Abaselula banokufunda ngokukhawuleza ukuba ukucaphuka okanye ukuvukela kukukhathaza kwaye bafumane oko bafuna ukukucaphukisa. Nangona kubonakala ngathi kuyadinisa, kubalulekile ukuba ungaguquguquki kwimfundo nakwiziphumo ozinika abantwana bakho. Xa umntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo esazi ukuba awukho, uya kusebenzisa ithuba, kodwa ukuba uyazi ukuba unjalo, akunakufane kwenzeke ukuba uphikisane ngezinto ezingenamsebenzi.
Kodwa, kuya kufuneka ube nengqiqo. Kubalulekile ukuba umamele indlela yokucinga yomntwana wakho kwaye ujonge ukuba unokuhlengahlengisa na kwiingcinga zabo. Oku kuthetha ukuba kubalulekile ukuba ungaguquguquki njengoko ukubonisa ubhetyebhetye ngexesha elifanelekileyo lokwenza njalo.
Into onokuyenza:
- Gcina unxibelelwano luvulekile kwimeko yokungathathi cala ngezigqibo ekufuneka uzenzile nomntwana wakho ofikisayo. Xa umntwana wakho ethatha inxaxheba kwisigqibo, uya kubanakho ukubambisana ngokuzithandela kwaye ngaphandle kokulwa ukuze afumane enye indlela.
- Ukuba ubungahambelani okanye ungenangqiqo ngamanye amaxesha, Kuya kufuneka uxolise ngokukhawuleza nangokunyanisekileyo. Ukuba uzivuma iimpazamo zakho, umntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo uya kubuxabisa ubukroti bakho kwaye uya kuqeqeshwa ukuba akulungele ukuvuma ezabo xa kufanelekile.
- Nangona lo ingangumsebenzi odinisayo, kuya kufuneka uzame ukuya khona yonke imihla. Umntwana wakho ofikisayo ufuna ukhokelo kunye nokuzimisela kwakho njengomzali. Ukuba ubona kuwe ubuthathaka okanye utata okanye umama ongaziyo ukuba angamfundisa njani, uya kuziva engazinzanga kwaye engazithembanga ngokweemvakalelo. Oku kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki ezinzulu kwimpilo yakho yeemvakalelo. Ukuba unamathandabuzo ngendlela yokusingatha iimeko kunye nonyana / intombi yakho yokufikisa, ungathandabuzi ukufuna uncedo lobuchwephesha ukuze bakunike isandla kwimfundo yabantwana bakho kwaye uzive ukhuseleke ngakumbi xa ukhulisa abantwana bakho abakwishumi elivisayo.