeza lokunyanga ngoba ibhegi ibisele ikhubazekile kwaye ndinokuphalaza, bendingenalo ithamsanqa elifanayo nangona ndilindile kodwa intando kaThixo yintando kaThixo hayi ngokuchasene noko Singakunqwenelela amathamsanqa kwaye siyathemba ukuva ukukhulelwa kwakho LUCK
hola
Ndifuna ukukuxelela ukuba ndikhulelwe kwaye lento iyandibhida kakhulu ngokokutsho kukagqirha wam ndineeveki eziyi-8 ndikhulelwe kwaye ibhegi kuphela ebonwa kodwa hayi umntwana. Kodwa ndaye ndenza uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ngoJanuwari 28 olwalungalunganga kwaye ke nge-21 kaFebruwari, ndenza iziphumo ezilungileyo, umbuzo wam kungokuba namhlanje bendine-ultrasound yam yokuqala, andiboni ukuba umntwana uqhelekile okanye kusenokwenzeka ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kum ukuba andinamntwana. Ndididekile kakhulu ngayo yonke into endiyiyo kuba ngumntwana wam wokuqala kwaye ndonwabile
Ngokwesiqhelo umntwana bekufanele abonwe kodwa usemncinci kakhulu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunzima. Ingcebiso yam kukuba uye komnye ugqirha kwaye ube ne-transvaginal echo, ethi ngale ndlela ijongeke ngcono kwiiveki zokuqala zokukhulelwa. Unethamsanqa!
LINDELA OKUNGAKUMBI AMI BAThetha OKUFANELEYO KUM NOMNTWANA WAM WAMBONA MVA
Molo, igama lam ndingu-Andrea kwaye ndifuna ukuphawula kwityala lam kwiminyaka emi-5 ndikhulelwe amatyeli ama-3 kodwa amaxesha ama-3 ndikhuphe isisu esine-anembryonic, ungandixelela ukuba loluphi uvavanyo ekufuneka ndilwenzile nge-geneticist okanye isisombululo Ndingaba kwimeko yam. Enkosi
Emva kokukhulelwa oku-3 ngolu hlobo, oogqirha kufuneka benze iimvavanyo zokufumanisa ukuba kutheni le nto isenzeka kuwe, malunga nohlobo lweemvavanyo, baya kuyazi into ekufuneka bayenzile. Emva kokukuvavanya, banakho ukukuxelela ukuba kutheni le nto isenzeka kuwe kunye nesisombululo. Unethamsanqa!
Molo, ndiza kukuxelela ukuba ndiye emhlanganweni emva kweveki kwaye ngeeveki ezili-9, ndaya komnye ugqirha wandixelela into efanayo ngolwesiHlanu 02/03/2012 ndandineyeza lokunyanga kuba andikwazi kulinda Akusayi kubeka impilo yam emngciphekweni.Yibuhlungu kakhulu imvakalelo kunokuba imali iyinto elula kakhulu kwaye akukho nto ibuhlungu ngokwasemphefumlweni indibethile kakhulu kodwa ndikhangela ulwazi ndiye ndaqonda ukuba zange kwabakho sana, I mean that nothing usweleke ngenxa yokuba kungekho nto ikhoyo kwaye indenza ndizole, banqwenela ukuba nibe nethamsanqa kwaye niqhubele phambili
NDIYAYAZI INDLELA OVAKALELWA NGAYO NGENXA Yokuba NDIVA NJE NGENXA YOKUBA NDICINGA UKUBA NDISELE NDILAHLEKA UMNTWANA .. Ndiyaxolisa ngokulahleka kwakho kwaye uThixo uyazi ukuba kutheni esenza izinto.
MHOLWENI; BANDENZELE ILIFA LOKUKHULELWA OKUPHELELEYO. NDINGATHANDA UKWAZI UKUBA LOLUPHI UHLOBO LWEEMVAVANYO ENDIZA KUZENZA UKUZE NDINIKE IZIFUNDO OKANYE UKUNYANGELWA NGOBA NDIFUNA UKUBA NOMNTWANA OSEMPILWENI.
Le yinto yokuba ugqirha olazi ngqo ityala lakho kwaye acebise eyona ifanelekileyo kuwe kufuneka akwazise. Unethamsanqa!
Molo WONKE MNTU NDIBATSELA ICALA LAM KWIMINYAKA EMI-2 NDIDLULA UKUZAMA UKUBA NOMNTWANA KANYE NDINGAKWAZI UKUBA NGO-2010 NDIKHUPHE ISISU SEEVEKI EZI-7 NGO-2011 KWENZEKA OKWAM KANYE NGOKU NGO-2012 NGOMATSHI 06 BANDENZA A UKUFUMANEKA KWIVEKI EZILI-11 UKUKHULELWA KUKUKHULELWA KUKUQHELEKILEYO KUM NGOBA NDINENTOMBI YAM EMNYAKA EMI-13 NOMYENI WAM KANYE NGOKWENZEKA NDAKHOLELWA NGALOLOMNTWANA NDIYAKUQONDA NGENXA YOKUBA UYAZI UKUTHI YINXALENYE KAKUHLE PHAMBILI NGAPHANDLE KOKUNGALAHLEKI KAKHULU KUKHOLO LWAM IGYNECOLOGIST NDICELA UKUTHI NDIThathe IIMVIWO NJENGOMYENI WAM NOKUTHEMBA KWAKHO UKUTHANDA KUKATHIXO NANGOKO ANDIPHELELWA ITHEMBA LOKUBA LEYO MNTWANA NDIMKHUTHAZA WONKE UMNTU NDIMLANDELE NAWE KUNOKUCHAPHAZELA OKUNCINANE OKUNYE IZINTO EZINGENANTSHWALA KONKE
Molo, ndineminyaka engama-21 ubudala kwaye ndineeveki ezi-6 emva kokuba ndikhulelwe okokuqala. U-doc undixelele ukuba kufuneka ndilinde kwiveki yesixhenxe ukufumanisa ukuba ingaba umbungu ukhona na okanye hayi. Ndinoluvo lokuba kukho isaka kuphela. Umbuzo wam ngulo, ingaba isidanga sibuhlungu ??? Okanye xa kuphuma ibhatyi kuphela, ingaba ibuhlungu nayo ??? Kwaye bathotywa njani isidima ??? Ngaba kufuneka ndiphumle? Okanye ngaba yinto ekhawulezayo. Enkosi!! Ndijonge impendulo yakho.
Molo Maria, zama ukulinda de kube ziiveki ezilithoba, jonga uluvo lwesibini, kufuneka sigqibe onke amathuba ukuze singaziva sinetyala, ke sihlala sizolile, unyango luyakhawuleza kwaye alubuhlungu kum, bayenzile kum kwigumbi lokusebenza ukuba kufuneka siphumle. kuba nangona kuyinto ekhawulezayo bakhupha into engaphakathi kuwe kwaye ethe-ethe ukuba uyakugcina uphumle ngokukhawuleza ukuba ukulungele na ukujonga usana lwakho olulandelayo
Uninzi lwabasetyhini luyavuma ukuba unyango ngokwalo lubuhlungu kancinane kuneentlungu zokuziphatha ezibangelwa kukuhamba ... Yinto ekhawulezayo, kwangolo suku ungagoduka ngayo kwaye baya kukuxelela into onokuyenza kwaye yintoni ongayenziyo, ngokubanzi kufuneka ulinde malunga neentsuku ezili-15 ukuze ulale ngesondo. Kodwa ke, musa ukothuka okwangoku, kwiveki yesi-6 kuya kuba nzima ukubona umbungu kwaye mhlawumbi kwiveki yesi-7 uza kuba nakho ukuyibona, kunokwenzeka ukuba uyikhuphe ngokwakho, ngaphandle kwesidingo sonyango. Nokuba yeyiphi, ithamsanqa!
Molweni, ndingu 21 kwaye nomyeni wam sagqiba kwelokuba sibenomntwana, ndazishiya iipilisi kwaye ngethamsanqa ndakhulelwa kwinyanga enye (January) kodwa kwiveki ephelileyo ndaqala ndadyobha umbala omdaka kwaye benza i-echo ngoMvulo ndaphantse ndane-8. iiveki ezindala kwaye ndabona kuphela i-sac ngaphandle kombungu, ke uGqirha wandixelela ukuba ndingalinda umzimba wam ukuba uyisuse okanye ufumane unyango, inyani kukuba ndikhetha ukulinda kodwa bendisopha malunga neentsuku ezisi-8. Kuya kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukuyisusa ngokwendalo? Ngaba unyango lukhuselekile? Ndiyifumanisa ingenisi kakhulu
Molo, ndiyakuxelela ukuba sikwimeko efanayo, kulungile ndineeveki ezimbalwa ndikhulelwe, kwaye ibala lam likwintsundu ngamanye amaxesha ngemisonto yegazi, izolo bendicinga ukuba ndizakuqala ngokopha ngoko ndalikhupha igazi kwaye ngoku Ngamachaphaza kuyo yonke into enjengexesha kusuku lokuqala kodwa ngethamsanqa lam elibi, sele kushushu, akukho nto ingako ndiyophayo, ndingathanda ukuba siqhakamshelane ukuze sibone ukuba kwenzeka ntoni na kwaba babini ukwazi ukukhokela omnye ukuba kukude kangakanani ekuxelele ugqirha ungalindela ntoni?
Molo, ngoJanuwari 1, NDANDINELIFA NGENXA YOKUBA NDAKHULELWA NGOKUMISELWA, KODWA NGOKUGCINWA BAMINZA ISIBHEDLELE SAM, BANDENZA ILAPUTHI YOKUHLOLA, INYANISO YOKUBA YAYINGUMNTWANA WESIBINI WOKUGQIBELA EMVA KWEMINYAKA ELI-10 YOKUTHETHA. KWAKUSEBENZA, INYANISO NDIXAKEKEKE KAKHULU, NDICINGA NGOKUKHULELWA NGALO LONKE IXESHA NDIKHALA KAKHULU, NDIFUNA UMNTWANA, YINTONI EBI KAKHULU YOKUKHULELWA, UKUZE NDIPHUME NDIPHUME IINYANGA EZI-6, UTSHE WANDixELELA NDIZOKULINDA IMIHLA EMI-2 NESIQINGATHA, KODWA NDIYAHLANYA, NDIFUNA UMNTWANA
Molo, ndiza kukuxelela ukuba bendisopha iiveki ezimbini kwaye izolo nje bendiqala ngesisu esomeleleyo kwaye namhlanje ndikhuphe igazi elininzi kodwa kumachaphaza amaninzi andixelele ugqirha ukuba iyakwenzeka lonto kodwa wandixelela ukuba kuba akukho mbungu akukho bungozi bosulelo kuba kuphela ziindonga zesibeleko ezandisiweyo kwaye kukho ingxowa engenzi mngcipheko. Ngoku ndizakulinda ukuphuma kwegazi kuyeke ukwenza i-echo kwaye ndikuxelele ukuba ndiyicime yonke into.
Iindaba ezimnandi, namhlanje ndenze i-echo kwaye yabonisa ukuba isibeleko sam sihlambulukile, ukukhupha isisu kugqityiwe, ngoko ke andifuni nokuba neyeza lokunyanga. Ugqirha wam undixelele ukuba bancomela ukulinda iinyanga ezintathu ukuzama kwakhona kodwa kuba ibiyinto yonke yendalo, ungalinda ixesha lokuqala kwaye uzame.
Molo, unjani? Ndifumene ukukhulelwa kwe-anabrionic! Ndaye ndaqonda xa ndine-transvaginal ultrasound kwaye bandixelela ukuba ndinenyanga neveki ndikhulelwe kodwa kwakungekho mbungu ke ngoko bathi mandilinde iiveki ezimbini emva koko ndandisopha kancinci emva koko ndandinamandla amakhulu njengokuya exesheni emva koko kufunyenwe kunokuqhomfa okuzenzekelayo. Kodwa umbuzo wam ngowokuba ingaba oku kukhulelwa kungafunekiyo kunento yokwenza nokuthatha kwam ipilisi ngosuku olulandelayo, oko kukuthi, ndabelana ngesondo kwaye ipilisi isebenza kuphela emva kweentsuku ezi-3, oko kukuthi, iiyure ezingama-72, kodwa ndiyithathile ngomhla wesihlanu , ke ngeentsuku ezi-4 ndaba nengxabano eqinileyo, ndandicaphuka kakhulu kwaye kwangolo suku ndaqala ngeebhalansi zam kwaye kulapho ndaya khona kugqirha ndenza i-ultrasound kwaye yayisisifo sakhe, andazi ukuba kungenxa yepilisi okanye indlela endifunda ngayo x iqanda okanye isidoda esibuthathaka =)
Yosselin, ipilisi inokubangela ukukhupha isisu ngokuzenzekelayo, kodwa inyani yokuba ikhutshwe isisu sisiphene semfuza, hayi esabazali kodwa se-zygote (isidoda okanye iqanda) kwaye umzimba wakho uyayifumana lengxaki yiyo lonto iqala ukuphelisa, ke nantoni na oyenzayo okanye ukuthatha ipilisi ukuba ukukhulelwa kwakho yi-anembryonic kuthathwa njengokukhupha isisu ngokuzenzekelayo okanye ukubanjwa
Molo ZINTOMBI NDAKUXELELA UKUBA NDIHAMBA NGEZO ZINYANGA ZI-6 NDADLULA UKUKHULELWA NDAKULAHLEKA UKUBA ISIPHANDO SIKHUSHULA KABUHLUNGU KAKHULU KODWA ASIYO LOMTHETHO, NDINESIPU SOKUGQIBELA SOKUKHIPHA ISIPHUMO. NGOKU EMVA KWEENYANGA ezi-6 NDIKHULEKILE KWAKHONA NDIYINYANGA KODWA INYANISO YOKUBA NDIXHEKEKILE NGOBA NDIYOKOYIKA UKUBA KWENZEKA OKUFANAYO KUNYE NDIFUNA UKWAZI UKUBA UMNTU UYE WAVUKA KUKHULELWANO NGAPHANDLE KWEMBILIYO WAYE WANIKEZWA UKUJONGA INJONGO YOMNTWANA NGAPHANDLE KWENGXAKI, ENKOSI KAKHULU NDILINDE IIMPENDULO ZAKHO
Bavele bandixelela ukuba I have a embryonic pregnancy I am 10 weeks old kwaye akukho embryo or ukubetha kwentliziyo.Umbuzo wam ngowokuba ingaba mandilinde kancinci okanye ndenze I treatment, bandixelele ntoni oogqirha? Okanye mhlawumbi udibane nomnye ugqirha wezifo zabasetyhini?
Ungathetha nomnye umntu kwimeko yokuba benze impazamo, kodwa kuya kufuneka ekugqibeleni ufumane unyango abakuthumele lona, kwiiveki ezili-10 kufanele ukuba sele ubonile umbungu. Ngethamsanqa kunye nethamsanqa!
NDITHANDA UKUBA SIYAZISWA, AMI WANDISUSIYA NGOJUNI 2010 NDANDINGUMHLA WOKUQALA KWAKHONA NDANDINESIKHUMBUZO 1 SOKUKHULELWA KWAKHONA BANDINIKA NJE UKUFUNA UKUZAMA KWAKHONA NDINETHEMBA
Molweni namhlanje ndibhaqiwe ukukhulelwa okumbumbulu ngomso bayaphumelela, ndibuhlungu kakhulu, kodwa oku ibikukukhulelwa kwam kwesibini kuba unyana wam sele eneminyaka emine ubudala, ulusana olusempilweni kakhulu kwaye ngelaxesha lokukhulelwa yonke into yayiqhelekile yena uyisiphephelo sam Ndizama ukuba ndingayichazi le ntlungu ndinayo phambi kwakhe kodwa ndiyambulela uTHIXO ngokuba naye kwaye ndimthanda kwaye xq UTHIXO uyayazi indlela enza ngayo izinto, ndiyamcela ukuba andinike nomyeni wam amandla okoyisa oku Usizi kwaye kamva ukusisikelela kwakhona ngomnye unyana Kwaye ngomso kwigumbi lokusebenza lo THIXO unam nayo yonke into ihamba kakuhle… ..
UYAZI ANDIYAZI KODWA KWAYONA INTO UYIBALILEYO YENZEKILE KUM ngaphandle kokuba NDINESIPHUMO ESIPHELELEYO UKUQHUBEKA KWAM NDISAYALELE NENKONZO KODWA NDILINDELE YONKE INTO UKUFUMANA NGOKUQHELEKILEYO KUKUQINISEKA KAKHULU XA UNGAYAZI AKWENZEKI OKANYE OKUNGAKUMBI NGOKUBA YINTO YOKUQALA UMNTWANA WAM AM UZA KUZALISISA EZONA ZINE NGOKUPHELELEYO NGOKUPHELELEYO NGOKUGQIBELELEYO NOKUNGABUYEKIYO KUNYE NAYE NDINGazange NDIBE NAMAXABISO NGOKUPHELEKILEYO NOKUBA AQHUBEKE AQHUBE AKAZE ANIKEZELWE NGENXA YOKUKHULELWA KWAKHE MAYIJONGE UKUSIKHATHALELA SISIKHOKHELE KWAYE EMVA KOKUYA KWENZEKA UKUZE SISIKELELWE KAKHULU ...
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Kwiminyaka engama-28 ubudala ndaziva ndiloyena mfazi wonwabileyo emhlabeni ndikholelwa ukuba ndiza kuba ngumama .. Ndandinayo i-ultrasound emva kobufazi kwiiveki ezi-3 kwaye yonke into yayibonakala ilungile kwaye kwiiveki zam ezi-8 ndafumana enye i-ultrasound kwaye yanika iindaba ezimdaka ezi kum. Ndaziva ngathi umhlaba wam ulahlekile, ndaziva ndifa kunye nosana lwam, 'bendicinga ukuba ndim obekek' ityala okanye iqabane lam kodwa bekungenjalo. Kubo bonke abantu basetyhini abadlule kwimeko efanayo, ndiyabaxelela ukuba banokholo oluninzi kwaye uThixo uyakusinceda kuba le nkqubo inzima kubo bobabini abasetyhini kunye nabesilisa. ANIMOO !!
Molo AMI KWENZEKE KUM KABINI KANYE INYANISO SIYAZIVA SIPHAZAMISEKE KAKHULU WABUHLUNGU NOMNTU OBESEBENZA NGOKUFANELEKILEYO M NDINGAYITHI UKUBA LE ISISOMBULULO OKANYE KULUNGILE UKUNGASIZAMA KWAKHONA
Kunzima kakhulu ukwenza into enje kodwa ngokutsho koogqirha kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba yenzeke nokuba kukabini, okwesithathu baqala ukuyibona ingaqhelekanga kwaye kulapho kuya kufuneka uthathe iimvavanyo ukubona ukuba kutheni oko kusenzeka kuwe. Isibindi kunye nenhlanhla!
Molweni kum, nam yenzekile kum, ngoku nge 5 ka May ndafumanisa ukuba ndikhulelwe okwesibini ukusukela oko ndaqala ukukhulelwa kodwa ndalahleka, ngoku kwahlukile, ndandinemincili, ugqirha wandicebisa Ndenze i-echo kwiiveki ezisi-8 izolo.Ndenzile kwaye ngelishwa ndafumanisa ukuba ndikhulelwe umntwana ... kubuhlungu kakhulu. Ndiyoyika ukuzama kwakhona, ngaba inokwenzeka into efanayo ukuba iphinde yenzeke okwesithathu?
Ewe inokwenzeka kwakhona kwaye ukuba yenzekile, oogqirha baya kucelwa ukuba bakuvavanye ukuze babone ukuba kutheni kusenzeka oko. Unethamsanqa!
Molo, ndikhathazeke kakhulu kuba kwiinyanga ezidlulileyo bendinokulibaziseka kweeveki ezimbini, ndiye ndaluthatha uvavanyo lwabuya lubuyile kwaye kwiveki elandelayo ndafumana i-ultrasound apho kungakhange kubonwe nto kwaye bandixelele ukuba bendineeveki ezili-9 indala, inyanga kamva yayihamba nomnye ugqirha kwaye bandixelela ukuba ndineeveki ezintlanu kuphela, kuba ngokutsho kwam ndandisele ndineenyanga ezintathu ubudala, ndenza ubungakanani kwaye bandixelela ukuba ukuba ndineeveki ezintlanu kuphela , Kwiveki elandelayo bandibeka ndenza enye i-ultrasound kwaye ayikhange ibonakale ngathi akukho nto, sisikhwama sokukhulelwa kuphela, benza ubungakanani kwaye bonyuka kwakhona, baphuma ukuba ndineeveki ezi-5, bandibeka emva kweeveki ezi-3 kodwa mna yaya kwiveki elandelayo kuba bendisopha, emva koko bandithumela kwindawo yokunyanga, omnye ugqirha wandixelela ukuba Hayi, yayisisongelo sokukhupha isisu kwaye omnye wathi ewe, kuba ngosuku olulandelayo ndaphinda ndaya, nazo zonke iimbono zam ziphukile kodwa enye Ugqirha wayesiya kum kwaye wandixelela ukuba ndilinde iiveki ezimbini ngaphezulu ukwenza i-intravaginal ultrasound kwaye ibikhonaukuphumla kokuphuma kwegazi njengoko kuninzi ...
kwaye, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku akukho mntu undixelela ukuba kwenzeka ntoni; NgoMgqibelo kuya kufuneka ndiye kuba ne-intravaginal ultrasound kwaye ngethemba lokuba ndinike iindaba ezimnandi, kuba awazi ukuba ndilangazelela kangakanani ukuba nosana lwam ...
Andazi ukuba ndenzeni, kancinci andazi nokuba ndicinge ntoni ... inyani ndiyadimazeka, kodwa kwangaxeshanye ndithandaza kuThixo ukuba yonke into ihambe kakuhle !!!!
Ndenza ntoni… .. ndincede…. Ndithatha izimvo !!!!!
Ndiyathemba ukuba awukruquki sisicatshulwa sonke esingentla, kodwa ndinexhala ngokwenene: ´ (
Enkosi!!!!!
Ewe, ndikwimeko efanayo nawe, linda, ufunde, kwaye ulinde ngakumbi nangakumbi, ndingathanda ukukucebisa ukuba ungalahli ithemba, kodwa akunakwenzeka.
Ndiyakuxelela nje ukuba uDiosito wenza izinto ngenxa yento ethile, nangona singaqondi ukuba injalo.Kwimeko yam, khange ndimfune umntwana wam, bekumangalisa ukumitha, kodwa ndithe ndakufumanisa ukuba yayi inkohliso enkulu. Kwaye kubuhlungu ukuba ngoluhlobo, ngaphandle kokuba oogqirha bekuxelele into umntu angathanda ukuyiva. Ndiyopha, ndiyatofa. Kodwa ke, ndikucebisa ukuba ulinde, kukho ithemba lokuba iintsana zethu ziya kuhamba kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kamva.
I-CHIKAS EZILUNGILEYO KUM NGOMHLA Wayizolo BANDENZELE ISIQALO SOKUKHULELWA OKUNGABONAKALIYO, UKUBA NDINENKOZO ENOYIKEKAYO NJENGOKUBA KUKHO ICHIKAS EZINOKUKWENZA UKUKHIPHA ISISU NOKUNINZI XA NDIDIBENE NOMNTU ENDIXHUMANA NAYE, SASITHI BABY BABY BOM, MMM BANDIXELELA NGOKU NDIYAZI NDIKWI-QUARANTINE EMVA EMVA KWEKHARANTINI YAM KUFUNEKA NDITHATHE UNYANGO OLUQHELEKILEYO UKUZE NDIBALE NOKUZALELA KWAKHONA, KODWA UKUBA UNABUDLELWANE EMVA KWELIFA LAKHO KWAKHO BANDIXELELEYO NDIYAZI UKUBA UNAYO UBE YINCANCER YOKUNIKELA OKANYE UNGAYIBOLA NGAMADODA NOKUNYANZELEKA KWENDODA, INYANISO EBALULEKILEYO YOKULINDA NGOBA UMHLOBO WATHI NGOKUFANELEKILEYO XA WAYENOBUDLELWANO KUMENZE KAKHULU UKUBA ABE NESINI ... NGENXA yokuba ndicinga ukuba ndinokumfumana UMNTWANA »NGEZANDLENI… UTHIXO UYAZI UKUBA ETHENI ENZA IZINTO
Molo Usizi, ndiyakuqonda nyani, kwiintsuku ezili-11 ezidlulileyo ndaye ndanyangwa kwaye ndandineveki yeentlungu kunye nosizi olukhulu, namhlanje ndishiye ikhaya, ngenxa yenkxaso yosapho lwam endimi kulo, ndicinga ukuba Ndiyahamba nentlungu endikuyo njengoko kufanele ukuba kunjalo, ndihlala ndikhumbula ibinzana endaliphiwa ngumtshana wam "iintlungu azinakuphepheka, ukubandezeleka kungakhethwa", ke ndiyakhuthaza, phezulu nangaphambili, ngamava asinika wona uThixo ukuba sibe ngcono ebomini. -Namhlanje, yile ndlela ndiyibona ngayo- uThixo ubeka iimvavanyo kwaye asincede siphume kuzo, rhoqo ngemfundiso nokufunda ... Ngamana uThixo angakukhanyisela kwaye kungekudala uza kuphila emzimbeni, kodwa ngaphezu kwayo yonke imvakalelo.
Izolo umfazi wam wenze le nkqubo, enkosi kuThixo nogqirha ohambe iikhilomitha ezingama-40 ngentsimbi yesibini ekuseni umfazi wam unam, kuba bekungekho gqirha ulindileyo kuba bacela ukunyuselwa imivuzo kwaye abasebenzi busuku benomngcipheko wokuba impilo yabantu abaninzi abanjengomfazi wam, enkosi ngokungapheliyo kuThixo nakulo Gqirha umfazi wam uchacha phantse ngokungummangaliso, ndiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu yinto yokuba besifuna umntwana, kodwa ndifunde amanye amabali amaninzi kwaye ndizichonga kubo bonke Kukho ubomi lisekhona ithemba; ENKOSI KAKHULU!
Tyhila !! kuthi sonke ... into ekufuneka yenziwe ngabasetyhini esele benesisu esingaphezulu kwesibini kukukwenza uvavanyo lwe-TOXOPLASM Nceda uncede, olu vavanyo lubaluleke kakhulu kuba sesinye sezona zizathu zixhaphakileyo zokukhulelwa kweembumba. Njengoko ndibhalile kwimigca embalwa ukubuyela umva, kwenzeka into efanayo kum, benza i-MVA (inco-uterine aspiration okanye i-curettage) kwaye ukuba kubuhlungu kakhulu. Kwaye emva kwenyanga enye ndiyenzile le nkqubo, ixesha lam lafika kwaye andivumanga ukuba ndiphume igazi x iintsuku ezili-13 apho benza khona iimvavanyo ezingapheliyo bejonga unobangela wokopha kakhulu kwaye kufuneka benze enye iMVA kuba bekukho iintsalela. . Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva kweMVA yam yokugqibela kwaye ndiziva ndibuhlungu, ndibuhlungu. enkosi uThixo akusikelele
Molweni mantombazana kwiintsuku ezi-2 ezidlulileyo bendineyeza lokunyanga ngenxa yokukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kwaye kwiveki e-1 edlulileyo besiphupha ngokufika kosana lwethu, namhlanje ndiziva ngathi umntwana wam angabanjwa njani emzimbeni wam kwaye ndicinge ukuba kukho amawaka abantu ababhinqileyo akufuni.ukufika komntwana kwaye sisifa ukuba uthixo omnye kuphela uyazi ukuba kutheni esenza izinto namhlanje ndimcela nje amandla okufikelela ekuthatheni ukulahleka kwethu ndiyakuqonda mantombazana kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba niza kuba nethamsanqa kwilinge lenu elilandelayo
Molo, kungathatha ixesha elingakanani ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic, ngaphambi kokuba kuphume isisu? Kwiiveki ezi-5.6 Ndenze i-echo xa uvavanyo lwegazi lukhona kwaye bandixelela ukuba kwakusekutsha kakhulu ukuba ibonwe, ukuba izakubuya ngeentsuku ezili-15, kodwa sasifuna ukulinda ithutyana, ngoku ndiphakathi kwe-10 ne-11. iiveki, kodwa ndiyoyika ukuhamba kwaye akukho nto iphumayo 🙁 ugqirha, owayengenguye ugqirha wam, wandenza ndazifihla kwaye wandixelela ukuba andinayo i-matrix, kodwa andenzanga nalunye uluvo olothusayo, Ndifuna ukumbuza nantoni na, kuba ebengenguye ugqirha wam wesiqhelo, kodwa ngoku kufuneka ndibekelwe ixesha elilandelayo. inyanga ukuze ndikwazi ukuxoxa nodokotela wam kwaye ndisoyika ukwenza i-echo 🙁 ndiyathemba ukuba bangawuphendula umbuzo wam,
I-Slds !! 😀
Isizathu sokuba bakunike idinga emva kwexesha kungenxa yokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba kwakusekuseni ukubona umbungu kwaye mhlawumbi kamva kuya kubonakala. Kwimeko apho ibonwa, yonke into iya kulandela ikhondo layo eliqhelekileyo, kodwa ukuba akunjalo, ukuba awukayigxothi ngokwakho, kuya kufuneka benze unyango. Yiyo loo nto ungayishiyi, kwangoko uye ngcono, ndiyazi ukuba iyoyikisa kodwa ukuba kuya kufuneka ujongane nonyango kuya kuba nzima ixesha lihamba. Ngethamsanqa kwaye yonke into ihamba kakuhle 😉
Molweni ngo-Epreli ka-2011 bendinenyanga engaphantsi kwenyanga ndikhulelwe, kwaye kwii-ultrasounds isaka alibonisanga mntwana ungazalwanga, bendingazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi kweentsuku ezili-15 bandenzele iimvavanyo zegazi ukubona ukwanda kwe-BHCG andiyazi ukuba yintoni .Bendineminyaka eyi-5000 bandenza ukuba ndihambe ngengomso ukujonga ukuba iyenyuka na, ukuba ibinganyukanga bazakundinika isidanga kodwa le mali iphindaphindwe yaya ku-12000 ngoku umntwana wam una-8 iinyanga ubudala kuba emva kokungabikho, andiqondi kakuhle ukuba kwenzeke ntoni.
Molweni ... ndibhidekile malunga nalo mbandela, iqabane lam kunye nam ndizamile ukukhulelwa, kodwa izihlandlo ezibini zilandelelana apho into eyaziwa ngokuba kukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic iyenzeka, kuwo omabini la mathuba umfazi wam kuye kwafuneka ukuba afumane unyango lwesibeleko, kuba Esi sizathu sigqibe ekubeni sizikhathalele ngesixhobo, bekukho ngaphezulu konyaka emva kokukhulelwa "okokugqibela" kwaye sagqiba kwelokuba sisuse isixhobo, kodwa siyoyika ukuba izakwenzeka kwakhona, oogqirha abaqhelekileyo bathi eqhelekileyo kwaye inyani yimeko ethile enesidima kunye neyoyikisayo. Umfazi wam undixelele ukuba mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba isidoda sam besingakulungelanga, inyani kukuba ndinengxaki encinci kwaye ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba loluphi uvavanyo endinokuluthatha okanye ndingenza ntoni, enkosi.
Mholweni. Ewe ndiyazi ukuba iyavakala ukuba ayiqhelekanga kwaye iyakhathaza, kodwa ukuya kuthi ga ku-3 ukukhulelwa kolu hlobo kuthathwa njengesiqhelo, emva kwesithathu kuyaqala ukuba nexhala kwaye kuya kuba yimfuneko ukwenza iimvavanyo ukubona ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Ingxaki inokuba yeyakho neyakhe, kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba yeyakhe. Hlaziya, zama kwakhona kwaye, ukuba kuyenzeka kwakhona, ndikucebisa ukuba uye kwagqirha ukuze nivavanywe nobabini. Imibuliso kwaye yonke into ihamba kakuhle!
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Molweni, kwiminyaka emithathu edlulileyo, kwenzeka into efanayo kum, ndikhulelwe, inyani ibuhlungu kakhulu bendicinga ukuba andinakuze ndiphinde ndibenabo abantwana. Sele ndinentombazana eneminyaka emithandathu enesiqingatha ubudala. Kwafuneka ndiye kugqirha wokunyanga. Emva konyaka onesiqingatha saphinda sazama, besenze izifundo zofuzo ezihambe kakuhle… namhlanje sinosana lwethu, sele eneenyanga ezisixhenxe u-Ornella. ukukhulelwa okuqhelekileyo i-echo yokuqala abayenzileyo yayiziiveki ezi-6 bekhulelwe kwaye bandixelela ukuba umbungu awunakubonwa; Kwakhona ndacinga ukuba umhlaba uyehla kum ... sayiphinda kwiiveki ezili-7 sidlulile kwaye sasisele senziwe sonke
InNdikwimeko efanayo nawe, ukukhulelwa kwam kokuqala yayiliwele, ndashiyeka nosana olunye kuphela, ngoku uneminyaka eyi-6, iinyanga ezi-7 ezidlulileyo ndikhulelwe kwaye akukho nto inye ngokufanayo IYAFULEKA IQANDA, benza unyango lokunyanga. Ngoku ndikhulelwe iiveki ezintlanu kwaye ndiziva ndibhidekile kwaye ndiyoyika. Umhla wam wokuqala kule veki izayo, ngethemba ukuba yonke into ilungile. Ndikuxelela indlela eya emva kwam. ukwanga okuncinci.
Kungenxa yeengxelo zobuxoki ezinje ukuba thina basetyhini sihlala singazi nto ngemizimba yethu neemvakalelo zethu; kumama, usana lusana akukhathaleki nokuba lunosuku lokumitha okanye nokuba ziiveki okanye iinyanga ezingakanani. Ukuba ndilibonile eli nqaku kwiphephancwadi lezonyango ndingaliqonda, oogqirha besithi umbungu, umbungu, njalo njalo, kodwa endaweni apho kuthethwa noomama, ukunciphisa ulwimi kubuchwephesha bezonyango ngaphandle kokujonga inxenye yemvakalelo endiyifumana rhoqo ukukhulelwa Ayisiyiyo leyodwa kodwa ikwayiyo. Ukuphulukana nokukhulelwa okungaphendulwanga kunye nokuchazwa ngokungachanekanga kunye nokukhathalelwa kunokuba neziphumo ezibi kumama, kulwalamano lwesi sibini nakwezinye izinto ezininzi. Elona xesha lilandelayo endakha ndalifumana yayikukugula okungathethekiyo okubizwa ngokuba kukudakumba. Kuya kufuneka ufunde okungakumbi kwaye unolwazi, ungahlali nodaka olulula loko basixelela lona kunye nengcebiso yam kubo bonke oomama, soloko ucela uluvo lwesibini nolwesithathu, cofa ulwazi, funda, umamele, ufunde, musa hlala nezinto ezihlwempuzekileyo ezinje.
Hola
Ndinomnqweno omkhulu kwinyanga enye kwaye ndinonyango olwaluyinto yokuqala enbaraz yam. Kwiveki ephelileyo unyango bendinalo ubudlelwane neqabane lam kwaye ngoku ndinokukhutshwa okumhlophe okufuna ukunqwenela oku ndingakhulelwa ndinexhala kuba ixesha lam alikapheli
Ndikhulelwe ii-anembryonic ezimbini kumgama weenyanga ezintandathu omnye komnye inyathelo lokugqibela kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo iqabane lam kwaye bendifuna ukuba nomntwana kodwa kwiminyaka eli-10 eyadlulayo bandenza utyando kwaye ndinesibeleko esinye kuphela ngoko ndiyoyika ukuba ndiza ukungabinakho ukukhulelwa okanye into efanayo yenzeke kum kwakhona, inyani ibuhlungu kakhulu kukwazi ukuba awuzukuba nayo i-bb yakho kwaye uyilahlile, ndinqwenela, andazi ukuba ndenze ntoni.
Molo ndineminyaka eli-16 ubudala kwaye kwiintsuku ezili-15 ezidlulileyo bendinonyango kwaye nangona ndimdala ndinomntwana kwaye ndiyabona ukuba abanye babenempumelelo enkulu yokuba yi-enbarazar uloyiko lwam kukuba ngenxa yobudala bam inokundichaphazela xa umntu enokunceda mna enkosi
Molo, ndinguMayra, ndineminyaka eli-19 ubudala, kunyaka odlulileyo kwenzeka into efanayo kum kwaye ndiyoyika ukuphinda ndiphulukane nomntwana kuba ndihlupheke kakhulu xa kufunyaniswa
Molo, ndinguMayra, ndineminyaka eli-19 ubudala, kunyaka odlulileyo kwenzeka into efanayo kum kwaye ndiyoyika ukuphinda ndiphulukane nomntwana kuba ndihlupheke kakhulu xa kufunyaniswa
Molweni namhlanje ndibuhlungu kakhulu ndineeveki ezisi-7 ndikhulelwe ndine-echo yam yokuqala kwaye umbungu awuzange ubonwe bathi mandilinde iveki ukuze ndibone ukuba izakuphuma na xa kungafuneki ndilinde ukuyikhupha ndedwa ukukhulelwa kwam okwesibini okulandelayo kulandele omnye kwakungunyaka odlulileyo. Sele ndinamantombazana ama-2 aneminyaka emi-5 neli-3 ubudala kodwa nangona kunjalo ndiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu kwaye andifuni kuphinda ndiyenze le nto ke saye sagqiba kwelokuba asizukuphinda sizame.
Ndamitha ngembumba ngoAgasti 26, kwakubuhlungu kakhulu, ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba ndilinde ixesha elingakanani ukuze ndikhulelwe kwakhona
Ewe, kwiminyaka emi-2 ndikhulelwe ama-x ama-3…. Aba-3 bamitha inyanga yokuqala yomzamo… ..owokuqala (ngaphandle kwempawu zokukhulelwa okanye amabala) ukukhupha isisu okumiselweyo kuye kwayekwa kwiveki yesi-5 kwaye bandenza unyango ngo-8… Linda kude kufike ixesha lokuqala kunye nomnye umthetho x kwimeko apho ndicebisa i-gyne yam ... emva koko kwinyanga elandelayo ndikhulelwe kwakhona ... ngeli xesha lihambe kakuhle! Ndinomntwana oqhelekileyo nomhle wokuzalwa okuqhelekileyo nayo yonke into eqhelekileyo ukuba ndiqaphela isicaphucaphu, isiyezi kunye nokugabha ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa (uphawu dq luhamba kakuhle) …… kwaye xa unyaka uphendukile sizamile ukuya kubhuti nakhulelweyo kwinyanga yokuqala ngaphandle kwempawu kwakhona…. umqulu ombi… .Ndinendawo encinci endiyibonileyo kwaye ndiyiphindaphindile kwaye ndaphinde ndaya oooo kwiindlela zakudala zeminyaka emi-2 eyadlulayo, ukukhutshwa kwesisu okumiselweyo kwakume kwangoko kwaye kwakungekho mveku ... Ndifuna iimvavanyo kuba nantsi into isilele…. sizakwenza ...
Ndathi nje ndakufumanisa ngokukhulelwa kwam kwaye ugqirha wamazinyo wandixelela ukuba ikhona into engahambi kakuhle, wandixelela ukuba yayikukukhulelwa okungaphefumlelwanga, kodwa into endingayiqondiyo kukuba wayeyazi ukuba akukho kwanto anokuyenza kuba ucebise ukuba Ndilinde ezinye iinyanga ezimbalwa ukubona ukuba ikwazile ukuyiphuhlisa, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku indididekile kwaye ilusizi ndicinga ukuba ibiyimpazamo kwezonyango ..
Molo kule mihla, uza kukwazi ukukhulelwa, linda nje ixesha elide ungalahli ukholo, ungabinabo ubudlelwane njengeentsuku ezingama-45 ubuncinci emva kokuba wenziwe, ukuba le nkqubo yenziwa kuwe, ungalahleki UKHOLO LWAKHO OLELE BUDALA.
KANYE NENTO ENDIKHOLELAYO NGOKUQINISEKA NGOKUBA YONKE OKANYE OKUNINZI OKWENZEKILEYO BABENENJONGO YOKUBA NGUMAMA NOKUQHELEKA UKUZE UTHIXO NOBOMI BABANIKE.
INKOSI IKUSIKELELE.
Molweni… ndiziva ndineentloni xa ndafumanisa ukuba ndikhulelwe umntwana lowo ... Ndineeveki ezintlanu ubudala kwaye bendomelele kakhulu. Enkosi Thixo sele ndinabantwana ababini .. kwaye oku kukhulelwa kwesithathu sonke besijonge phambili… nangona kuye kufuneke ndilinde ukukhupha ingxowa kwaye ... Ndoyika kakhulu ukuba into enye izakwenzeka kwakhona ukuba ndiphinde ndamitha…. Inokwenzeka ukuba iphinde iphinde yenzeke… iyakuba ngumyeni wam otshaya kakhulu… iya kuba yingxaki leyo… nceda ndifuna undixelele into. . Le ntlungu ndiyivayo iyandoyisa….
Molo Katherine, ndibuhlungu kakhulu ngentlungu oyivayo ngoku. Ukuba ukhulelwe kanye emva kwexesha, oko akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka uphinde uphinde ukwenze oko. Andiqondi ukuba umyeni wakho uyatshaya unobangela, nangona ukutshaya kungalunganga kwimpilo kabani. Ukuba unamathandabuzo, buza ugqirha wakho, uya kubona ukuba yonke into iza kuphucuka. Ndiyabulisa!
Kungenzeka ukuba uvavanyo lokukhulelwa luhle, emva koko benze i-ultrasound kwaye kuvela ukuba ukukhulelwa kwe-anembryonic kubonakala kwaye kwinyanga kamva kwenziwa i-ultrasound apho ukuba kuvela umntwana? ... Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba oku kuyenzeka okanye kukho into engaqhelekanga kule meko
Molo uKarina, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo into oyifumeneyo ayiqhelekanga. Kuya kufuneka uye kugqirha wakho ukuvavanya imeko, imibuliso!
Molo, igama lam ndinguKatty, ndineeveki ezintlanu ndikhulelwe, ngenxa yezizathu zentlungu esiswini abandithumele ukuba ndibenayo i-ultrasound yangaphantsi, kwaye undixelela ukuba ubukho besikhwama sokukhulelwa esincinci sibonwa, kodwa ubukho umbungu awubonwa, mna Ugqirha wababhinqileyo wathi inokuba kukuthini x ukukhulelwa kweeveki ezimbalwa, ukuba kukho iimeko ezingezozabo bonke abantu basetyhini, kuhlala kwenzeka ukuba uhlala kwiiveki ezi-5 ne-6 kungakho ubukho umbungu kunye nokubetha kwentliziyo, inyani kukuba andazi ukuba ndicinga ukuba yintoni le indiphosakeleyo
Molo, mva kwemini, igama lam ndinguCecilia, ndineminyaka engama-25 ubudala. Xa ndandineminyaka engama-20 ubudala ukukhulelwa kwam okokuqala, ndenza uvavanyo kwezo zithengwayo ekhemesti kwaye yindlela endiye ndafumanisa ngayo emva kwethutyana ndisiya kugqirha wezifo zabanye ndonwabe kwaye wandixelela ukuba ndine-anembryonic ukukhulelwa kwaye benza unyango. Ukuphela konyaka ophelileyo kwaye ekuqaleni kwale nto saphinda safumanisa ukuba sikhulelwe, inyani yayikukuba, sasinemincili kakhulu kwaye ndaya kugqirha wamazinyo owandinika iyeza lokomeleza ukukhulelwa kodwa ekugqibeleni kwavela Ukubangumnye ukukhulelwa komzimba kwaye bandinika iyeza lokuyisusa kuba ibingeyiyo ndifuna enye indlela yokunyanga kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ndenze uvavanyo lwasekhaya olukuxelela ukuba unexesha elingakanani kwaye kwavela ukuba ndikhulelwe ngaphezulu kweeveki ezintathu ke ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndenze uvavanyo lwegazi lwaze lwaphuma lune-HIV, sele ndinemvelaphi endinayo, andiyifuni nokuyithetha kumyeni wam ukuze ndingamonwabisi kwaye andifuni nokuya ugqirha ngenxa yokoyika. Kuphela kwakhona kwavela indawo emdaka kwaye ndineentlungu kwinqanaba le-ovary elungileyo, sele ndenze idinga nogqirha ngomso kodwa inyani kukuba ndiyoyika kakhulu andazi ukuba kutheni le nto isenzeka kum, ndiyayenza Andifuni ukucinga ukuba yenye kwaye ukuba kunjalo, kutheni isenzeka; (
Molo upase x ngoku ngoku, ndicela kwenzeke ntoni xa unokuba nosana lwakho?
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Ola ndineminyaka engama-23 ubudala. Kwaye sele ndikhuphe isisu esineembumba, esokugqibela kwinyanga ephelileyo, bandinike ithuba lokukhetha phakathi kwonyango kunye nemisoprostol. Ndenze isigqibo sokukhetha i-misoprostol kwaye ndibulela uThixo yonke into ihambe kakuhle khange ndibenazo iintlungu ezomeleleyo bendiziva nje ukuba ndiye exesheni. Ndingathanda ukwazi ukuba kutheni le nto isenzeka kum emva kweminyaka emibini ndingazikhathalelanga kwaye ndigcina ubudlelwane neqabane lam. Kwaye xa ndifumanisa ukuba ekugqibeleni ndikhulelwe, kwenzeka into efanayo kum njengesihlandlo sokuqala. Ngaba kungenxa yokuba iqabane lam lineminyaka engama-49 ubudala kwaye akusekho mncinci ngokwaneleyo ukuba angaba nabantwana? Okanye konke kuya kuba yimpazamo yam.
Enkosi ngqalelo.
Molo Tania .. Ndikhe ndakhulelwa ii-anembryonic ezimbini eziye zaphela kunyango lweeveki ezili-9 .. yinto ebuhlungu kakhulu ... inyani kukuba, ndiziva ndibuhlungu kakhulu ... eyokugqibela. KwakungoNovemba 2016 phantse iinyanga ezintandathu ... ndicinga ukuzama kwakhona ... kodwa inyani iyandoyisa. Uloyiko ... bangamaphupha amabi okusola ... ngakumbi iimvakalelo ezixubeneyo ebomini ??? Umyeni wam ucebise ukuba ndifuna uncedo lwengqondo kwaye inyani ayindenzi nokuba ndifune…. Kubuhlungu kakhulu ukuyibhala .. khawufane ucinge ngentlungu kunye neentlungu zokuba uxelele umntu ongamaziyo? Ndiyathemba nje ukuba obu buhlungu ngenye imini buya kundivumela ndiqhubeke nobomi bam ???
Molweni mantombazana, kwenzeke into efanayo nakum. Ndizamile ukukhulelwa emva kwexesha. Nge-37 ndikhulelwe, yayikukukhulelwa kwam kokuqala kwaye akukho nto yayiyi-anembryonic, amava andenzakalisa kakhulu, bandenza unyango ngeeveki ezisi-7. Iminyaka emibini enesiqingatha idlulile ukuba ndikhulelwe kwakhona, bendinemincili kodwa kwangaxeshanye ndisoyika ukukhulelwa kokuqala, bendisoyika ukuphinda kwenzeke, kwaye yenzekile. Ndaya kugqirha ngeveki yesi-5 kwaye i-ultrasound ayibonisanga nto. Ugqirha wathi ibingekabonwa kodwa kubonakala ngathi ikhona into eqala ukubonakala. Ukukhohlisa kwakukhulu. Emva kweeveki ezimbini ndiye kwi-ultrasound nakwi-doc. Uthe akukho nto kwaye ixesha kunye nobungakanani bengxowa azingqinelani. Ngobungakanani besingxobo, ukukhulelwa bekuseziveki ezi-5 kwaye umbungu awukabonakali. Bandithumele izifundo ze-cgh kwaye iziphumo yayikukukhulelwa okungapheliyo. Emva kokumitha kabini ngolu hlobo, ngaba ulahla ithemba?
Molo Mel, siyaxolisa kuba udlule kula mava. Ihagi.
Molo, igama lam ndinguGabriela, ndineminyaka engama-21 ubudala. Kunyaka ophelileyo ndafumana amava okukhulelwa anembryonic kwakubuhlungu. kodwa yonke into iyenzeka ngento ethile. ngoku emva kweenyanga ezi-6 zolo lwazi. Ndikhulelwe ndineeveki ezili-12. Kwaye, kanye kuphela xa ndiye e-gyne kodwa bandixelele ukuba khange kubonwe ukuba ndineeveki ezi-5 kuphela kwaye ngoku andifuni ukuhamba ndisoyika ukuxelelwa ukuba sesinye isisu ngokufanayo kodwa mna Sele ndineeveki ezili-12 ndingophanga andizange ndibenangxaki kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba uThixo akafani nomnye. Kungenzeka ukuba ibikukukhulelwa okungaphefumlelwanga, ngendivele ndopha? ?
Molo, ndinqwenela kuphela ukuba yonke into ihambe kakuhle kakhulu, kwaye ungabinangxaki. Uya kusixelela.
Molo, umbuzo wam kukuba ndineeveki ezisixhenxe ndikhulelwe kwaye ndivotela ubumnyama phakathi kwegazi elinombala okhanyayo.
Nge-17 ndandikugqirha kwaye baqhuba uchuku kwaye intamo ivaliwe.
Benza uvavanyo lwe-beta lwenyuka, baphinde bandingqinela, kufakwe umgqomo wombungu kwaye wabetha u-103 ngomzuzu kodwa ndiyaqhubeka nokuvota igazi, ugqirha undixelele ukuba kulungile kodwa kude kube nini kufuneka ndibenje kwaye ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo leyo? Enkosi
Ndineminyaka engama-38 ubudala, kungafuneka ukuba ibe ziiveki ezi-6 kunye neentsuku ezi-4, kodwa kuhlolo lwam lokugqibela lweentsuku ezi-4 ezidlulileyo ugqirha wandixelela ukuba kubonakala ngathi ndikhulelwe iveki enye, kuba ingxowa ayinanto , ingxowa ikhulile kodwa umbungu awukabumbi. Ndixhalabile. Olona phawu bendinalo kukudinwa kwaye amaxesha ngamaxesha isiyezi, ubunzima bokulala, kodwa iintsuku ezimbini ukudinwa kwam akukanciphisi, ndiyabona ukuba kunciphile kakhulu, andiziva ndingonwabanga xa ndihleli, ukungabikho kwezi mpawu kuyandoyikisa . Ndimele ndiye kugqirha zingaphelanga iintsuku ezili-10. Ngaba oku kuye kwenzeka komnye umntu kwaye ngesiphelo esimnandi? Enkosi
Kutshanje bendikhulelwe esibelekweni kwaye indalo sele iwenzile umsebenzi wayo, kufanelekile nini ukuthatha izinto zokucwangcisa?
hla ndineeveki ezisi-7 ngoMvulo ndahamba ne-dctr yam wenza i-ultrasound wandixelela ukuba kuphela le sac ingabonwanga sisisu iye yandithumela kwi-hcr ukubala kwehomoni kwaye yaphuma ukuba ndine-3446.76 mlu namhlanje ndiyiphindile kwakhona nangomso ndiya kuziqonda iziphumo. Uloyiko lwam kukuba bendine-colic eninzi kwaye ngoLwesibini bendisopha kancinci, bekuncinci kodwa ugqirha wam unike ithemba kumntu oza kundinceda, plisss.
Molo, kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo ndaye ndaphelelwa kukumitha phantse iinyanga ezintathu. Ngaphandle kwako konke okubi kukudlula kuko konke oko, ilahleko yayikhawuleza, ingebuhlungu kakhulu, kuthathe phantse iiveki ezintathu ukuba ukopha kwam kube nzima kakhulu emva koko kwehla. Kwiintsuku ezintathu ezidlulileyo, ukopha kwam kwaqala kwakhona, inyanga emva kokugqibela, ndilahlekelwe kakhulu kwaye ndinesifo esibuhlungu ngakumbi kunesiqhelo, ngethamsanqa ndiphantse andabi nazintlungu ukuba kwixesha elidlulileyo bendisiva isithintelo esichaza into oyiyo izakuba nayo. Ndenze i-echo kwiiveki ezimbini ezidlulileyo kwaye bandixelele ukuba yonke into ilungile. Umbuzo ngulo, amahlwili am ngoku amanye aqhelekileyo? Enkosi kakhulu, ithamsanqa kubo bonke. ULaura
Molweni, ndinamava okukhulelwa ngoluhlobo ngoAgasti 16, 2017 bandinika ameu kwaza emva kweentsuku ezili-14 ndalala phakathi ekuqaleni ndazikhusela emva koko hayi kwaye nangona iphelele endundwini yam ndinentandabuzo ukuba ndingakwazi ndiyabona ndikhulelwe emva kweentsuku ezi-3 ke ndafumana umthetho wam weentsuku ezili-12 ndenza uvavanyo lwasekhaya ndaza ndafumana i-xfa, umntu andixelele ukuba ndiyabona ukuba ukhulelwe
Molo, ndiyakuxelela kwiintsuku ezi-4 ezidlulileyo ukuba bandixelele ukuba ndinemveku engekazalwa kwaye khange ndenze into yokunyanga okanye nantoni na, kwiintsuku ezintathu ezidlulileyo ndopha kodwa kancinci kwaye andikophisi kwakhona, ndazi njani ukuba ingxowa yesithintelo sele Phuma?
Molweni mantombazana, besele ndikhulelwe i-2 anembryonic, kwaye ndifuna ukuyizama okokugqibela ndisiya e-gyne ndayalela i-geslutin200mg, folic acid, ndiyoyika ayizukusebenza
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Oku kuyakhathaza kakhulu
Nge-24 kaJulayi bendineyeza lokunyanga ukuba ndikhulelwe umbungu kwaye inyani kukuba ndiyakugqithisa kuba ndinabantwana abathathu, inyani yile, eyesine ayisiyompazamo kodwa luxanduva olukhulu kakhulu.
Kwiveki ezimbini, bendizakunxiba iti yobhedu, ibizwa apha, kwaye kutheni besithi kum abanako ukuyifaka kuba ndikhulelwe kwakhona? Inyaniso ndixhalabile kakhulu, kuba kuye kwenzeka ukuba kumfazi kulula ukufana kwaye ngoku kunjalo
Ndandinobudlelane neqabane lam kodwa ngela xesha akazange aphele ngaphakathi kum, hayi nangoku ngoku ndikhulelweyo okanye le ndiphulukene nayo, andoyiki kakhulu kuba ukumitha kwam bekunzima kakhulu ngengqondo yokuba andinakukwazi nokuma Iimpawu ezindinika okwangoku ndimbi kakhulu olona loyiko lwam lukhulu kukuphinda kwenzeke, kuthatha iinyanga ezimbini, kunokwenzeka ukuba iphinde yenzeke kum
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