Xa umntwana ewile ebhedini, kunokwenzeka ukuba sothuke. Nangona kunjalo, ngomzuzwana wokucinga kubalulekile hlala uzolile kwaye uzame ukuvavanya ukuba ukhe wahlangabezana naluphi na uhlobo lomonakalo, nangona uninzi lolu hlobo lwengozi ludla ngokushiyeka luloyiko.
Kwiimeko ezininzi sihlala singabazali ngokwabo ukuxilongwa ngokukhawuleza kwindawo leyo kwaye siyaqaphela ukuba ngenxa yesi sizathu akufuneki siye kwigumbi likaxakeka. Kodwa ngaphakathi kwamathandabuzo asazi ukuba luhlobo oluthile lwesalathiso esinokufunyanwa, iyasivuma ukuba bekufanele ukuba senze uvavanyo oluchanekileyo ngakumbi kwaye siye kugqirha.
Yintoni into yokuqala ukuyenza ukuba uwe ebhedini?
Okokuqala kufuneka yenza uvavanyo kwaye ujonge apho ibethwe khona. Inokuthi ibethwe emaphethelweni, isisu okanye umqolo, kodwa elinye lawona malungu asikhathazayo kakhulu asentloko.
Ukuba sibona ukuba kukho iqhuma entloko, singabeka umkhenkce omncinci ukunciphisa ukudumba. Uninzi lwezi ntlobo zengozi zihlala zinobungozi, kodwa kuyakufuneka ubekhona xa usana luye luqalisa ukugabha, ukozela ngokweqile okanye ukwenza ngendlela engaqhelekanga.
Ungenza ntoni xa ubetha entloko?
Ukuba ukubethwa kuye kwafunyanwa ikakhulu entlokweni, kunokuba kukwenzakala okukhulu ekhakhayini lobuchopho kwaye ngenxa yoko kufuneka simjongile. Njengoko sele sichazile, iqhubu linokuphuma kwaye lizame ukulizolisa ngomkhenkce omncinci. Kwelinye icala, ukuba kukho inxeba elincinci, kuya kufuneka gquma ukopha.
Ukuba umntwana wopha kakhulu kwaye akukho ndlela yokumisa ukopha Kuya kufuneka uye esibhedlele ngokukhawuleza kwaye uhlala ucofa ngobunono indawo eyonakeleyo ngegauze.
Xa ukugabha kukho inkxalabo?
Ukuphalaza kuyakhathaza ukuba ukubetha kwangoko uqala ukugabha, kule meko kuthetha ukutshintshwa okungxamisekileyo ukuya ekliniki. Kodwa kukho iintsana ezicatshukiswayo kukukhala kakhulu emva koko zigabhe. Kule meko kuya kufuneka silinde kwaye sibone ukuba akukho uhlobo lokuphendula ngokungaqhelekanga ngokupheleleyo, Ukuba akunjalo, kunokulindeleka ukuba ibingeyonto.
Ukuba uninzi lwenzeka emva kokugabha kunye abayeki sisizathu sokusa kwigumbi likaxakeka. Yonke into kufuneka ihambe ngokweentlungu ezomeleleyo, ukuba umntwana uyakhalaza, uyakhala kwaye ukhala kakhulu ngelo xesha ingxaki inokuba nzulu.
Ndididekile kwaye ndibhidekile
Ukuba umntwana une isimilo esingaqhelekanga sokudideka, ukudideka okanye ukuba ulahlekelwe yingqondo, iya kuba sisizathu sokuba uye kwigumbi likaxakeka. Nokuba ukuxhuzula akukwenzeki kwaphela kwaye kufuneka kubekwe phambili, kwaye nokuba awuboni, awuthethi, okanye ushukume.
Ezinye iintlobo zeziphumo
Ukopha ezindlebeni okanye emathatheni emva kokubethwa kufuneka kube sisizathu sokumsa kwigumbi likaxakeka. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba akukho igazi emhlophe kweliso. Elinye ityala elinobuzaza kuxa sibona ngeliso lenyama ukuba ezinye zeengalo zakho, imilenze okanye naliphina ilungu lomzimba wakho alinayo i-anatomy echanekileyo kwaye inokuba kunjalo ukhubazekile. Kule meko unokuba nokugruzuka okanye iinyembezi ezomeleleyo.
Nangona kunjalo, kunokuba kukuwa okunye ngakumbi njengabanye esele yenzekile ngaphandle kweminye imiphumo. Isigqibo iya kuba kukuzama ukuvavanya usana kwaye ubone ukuba kwiiyure ezimbalwa ezizayo liza ngokuchanekileyo. Ukujonga kwakho kufuneka kubekhona ubuncinci kwiiyure ezingama-24 ezizayo.
Ngeziganeko ezizayo kufuneka siqiniseke ukuba isitya sokulala okanye ibhedi apho ulele khona ikhuselwe kakuhle ukuze ingawi emhlabeni. Iibhedi sele zixhotyisiwe ngemivalo yazo ehambelana nazo, kodwa ukuba umntwana sele emdala ngokwaneleyo kwaye ubalekile, kuyakufuneka beka umgangatho othe tyaba ukuze ungazenzakalisi xa uwe. Olunye unyango olunokusebenza kukuba ukuba ulala ebhedini, ubeke isithintelo sokukhusela, kwaye ukwazi okungakumbi ngayo unokufunda inqaku lethu indlela yokukhetha efanelekileyo.