Ukukhulelwa yimvakalelo engena ngaphakathi awona mava abangela umdla kumfazi. Abanye baya kudlula kwiimvakalelo ezithandekayo kwaye abanye abayikuthatha kakuhle konke konke, banikwe iimpawu abanokuzifumana kwinkqubo yabo yehomoni. Kodwa kukho inyani echaphazela sonke ... Ndiza kuqala nini ukuziva usana lwam?
Usana sele luqala ukuhamba kwangoko bekulindelwe, malunga neveki yesibhozo. Into eyenzekayo kukuba asikuva oko kuhamba. Kuqinisekisiwe ukuba oomama abanabantwana abaninzi qala ukuziva olu luvo kwakude kudalaLindela ngaphambi kweveki ukusukela ekubeni iindonga zesibeleko sakhe zinobuthathaka ngakumbi.
Ndizoqala nini ukuva usana lwam?
Singatsho nje ukuba yenye yeefayile ze- ezona mvakalelo zimnandi esinokuziva ngaphakathi esiswini sethu. Iya kuba lixesha lethu lokuqala ukuba siqaphele ukuba kukho into ephilayo kwaye Iya kusinika isiqinisekiso sokuba yonke into ilungile apho.
Eyona nto iqhelekileyo yile masive iintshukumo zabo kwinyanga yesine yokukhulelwaUkuchaneka, sinokuziva phakathi kweeveki ezili-16 ukuya kwezingama-22 zokukhulelwa. Nangona olu hlobo lolwazi luyahluka, kuba oomama abangengabo okokuqala banokulubona kwangoko.
Uya kuqaphela intshukumo yamaqamza ngaphakathi kwesisu sakho, okanye ukukhaba okumsulwa okuncinci okushiya umzuzu ungathandabuzeki, kuba ukubamba kuqala kuhlala kuthambile. Nini ziqala ukuqhubeka kwaye ziphindaphindwe ke awuthandabuzi ukuba ngumntwana wakho. Uya kuziphawula ezi ntshukumo zomelele ngakumbi njengoko ukhula njengoko uza kuba namandla ngakumbi kunye negumbi elincinci lokuhamba.
Ngaba kufanelekile ukuba ndikhathazeke xa ndingaxoli?
Kuya kuba sengqiqweni ukungaziva wothukile ukuba ufikelela kwinqanaba lesikhokelo sexesha, kuya kufuneka uliqaphele kwaye ungaliqondi. Isabonisa kwaye Umfazi ngamnye ngendlela eyahlukileyo kwaye kukho neentsana ezisebenza ngakumbi kunabanye. Ke ngoko, okwangoku musa ukuziva ukhathazekile.
Iziphumo ezinokubangela ukuba umntwana angahlali mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba Ndichitha iiyure ezininzi ndilala Okanye mhlawumbi i-placenta isondele kakhulu kwinkaba. Oku kunokwenza intshukumo yakho izive inzima.
Elinye inqaku ukongeza kukuba isigaba sokukhulelwa siphelile iintshukumo ziyacotha kwaye uzive ungaphantsi. Oku kungenxa yokukhula kosana kunye nendawo encinci esele ifunyenwe ngaphakathi kweplasenta, kodwa ukubetha kwayo kuya komelela.
Nangona kunjalo, xa ujongene nenkxalabo enjalo kukuba uphawule ngemeko enjalo kutyelelo lwakho oluqhelekileyo. Baya kuba noxanduva lokwenza esweni ehambelana nokukhangela ukubetha kwentliziyo yomntwana ukujonga impilo yakhe. Ukuba ilizwe lakho lihambele phambili kwaye uziva ukhathazekile ungajonga amanye amanqaku ethu, anje Kuya kwenzeka ntoni xa uyeka ukuva intshukumo yosana lwakho?
Ngaba ikhona into endinokuyenza yokuxhokonxa iintshukumo zabo?
Yindlela elula yokujonga ukuba yonke into ichanekile kwaye iyindlela esebenzayo yokuhambisa umntwana wakho. Ngale nto unokuziqhelanisa neengcebiso ezimbalwa ezincinci:
- Ungamnceda avuke ukuba ulala phantsi Utshintsha ngokuzolileyo indawo Kwicala olele kulo, zama ukwenza iintshukumo ezinobulali ukusuka ekhohlo ukuya ekunene.
- Thetha nosana lwakho okanye umenze aphulaphule umculo inokukunceda, njengoko ukuva kwakho kungqinisisiwe ukuba kuphuhliswe ngokugqibeleleyo.
- Kukho abantu basetyhini abanamava okuhamba kwabo ukuba bahlala besela amanzi, kuba zigcina imeko efanelekileyo ye-hydration kwaye umntwana uyathanda.
- Unako kwakhona phefumla nzulu, oko kuya kumenza acaphukise uhlobo oluthile lokuphendula.