Mhlawumbi ngoxinzelelo lwemihla ngemihla uye wawutyeshela okanye ke bayakuxelela ... ukuba okoko ungumama awusazikhathaleli ngendlela efanayo. Zininzi izinto ekufuneka uzenzile ngexesha lasemini, lonke uxanduva kunye nezinto eziphambili ekufuneka uzenzile. Mhlawumbi yiloo nto unganiki ukubaluleka kwembonakalo mhlawumbi ngaphambi kokuba ube ngumama.
Kodwa ukuba umntu othile ukuxelela ukuba awukhathalelanga okoko waba ngumama, sukuyibeka kwindawo ebaluleke kakhulu kuba inyani ayikuko ukuba awukhathalelanga, kodwa kukuba uzithembe ngakumbi, ukhuseleko lomntu kunye nokunxiba izihlangu okanye ukungaziphathi kukwenza ukuba womelele kwaye ube nakho ukwenza.
Ungonwaba xa ungadingi enye into. Ukuthanda usapho lwakho, uzinikeze abantwana bakho, wonwabele abahlobo bakho, uncede abanye kwaye ube nethemba ngaphandle kobunzima. Umfazi ngamnye ulandela indlela eya enkululekweni, kwinkululeko yakhe. Musa ukucinga ukuba awukhathalelanga, kuyadelela kwaye akukho ngqiqweni. Uyekile ukuba nemfuneko yokugqibelela ngalo lonke ixesha, kuba sele ungenazo iimpahla ezifanelekileyo okanye ungenawo makeup.
Umama kwenzeka ukuba afune ukusebenziseka kunye nentuthuzelo ukuze imihla ibelula kwaye babe nakho ukulawula imihla yabo. Yiyo loo nto iiteki, iinwele phezulu kwaye ungazithambisi ziba yinto eqhelekileyo ebomini bakho. Ukuzithanda akuphelelwanga kwinto oyinxibayo, nguwe oyidlulisayo.
Ke mama, sukuziva ungonwabanga ukuba awunxibi ngendlela obukade unxiba ngayo, kuba ngaphandle ngaphandle ayizukubonakala kangako, kodwa ingaphakathi lakho likhule kakhulu kwaye intle kakhulu kunakuqala. Ungumntu obalaseleyo oye wafunda okuninzi ngobomi nangesiqu sakho emva kokuba ngumama.