Uninzi lwabantwana luzalwa lunayo amabala eluswiniSihlala sisithi zii "brand on a whim", nangona inkcazo yezenzululwazi yenye into. Amachaphaza axhaphakileyo anokuba ziindidi ezahlukeneyo kwaye avele kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zomzimba. Into ebizwa ngokuba "luphawu lwengwamza" okanye "ukwanga kwengelosi" zezinye zezona zixhaphakileyo.
Zintoni kanye kanye?
Olu hlobo lwendawo lupinki ngombala kwaye lubangelwa kukuxinana kwemithambo yegazi. Umbala wayo uyaqina xa umntwana ekhala, ecatshukiswa okanye xa iqondo lobushushu litshintsha (ngomkhuhlane, umzekelo). Ukuba uyayicofa, iyaphela kwimizuzwana embalwa.
Olu hlobo lwamachaphaza luqhele ukubizwa ngokuba "luphawu lwengwamza" xa livela kwinkawu yentamo, ngelixa libonakala ebusweni kuthiwa "ukwanga kwengelosi."
Ngaba kufanelekile ukuba ndikhathazeke ukuba umntwana wam unayo?
Hayi, olu hlobo lwebala alukhathazi kwaye akukho mfuneko yokwenza naluphi na uhlobo lonyango. Ukuphela kokungonwabi kunokubangela ubuhle, ngakumbi ukuba buvela ebusweni bakho, kodwa ayikho enye into.
Ngaba iya kuze isuswe?
Ewe, eli bala lilokwexeshana kwaye liyanyamalala xa lineminyaka emithathu ubudala. Ukuba ayinyamalali, ingcali inokusetyenziselwa ukuyisusa nge-laser.
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