Ukuziphatha okuhle ekhaya kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bakhule kakuhle, Kwaye njengoko usazi, umzekelo wabazali ubalulekile. Enye yeenqobo ezisisiseko kuphuhliso lwabantwana bakho nakuluntu ngokubanzi yile yokuba nombulelo.
Abantwana bafunda ukuba nombulelo kuqala xa bengafumani yonke into abayifunayo. Oku kubalulekile, kwaye ke, kubalulekile ukuba ungabaniki abantwana bakho yonke into abayicelayo, nokuba ungabanika yona. Kuya kufuneka wenze umsebenzi olungileyo wokukhetha kunye nokubeka phambili izinto abanokuba nazo ngaphezulu kwento abangenako ukuyenza.
Yintoni eyenzekayo xa befumana yonke into abayifunayo kwaye bayicelile kukuba balindele yonke into abayicelayo. Ungangumzali othi ewe ngokukhawuleza kwiimfuno zabantwana, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba ungabaphulaphuli okanye uphephe ingqumbo, kodwa olu lukhetho olubi. Oku akusetyenziselwa iimfuno ezisisiseko, kunjalo, kodwa kwizinto ezigqitha kwizinto eziyimfuneko ebomini. Baza kuba nombulelo ngezinto abazifumanayo xa ungabaniki konke abakucelayo.
Ukongeza, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bafunde ukuthi 'nceda' kwaye 'enkosi'. Thetha nabantwana bakho malunga xa umntu othile ebapha isipho esihle, loo mntu (okanye umama okanye utata wabo) kuye kwafuneka baye emsebenzini ukuze bafumane imali yokuthenga eso sipho. Thetha malunga nokuba kulungile kanjani ukuba nabahlobo abanomdla kunye nosapho kuba ayinguye wonke umntu onayo ebomini babo.
Benze babe noxanduva lokubulela abanye, ngomlomo nangokubhala. Xa umntwana wakho efumana isipho, bacele ukuba babhale inqaku lokubulela. Akufuneki ukuba ibe nde kwaye ibe liciko. Ukuziqhelanisa nokuthatha ixesha ukubhala ubulele kwaye nokuxabisa isipho kuyabanceda ukuba benze umbulelo. Esi sisakhono esixabisekileyo esiya kuhamba kunye nawe ngonaphakade.
Abantu abanombulelo ngabantu abonwabileyo nabo, ke nceda abantwana bakho babone ukuba kufuneka babe nombulelo ngeentsikelelo, ezinkulu nezincinci, ebomini babo.