Kwisibeleko, usana luhamba rhoqo nokubetha kwentliziyo kanina. Ukongeza, ukutya kuhlala kukhuselekile kwaye kukhuselwe kutshintsho olukhawulezileyo kukukhanya, ubushushu okanye ingxolo enkulu. Ukuzalwa ngumzuzu obuthathaka kakhulu kubomi bomntu. Kwimizuzu nje embalwa, usana kufuneka luziqhelanise notshintsho olukhulu, luhambe ukusuka kubutofotofo kunye nokukhuselwa kwesibeleko ukuya kwindawo enobutshaba engaqhelekanga.
Ukwenza izinto zibe mandundu, sizalwa singakhuli kakhulu, singakwazi ukuzondla okanye ukuzondla. Kungenxa yoko le nto wonke umntu iintsana zabantu zifuna ixesha lokuziqhelanisa nobomi bangaphandle, ngexa apho, kufuneka baziva ubushushu, ukhuseleko kunye nentuthuzelo ababenayo xa babesesiswini sikaMama. Kwaye kufezekiswa njani oku? Ewe, ilula kakhulu, ukuziqhelanisa nayo Indlela yoomama beKangaroo okanye unxibelelwano lolusu nolusu.
Ulusu kulusu kubantwana abazelwe ngaphambi kwexesha, xa uthando luba lunyango
Ukuba ukunxibelelana kolusu nolusu kubalulekile kusana olusandula kuzalwa, cinga ngendlela ekuyimfuneko ngayo ukuba umntwana azalwe ngaphambi kwexesha. Ezi ntsana azikugqibi ukukhula kwabo kwesibeleko, kwaye banovakalelo ngakumbi kutshintsho olwenziwe ngokuzalwa. Kubo, ukuziqhelanisa nemo engaphandle kuyinkimbinkimbi ngakumbi. Ukongeza, ziziintsana okanye ezibhedlele, ezahlulwe kwiintsapho zazo kwaye zenziwa kuvavanyo oluninzi lwezonyango. Konke oku kuthwala amanqanaba aphezulu oxinzelelo. Ke ngoko Bafuna iidosi eziphezulu zothando, ukunxibelelana ngokwasemzimbeni kunye namava amnandi.
Zithini izibonelelo zonxibelelwano lolusu nolusu kwiintsana ezizelwe ngaphambi kwexesha?
- Iyayithanda i ubudlelwane obudibeneyo phakathi komntwana nabazali bakhe. Iintsana ezizalwe ngaphambi kwexesha zihlala zichitha iiyure ezininzi zodwa kwizifukamisi, ke ukuziqhelanisa nolusu nolusu kubalulekile ukumisela olo manyano.
- Ukuququzelela ukusekwa kokuncancisa. Ukuqhagamshelana nolusu nolusu kuthanda ukunyuka kobisi enkosi kukhuthazo lokusondela kosana. Ngale ndlela, ukufunxwa kosana okanye ukukhutshwa ngunina kuququzelelwa.
- Iyanciphisa uxinzelelo wosana nabazali. Kuyacutha nexesha lokukhala komntwana kunye namanqanaba oxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka.
- Abazali bafunda uku yazi isingqisho kunye nemiqondiso yosana Ukuziva ukhuseleke ngakumbi kwaye ophambili ekunyamekeleni umntwana wakho. Usana luziva lukhuseleke ngakumbi kwaye lukhuselekile.
- Uncedo lawula ubushushu bomzimba, izinga lokuphefumla kwentliziyo kunye nokuphefumla.
- Iimpawu ixesha lokulala nzulu ngakumbi yomntwana ngokunika ixesha elithe cwaka nelokuphumla lomntwana nabazali.
- Iyayithanda i ukukhula kwenkqubo ye-nervous system kunye nokuvuselela uvakalelo ngoxinzelelo.
- Iingqisho zokuphefumla zomntwana kunye nomama ziyahambelana ukunciphisa ixesha lokuphefumla.
- Iyanciphisa ukusebenza kwemoto kunye nemisipha ukuze amandla agcinwe kwaye ikhuthaza ukuzuza ubunzima.
- Iyanciphisa umngcipheko wosulelo onokufunyanwa esibhedlele. Ukongeza, ukunxibelelana kolusu nolusu ngokudibeneyo nokuncancisa kuyakuthanda uphuhliso lomzimba.
Kukho ubungqina obandayo bokuba indawo yokuhlala yendalo yosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa ngumzimba kanina. Ngesi sizathu, kule mihla, indlela yoomama bekhangaru ithathwa njengenye yeenkqubela phambili ezinkulu ekunyamekeleni kwezi ntsana. Ngomntwana ngaphambi kwexesha, unxibelelwano lolusu nolusu uthando, ukhuseleko kunye neyeza.