Akukho mntu uzalwe efundiswa kwinto engekhoyo kwaye bubomi obusifundisa ukuba senze ntoni kunye nendlela yokwenza izinto kancinci kancinci kancinci. Xa umncinci awucingi ngendlela onokuba ngutata okanye umama ngayo, sinabazali abasinike ubomi kwaye bahlala besikhathalela njengomzekelo, siyazi ukuba bayasithanda ngaphandle kwemiqathango, kodwa mhlawumbi awuzange uyeke Ukucinga ukuba ngokwenene ukuba ngumzali kufuna ubugcisa.
Ukuba okwangoku ungumzali kwaye awazi ukuba ngokwenene ungumzali olungileyo, kuya kufuneka ufumanise ukuba ubugqwesile na ubuchule bokuba ngumzali nokuba ngumzali. Ootata abaninzi kunye noomama abaninzi ngootata abakhulu kunye noomama abakhulu kwaye abaziqondi. Kuya kufuneka uxabise umzamo omkhulu kunye nexabiso elikhulu ekufuneka ulinalo ukuze ube ngutata olungileyo okanye umama olungileyo. Kuzo zonke ezi zizathu, ungaphoswa zimpawu ezinokukunceda wazi ukuba uyabazi na obu bugcisa (ngokuqinisekileyo uyabenza).
Iimpawu ezikuxelela ukuba ubuchule bokuba ngumzali okanye ukuba ngumama
- Uyakwazi ukutya ngesandla esinye ngelixa ubambe usana lwakho esinqeni ngenye ingalo Kwaye uyakwazi ukubazolisa ukukhala kwabo.
- Xa uphuma uyokuthenga uyenza ngesantya esikhawulezileyo ongazi ukuba ufika nini ekhaya ukuba uthenge zonke okanye isiqingatha sezinto.
- Uziva wanelisekile xa umntwana wakho esiba sisibeleko emva kweentsuku zokuqhinwa. Awuzange ucinge ukuba ungaziva ungonwaba kakhulu xa ubona inkunkuma yomnye umntu. Kodwa ewe, kunjalo.
- Uyavuya ngokungathi uphumelele iLotto xa umntwana wakho efunda ukuqhushumba iliso lakhe. Okokugqibela, akusafuneki ukuba usebenzise isikhuseli esothusayo. Ngoku umamele umntwana wakho aqhushe i-snot iphantse yafana nengoma yasezulwini.
- Uphuhlise umbono weX-ray kwaye uyakwazi ukuxelela ukuba umntwana wakho unefiva ngokujonga nje kuye imizuzwana embalwa. Ukongeza, enkosi kwezi X-ray ukwazi ukuhambisa ngokugqibeleleyo amayeza ngongcwalazi ebusuku. Unokufumana ne-pacifiers eziwileyo, iingubo zokulala, njl.
- Unxiba iimpahla zasebusika ophelileyo kwaye uyaqonda ukuba zihlanjwe kakubi kwaye ufumanisa into eyomileyo okanye ubisi lwebele kwilaphu ... ngawo kanye lo mzuzu naphambi kokutshintsha ube yenye ingubo ecocekileyo, uyancuma wist kwaye uyakuqonda ukuba kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza kangakanani Unyaka omnye.
- Usoloko ufika emva kwexesha kwiindawo. Awuyenzi ngenjongo, kodwa ukuba kusekuseni… ukulala eminye imizuzu emi-5 iyimfuneko emva kobusuku obubi. Kodwa kukwafuneka uqaphele ukuba unayo yonke into oyifunayo ukuze ukwazi ukuphuma nabantwana bakho. Nakuphi na ukubuyela umva okanye ukulibala kunokuba yintlekele ngaphandle kwekhaya: izicwili, iisuli ezimanzi, amanabukeni, amashwamshwam, amanzi ... yonke into ibaluleke kakhulu.
- Ilayibrari yakho yasekhaya ineencwadi ezininzi zabantwana kuneencwadi zabantu abadala. Ikhaya lakho linezinto zokudlala ezininzi kunye nezinto zabantwana kunokuba unokuthiya igama, kukwakho nakweli gumbi.
- Ikhofi iye yaba sisiyobisi soothixo, kuba inamandla omlingo akunceda ukuba ube nokomeleza yonke imihla ... Ngokukodwa ngezo ntsuku xa ebusuku kuye kwafuneka usebenzise ii-X-ray zakho ngentseni.
- Ufumanise ukuba akusekho nto ikucaphukisayo. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba kukho ukugabha okanye amafinyila ebhedini okanye phantsi ... Uyayisusa, uyicoce nayo yonke le nto ngaphandle kokuqhwanyaza. Eyona nto inokwenzeka, ngelixa uyenza, uya kuthoba kwaye uqinisekise usana lwakho okanye iqabane lakho.
- Ngaphambi kokuba ube ngutata okanye umama, ubucinga ukuba ukubeka oomatshini bokuhlamba yonke imihla kukuchitha imali kunye namandla. Ngoku uyazi ukuba kunyanzelekile, ukuba akunjalo yonke imihla, ubuncinci yonke imihla. Kuyimfuneko, kwaye uyazi ukuba ayinakuphikiswa.
- Iidoodle zabantwana bakho kwaye kamva imizobo yabo, zezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kwezobugcisa ezinokuba sekhaya lakho lonke. Mhlawumbi ezinye uzigcina kwii-albhamu, kodwa ezinye usenokuba uzilungisile kwaye ubonise ngekratshi kwigumbi lakho lokuhlala. Abantwana bayakhula, kwaye bayenza ngokukhawuleza okukhulu ...
- Unokufumana amandla amakhulu xa ubona umntwana wakho esengozini: uya ukhawuleza kunebhulethi kwaye unamandla ngakumbi kune-locomotive, ungatsiba nawuphina umqobo ongena endleleni yakho.
- Logama nje ukwanga kusiza kusana lwakho, awukhathali nokuba ngaba bayathandana okanye bayamanga. Ukwanga okuvela kusana lwakho kuya kuhlala kwamkelwa kakuhle.
- Ingxowa yakho ibandakanya yonke imihla: iipeji ezimanzi, iikomityi zabantwana, iipensile ezinemibala, iimpahla zangaphantsi kunye neebhotile zamanzi - kwaye akukho nto yeyakho.
- Uyakwazi ukwenza izinto ezahlukeneyo ngezandla zakho okoko nje kuthetha ukuba umntwana wakho okanye abantwana bakho bakhathalelwe kakuhle ngawo onke amaxesha.
- Kwidrowa yakho yangaphantsi kukho ibhokisi encinci enamazinyo abantwana bakho -yinto leyo, Fairy Tooth ikushiye apho-.
- Xa ubona utata okanye umama esoyika indlela aziphethe ngayo umntwana wakhe, uziva uvelwano olukhulu kuye nakwimeko leyo.
- Uqala ukuqonda ukuba uya usiba ngakumbi nangakumbi kunina.
- Ubusuku obugqibeleleyo buthetha: imovie ekhaya, ipitsa kunye nepopcorn ngelixa abantwana belele.
- Ukhale ngokudinwa, kwaye uyazi ukuba uya kuphinda.
Zingaphi kwezi zinto oziva uchongiwe / a? Ngaba ucinga ukuba singongeza enye okanye ezingaphezulu ukugqibezela uluhlu? Okucacileyo ukuba xa umntu wasetyhini okanye oyindoda esiba ngabazali, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo baya kuqala inqanaba elitsha ebomini babo, inqanaba elahlukileyo nelinzima… Kodwa iya kuba lelona nqanaba lihle kunawo onke.