Abazali abatsha banoloyiko oluthile njengoko ukuzalwa kusondela. Ngaba siya kuyenza ngokufanelekileyo? Ndiza kuyazi njani into oyifunayo? Ngaba siza kuyenza? Luloyiko oluqhelekileyo lwento engaziwayo, kwaye akwaziwa ukuba iya kujongana njani na. Usana luxanduva olukhulu oluxhomekeke kuthi iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku. Yiyo loo nto namhlanje sifuna ukuthetha nawe malunga indlela yokunyamekela usana lwakho, ukusombulula ezinye zolo loyiko.
Indlela yokunyamekela usana lwakho
- Gquma iimfuno zakho ngokuqhubekayo kwaye ngokwaneleyo. Le yeyona nto iphambili, ukuba zonke iimfuno zakho zigutyungelwe. Batyise oko bakufunayo (nokuba uyawancancisa okanye ubisi olungumgubo), qinisekisa ukuba abagodoli kwaye babe nediaper ecocekileyo neyomileyo. Ukongeza, ikwajongana neemfuno zabo zothando kunye nokhuseleko, oluya kuphawula ukukhula kwabo ngokweemvakalelo.
- Coca ulusu lwakho kakuhle. Mcoce kakuhle, ngakumbi xa utshintsha idiaper ukuze acoceke kwaye ahlaziyeke. Amanabukeni amanzi kwaye amdaka anokucaphukisa ulusu lwabo kwaye angakhululeki kakhulu kubo. Beka ukhilimu wokuthambisa ukuze uphephe ukucaphuka emazantsi ayo.
- Lunge kakuhle ulusu lwakho. Ulusu lweentsana luthambile kwaye luthambile, kwaye kufuneka lugcinwe kakuhle ukuze kungabikho ukucaphuka. Ukwenza oku, hlamba iimpahla zakho kakuhle ngaphambi kokuba uzinxibe, sebenzisa amalaphu endalo ezifana nomqhaphu, ilinen okanye uboya obukhuthaza ukubila, kwaye baphathe ulusu lwabo ngeekhrimu ezifanelekileyo kwiintsana.
- makalale. Iintsana zichitha imini yonke zilele. Ukuba ulele emini, makalale. Akuyomfuneko ukuba uzithobe iimfama okanye uyeke ukwenza ingxolo ukuze uphephe ukumvusa, kodwa musa ukumvusa ucinga ukuba ngale ndlela uya kulala ngakumbi ebusuku. Ukuba udinwe kakhulu kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi kuwe ukuba ulale.
- Jonga ukuhamba kwamathumbu akho. Ilindle labantwana linika ulwazi oluninzi. Qaphela ukuhambelana kwayo kunye nombala. Ukuba zilulwelo, ziluhlaza okanye zinevumba elibi, yiya kugqirha wabantwana.
- Mphulule. Unokusebenzisa inzuzo yayo yokuphumla emva kokuhlamba, ngoko uya kulala ngcono. Ungaphoswa linqaku "umnika njani umntwana wakho eyona massage ilungileyo."
- Hlalutya ukukhala kwakho. Ngokuhamba kwexesha uya kuyazi kakuhle into efunwa ngumntwana wakho ngokuxhomekeke kuhlobo lokukhala. Kuphela kwendlela yabo yokunxibelelana abanayo, kwaye baya kusebenzisa uhlobo olwahlukileyo lokulila ukuvakalisa indlala, ukungakhululeki, intlungu,… ungakhathazeki, kungekudala uya kudityaniswa kakhulu ukuze wazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuye ngokumphulaphula nje.
- Jonga i-colic. Iintsana ezininzi ziphathwa yi-colic. Bayajijitheka kwaye bayakhala ukubonisa ukungonwabi kunye nokungonwabi kwabo. Dibana nogqirha wakho.
- Ukuba ukhala ngokungathuthuzeleki. Qinisekisa ukuba akalambanga, kwaye unediaper ecocekileyo. Ukuba akunjalo, usenokungakhululeki ngenxa yesikhundla sakho, isinxibo sakho, okanye ngenxa yokuba kukho into ekukhathazayo. Guqula indawo yakhe ukuze abone ukuba inokuba yiyo na. Khangela kwakhona ukuba ubushushu bufanelekile na, kwaye akukho shushu okanye kubanda kuye. Khangela kwakhona ukuba zonke iigesi zikhutshiwe. Kuphephe ukumshukumisa njengoko oku kunokubangela umonakalo. Ngaphambi kokuba uphelelwe ngumonde, phuma kwigumbi, uphefumle kancinci uze ubuyele ngaphakathi, okanye Unokucela uncedo kwiokso.
- Sika iinzipho zakho. Kuze kube yinyanga enye akuyimfuneko ukunqumla izipikili zabo, ngaphandle kokuba babanjwe. Zama ukwenza xa belele okanye xa uphuma ebhafini, babophe ngetawuli ukuze bangashukumi.
- Dlala kwaye uthethe naye. Abantwana bafuna ukukhuthazwa ekufundeni kwabo. Ngemidlalo sibafundisa izinto ezininzi, nokuba bancinci kangakanani na. Ungamfundela amabali kwaye uthethe naye, eyona nto ilungileyo kukuba nizonwabele nobabini. Eli nqanaba lidlula ngokukhawuleza kwaye uya kukhumbula xa wawulusana. Yonwabele ngokupheleleyo kwaye ungagxininisi kakhulu ngokufanelekileyo. Ithuku lakho liya kukuxelela into ekufuneka uyenzile, kwaye uya kufunda okunye.
Kaloku khumbula...umntwana wakho uxhomekeke kuwe, kodwa ungazilibali nawe.