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Ubomi buzele ziingxabano kwaye ukuba ungumzali, usenokuba uqaphele ukuba iingxaki zobudlelwane ziqhelekile. Kodwa ukungqubana nabantwana bakho akufuneki kubonwe njengento engalunganga, ukuba ayililo thuba elihle lokusondela kubo ... Ukuba awuyiboni injalo, uya kuqala ubaleke kubo phantse Ukuyiqonda, kwaye eyona nto imbi kakhulu ... wena ngokweemvakalelo phantse ungazi.
Abantwana bafuna ukhokelo lwakho, kodwa ukohlwaya nanini na ucinga kufanelekile kungonakalisa ubuhlobo bakho. Ukuba wohlwaya abantwana bakho ngokungakhethiyo, umntwana wakho uya kuziphatha kakubi kwixesha elizayo. Kuyimfuneko ukungqinelana nezenzo, yehlisa umoya ngaphambi kokwenza isigqibo kwaye ngaphezulu kwayo yonke into uthathe umoya ococekileyo ngaphambi kokuba ube nesohlwayo. Khumbula ukuba abantwana bakho bafunda kwizinto abazibonayo.
Iifissile ezincinci zinokuqokelelana, zivelise iingxaki zobudlelwane kusapho kunye neengxabano ezinkulu eziya kujika zibe ngamanxeba ekunzima ukuwaphilisa. Ukuba kukho into engalunganga phakathi kwakho nomntwana wakho, kufuneka nifumane indlela yokusombulula ngendlela elungileyo. Isigqibo sokushiya icala lakho (ngaphandle kokuba okwethutyana kunye nobuchule) siyakonyusa ukungqubana ngokweemvakalelo kwaye umntwana wakho uza kurhoxa ngokweemvakalelo, eneneni. Yonke ingxabano mayibe lithuba lokusondela… hayi ukudala umgama.
Kungenxa yoko le nto emva kwempixano nganye kubalulekile ukuba usebenzele ukunxibelelana nabantwana bakho kwakhona. Abazali ngabo ekufuneka babonelele ngokhuseleko kunye nendawo yokuhlala enovakalelo, bafana ne-ankile yabantwana babo, njengeyona khampasi ilungileyo ukuze bazi indlela yokuziqhelanisa neli hlabathi elingayeki ukutshintsha. Xa abantwana bohlulwe kubazali babo baya kufuna elinye inani ekubhekiswa kulo ngamaxesha afunekayo ukuze baqhubeke nokukhula.