I-babymoon yindlela yokubaleka yothando Benza ntoni abazali bexesha elizayo engekazalwa umntwana. Abantwana sele beyazi ukuba bazisa ulonwabo oluninzi, kodwa kunye notshintsho oluninzi kusapho. Akusayi kubakho xesha lingako (okanye phantse akukho nto) ukukwazi ukunikezela kwiqabane lakho, ke loo mizuzu yangaphambili ilungele ukuthatha uhambo lwesibini ngaphambi kotshintsho olukhulu.
Lavela phi igama elithi babymoon?
Nangona kunokubonakala ngathi ligama lakutshanje, igama elithi babymoon Sebenzisa okokuqala kwiminyaka engama-20 eyadlulayo ngu-English Shethistology ogama linguSheila Helena Elizabeth Kitzinger owathetha ngale nto: imfuneko yokuba esi sibini siphume kunye nosana ukwenza unxibelelwano phakathi kwe-3. Oko kukuthi, wayisebenzisa Yenza imali kuhambo lokuqala losapho. Ke yaqala ukusetyenziselwa uhambo lwesibini ngaphambi kokufika kosana.
Abafazi abakhulelweyo abadumileyo ngabo abenze le fashoni ukuba ibonakale, nto leyo eza kuhlala apha. Kwintsana livela kwikota yesiHoneymoon ngesiNgesi (honeymoon).
Ngoobani abenza ikhefu lenyanga?
Uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo abenza le honeymoon ngabazali abatsha abangakhange babubone ubomi babo butshintshiwe ngabantwana babo. Unokwenza uhambo lokuya kubantwana ngaphambi kokuba uqalise ukukhangela umntwana, akukho mfuneko yokuba ulinde de ukhulelwe. Kodwa kukwakho izibini ezinabantwana abaninzi abathatha isigqibo sokuthatha uhambo oluncinci kunye, beshiya abantwana bekwiinakhulu nootatomkhulu babo.
Ke masingazikhohlisi, iintsana ziyamangalisa kwaye ngamava awodwa kodwa ixesha esinalo liba yinto yonke kubo. Esi sibini sisemva kwaye kuya kufuneka ukhathalele umanyano. Lixesha lokuba unxibelelane kwaye ukonwabele ukukhulelwa kwakho, ngesiqhelo sinakho kwimowudi yendlwane kwaye asilonwabeli eli thuba limangalisayo njengoko kufanelekile.
I-babymoon ngumzuzu wonxibelelwano nesi sibini ngaphambi kokuba kufike i-maelstrom ye-diapers kunye nobusuku bokungalali.
Ukuba sele ndikhulelwe, ndingayenza nini?
Ukuba ukukhulelwa kwakho akunabungozi, ungayenza nangaliphi na ixesha. Indawo efanelekileyo kukwenza phakathi kweeveki ezili-12 ukuya kwezingama-28, oko kukuthi, phakathi kwikota yesibini. Ke, umngcipheko wekota yokuqala udlulile kwaye uphepha ukungonwabi kwiinyanga zokugqibela zokukhulelwa. Kuya kufuneka ulumke kuba ezinye iinqwelomoya zithintela iinqwelomoya ukusuka kwinyanga yesixhenxe yokukhulelwa. Jonga nenkampani ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ngekhe kubekho ngxaki. Ukubhabha kwezinye iinqwelomoya kuza kufuneka isatifikethi esivela kugqirha wakho nosuku olulindelekileyo lokuhanjiswa kunye nohlobo lwegazi lakho.
Eyona nto ilungileyo yile thetha nogqirha wakho malunga nolu hambo Yintoni ongathanda ukuyenza: indawo, ezothutho, ezemisebenzi, imozulu ... ukuze ndikwazi ukucebisa ngento eyiyo efanelekileyo kwilizwe lakho.
Loluphi uhlobo lokubaleka onokulwenza?
Ewe, leyo ukhetha yona neqabane lakho. Inokuba yindawo yolwandle ethe cwaka yokuphumla, ukuyokuthenga, i-spa okanye indawo yabakhenkethi ofuna ukuyazi. Ngamaxesha onke uthathela ingqalelo indlela othwala ngayo ukukhulelwa kwakho kunye nohlobo lohambo olufuna kakhulu, ukuthintela iindawo ezingaqhelekanga ezinokuba semngciphekweni wosulelo kunye neendawo ezinobushushu obuninzi.
Jonga kakuhle ukuba yintoni imisebenzi ongathanda ukuyenza ngexesha lohambo kuba ezinye azikhuthazwa kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo, njengokukhwela okanye ukuntywila. Zininzi ezinye izinto onokuzenza njengokufumana ukuphululwa, ukuhamba, ukuya ezivenkileni, ukutya ... Kulumkele ukutya, ngakumbi ukutya okuluhlaza okunokuba nezidleleli. Sela kuphela amanzi asebhotileni kunye neziqhamo, kungcono kuphela ezo zinesikhumba esityebe kakhulu.
Uninzi lweearhente zokhenketho kunye neehotele sele zilusebenzisile lo mkhwa kwaye sele zikhona Iiphakheji ezithile zekhefu lomntwana kulo lonke uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali kunye neencasa. Nxibelelana nearhente yakho yesiqhelo ukuze ubone ukuba zeziphi iindlela abanokukhetha kuzo.
Kuba khumbula… kutheni ungaphumli kwaye wonwabele umzuzu xa ubomi bakho buza kutshintsha?