Akukho ndlela yakukhusela ngokupheleleyo ubudlelwane bakho kwimpembelelo yokufika kosana ebomini bakho. Usana luyamangalisa kwaye luyamangalisa kwaye nangona luguqula ubomi, lukwanamandla ngeendlela ezilungileyo.
Usana, ngakumbi usana lokuqala, lufana nepomegranati encinci enuka kamnandi ebonakala ekhayeni lakho kwaye icaphukisa yonke into. Akukho ndlela yokuqikelela ifuthe layo okanye 'ukuzivavanya' ngokuchasene nokuphazamiseka okunokungenzeki emzimbeni wakho, ezingqondweni, nakubudlelwane bakho.
Ukuzalwa komntwana omtsha kunganciphisa umgangatho wobudlelwane bothando kwizibini ezitshatileyo ... Kukho nezibini ezithi ziqhawule umtshato emva kweminyaka emi-4 ukuya kweli-7 kuba khange zikwazi ukumelana kakuhle nomonakalo obangelwe kukuba ngabazali hayi nje isibini kubudlelwane. Kuthatha umzamo kwinxalenye yomtshato wesibini ukuze ubudlelwane bomelele endaweni yokuqhekeka.
Kubalulekile ukuba uthethe neqabane lakho kuqala kwaye uvumele iqabane lakho ukuba lithethe nawe. Thetha malunga neemvakalelo zakho, okulindeleyo, yintoni ekukhathazayo okanye into ongathanda ukuyiphucula ukuze ubudlelwane bakho bothando bube ngcono. Sukuthetha nje ngabantwana bakho, thetha nangezakho.
Zinike ixesha, ukonwaba njengesibini, ukuze sikwazi ukunxibelelana kwakhona. Ukubeka phambili izinto kunye ayithethi into enkulu kakhulu okanye enzima. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuhambahamba okanye ukuhlala epakini kunokwaneleyo ukonwabela inkampani yakho kwaye uqhagamshele kwakhona.
Kubalulekile ukukhathalela ubudlelwane obusondeleyo, kwaye nokuba awuzinyanzeli ukuba wabelane ngesondo ukuba awukakulungeli okanye ukuba uziva udiniwe kakhulu.