Ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho iyathintitha, namhlanje lusuku lwabo. Rhoqo ngo-Okthobha 22nd Usuku lwaMazwe ngaMazwe lokuLumkisa, ukuxhasa abantu abakule meko. Khumbula ukuba kubaluleke ngakumbi mamela umntwana lento ayithethayo kunale ayithethayo. Ukuzithemba linyathelo lokuqala lokoyisa ukuthintitha.
Sifuna ukukunika imithambo ethile ukusebenza nokunceda abantwana abathintithayo ekhaya. Kwelinye inqaku esele sithethile ngemikhwa ethile, kunye nokuzilolonga okuphefumla okunokukunceda. Ungazifumana apha.
Ukuzivocavoca Ukuthintitha kwabantwana abanokukwenza ekhaya
Olunye umthambo oluya kunceda umntwana othintithayo kuye wonke umntu, kwaye lumfundise ukulawula ukuphefumla kwakhe kukwenza vuthela ibhaluni. Kuqala ungamcela umngeni wokuba ayifukuzele ngesixhenxe, emva koko ibe mihlanu kwaye ekugqibeleni kwisithathu. Unokwenza okufanayo ngamakhandlela, ukonyusa usuku ngalunye. Omnye umdlalo omnandi wabantwana kukwenza amagwebu esepha, okanye ushukumise ibhola ujikeleze itafile ngengca. Yonke le mithambo isebenza ukomeleza amalungu athethayo.
Cula naye iingoma ezahlukeneyo ezineziingqisho ezahlukeneyo. Nje ukuba udlwengule kwaye omnye alinge nge-opera kunye nelitye. Oku kwahluka kwesingqisho kuya kukunceda ulawule ngcono ukuphefumla kwakho. Abantwana abathintithayo abaqhelekanga ukuthintitha xa becula, ngoko unokurekhoda ukuze bakwazi ukuva ukuba baqhuba kakuhle kangakanani. Chaza ukuba oku kunjalo kuba ukucula "kulawula" ngcono ubungakanani bomoya ekufuneka ukhutshiwe.
Enye indlela eya sebenza isingqisho nabantwana abathintithayo kungokufihla. Imalunga nokuthumela ingxolo endlebeni yomntwana ukuze angaweva amazwi akhe. Unokwandisa amagama, ngakumbi izikhamiso, nokuba kukwindawo yokuqala, embindini okanye kwindawo yokugqibela.
Imidlalo emininzi yabantwana abathintithayo
Ungadlala zama chukumisa impumlo ngolwimi, ukuba isisihlunu kwaye kufuneka uzilolonge. Umahluko kukuncamathisela ulwimi lwakho ngaphandle nangaphandle kokuchukumisa imilebe yakho, kwaye uyityhale kangangoko unako. Lo msebenzi unokuphindaphindwa ukuya kumaxesha angama-20. Mkhuthaze ukuba asebenzisane nesantya, ngokukhawuleza okanye kancinci.
Eminye imidlalo kunye nokuzilolonga okunokwenziwa nabantwana abathintithayo kukuba xelisa izandi zezilwanyanaOku kuya kunceda ukuba ube nokutyibilika okukhulu, kwaye iintambo zezwi ziyavuseleleka. Le midlalo ayiphuculi nje kuphela ingxaki kodwa ikwenza kube mnandi kuwe.
Njengentsapho unako dlala ukugqiba izivakalisi. Umzekelo, yithi: umntwana uyadlala, kwaye uthatha isigqibo, phantse ngaphandle kokucinga ukuba angayiphelisa njani. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ungacingi ngempendulo, ukuba iyazenzekela. Kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha kuya kufuneka uzame ukwandisa kwaye wandise ubunzima besivakalisi.
Kucetyiswa imikhwa ekhaya ukoyisa ukuthintitha
Xa sisekhaya kunye nenkwenkwe okanye intombazana ethintithayo kufuneka sikhuthaze a indawo yokhuseleko nethemba ukwenzela yena. Indawo efanayo inokuba yinto efanelekileyo kuthi ukuba siyidlulisele kootitshala besikolo nakwiintsapho zethu. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abantwana babe neyabo Ixesha lokuthetha, abafuni ukubaleka bathethe. Akufuneki sifune isantya, okanye sigqibe izivakalisi zabo.
Njengoko besesitshilo ngaphambili, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana abathintithayo bangaziva bejongelwa phantsi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sikuncede ukunciphisa uxinzelelo Ngelixa sikhulisa ukuzithemba, ngenxa yoku kufuneka siphucule ezinye izakhono. Ukwazi amandla akho kuya kunceda umntwana wakho ukuba alwele kwaye aphucule ngakumbi yonke imihla.
Ezinye iingcebiso esikunika zona zokuphucula ukuthintitha kukuba umntwana alele kwaye phumla iiyure eziyi-8 ngosuku, ungaseli iziselo ezivuselelayo, ezinjengecola, okanye ukutya okunezipayisi. Ukubukela iikhathuni ezininzi ezinoburharha okanye iimuvi zihlala zidala uxinzelelo olukhulu. Ngayo yonke le mithambo kunye nemidlalo umntwana wakho uya kuphucula kancinci kancinci, kodwa khumbula ukuba ube nomonde kunye nokuqonda okuninzi kunye naye.