Akukho mntu uthanda ukulinda, ngakumbi ukuba ngabantwana abancinci. Abantwana bafuna ukuba iimfuno zabo zaziwe ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba ukhulisa abantwana abancinci uzokwazi ukuba yonke into 'ngoku', okanye 'ngoku' ukuze bangakhathazeki. Kungenxa yoko le nto ibaluleke ngakumbi kubazali qala ukufundisa umonde kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi babantwana bakho.
Ukuba ufuna abantwana bakho bahlakulele ukunyamezelana nokungakhathali (okungathandekiyo kuye wonke umntu) ukuze bangaziphathi kakubi okanye benze ngokungxama, kuya kufuneka ufunde ezinye iindlela.
- Menze alinde. Sukwenza konke ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana wakho efuna into. Vumela umntwana wakho azive elinde nokuba ngumzuzwana. Musa ukumnika ijusi ngoko nangoko, umzekelo.
- Mxelele ukuba uziva njani. Abantwana abancinci abakwazi ukuveza ukukhathazeka kwabo ngenxa yokulinda, ke ngoko kubalulekile ukubaxelela indlela abavakalelwa ngayo ukuze baqonde kwaye babonise indumiso xa bebonisa umonde.
- Ziqhelanise nemisebenzi ekhuthaza umonde. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba enze izinto ezingazivelisi iziphumo kwangoko, ezinje ngokwenza iphazili, ukutyala imbewu, kunye nokubukela isityalo sikhula ngokuhamba kwexesha. Qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho akanazo izinto ezikhuthazayo kwangoko njengaxa edlala ithebhulethi enikezela iziphumo kwangoko ngokucofa iqhosha.
- Dlala imidlalo esekwe ekujikeni. Xa kukho imidlalo kwaye niyatshintshana, kuya kufuneka nisebenze umonde ngelixa nilinde ithuba lokuqhubeka nokudlala. Imidlalo yeklasikhi njengeLudo okanye abahloli ngumzekelo olungileyo, kodwa zininzi ezinye.
Xa usebenza kumonde ukusukela emncinci, iziphumo zexesha elide zinokufezekiswa kwaye baya kufunda ukuba umonde unokunika ulonwabo kunye nolwaneliseko.