Ukuba nabantwana kumnandi kakhulu. Ukuba ngumama ngamava obomi awodwa kwaye angenakuthelekiswa nanto ekungekho mama unokutshintsha nantoni na emhlabeni. Kodwa, ngaphandle kwako konke ukonwaba okusizisa ngokuba ngoomama kusizisela, siyayazi loo nto Ukuba ngumfazi nomama akukaze kube ngumsebenzi olula. Kuyinyani ukuba, namhlanje, abantu basetyhini bakwazile ukoyisa ubunzima kunye nezithintelo ababephantsi kookhokho bethu. Namhlanje, abasetyhini bazimele, siyasebenza kwaye sithatha isigqibo malunga nokuba sifuna ukuba ngoomama nini kwaye njani.Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kwenkqubela esele siyenzile, ukuba ngumfazi nomama kuyaqhubeka nokuba ngumceli mngeni. Abafazi banamhlanje, kufuneka sijongane nezithintelo ezihlala kuluntu apho ukungxama, imveliso, imali nokubonakala komzimba, zizinto ezixabisekileyo ezikhoyo. Ukongeza, ukukhathalela abantwana, ikhaya kunye namanye amalungu osapho iseyindima phantse ihlala idlalwa ngabafazi, ke, nokuba usebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya okanye akunjalo, Ukuba ngumfazi nomama yinto entle.
Umfazi nomama, kakhulu kunokuba ucinga
Isivusi siyakhala kwaye utsibela ebhedini. Emva kweshawari ekhawulezayo, uvusa abantwana bakho, ubanike isidlo sakusasa, ulungise iimpahla zabo, ulungiselele into yokutya esikolweni kwaye ungxamile ukuya nabo esikolweni nasekusebenzeni. Ukuya ekhaya akukho lula kakhulu. Ukuthatha abantwana, ukubalungiselela ukutya, ukubasa kwimisebenzi, ukubanceda ngomsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya, ukuthenga izinto, ukuhlamba, uku-ayina ... Ngaba kuvakala kuyinto eqhelekileyo leyo?
Ayinamsebenzi ukuba ungumfazi wasekhaya okanye usebenza ngaphandle. Uninzi lwabasetyhini, sijamelene noxanduva olungenakubalwa kunye neentsuku ezingapheliyo kunye nexesha elincinci lokuzinikela kuthi okanye ukonwaba. Kwaye, sithatha ngokungakhathali ukuba le misebenzi ihambelana nathi kuba sizelwe singabafazi.
Oomama abasebenzayo, Akufuneki nje ukuba sibonise ukuba siwulungele umsebenzi wethu. Kwakhona kufuneka sibe ngabantu abatshatileyo, oomama abalungileyo, amantombazana amahle kunye noomama abalungileyo. Njengokuba oko kwakunganelanga, kufuneka sijongane netyala lokungakwazi ukuchitha ixesha elaneleyo nabantwana bethu, lokudlulisela inkathalo yabo kubantu besithathu kunye nokulahleka amaxesha amaninzi obomi babo.
Oomama abathatha isigqibo sokuhlala ekhaya abanangxaki ngokulula. Ukuchitha iiyure usenza imisebenzi efanayo yonke imihla, ukhathalela abantwana abancinci kwaye uhlala unomdla kwiimfuno zabanye, kunokuba nzima. Inyaniso yokunganikeli ngemali ekhayeni ihlala isenza sizive singaxabisekanga kwaye ixhomekeke kumaqabane ethu. Ukongeza, kumaxesha amaninzi, imvakalelo yokuziva ulilolo koomama.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Oomama baziva benyanzelekile ukuba bafezeke. Ubukele umabonwakude kwaye ubukele intengiso okanye uthotho ngoomama abangenakubekwa, bobabini nabantwana babo kunye namakhaya abo. Usebenzisa i-intanethi kwaye uphambene ujonge iifoto zeejezi ezinithiweyo, iithoyi ezenziwe ngesandla, iikeyiki zokuzalwa kunye nesonka esenziwe ekhaya, ngelixa uthenga kwivenkile esekoneni kwaye upheka oko ukwaziyo, ngamanye amaxesha ubhenela kwinto esele uyiphekiwe kuba unganikezeli ' t inika ubomi. Konke oku kudala amanqanaba athile oxinzelelo kunye neemvakalelo zokuba asiyenzi indima yethu njengoomama kakuhle.
Njengokuba oko kwakunganelanga, namhlanje, uninzi lwethu lukhulisa lodwa. Zihambile iintsapho ezinkulu apho bekusoloko kukho umntu okhoyo onokukunceda kwaye nalapho abantwana bakhuliswe khona nabantakwabo, oomalume, abazala kunye nootatomkhulu noomakhulu. Namhlanje, imodeli yosapho yenyukliya iyaphumelela kwaye Oomama bazifumana bebodwa kunye nokuthandabuza kunye nokungaqiniseki malunga nokuba ngumzali.
Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kwabo bonke ubunzima obunokubangelwa ngumama, uthando olukhulu abantwana bethu abasikhukula ngalo kunye novuyo lokubabona bekhula besempilweni kwaye bonwabile, konke oko kuluncedo. Kungenxa yokuba uncumo oluvela kuye lukhanyisa indlela yethu. Ngenxa yokuba somelele kwaye sikhaliphile. Ngenxa yokuba sikhathalelwe, ukutya, inkxaso kunye nenkxaso yemvakalelo Kuba kubantwana bethu sesona sihamba phambili. Kungenxa yokuba nangona inokubonakala ngathi injalo, asiyoyona superheroines, siyinto enkulu ngakumbi. Singabafazi noomama, ngaphezulu kunokuba ucinga.