Ukubuyela esikolweni kukujikeleze ikona, kwiiveki ezimbalwa abantwana baya kugxila kwinkqubo yemihla ngemihla yokufunda kunye nokufunda. Enye yezona ntloko zinkulu kubazali malunga noku kukuba abantwana benza umsebenzi wesikolo yonke imihla. Abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukulungelelanisa ixesha labo, ukuze umsebenzi wabo wesikolo ungangeni kuyo yonke loo mva kwemini kwaye baphele besala.
Ukunceda abantwana ukuba benze imisebenzi yabo kubalulekile, kufuneka bazi ukuba banenkxaso yabadala babo ukusombulula amathandabuzo anokubathintela kwaye onakalise wonke umsebenzi. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba abazali bafundise abantwana bazimele kwaye banoxanduva kwimisebenzi yabo. Okwangoku, olu lolona xanduva lwabo lubalulekileyo kwaye ke kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bayiqonde ngolu hlobo.
Uninzi lwabazali benza impazamo yokunceda kakhulu ngomsebenzi wesikolo kangangokuba bagqibela ngokuwenza endaweni yabantwana. Le yinto eqondakala ngokupheleleyo, abancinci bayadinwa xa bengazi ukuba benze njani na, bayadana baze baphelelwe ngumonde. Kodwa kwezi meko, kungcono ume okomzuzwana, wenze omnye umsebenzi okwemizuzu embalwa, ucule kwaye udanise ingoma, emva koko uphinde uthathe umsebenzi.
Fundisa abantwana ukwenza umsebenzi wasekhaya
Xa umntwana omncinci eluqonda uxanduva lokwenza umsebenzi wasekhaya yonke imihla, funda ukulawula umsebenzi wakho. Esi sifundo siya kukunceda ebomini bakho bonke, xa uxanduva lwakho kunye nemisebenzi isiba nzima njengoko uqhubeka kwizifundo zakho.
Umsebenzi wakho njengomama okanye utata kukufundisa unyana okanye intombi yakho uxanduva lokugcina umsebenzi wakho wasekhaya usesikhathini. Kwaye ngokudibanisa neendlela ezimbalwa ezilula, unokumnceda ukuba alungiselele ixesha lakhe ukuze umsebenzi wenziwe ngokukuko.
Nceda umntwana wakho kuphela xa kukho imfuneko
Awuhlali ecaleni kwakhe ngelixa umntwana esenza umsebenzi wesikolo, uya kuphulukana nomonde kuphela ukuba kuthabatha ixesha elide kwaye awunakukuzinikezela kwezinye izinto. Umntwana akazukuzama, kwaye akazukucinga ngendlela yokusombulula ingxaki ukuba usecaleni kwakhe kwaye uyisombulule okokuqala. Kuya kufuneka unike uncedo lwakho kwaye umntwana kufuneka alwazi, kodwa ngaphambi kokuthatha ipensile uyisombulule, khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba ayenze yedwa. Ukuba ubona ukuba uyadinwa okanye kunzima kakhulu, mnike isandla uqhubeke nezinto zakho. Ngaloo ndlela uya kuba ukhuthaza inkululeko yomntwana wakho.
Bonisa umdla kwimisebenzi yabo yasekhaya
Endaweni yokumcela ukuba akubonise umsebenzi ukuze ubone ukuba uwenze kakuhle na, cela umntwana ukuba achaze ukuba uqulethwe yintoni na lo msebenzi. Ukuba sisiqulatho sokuba akufundele okanye ukuba yingxaki yezibalo echaza ukuba isonjululwa njani. Ngale ndlela, uya kuba ubonakalisa umdla kwizinto ozifundayo yonke imihla. Ngelixa ujonga ukuba wenze kakuhle, ukuba akunjalo, ungamkhokela kwindlela elungileyo ngaphandle kokwenza ukuba abone ukuba uyenzile kakubi, ngokungathi niyifumene kunye.
Umsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya rhoqo
Kubalulekile ukuba misela indawo yokusebenza efanelekileyo yomntwana, enokukhanya okuhle kunye nomoya. Zama ukungabinaziphazamiso emehlweni, ngenxa yoko akucetyiswa ukuba umabonwakude abekhona ngelixa usebenza. Nokuba kusegumbini lakho lokulala, kwigumbi lokutyela okanye ekhitshini, qiniseka ukuba unendawo eyaneleyo, isihlalo esihle apho ukhululeke khona nalapho unayo yonke into oyifunayo.
Umonde omninzi
Abanye abantwana banexesha elilula lokugcina iikhonsepthi, abanye bafuna inkxaso ngakumbi kunye neenkcazo ngakumbi. Oku akufuneki kube sisizathu sokuthelekisa. Akucetyiswa ukuba usebenzise oku ukunyanzelisa umntwana wakho, amabinzana anje, ngokuqinisekileyo uManolito sele egqibile kwaye udlala epakini, inokwenza umntwana angakhuthazeki kwaye azive ephantsi. Ukuba umntwana wakho uthatha ixesha elide ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo, mkhuthaze kwaye umenze ukuba abone ukuba umgudu wakhe uya kuba kufanelekile kwilixa elizayo.
Musa ukuwunika umsebenzi wabo ngezipho
Ukwenza umsebenzi wasekhaya wesikolo luxanduva lwabo, ke ngoko, kufuneka ubhiyozele ukuba umntwana wakho ungumsebenzi kodwa ngamazwi, izijekulo zothando kunye nokuvuyisana nabo. Isipho, nokuba yinto yokudlala, ilekese okanye naliphina ibhaso, singathumela umyalezo ongalunganga emntwaneni. Siyavuyisana nabo kufuneka babe kwimo yekratshi, ukwanga, ukwangana kunye nemiboniso yothando.