Umntwana ngamnye unobuntu bakhe kwaye kubalulekile ukuba ayihloniphe indlela ayiyo. Ungazami ukutshintsha umntwana wakho kuba ucinga ukuba ubomi bakhe bungangcono ngenye indlela. Ubomi bunokukuxelela ngokugqibeleleyo ukuba kunjani, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuqonda. Amandla akho kunye nezakhono zakho kwaye wenze okusemandleni akho. Kungoko kuphela apho unokuzithemba kwaye nokuba unqabiseko lwakho likuvumela ukuba ube yile nto uyiyo ngaphandle koloyiko lokwaliwa kwabanye. Nokuba umntwana wakho ungumntu odlamkileyo okanye ongenisayo, unokuba lolona hlobo lubalaseleyo kuye nanini na ebomini bakho.
Abantwana abaselula kakhulu ngokuziphatha kwabo baya kubonisa ukuba ngaba bangabangenisi okanye bangabaphangi. Uninzi lwabantu lukholelwa ekubeni abantwana abaphumayo banobuhlobo kwaye banonxibelelwano besebancinci.
Ngelixa oku kunokuba yinyani, ayisiyiyo eyona ntsingiselo yokwenyani. Umntu osasazekayo wandisa amandla akhe xa ekunye nabanye abantu, oku kuchasene nabangenisi abafumana amandla kuphela xa bebodwa. Ukuba umntwana wakho unomdla, kufuneka umazi kakuhle ukuze ikunike eyona mfundo isemgangathweni ngamaxesha onke.
Iimpawu zomntwana ophumayo
Abaxolileyo bonwabela iimeko zentlalo kwaye bade bazifune kuba bayathanda ukuba phakathi kwabantu. Esikolweni, unokulindela ukuba umntwana ophumayo onwabele ukusebenza kwiprojekthi yeqela okanye iqela lokufunda kunokuba enze le misebenzi minye yedwa.
Abantwana abaphumayo banokudikwa ngokulula xa kungekho bantu babangqongileyo. Xa kufuneka benze umsebenzi wesikolo bebodwa, kufuneka abanye babekho ukuze bazive bekhuthazekile Kwaye ke banokukuxelela into abayenzayo okanye babeke kuwe ukuba banobunzima.
Xa benikwa ithuba, abantwana abaphumayo baya kuthetha nabanye abantu endaweni yokuhlala nje bacinge. Ngapha koko, abaxhamli bathambekele ekucingeni ngelixa bethetha, ngokungafaniyo nabangeneleli abanamathuba okucinga ngaphambi kokuba bathethe. Abaxubileyo bahlala becinga ngcono xa bethetha.
Iikhonsepthi azibonakali ziyinyani kuwe ngaphandle kokuba ungathetha ngazo; Ukucinga ngazo akwanele. Unga. Fumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyakuthetha naye wonke umntu kunye naye wonke umntu xa esiya kuphuma eluntwini. Banokuqala ukuthetha nabanye abantwana ngaphandle kwengxaki kwaye babonakala ngathi bafumana abahlobo abatsha ngokukhawuleza. Umntwana ophumayo uya kudlala nabanye abantwana kunokuba adlale yedwa.
Banethuba lokonwabela iqela lezemidlalo kunye nemisebenzi yangaphandle. I-extroverts inokuchitha ixesha elininzi kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo kwaye inabahlobo kunye nabalandeli ngakumbi kunabangenisi, ukugcina unxibelelwano nabanye nokuba kude. Nangona umntwana wakho enokubonisa indlela yokuziphatha ephumayo kwezinye iimeko, uphononongo lubonisa ukuba indlela umntu asabela ngayo kwimeko ethile ayiqikeleleki. Uxinzelelo olukhawulezileyo lwemeko lunokuba ngaphezulu kweendlela eziqhelekileyo. Unokucinga ukuba umntwana wakho angathanda ukuya epatini, kodwa ufumanisa ukuba akafuni ukuya ngenxa yemeko ethile.
Inqanaba lokuziphatha okuchaseneyo liyahluka ngakumbi emntwini kunaphakathi kwabantu, ke unokulindela ukuba umntwana wakho abe nobuhlobo kakhulu kwezinye iimeko kwaye angaphantsi kwezinye iimeko ... kwaye oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo.
Ukuziphatha kwabantwana abakhulelweyo
Abantwana abagwenxa banamandla ngakumbi xa benxibelelana nabanye abantu, kodwa abantwana abangabangenisiyo bafuna ixesha lokuba bodwa emva kokuba bechithe ixesha bedlala nabanye abantwana. Umntwana ophumayo unokuthula kwaye adikwe lula xa kufuneka echithe ixesha elininzi yedwa. Nje ukuba abekunye nabanye, nangona kunjalo, unokubona kwangoko. Oku kuphakamisa ukuba abantwana abanomdla, ngakumbi abo baneziphiwo, banokuphucula ngcono amandla abo. Kwiimeko ezibandakanya umsebenzi weqela, intsebenziswano, kunye nokusebenzisana kwezentlalo.
Abantwana abagxothiweyo, banokuba neentloni?
Into abantu abaninzi abangayiqondiyo kukuba umntu osasazekayo unokuba neentloni. Iintloni lelinye igama loxinzelelo lwentlalo. Oku kunokuba nzima kuba i-extroverts iyayinqwenela inkampani, kodwa iintloni zinokwenza kube nzima ukuphumelela kunxibelelwano nabantu abangabaziyo. Abantwana abaneentloni nabaphumayo ngabona bafuna uncedo ukoyisa iintloni zabo ukusukela Ivelisa iingxaki ezinkulu zeemvakalelo, ukuzithemba kunye nokhuseleko.
Abanye abantwana abaphumayo kwaye abaneentloni baqhuba kakuhle kakhulu kwimeko yeqela apho banokuthi bathathe inxaxheba ekuhlaleni. Kula maqela abanasidingo sokufumana izihloko zencoko okanye izizathu zokudibanisa. Imizekelo yolu hlobo lomsebenzi ibandakanya imidlalo yeqela, ingxoxo-mpikiswano, okanye indawo yemidlalo yeqonga.
Ukuba ubona ukuba umntwana wakho uyaphuma kwaye uneentloni kwangaxeshanye. Kuya kufuneka umncede afumane indlela elungileyo yokuphucula kunye nokuphucula izakhono zakhe kwezentlalo. Funda ukunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo okanye uqhekeze umkhenkce nabanye abantu, njl. Iya kubanceda bazive bebhetele kwaye bekhuseleke ngakumbi ngeziqu zabo. Oku kuyabavumela ukuba badibane nabantu abatsha ngaphandle koloyiko lokwaliwa okanye oko abanye baya kukucinga.
Musa ukumaka umntwana wakho
Kodwa nokuba umntwana wakho ungumntu odumileyo okanye ongenisayo akufuneki kukwenze ukuba ubhalele umntwana wakho nangayiphi na indlela. Umntwana ngamnye une-idiosyncrasy yakhe kwaye nangona inokubonakala ngamanye amaxesha. Ukuba ithande ukuba yindlela enye okanye ezingaphezulu, ivumela ukuba ibe yindlela avakalelwa ngayo ngamaxesha onke. Nangona ubona ukuba unengxaki, kuya kufuneka umkhokele. Ke ungaziva ulungile malunga nexesha lobudlelwane onalo nabanye.
Kuqhelekile ukuba abantu abadala kunye nabantwana babe nokulingana phakathi kobuntu obukhutshelweyo kunye nobuntu obangenisiweyo. Xa oku kusenzeka, abantwana nabantu abadala bakhetha ixesha lokuhlala kakhulu kwaye bazakuhlala nabani. Kwangelo xesha, bayakwazi ukonwabela ixesha lokuba wedwa. Konke oku, unethemba kwaye unceda abantwana ukuba bazenzele ubuqu babo.
Yamkela umntwana wakho ukuba ungubani kwaye kuphela ukuba uqala ukuba neengxaki zeemvakalelo okanye zokuziphatha. Mncede aphumelele kuyo, ngelixa umkhokela kwindlela yakhe yobomi.