Ukuncancisa yenye yezona zinto zintle ezikhoyo. Ukuba umzimba wakho ulandela umlingo emva kokubeleka ngokunika umntwana wakho ukutya akufunayo ngomnye ummangaliso wobomi. Kodwa ayisoloko imnandi kwaye iyamangalisa, ithiyori kufuneka yenziwe kwaye ayisoloko iqhubeka ngendlela umntu afuna ngayo. Namhlanje siza kuthetha ulubeka njani usana ekuncanciseni ukukunceda ukonwabele la mava amangalisayo.
Fumana intlawulo elungileyo
Kukho iintsana ezinqabileyo ngokumangalisayo ebeleni ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala kodwa nazo kukho ezinye iintsana ekunzima ukuzifihla. Oku kunokubangela iintanda ebeleni, iintlungu xa uncancisa, okanye umntwana engakufumani ukutya akufunayo. Oku kunokubangela ukwaliwa kukamama xa encancisa okanye ukungakwazi ukwenza oko ngenxa yeentlungu kunye namanxeba akuvelisayo.
Indawo obeka kuyo umntwana ibalulekile, kwaye kuya kufuneka ufumane eyona ikulungeleyo wena nosana. Khumbula ukuba ukuncancisa akufanele kukulimaze. Thatha ixesha lakho ngelixa ukhangela imeko yakho efanelekileyo kwaye ube nomonde. Fumana indawo ethuleyo nefanelekileyo yokuncancisa, njengoko uza kuchitha iiyure ezininzi kwesi sikhundla.
Uya kwazi ukuba ibibambe kakuhle ukuba injalo umlomo uvulekile ngemilebe ngaphandle, ngezidlele ezingqukuva, isilevu sichukumisa isifuba kunye nempumlo ayivalwanga. Umlebe ongezantsi ugubungela i-areola yesifuba kakhulu kunomlomo ongaphezulu, kwaye indlebe kunye netempile zihamba ngesingqi ngokutsala. Xa ikhutshwa, isifuba sinobude obujikeleziweyo kunye nokujikeleza, kwaye asinakukhubazeka.
Ungalubeka njani umntwana wakho ekuncanciseni
- Indawo yokubeleka. Ngaba isikhundla eqhelekileyo ngakumbi, ingakumbi xa zincinci. Ngengalo enye uxhasa intloko kunye nomzimba wosana, kwaye unika isifuba selungu elifanayo lengalo. Umntwana kufuneka ajikiselwe kuwe. Elinye ingalo likhululekile ukuliphathaphatha, okanye ukubamba ibele.
- Indawo yomnqamlezo. Iyafana neyangaphambili, kuphela ngeli xesha usana lubanjiwe ngengalo ejongene nebele ekufuneka inikezwe. Ngeli thuba intloko yosana ayigcinwanga ngokusonga kwengalo, kodwa ngesandla sangakwelinye icala. Njengakuleyo yangaphambili, umntwana kufuneka ajikiselwe kuwe ukuphucula ukubambelela.
- Indawo yebhola. Kukulungele ukuba unecandelo le-cearean okanye ukuhanjiswa kwamawele. Ngoncedo lomqamelo okanye umqamelo owubeka ecaleni lakho, umbeka umntwana ukuze iinyawo zakhe zibuye umva kwaye intloko yakhe ikwinqanaba lesifuba. Kukuma kwabadlali bombhoxo. Ngesandla sakho unokubamba intloko nentamo yakhe. Kukwalungele ukuba thintela ukuthintela okunokubakho okanye isifo sokukrala kwebele.
- Ukuma kwendalo. Yeyona ndlela yokuma yendalo, efanelekileyo kubantwana abasandul 'ukuzalwa. Iintsana zizalwa zinomnqweno wokuncanca kwaye ziya kufuna ingono yakho ide izikhusele. Ukuba ubabeka kwesi sikhundla baya kuncancisa ngokukhawuleza. Ngelixa uhleli okanye ugobile ngokungathi ngamabele akho abhencekile, usana lwakho lubeka phezu kwakho. Lixesha elifanelekileyo lokwenza ulusu kulusu.
Ngaba ukuncancisa kufanelekile?
Ewe, oomama abaninzi bathi ukubona ubuso beentsana zabo kwenza yonke into. Yiva ukuba unxibelelwano olukhethekileyo kunye nolukhethekileyo oomama abanalo nabantwana babo, into esondelelene kakhulu ekungekho namnye umntu onokuba nayo. Kukwa kokona kutya kulungileyo kubo, kwaye kungumthombo wothando nentuthuzelo.
Kodwa oku akusoloko kunokwenzeka kwaye akufuneki uzibethe ngokwakho, okanye uzijonge njengoomama ababi. Ngamnye wethu uneemeko zakhe namava, kwaye Sikhululekile ukuba sigqibe ngendlela esifuna ukubondla ngayo abantwana bethu.
Kungenxa yokuba khumbula ... kuphela uzazi iimeko zakho, awunyanzelekanga ukuba uzithethelele nakubani na malunga nokhetho lwakho.