Kusengqiqweni ukugcina kwinyanga yesine yobomi bosana lwakho, ukuba Sele eqala ukuwubeka emzimbeni wakhe umzamo wokuhlala kwakhona. Yinto engokwemvelo kwaye bayazi ukuba imizimba yabo iyayifuna, enyanisweni nangona ibonakala inengqiqo, kubo oku iba ngumceli mngeni wokwenyani. Okokuqala, kuba kubo luvavanyo lokwenyani lokulinganisa.
Kusemva kweenyanga ezisibhozo okanye ezilishumi ubudala bengaqali ukugcina ulungelelwaniso lwabo lokwenyani. Kwaye umzimba wakhe awunakulinganiswa, intloko yakhe ngokulinganayo nomzimba inkulu kakhulu kwaye intamo yakhe ethambileyo kunye nomqolo kufuneka woyise lo mceli mngeni.
Xa iintsana zihleli
Emva kweenyanga ezine, usana luqala ukuzama ukuzimela. Imisipha yentamo kunye nomqolo sele iqalile ukufumana amandla, kunye nemilenze neengalo. Ngenyanga yesihlanu ubudala banokuhlala phezulu, umva wabo ulungile kodwa abayi kuba nokuzimela ngokwaneleyo ukugcina ibhalansi.
Kubaluleke kakhulu gcina umzimba wakho uxhaswe kwaye uxhaswe kwindawo ekhuselekileyo ukuze ungatyhi. Umntwana akakwazi ukugcina umzimba wakhe uhleli kwaye asebenzise iingalo nezandla zakhe ukuzibeka phantsi aze amkele ukulingana okufunekayo.
Xa idibana Kwiinyanga ezisixhenxe umntwana uqala ukubanakho ukuhlala phantsi ngokuzimela ngokupheleleyo ubuncinci imizuzu embalwa. Abanye abafikeleli kuyo kude kube ziinyanga ezilithoba ubudala, yonke into iya kuxhomekeka kwindaleko yomntwana ngamnye.
Yintoni ongafanele uyenze xa uhleli phantsi
Umntwana ngamnye uneemfuno ezizezakhe, ukuba umzimba wakhe awubabuzi basenokungakulungeli ukuhlala. Ukukunyanzela kwesi sikhundla kunokubeka uxinzelelo kumqolo wakho. Oko kunokuba yingozi.
Ukuba umntwana uqhele ukuhlala, akanikwa thuba lokwandisa ezinye iintshukumo njengokulala phantsi kwaye uhambisa umzimba wakho kwiindlela ezincinci, okanye nokuba ufunde ukukhasa. Kuya kufuneka uzinyanzele ukuba uxhase iingalo kunye nezandla zakho ukuze ulondoloze ibhalansi kwaye awumniki ukuzimela ukuze akwazi ukuyisebenzisa ukuphonononga indawo emngqongileyo.
Ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, kubalulekile ukugcina umntwana ehleli phantsi, zama ukuyenza ngamakhefu amancinci exesha kwaye uqiniseke ukuba ayiweli emacaleni, ngoncedo lwendidi ethile yokubopha okanye yomqamelo.
Ngaba ukutya kunxulumene nokuhlala?
Kususela kwiinyanga ezine ukuya kwezintandathu xa umntwana eqala ukutya ukutya kwakhe okuqinileyo kokuqala. Amandla okwenza oko aya kuxhomekeka ekubeni umntwana uzilungiselele kwaye ubonakalisa umdla. Ukuhlala umntwana ukuze amnike ukutya kwakhe kunxibelelene naloo mzuzu, Sele ebekwe kwisitulo esiphakamileyo ukuze aqale ukugcina eso sikhundla yedwa.
Ngaba kufuneka sibancede bazive?
Sinokukunceda ufumane incasa yokuba kunjani ukuhlala phantsi. Ukumnceda kukuvumela ukuba athathe izikhundla ezinzima kuye, njengokumbeka phantsi. Ngale ndlela sinceda ukomeleza izihlunu zakho kwaye ngakumbi intamo yakho, eya kuthi ibaluleke kakhulu ukuze ukwazi ukuhlala.
Ungazama ukwenza imithambo ethile nosana. Ungambeka emqolo ngengubo kwaye ubambe izandla neengalo ungayitsalela kancinci ukuba ithambeke. Oku kuyakunceda ukomeleza isisu sakho ngelixa usonwaba.
Enye indlela kukuhlala phambi kwakho nasemilenzeni. Umele ujijise ngapha nangapha umbambe ngezandla nangeengalo. Kukho iingoma Ungacula ukonwaba kwaye uyibone njengomdlalo. Lo msebenzi uya kukunceda uqinise izihlunu zakho zangasemva.