Asazi ukuba umntwana wakho udlala kangakanani kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka adlale ngaphezulu ... Ukudlala yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobuntwana. Ndiyabulela kumdlalo, abantwana bayonwaba kwaye bayakwazi ukufunda ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuba bayafunda. Ngelishwa, baya besanda abantwana abangadlaliyo njengoko bebeqhele ukwenza.
Abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka eli-12 abanalo ixesha eloneleyo lokudlala simahla, njengokubaleka okanye ukukhwela ibhayisikile. Kungenxa yokuba abantwana bachitha ixesha elininzi besenza umsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya okanye izinto zangaphandle kunye nexesha lokudlala simahla liyacuthwa okanye lipheliswe. Xa abantwana bedlala, bathanda ukwakhiwa (imidlalo, imidlalo yebhodi, njl.
Abantwana bafuna ixesha elingakumbi lokudlala ngokukhululekileyo nangokuzimisela. Ukudlala lilungelo elisisiseko labantwana kwaye kubalulekile ukuba bakhule ngokuchanekileyo emzimbeni nasengqondweni. Ukongeza, umdlalo unceda abantwana ukuba baphuhlise iimoto zabo, izakhono zentlalo kunye neemvakalelo, zivuselele ukucinga kunye nobuchule bokuyila, ikhuthaza izakhono zoluntu, ezemvakalelo kunye nokusombulula ungquzulwano.
Kuko konke oku kubalulekile kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abazali babeka umdlalo okhutheleyo nesimahla kubomi babantwana babo. Kungenxa yokuba bona, njengoko kufuneka bafunde ukulandela imigaqo, kufuneka bafunde umxholo wezifundo okanye bakhule ngokulula ... bayakudinga babe nexesha labo lokudlala ngokukhululekileyo kwaye kungabikho mithetho.
Bafuna ukuseta eyabo imithetho kwimidlalo abayenzayo. Ke ngoko, ukusukela ngoku, vumela abantwana bakho ukuba babe nexesha lasimahla apho bangenzi nto khona, akufuneki balandele imigaqo okanye nantoni na eyakhiweyo. Uya kumangaliswa yindlela eziza kuthi zibacingele ngayo kunye nobuchule bokuyila kwaye wonwabe ngengcinga yakho.