Ukuba uqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho ukufuna kakhulu, mhlawumbi ucinga ukuba ukwimfuno ephezulu. Imfuno ePhakamileyo (AD) abantwana baneempawu ezifanayo: Bafuna, banamandla, bafuna ingqalelo, bafuna ukukhuthazwa rhoqo, njl.
Kodwa ukuba unamathandabuzo malunga nokuba umntwana wakho angabakho kwimfuno ephezulu kuba usemncinci kakhulu, kukho ezinye izinto ezinokubonisa ukuba ujongene nomntwana oFunwayo oPhakamileyo. Khumbula ukuba yi-idiosyncrasy yayo kwaye kufuneka umamkele njengoko anjalo. Xa sele emdala, ezi mpawu ziyakudinisa ngoku uya kwenza kakuhle kuye.
Ezinye zeempawu:
- Ayiziqhelanisi ngokulula; Unobunzima ekwamkeleni ipatheni yokulala kwaye unokungaqiniseki kwindlela yokutya kunye neepateni zokuhamba.
- Usebenza kakhulu; naxa ulele, ihamba yonke indawo esililini.
- Akakuthandi ukubekwa wedwa okanye ukuvalelwa kwindawo yokulala, isihlalo semoto, okanye ophethe umntwana.
- Uvakalelo kakhulu ekubambeni nasekubambeni; Akakuthandi ukushiywa emhlabeni okanye ukushiywa yedwa; ifuna ukubambelela ngokwasemzimbeni kokubanjwa (kwelinye icala, ezinye iintsana eziswele kakhulu azithandi ukuchukunyiswa- amanabukeni akakho ndawo kwezi ntsana).
- Ayinakuguquguquka kakhulu; ayikuthandi ukugqithiswa kwaye ayilwamkeli ngokulula ukhathalelo
- Awunakho ukuzola xa ukhathazekile
- Ayithandi ingxolo eninzi okanye ukhuthazo (Usuku kwivenkile exakekileyo lunokukhokelela kubusuku bokulila njengoko usana luzama ukuphinda luphile kukhuthazo oluninzi kakhulu.
- Ukulila kakhulu, uhlala evuka kwi-naps ekhala kakhulu. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakalisa utyekelo olomeleleyo kwezi mpawu, kunokwenzeka ukuba usekupheleni kwesidingo esiphakamileyo senqanaba.