Ubudala buqala phakathi kweminyaka eyi-9 kunye ne-12. I-Tweens ikwinqanaba eliphakathi apho ishiya ubuntwana kwaye ingene ebutsheni. Ngokuqala kokufikisa ngeli nqanaba, abantwana baya kufumana utshintsho oluninzizombini ngokomzimba kunye nokuziphatha.
Kunokuba ngumnqa kubazali ukubona abantwana babo bephuma ngokusemthethweni kwasebuntwaneni. Noko ke, kweli nqanaba, amakhwenkwe namantombazana afuna abazali bawo ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Inkxaso neengcebiso zabazali zibalulekile ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke ezi nguqu ngaphambi kokudlulela ebusheni. Makhe sijonge ukuba eli nqanaba libalulekileyo lobomi liqulathe ntoni ukuze kuxhaswe ngcono abantwana abangekafiki kwiminyaka yokufikisa njengoko behamba kwinguqu.
Yintoni umntwana oselula?
Umntwana ofikisayo yinkwenkwe okanye intombazana phakathi kobuntwana kunye nokufikisa. Bangena abantwana ukufikisa phakathi kweminyaka emi-9 ukuya kwemi-12. Uluhlu lobudala lunokwahluka, njengoko abanye abantwana beqala ukubonisa iimpawu ekuqaleni kweminyaka eyi-8 ubudala. Kwakhona, abanye abakwishumi elivisayo banokuba kweli nqanaba de babe neminyaka eyi-13.
Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ubudala, bonke abalishumi elinesibini banento enye efanayo kweli nqanaba lobomi: bafumana utshintsho olukhulu njengoko besondela ekufikiseni. I-Tweens ayifumani utshintsho lomzimba kuphela, kodwa iya kuba notshintsho olubonakalayo lwengqondo kunye neemvakalelo ngeli xesha lokutshintsha.
Yiyiphi indlela yokuziphatha elindelekileyo ngexesha lokufikisa?
Ukwanda kwenkululeko luphawu lweminyaka ephakathi. Unyana okanye intombi yakho iya kuqala ukuzama izinto ezintsha ukubanceda bafumane ubuni babo. Ngelixa usenokonwabela ixesha lentsapho, usenokuphawula iinzame zangabom zokubeka izilangazelelo zakho. Amaqela abahlobo nawo anento entsha ephambili kweli nqanaba.
Unokuqaphela oku kulandelayo utshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha kunyana okanye intombi yakho:
- Ukwanda kokuziphatha okuyingozi
- Ubume obunemvukelo ngakumbi, okanye umdla wokwaphula imithetho
- Ukunqongophala komdla kwizinto abazithandayo ebuntwaneni, kunye nokubonakala kwezinto ezintsha ezinomdla
- Umzamo wokuzama imidlalo eyahlukeneyo, ubugcisa kunye neminye imisebenzi de ufumane eyona ikufezayo kakhulu
- Ukwanda kwesidingo sokulala ingakumbi ngeempelaveki nangeeholide zesikolo
- Uxinzelelo oluvela kwisidingo sokuhambelana noontanga
- Ukonyuka koloyiko lokuzenza isidenge phambi kwabanye
- Yehlelwa kukuhla nokunyuka ngokweemvakalelo ngenxa yokuguquguquka kwehomoni ngexesha lokufikisa
- Ukonyuka kokugxila kubunzima bomzimba kunye nenkangeleko yomzimba
- Unokuphinda uqalise ukuchitha ixesha elininzi ngetekhnoloji, ukubukela iividiyo, ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo okanye ukusebenzisana zokunxibelelana
- Unokuqaphela ukuba unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho iyazi ngakumbi ngesondo kunye nobudlelwane, kunye neziyobisi kunye notywala
Ngaphandle kokutshintsha kweemvakalelo kunye nengqondo, i-tweens nayo iyatshintsha ngokwasemzimbeni xa befikisa. Oku kuphumela kutshintsho lomzimba olunokubhida unyana okanye intombi yakho nabasenokukubuza ngalo. Olu tshintsho lulandelayo:
- ukwanda kweenwele zomzimba
- Ukukhula ngokukhawuleza
- izandla neenyawo ezinkulu
- Amazinyo omntwana ayawa
- ukubonakala kwe-acne
- Ukuphuhliswa kwebele kunye nokuqala kokuya esikhathini kumantombazana
- amalungu esini amakhulu kumakhwenkwe
Iingcebiso zokukhulisa iTweens
Makhe sijonge ezinye iingcebiso nceda unyana okanye intombi yakho phakathi kolu tshintsho:
- Ziqhelise ukuba novelwano nokuqonda. Isitshixo sokuba ngumzali phakathi kukudibanisa uvelwano kunye nokuqonda ngelixa ubeka imida enempilo.
- Ncedisa ekwenzeni izigqibo. Mfundise ukuvavanya iingenelo nezibi njengenkqubo esebenzayo yokwenza izigqibo. I-Tweens ifuna ukuzimela kule minyaka, kodwa basafuna abazali ukuba babakhokele.
- Yiba ngumzekelo omhle. Ukwenza umzekelo wokuziphatha okulungileyo njengokuzilolonga rhoqo, ukutya ukutya okunempilo, kunye nokuvakalisa iimvakalelo zakho ngeendlela eziphilileyo kunokuba ngumzekelo kunyana okanye intombi yakho.
- Musa ukoyika ukuthetha ngesondo, iziyobisi kunye notywala. Kubalulekile ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo ngesondo, iziyobisi kunye notywala kwangethuba, ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho afumane ulwazi oluvela koontanga. Oku kunokuvulela unyana okanye intombi yakho ithuba lokubuza imibuzo.
- Ukubeka iliso kusetyenziso lwetekhnoloji kunye nemidiya yoluntu. Kubalulekile ukulawula ukusetyenziswa kwetekhnoloji kweli nqanaba kwaye ubafundise Ukhuseleko lwe-Intanethi.