Xa abantwana beqala ukusebenzisa izixhobo ezinonxibelelwano lwe-intanethiKubaluleke kakhulu ukuba oomama nootata babekhona kwaye bazi ukuba basebenze njani "njengabakhokeli", ukwenzela ukunqanda okanye ukunciphisa umngcipheko onxulumene nokusetyenziswa gwenxa. Alithandabuzeki elokuba kukho iminyaka yayo yonke into, kwaye amaxesha amaninzi iingxaki ziza kuba sibeka ezandleni zabo basebancinci kakhulu, izixhobo eziza kubavumela ukuba bonwabe kwaye banxibelelane nabanye, kodwa ke kufuneka ukukhula okuqinisekileyo.
Umzekelo, akuqhelekanga ukuba abantwana kunye nabakwishumi elivisayo abangaphantsi kweminyaka eli-15 ubudala benze ngokucinga ngeziphumo zezenzo zabo, ukungxamiseka, ulingo, ukukhawuleza, ukukhangela ulonwabo, ziqhelekile ebuntwaneni. Yiyo loo nto kufuneka bakhule kwaye bakhule emakhayeni nabantu abadala ababakhuselayo. Kule mihla sifunda ingxelo zomhloli weNational Police Corps ebizwa nguEsther Arén, ekhethekileyo ekulweni ukungcungcuthekiswa kwabantwana namatyala olwaphulo-mthetho. Ngamazwi akhe, iingcali zicebisa oko akufuneki sinike iintombi zethu noonyana bethu iselfowuni yabo phambi kweminyaka eyi-12.
Ngaba abantwana bangasebenzisa i-WhatsApp?
U-Esta usixelela nokuba kungangcono kunabantwana abayi kusebenzisa i-WhatsApp.
Ngokwolwazi olukhoyo kwi iphepha lenkonzo: "Ubuneminyaka eli-13 ubuncinci (okanye ubuncinci obufunwa lilizwe lakho ukuze ube negunya ngaphandle kwemvume yabazali)"; Nditsho, xa umntwana ongaphantsi kobudala ekhuphela i-WhatsApp kwiselfowuni yakhe kwaye yamkela iimeko, inkampani (kule meko i-Facebook, eyeyayo) iyaqonda ukuba abazali banolwazi kwaye bayayamkela.
Kodwa ubaleka kubuchwephesha kwaye unamathele kwingqondo eqhelekileyo, Kukuthini ukusetyenziswa komntwana oneminyaka eli-9 okanye eli-10 ubudala ukuba abe neselfowuni yakhe ke ngoko kuWhatsApp? Ingaba udinga ntoni? Kwaye ngoku ndizibeka kwimeko egqithileyo yokuba uthathile ingqalelo ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci uya kuba nesixhobo esitsha kraca kunye nesona sicelo saziwayo nesona sisetyenziswayo emhlabeni ..., ubuncinci ukuzihlupha ngokuchaza iingcebiso zokusetyenziswa, kwaye ubeke imigaqo malunga nayo.
Isigqibo sisezandleni zosapho ngalunye: kwaye asinakubukhanyela ubunyani obungqonge abantwana bethu, kwaye asinyanzelekanga ukuba sibanike i-smartphone ngenxa yokuba "wonke umntu okwiklasi yam yesihlanu unayo" Ugqithisile).
WhatsApp, abantwana kunye nokhuseleko.
Kulula kakhulu ukuyisebenzisa ukuba ihende, kodwa naluphi na ulwazi lunokugqithiselwa kwabanye abafowunelwa ngulowo ufumana ulwazi kuye. Andingeni kwimpazamo yokucinga ukuba abahlobo babantwana bam kuWhatsApp banobuqhetseba kwaye iimfihlo okanye iifoto "ezonakalisiweyo" ziya kuphelela kwizixhobo ezininzi zabanye abantwana esikolweni okanye kwiZiko, kodwa inokwenzeka (kwaye enyanisweni kunjalo rhoqo oko ukuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni kwabelwana kwasasazwa). Ngendlela, unyana wam oneminyaka eli-13 ubudala ebeneselfowuni kunye noWhatsApp unyaka, intombazana eneminyaka eli-10 ayinayo, kwaye ayisayi kuze ibenayo.
Ke lumka kakhulu malunga noko kuthethwayo kunye nokuvezwa: Kulungile kubantwana nakubantu abadala ukwenza umlinganiso "wokulinganisa ngengqondo" amaxesha ngamaxesha: "khawufane ucinge into oza kuyithetha, into oza kwabelana ngayo, abantu abangama-50 bebeza kuyibona. ngaphambili? " (inyaniso, ngokwamaqela sisebenza ngokwahlukileyo kunoko sikwenza kwiingxoxo zomntu nomntu).
Kwaye ukuba awazi, ngokufikelela "kuseto" lomsebenzi weprofayile yakho, sifumana icandelo "leAkhawunti", ngaphakathi sinokuthi siguqule ubumfihlo noKhuseleko, ukuze abanye abantu abangenayo kwincwadi yefowuni babone umfanekiso wethu weprofayile, okanye ukuze kungabikho mntu waziyo ukuba leliphi ixesha esidibanise ngalo okokugqibela. Ndiyakuqinisekisa, kufanelekile ukuchitha imizuzu eli-15 usenza uhlengahlengiso.
Iingcebiso ezingakumbi
Xa abantwana besebancinci, kwaye bacele ukuba nefowuni ephathekayo kunye noWhatsApp, oomama kunye / okanye ootata bangavuma ukuba namaqela abo kwifowuni yakho, sisisombululo esifanelekileyo esivumela ukuba bazame kwaye baqeqeshe ekusetyenzisweni kwento eyiyo Inethiwekhi yentlalo (nangona siyenza ukuba ibe sisicelo). Kuya kuba lula kubo ukwamkela ukuba abantu abadala bazibophezele ekubeni "bangahloli" kwiincoko zabo, ngaphandle kokuba oko kuyimfuneko kakhulu (ngokukrokrela ukungahambi kakuhle).
Ingumbono olungileyo ukuqhela ukucima incoko kunye nemifanekiso kumaxesha ngamaxesha kwiscreen, kuba kwimeko yobusela okanye ilahleko, abanye abantu abayi kuba nakho ukwazi umsebenzi ngeWhatsApp, okanye enye idatha egciniweyo. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuseka iphasiwedi yokuvula isikrini ngepateni okanye ngepini, kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka kunxulunyaniswe neakhawunti ye-imeyile, ukuba iphinde ibuyiselwe ukuba bayayilibala.
Ungafaka ulawulo lwabazali kwi-smartphone yomntwana okanye usetyenziso olukugcina unolwazi ngalo msebenzi, kodwa kum unxibelelwano lubaluleke ngakumbi, kuba ukongeza ekunikezeleni kufutshane, sinokuhlaziya iingcebiso esizinika abantwana. Ndiyicinga ukuba inethamsanqa ukuba namhlanje sinemijelo emininzi yonxibelelwano, kodwa kufuneka sisebenzise ingqiqo ngaphezulu okanye kancinci ngokuqhubekayo.
Kwaye ayithumeli nje ukuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni, kukho umngcipheko yokuzilungisa kunye nokuxhatshazwa kwi-intanethiizehlo zazo zonyukile). Misela umzekelo kubantwana kwaye ungathintelwa zikwanezindululo zokwamkelwa.
Okokugqibela, ndingathanda ukukuxelela ukuba indlela yokuziphatha kwi-Intanethi inokulunga kwaye ibe sempilweni, kodwa nokuziphatha kakubi, kwaye kungabikho semthethweni; Ngale ndlela, makungabikho mntu ulibeleyo ukuba uneminyaka eli-14 yoxanduva lokujongana nolwaphulo-mthetho. Ngokukhawuleza xa uthetha nabantwana bakho ngesi sihloko, abakulungele ngakumbi baya kuba besebenzisa ubumi be-cyber kunye nokwenza izixhobo kunye ne-Intanethi, izixhobo zokuqhubela phambili kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane obakhayo nabanye abantu.
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