Ukuqhuma, ukuhleka ngokukhawuleza okanye ukukhala, ukugqabhuka kweemvakalelo, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ukungakhathali ngokweemvakalelo. Ezi zezinye iimpawu zemeko ethile yemithambo-luvo ebizwa ngokuba yi- emotional lability. yenzaYintoni lability ngokweemvakalelo? Lithini ixesha layo? Ngaba yinto ezelwe inabantwana okanye ifunyenwe?
Ukuthetha nge-lability yeemvakalelo kukugxila kwimeko ethile enokuba nzima ukuyifumanisa ekuqaleni, ibhidaniswe nokusabela okulula komntwana omncinci. Kodwa xa uziva ngathi kukho into engahambi kakuhle, kulungile ukukhokelwa yi-intuition kwaye wenze uthethwano ukuze uphelise nawaphi na amathandabuzo. Mhlawumbi akukho nto kwaye luhlengahlengiso olulula lweemvakalelo ekufuneka umntwana afunde ukudlula kulo. Okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, sisenokuba sijamelene nemeko yokungakhathali ngokweemvakalelo.
Yintoni lability ngokweemvakalelo
Kwipsychology, igama lisetyenziswa lability ngokweemvakalelo ukuchaza imeko ye-neurological nophawu oluphambili kukunqongophala kolawulo lweemvakalelo. Abo bathwaxwa kukungakwazi ukuzibamba ngokweemvakalelo ngabantu abakwaziyo ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo baze bazibonakalise ngendlela efanelekileyo. Kunokuba sibe sisifo okanye ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, sithetha ngokuyeka ukulawulwa xa kuziwa kwimvakalelo, ukuqonda kunye nokuvakalisa iimvakalelo.
Los abantwana ababuthathaka ngokweemvakalelo banomsindo kwaye banokugqabhuka ngaphandle kwesizathu okanye ukhuthazo. Basenokukhala ngequbuliso okanye bahleke kakhulu, babe nokugqabhuka ngokweemvakalelo okanye ukugqabhuka, nangona basenokubonakalisa ngendlela eyahlukileyo: ngokungabikho kokuthetha phakathi kweziqendu. Ugqabhuko ludla ngokuba lufutshane, alupheli ngaphezu kwemizuzu embalwa. Kuyamangalisa ukubona ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo zibaxwa okanye zenzeke kwiimeko ezingafanelekanga. Ngaloo maxesha, umntu uthetha ngendlela eyahluke ngokupheleleyo kuleyo aqhele ukuyithetha ngayo. Ngaloo ndlela, unokuhleka ngexesha lokubandezeleka ngokubanzi okanye ukukhala kakhulu kwimeko evuyayo. Iimvakalelo zihlala zimangalisa kwaye zihlala imizuzu okanye imizuzwana. Okokugqibela, ziimpendulo eziphazamisayo njengoko zivela, emva koko zihambe.
Iimbangela kunye nokufumanisa
Ngenxa yeempawu ezivezwayo, kunzima ukufumanisa xa umntwana enokukhubazeka ngokweemvakalelo. Ukuba kukho naluphi na uphawu olulumkisayo, kuya kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo ekufumaneni ukuqheleka kweempawu, ukuba kukho abanxulumani abaninzi kwaye ujonge abancinci kakuhle kakhulu ngamaxesha apho oku kungabikho kolawulo kubonakala. Phakathi kwe iimpawu lability ngokweemvakalelo kakhulu ezi:
- Ukukhala okulula ngaphandle kwezizathu ezicacileyo.
- Ukuziva ungalawuleki kunye nokucaphuka okunzulu.
- Akukho ukunyamezela ukuphoxeka.
- Ukuhleka ngesiquphe nangokungalawulekiyo endaweni.
- Ukuphelelwa ithemba kuyo nayiphi na imeko, enokuhamba kunye nokudinwa okanye ukuvutha ngumsindo.
- Ukungalali rhoqo.
- Ubunzima bokwenza izigqibo ezilula.
- Ithemba elibaxiweyo nelomzuzwana.
Kude nokuba kwenziwe ngabom, ukubaleka ngokweemvakalelo lutshintsho kwindawo yengqondo ejongene nokulawula iimvakalelo. Le meko inokuthi yenzeke ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo, ukusuka ekudibaneni nezifo ezifana ne-multiple sclerosis, i-amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, ukuxhuzula, ukwenzakala kwengqondo kunye nemivimbo ukuya kumanqanaba aphezulu kakhulu oxinzelelo. Iziganeko ezihlasimlis’ umzimba ebuntwaneni zinokubangela ukuba kubekho ukwenzakala ngokweemvakalelo, njengoko kunokukhokelela kumonzakalo kunye nokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi.
Unyango kunye nokhathalelo
Ngenxa yobume bale meko, ngaphezu kokufumanisa yintoni lability ngokweemvakalelo, kuhle ukwazi ukuba kukho unyango lokulungisa imeko. Lunyango oluthi ekuqaleni luvumele oonobangela ukuba bachongwe luze ke luphuhlise unyango olunceda isigulana ukuba silawule iimvakalelo, ngaloo ndlela sikwazi ukulawula ngakumbi nokulawula iimvakalelo zabo. Ukongeza ekusebenzeni kwiqhina lengxaki, ezi zonyango zikwasebenza kwezinye iinkalo ezivela kwimeko, njengehlazo, ukuziva unetyala, ukuxhalaba, ukuzithemba, ukuzeyisa okanye ukunyamezela ukuphoxeka, imiba yesibini ekwabonwayo. kwabo banale meko.
Kukwabalulekile ukufumana uxilongo olululo kuba kukho izigulo zengqondo eziphawulwa kukutshintsha kwemo ngesiquphe kodwa zezinye iintlobo zeemeko. Yimeko ye Ukuxhuzula kunye nokudakumba.