Iintsana ezininzi zizalwa zinezikhonkwane ezinde kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo oko okoko zenziwa azikayeki ukukhula. Icala elisezantsi kuphela kukuba iintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa zihlala zihlala bathambekele ekuthatheni izandla zabo ebusweni kwaye ukushukuma kwabo kungalungelelananga, banokukrwela kwaye kwezinye iimeko baphindaphinde. Ngenxa yokuba ulusu lwabo lubuthathaka kwaye lulungile, nakuphi na ukukrala kushiya uphawu.
Sihlala singabazali, ngeyona njongo yethu, siyilungisa ngokubeka i-mittens kubo kwakamsinya nje emva kokuba bezelwe. Kubonakalisiwe oko Iintsana kufuneka ziphuhlise umnwe ezandleni zazo kwaye zilazi ilizwe ngazo ke i-mittens iqale ukudimazeka ngabazalisikazi abaninzi kwiiklasi ezininzi zokubeleka. Ukuba umntwana wakho uzalwe enezikhonkwane ezinde kwaye uziva ukhululekile ukuzisika, ezi ngcebiso zinokukunceda:
- Sebenzisa izikere ezincinci ezijikeleziweyo; Ziyacetyiswa ngakumbi kunezixhobo zesikhonkwane kuba zisivumela ukuba siqhube ngcono kwaye sibe nokuchaneka ngakumbi ekusikeni.
- Zisike xa ulele; uya kuwuphepha umngcipheko wokusika ulusu ngentshukumo enokuthi yenze.
- Nangona iintsana zinezikhonkwane ezithambileyo, kunokuba lula kuwe ukuphatha emva kokuhlamba.
- Musa ukuzigcina zimfutshane kakhulu njengoko unokusika isikhumba ngaphantsi. Icebo lokuphepha oku kukwahlula isikhonkwane kancinci kulusu, ngobunono ucofe umnwe wosana.
- Thatha ixesha lakho, kwaye ukuba awunakulinga, cela umntu akufundise ukuba ungayenza njani ukuze uzithembe. Uya kubona ukuba kulula kunokuba kubonakala.
Ngezi ngcebiso ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuphumelela kwinjongo yakho yokusika iinzipho zomntwana wakho zifutshane. Ngokuya bekhula kuya kusiba nzima ngakumbi kuba abazukuyeka ukuhamba kwaye abayi kuvumela ukuba izandla zabo zingabinamandla, ke iqhinga lokusika xa belele liya kuba lelona qabane lakho lihle.