Ukuba ungathanda ukumjonga umntwana wakho xa eqala ukukhulisa naziphi na izakhono zakhe, usenokuba nomdla wokwazi oko unegcisa ekhaya. Akusekho malunga nokuba noxanduva lokwazi ukuba unetalente engaphakathi. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukususela ebuntwaneni yena sele ejonge ukuba neso sipho sikhethekileyo uninzi lwethu olungasamkeliyo, kodwa Sikwazi njani oku?
Isitshixo esisisiseko kukujonga, Abazali kufuneka babeke ingqalelo yabo kuyo yonke imiqondiso abayikhuphileyo kwaye babakhaphe ukuze bakhule ngokuzimisela ngakumbi kuzo zonke ezo mpawu ukuze baziphucule. Asifuni ukwenza ukuba ukholelwe ukuba ukuba uneempawu ezithile unokuba ngumculi obalaseleyo, kodwa kunokuba yinto ebalulekileyo kuphuhliso olunokubakho lomnye umsebenzi onokubaluleka kakhulu.
Wazi njani ukuba umntwana wakho ligcisa
Kusengqiqweni ukuyazi loo nto ukujongwa kukatata kukwazi ukuba ubuntu bomntwana bunokukhula njani kunye nokunye malunga nendlela abacinga ngayo. Ukuyila kunye nokucinga kwiminyaka yobuntwana kubhetele kunangaphambili, akukho nto ibathintelayo inokuyiphuhlisa ngenkululeko epheleleyo kwaye kufuneka uyenze ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuba unyana wakho ucula ngcono kunaye nabani naMhlawumbi unelizwi leengelosi onokulenza ukuba ube nekamva eliqaqambileyo njengemvumi. Okanye ukuba uzobe ngokukhululeka okukhulu ukubeka imizamo kwimibala kunye nokufaneleka ngemibala kunye nemibala, ngokuqinisekileyo ungumzobi onepeyinti.
Kuya kufuneka uyenze loo nto usasaze umbono wakho kwaye uveze ubuchule bakho. Akulunganga ukunyanzela umntwana kwinto angayithandiyo, enjengokudlala isixhobo, ukuziqhelisa umdlalo kunye nokuphatha uhlobo oluthile lobugcisa obufana nokupeyinta.
Kwezi meko kukubulala umculi ngaphakathiNangona kukho abantwana abathi ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo baqhubeke nokukhulisa ukuthanda kwabo emfihlekweni kwaye bakhule benolo thando, kodwa bambalwa kuphela abakwenzayo. Ekugqibeleni ubuchule okanye ubugcisa ababuphethe ngaphakathi, ngokuhamba kwexesha kuyancipha kwaye buphele bunyamalala.
Ungabuphucula njani ubuchule bakho kunye nobugcisa
Kukho oko vumela ixesha lasimahla lokuba umntwana wakho abe nokukhetha kwangaphambili kwaye ukhethe uhlobo lokudlala oziva uhlobene kakhulu nalo. Amakhwenkwe namantombazana ngokubanzi badla ngokudlala imidlalo eqhelekileyo eyenziwe ekwabelwana ngayo ngumntu wonke ngokulinganayo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuzama izinto ezahlukeneyo ungabanceda ukubanika izixhobo zomculo ezilulaNokuba ziyingqushu, iibhodi ezinesitshixo esincinci okanye umtya othile. Ukuba umntwana akaphulukani nomdla kwaye uyathanda ukuphonononga ngesixhobo, kamva unokuthenga eyona yokwenyani kuyo ukugqiba ukuphuhlisa amandla.
Ungazama nge ubuchule bobugcisa bomculo. Ukwenza oku, menze aziqhelanise nayo, beka umculo kuye aze adanise kunye neengoma zakho ngendlela oyithandayo. Jonga ukuba unetalente enxulumene nokudanisa okanye ukucula.
Kwelinye icala, sinabo abantwana amagcisa apeyintayo kunye nemisebenzi yobugcisa. Kuya kufuneka uchonge indawo ukuze umntwana onwabe kunye nezixhobo ezahlukeneyo kuloo ndawo. Banokukhuthazwa ukuba benze izinto abanokuzibona kamva kwaye bazihombise kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo endlwini.
Uyile kakhulu yenza amakhadi emibuliso, Iikhalenda, ukunikezelwa kwemizobo ezaliswe zizinto, izitikha ... Kukho iiprojekthi ezingenakubalwa, singabandakanya phi ukufunda nokubhala, eyimisebenzi ekwabheja kubugcisa.
Akufanele silibale ukuba kufuneka qaphela yonke le miqondiso, kuba abantwana bethu banokuba bancinci, kodwa ngamagcisa amahle kakhulu. Awunyanzelekanga ukuba ulinde ubizo lwakho ukuba lufike kodwa uphume uye kulukhangela ukuze ungalushiyi olu khetho sinokulufunda "Ungamnceda njani umntwana wakho aphuhlise iitalente zakhe."