Kubantu bezemidlalo xa usapho lwandisiwe, ingqondo yabo iya kwindlela yokudibanisa ilungu elitsha kwimidlalo. Enye yeendlela zokwenza oko kukubulela kwisitulo sebhayisikile. Ke ungahamba kamnandi kunye nomntwana wakho ngebhayisekile. Ukuze ukwazi ukukhetha eyona ilungileyo ngokweemfuno zakho, siza kukuxelela ukuba zeziphi iintlobo ze Kukho isihlalo sebhayisikile ukukhetha esona silungileyo.
Ungaluthwala njani usana lwakho ngebhayisekile
Isihlalo sebhayisikile somntwana sinokufumaneka kwiivenkile ezikhethekileyo zokunyamekela abantwana, ezemidlalo nakwezinye iivenkile zesebe. Ukususela kwiinyanga ezili-8 ukuya kwi-20 kilos, singathatha abantwana bethu sihambe nabo ngeebhayisekile. Uninzi lwezihlalo lubalungele abantwana abaphakathi kweenyanga ezili-9 kunye neminyaka emi-4. Umda ongezantsi uya kuxhomekeka kumandla omntwana wokuhlala ngaphandle kwenkxaso kwaye ke oko kuthintele ukwenzakala entanyeni, kwaye umda ophezulu uya kuxhomekeka kubunzima bakhe kunokuba abe mdala kwaye ukusukela ngoko uya kukhwela ibhayisekile yakhe. Ukuba umntwana wakho mncinci kakhulu, unokukhetha izitulo ezingqengqile ke akufuneki uhlale ixesha elide kwaye ungalala phantsi.
Isitulo sebhayisikile senzelwe ukuba umntwana angonwaba kakhulu kwaye angabelana ngendalo kunye nemidlalo nabazali bakhe. Soloko uqinisekisa oko kuvunyiwe Ukhuseleko oluthe kratya, lukhuselekile kwaye ulandela imigaqo yokhuseleko ezindleleni.
Izinketho zokukhetha kwisitulo sebhayisikile
Ngaphakathi kwezihlalo zebhayisikile sinokukhetha ezimbini: izitulo zangaphambili nezitulo ezingasemva. Ngokokuthanda kwakho kunye neemfuno zakho, kuya kufuneka ubone ukuba yeyiphi efanelekileyo ityala lakho. Indlela yokukhwela isali iya kuxhomekeka kwibhayisikile yakho, kuba ayizizo zonke ezixhasa ukhetho olufanayo.
Izihlalo zangasemva
Olu khetho lubonelela ngakumbi ngentuthuzelo kunye nokhuseleko lokuhamba ngenyawo. Ziza kuyilo oluyi-3: ezinye zine-overhang evela kwisihlalo setyhubhu, ezinye ziqhotyoshelwe kwirack yangemva okanye ziqhotyoshelwe ngqo kwityhubhu yesihlalo. Ayizizo zonke iibhayisekile ezamkela iinketho ezi-3 ke kuya kufuneka uthathe ingqalelo kwiimpawu zebhayisikile yakho okanye ukuba uza kuyithenga, ikhethe ngokuxhomekeke kuhlobo lwesali oyikhethayo.
Ezi ndidi zezihlalo zilungele abantwana iinyanga ezili-9 nangaphezulu kunye neendlela ezindala, kuba umntwana uyakwazi ukulala. Yifayile ye- olula kunye nolona khetho luqhelekileyo, kwaye ukuba kukho nasiphi na isiqhoboshi umzimba wethu uya kusebenza njengomqobo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yeyokuba kubantwana abadala isihlalo sinokuguquguquka kakhulu, ibhalansi imbi kakhulu ukuba umntwana uyahamba kwaye asizukuba naye umntwana kwicandelo lethu lombono. Iyafuneka bukela iiankile njengoko ubunzima, ukungcangcazela kunye nexesha zinokwehla. Nakuphi na ukuthintela akukho kancinci ukuba sithetha ngokhuseleko lwabantwana bethu.
Izihlalo zangaphambili
Emarikeni uya kufumana izihlalo zangaphambili zokuhambisa umntwana ngaphambili kwibhayisikile. Zihlala zincanyathiselwe kumbhobho ophezulu, kwibrakethi kwityhubhu yentloko, okanye kwibhar eqhotyoshelwe kuyo. Ivumela umntwana ukuba abonwe ngamaxesha onke, umntwana uyayibona imbonakalo yomhlaba, ibhalansi ibhetele kakhulu kwaye kulula ukuyibeka kwaye uyikhuphe. Kufuneka Kuya kufuneka ube nokuphakama okuphakathi okanye uya kunciphisa umbono wakho kakhulu.
Kwi-cons kufuneka xa ukuwa kuyingozi, kuba umntwana akanakuba nalo naluphi na ukhuseleko kwaye angathatha lonke ifuthe, awunakunyathela njengoko ukhululekile kwisitulo sangasemva njengoko kuthatha indawo eninzi kwaye Ubhentsiswa yingqele kunye nomoya. Banconyelwa ngakumbi abantwana abancinci kakhulu nabakhanyayo, ukuze bangaphazamisi ibhayisekile.
Ukuziqhelanisa ngaphambi kokuthatha abantwana bakho, ungayenza ngengxowa yeetapile ukubona ukuba itshintsha njani ubunzima. Kwaye xa uthenga isihlalo soloko ukhetha abo banamahashe akhusela imilenze kunye namacala ukukhusela ukuwa.
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