Kukho abantwana abathi, nangona besazi ukusela kwiglasi, abasakwazi qhobosha kwibhotile. Zininzi izinto ezinokusetyenziswa, mhlawumbi yintuthuzelo, okanye ukuxhomekeka, ... kodwa kuyinyani oko indawo yethu njengabazali ayincedi nto ukusombulula olu hlobo lwesimo.
Kuyacetyiswa ukuba ungalwandisi olu hlobo lokuziqhelanisa kakhulu Ingaphaya kweminyaka emibini kwaye isuka kwiinyanga ezili-12 kufuneka isetyenziswe nini ukusetyenziswa kweglasi ukuze ibe yinxalenye yesiqhelo sakho. Akucetyiswa ukuvumela ixesha lidlule kuba kungenjalo kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi ukuyeka.
Kuyimfuneko ukugxininisa ukubaluleka kokuyisebenzisa njenge ukuba yayingu-dildo. Unganikeli ngayo ngalo lonke ixesha ndilila okanye ndiyazi ndiziva ndinomsindo, kuba uya kuhlala eyidibanisa njengoluhlobo lwentuthuzelo kwaye ke kuya kuba nzima kuye ukuyeka. Yenye yeendlela abajika ngazo ibhotile njengendawo yokubambisa kunye yimpazamo enkulu.
Zeziphi izizathu zokuba kutheni uyeke ukusebenzisa ibhotile
Kukuziqhelanisa nokuba nangona kubonakala kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kubudala obuthile Olu hlobo lokuziphatha lunokujika lube yintlekisa. Kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba umntwana azive eshiya ikhaya kwaye afumane uhlobo oluthile lokugculelwa. Kule meko, icandelo elisebenzayo lokufundisa kwethu kubalulekile ukwenza uzive ukuba sele emdala kwaye akunyanzelekanga ukuba uphendule okosana.
Kwelinye icala, ukuqhubeka kwebhotile kunye nokuyigcina emlonyeni kunako ufumane ukukhubazeka kwenkalakahla kwaye ngenxa yoko ukufikelela yenza kube nzima ukufunda ukuthetha. Kwakhona uthanda ukubola kwamazinyo, Njengokuba kukho ukutya okuninzi okufana neencindi apho iishukela zazo zigcinwa khona kwingono kwaye zibangela ukuba zibekhona Ndiyaqhubeka nokudibanisa amazinyo.
Enye ingxaki evela kukufikelela yenza ubisi oluninzi ngenxa yoko akufuneki igqithise, kuba inokukhetha ukuthatha inxaxheba kukutya okungondlekanga kwizakhamzimba kunye nenkxaso ukwanda kokutyeba kakhulu kunye nokutyeba kakhulu.
Indlela yokuphelisa ukusetyenziswa kwayo
Esona sisombululo sisiso kukususa ngokuthe ngcembe ukusetyenziswa kwaso ngendlela yendaleko. Kuya kufuneka uqhele ukungasebenzisi ingono kwaye ubeke endaweni yayo iglasi enomthi. Ukuze ungakhubeki, unako nika iglasi enemibambo ukuze xa ithambekile ibambe ngcono kwaye sukuyiminxa, ukukhohlela, okanye ukumanzisa iimpahla zakho. Kususela kwiminyaka emibini ubudala ukuba baqale ukuyazi kakuhle le ndlela.
Kuya kuba nomtsalane kakhulu ukumkhuthaza esemncinci ukuba ube yinxalenye yokusetyenziswa kwayo, ukumthengela iglasi okanye imagi enomzobo awuthandayo okanye ngolunye uhlobo lweenkcukacha ezinokubonakala ngathi enomtsalane kwaye kumnandi. Ungayigcwalisa ngolunye uhlobo lwesiselo esinempilo nesinencasa kwaye ungade usivumele sisebenze neglasi embindini womdlalo ibhafu eshushu. Ngokuchasene nawe unokwenza okufanayo ngebhotile kodwa ngendlela eyahlukileyo, kufuneka ibonakale ayinamtsalane kwaye ke zihlala zizalisa ngamanzi ixesha elininzi, ukuyenza ibonakale inomdla.
Kuya kufuneka ukhulule umntwana kwisincamathiselo ukuze azive ngcono kwaye asebenzise ibhotile Njengento eqinisekisayo. Isiqhelo sokulala ngebhotile asisiqhelo esihle, kuya kufuneka ufumane indlela yokwenza buyisela enye into endaweni yayo Yenze ibe nye yezintandokazi zakho kwaye uyenze kancinci kancinci.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ngaphambi kwezi zinto soloko uvuyisana nomntwana y soloko umenza azive ngathi "yinkwenkwe enkulu". Akayi kuyilahla ngokukhawuleza, ungaphiki, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uchaze ukuba kufuneka aziphathe njengabantu abadala kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke ndikudumise ngempumelelo enkulu.