Le bhlog apho abahleli bengabafazi, sibhala malunga nemiba enxulumene nokuba ngumama, ubuntwana, imfundo, impilo ...; Xa sithetha ngezibhedlele zokubeleka, ndicinga ukuba ayinakuphikiswa into yokuba kufanelekile ukuba sithethe malunga nokuba ngutata, ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi. Ndicinga ukuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ukukhuliswa kunye nokufundiswa kwabantwana ngumba WABABINI (ekungabikho koluntu olukhulu); Kwaye sizisa amakhwenkwe namantombazana azakwenza uluntu lwekamva; kum akukho kuthandabuza.
Kuyacaca nakum ukuba kufuneka sijongane nayo umba ongundaba-mlonyeni "njengobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini"; kwaye ayisiyiyo eyangoku kuphela, Kananjalo kuba ootata abaninzi noomama abaninzi bafuna ukuhlala kwindawo engenabundlobongela: Kwaye kutheni ungatsho? Baninzi abantu basetyhini kwaye uninzi lwamadoda alufuni ukufulathela le nyani ukuba kufanelekile ukujongana nayo khupha. Ukusukela ngo-1997 ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini baqala ukubonakala eSpain (ngaphambi kokuba babandezeleke bethe cwaka ngabaphembeleli bayo) sinokubulala AMAKHOSIKAZI ANGAPHEZU KWAMAKHULU. izithuba ezahlukeneyo kwiiblogi kunye neenethiwekhi zentlalo zibonisa ukuba eli nani liphezulu kunamaxhoba e-ETA kwimbali yayo yonke. Onke amaxhoba, hayi kuphela abo baphulukana nobomi babo kwizenzo zobundlobongela, kodwa kunye neentsapho zabo, bafanelwe yintlonipho yam, kodwa amajelo eendaba, unyango kwezentlalo nakwezopolitiko kubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini akufani nakwezinye iimeko. Kodwa namhlanje siza kufumanisa ukuba ubundlobongela obujoliswe kwabasetyhini bunemibala emininzi kunokuba ucinga, funda kwaye uza kubona.
Ngaphambili, ndingathanda ukukhankanya ukuba ukusukela kusetyenzwa kweenguqulelo ezintsha zePenal Code kulo nyaka, "Isini" sibandakanyiwe njengesiqhelo (inqaku 22.4), ukuze ulingo lunokunyanzeliswa kulwaphulo-mthetho ngokuchasene nobomi, ukuphathwa gadalala, kunye nasekhaya. Ndiyathetha ngale nto nangona iimpendulo kukhuseleko kunye nonyango lobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini, zisafuneka ukuba zinqweneleke, ukuba inkqubela phambili encinci ibonakala ngathi iyanconywa.
Ezi veki siphila kuzo (ewe, siphila kuba kufanelekile ukuba luxanduva lwethu ukuzibeka endaweni yamaxhoba, kwiintsapho zawo) ngomsindo nanjengoko abasetyhini nabantwana bebulawa ngogonyamelo. Ukuququzelela kuyimfuneko, kunye nokuthintela; kodwa amaxhoba awaphelelanga kwabo bangaphezulu kwe-1000 labasetyhini abaphulukene nobomi babo. Ngo-2014, bekukho izikhalazo zemihla ngemihla ezingama-347, Kwaye uyazi ukuba mangaphi amanina asokolayo kolu dushe? Ewe, ngokwedatha evela kwi-Ofisi yoMphathiswa Wezangaphakathi (inkqubo yeVioGén) Kukho iimeko ezingama-374.503 zizonke, phakathi kokuSebenza, ukungasebenzi, ukulinda kunye nokukhutshwa. Olu lwazi ndilufumene kwindawo yokujonga ubundlobongela.
Ubundlobongela besini: ingxaki yeendlela ezininzi
Kusengumboniso ocacileyo wokungalingani, kunye nobudlelwane bamandla / ukongamela kwamadoda ngaphezulu kwabafazi. Ngo-1980 kwafumaniseka ukuba ubundlobongela obujoliswe kwabasetyhini lolona lwaphulo-mthetho luthe cwaka emhlabeni.
Ngoku ewe: andinasiphelo malunga nokubonisa obuNdlobongela boBuni kubandakanya "ubundlobongela" ngamanye amaxesha esingade sibubone; zininzi iingcali ezivela kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo, kunye nabantu abaninzi abangaziwayo, abo beza (beza) beyigxeka. Ndibhekisa ukukuchaza Icandelo loMphathiswa Wezobulungisa kunye neArgentina. Iindlela oluziveza ngazo olu dushe:
- Ekhaya: xa isidima, impilo-ntle, umzimba, ingqondo, ezesondo, ezoqoqosho okanye ukhathalelo lwesidima sonakaliswa.
- Iziko: xa ilibazisekile, kuthintela okanye kuthintela abasetyhini ekubeni babe nokufikelela kwimigaqo-nkqubo yoluntu nasekusebenziseni amalungelo.
- Ezabasebenzi: ucalucalulo emsebenzini lwaziwa ngaphezulu, ngaphandle kokuya phambili, mangaphi amabhinqa enza uxanduva olufanayo nendoda efumana umvuzo ophantsi?
- Nxamnye nenkululeko yokuzala
- I-Obstetric: kukuba kusetyenziswe ngabasebenzi bezempilo emzimbeni nakwiinkqubo zokuzala zabasetyhini; kwaye ibonakaliswe kunyango olungenabuntu, ukusetyenziswa gwenxa konyango kunye nokunyangwa kweenkqubo zendalo.
- Imidiya: siyiguqulela kupapasho okanye ukuhanjiswa kwemiyalezo kunye nemifanekiso eqingqiweyo enokuthi ikhuthaze ukuxhaphaza abantu basetyhini okanye imifanekiso yabo. Ikwabhekisa ekuqinisekisweni kweendlela zokuzala zokungalingani kunye nabavelisi bobundlobongela.
Kwelinye icala, lo mfanekiso uvela kwi-Amnesty International uyichaza ngokugqibeleleyo INDLELA yobundlobongela: ngamanye amaxesha iyabonakala, ngamanye amaxesha ayibonakali; kwaye akusoloko kusenziwa ngokucacileyo
Naliphi na ixhoba lobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini lifumana iziphumo zalo, ukuya kwinqanaba elikhulu okanye elincinci; kuya kuxhomekeka kubuntu kunye nenkxaso yexhoba. Kwezinye iimeko ubundlongondlongo buyancitshiswa, okanye ukwaliwa, kugwetyelwe; kodwa ezibi nangakumbi ziziphumo zengqondo (singasathethi ke ngezinto ezibonakalayo ngokwasemzimbeni) ezinje ngoxinzelelo, uxinzelelo, ingqumbo, ubunzima ekumiseni ubudlelwane obunempilo phakathi kwabantu, ukungathembi abanye abantu, ngamanye amaxesha iziyobisi (utywala okanye ezinye iziyobisi) ziyasetyenziswa.
Ngokwam, ndiyala ukubuyisela naluphi na uhlobo lobundlobongela obujoliswe kwabasetyhini, kuba ndingumfazi, umama, kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke ndingumntu, kwaye ndifuna uluntu apho amalungu ayo aqala ubudlelwane obulinganayo, kwaye oko kukhusela (ngokwenene) abasesichengeni.
Molo, unyanisile, ndicinga ukuba kufanele kubekho ibhalansi enkulu, kwaye kwezi nyanga zidlulileyo, ngenxa yomsebenzi wam, ndizazile iimeko ezinobundlobongela phakathi kwezibini (nakumacala omabini) ezindenza ndicinge ngobundlobongela njengexabiso elingalunganga kunobundlobongela. uluntu luthathe indawo, kwaye kufuneka silutshabalalise. Ndikwacinga kakhulu ngokuhambelana, akusekho malunga neenzuzo eziziswa yenye okanye enye, kodwa malunga nokuhlala kunye ekusombululeni iingxabano ngoxolo.
Enkosi ngezimvo.