Nangona besele sithethile kwizihlandlo ezidlulileyo malunga umngcipheko ovela kukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwe-Intanethi kunye nokuthintela kwayo, olu hlobo lweengcebiso lufunwa kakhulu ziintsapho ezinabantwana kunye nolutsha. Ngeli xesha Ndisekwe kwicandelo leendaba endizifunde izolo ... Ibalisa ibali lomama olingise intombazana yakhe encinci kuFacebook xa waqonda ukuba 'umntu oxhaphaza abantwana uyamhlukumeza'.
Oku kwenzeka eArgentina kwaye intombazana encinci yayineminyaka esithoba kuphela ubudala; USabrina Baco (yile nto wayebizwa ngayo lo mama) Ufumene ubungqina obahlukeneyo ukuze akwazi ukufaka isikhalazo, kuba ngexesha lencoko awayezenza njengentombazana, umhlaseli wade wamcela ukuba amthumelele iifoto ze. Siyayazi le nto njengokuzilungisa, kwaye njengoko sichaza apha imalunga 'xa kukho ukulandela isondo emva kwendlela'.
Kwezi meko, abaxhaphazi ngokwesondo bafumana ukuthembela kubantwana kwaye banamandla okuqala kunye nokugcina i-blackmail. Ayicacanga into yokuba ukusukela ngexesha lokukrokra, injongo yabazali kufuneka ibe kukukhusela abantwana babo, kwaye kwangaxeshanye kuqokelela ubungqina besenzo solwaphulo-mthetho. Kungenxa yokuba ewe, iphonografi yabantwana lulwaphulo-mthetho, kwaye ngokweBhunga laseYurophu ichazwa 'njengayo nayiphi na into emanyelwayo esebenzisa abancinci kwimeko yesini'.
Ukusuka ekusebenziseni imifanekiso ecacileyo yesini yabantwana abathatha inxaxheba ekuziphatheni ngokwesondo (nokuba kuyenziwa), kusetyenziso lwezixhobo zemiboniso engamanyala, Ukuhamba ngemifanekiso ebonisa amalungu esini abantwana. Kwaye, benditshilo apha ngasentla ukuba yayingumntu ohamba ecaleni owayeqhakamshelene nala ntombazana ukuze afumane iifoto zakhe ezinganxibanga, kodwa ngaba wakhe wazithandabuza umahluko phakathi kwe-pedophilia kunye ne-pedophilia? Ewe, ibhokisi engezantsi, ilungiswe ngokuzilungisa kwi-Intanethi (ukusuka kwiPantallas Amigas) uyichaza kakuhle, kwaye ngokufutshane ndikuxelela ukuba 'isenzo sokuxhatshazwa' yeyona nto yenza umahluko, kwaye ikwahlula umntu oxhaphaza abantwana.
Ungenza njani xa ukrokrela ukuba umntwana uxhatshazwa ngumkhwenyana?
Ukuthetha ngokuthintela kulula, siyavuma ukuba abantwana bethu banokuba ngamaxhoba hayi kangako, apha ngezantsi siza kuphinda-phinda iingcebiso zokuphepha, kodwa ubuya kwenza ntoni ukuba unokuzibhaqa usezimbadeni zikaSabrina? Okokuqala, kunyanzelekile ukugxininisa ukuba kufuneka sigcine imeko enononophelo olukhulu, xa sincokola nabantwana kwaye sithathe amanyathelo, kuba ngaphezulu kwako konke kufuneka sibakhusele. Kungenzeka ukuba sikrokre ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo kuye ngenxa yokuba etshintshe isimo sakhe sengqondo kunye nemikhwa yakhe kwezi veki zidlulileyo, ukuba umhlobo wakhe unesiqingatha sakhe usixelele ngengxaki, ukuba siyifundile incoko, nokuba incinci isixelele into.
Yonke into iya kuxhomekeka ekuzithembeni onakho ekhaya, ubudala babantwana, amandla akho okulawula ukusetyenziswa kwezixhobo abazisebenzisayo ... Unxibelelwano ngumba ophambili wokugcina imeko efana nesiqhelo, kwaye oku:
- Mamela ngaphandle kokugweba; unika izisombululo kodwa umamele iingcebiso zabo.
- Umbuzo ngaphandle kokubuza: kuya kufuneka umgcine ukuba angaziva 'exakekile'.
- Mqinisekise ukuba (ngakumbi umntwana) ngamaxhoba, nangaliphi na ixesha akufuneki kugxekwe umntwana othumele umfanekiso.
- Thetha kwindawo ezolileyo, ngaphandle kokuba nabantu abavela ngaphandle kosapho phambi kwakho.
- Kholelwa kwintombi yakho okanye kunyana wakho: abayizungulanga, bacela uncedo kunye nenkuselo yakho.
- Hlala uzolile ngoko kulula ukuba ahlale.
- Awunatyala: nokuba awungomama ombi, awungotata ombi.
- Thatha ulawulo lweeprofayili zomntwana: gcina ubungqina, ungahoyi izicelo, vimba umhlaseli, ucime iprofayile.
- Nxibelelana neqela labaphuli mthetho kwaye bakukhokele xa usenza ingxelo.
- Ukuqwalaselwa kwengqondo kunokuba yimfuneko.
- Isikolo sentombi yakho, abahlobo abasenyongweni, kunye nosapho olongezelelekileyo -luncedo, ewe-kufuneka bazi iinyani emva kokuba wenze into. Oku kuya kuba negalelo kukhuseleko.
- Lumkela ukuvuselelwa kwakhona! Gwema nabani na onokukwenzakalisa.
- Qinisa ukhuseleko kwaye uthathele ingqalelo impilo yeemvakalelo zomntwana wakho emva kwento eyenzekileyo, zilungelelanise neemfuno zakhe: ukuba ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi ekhaya endaweni yokuqhubeka nokufunda umculo, mhloniphe, ukuba ukhetha ukuphuma nawe kwakhona Iimovie endaweni yokuhamba nabahlobo bakhe, ziqonde ...
Ukuphepha ukuzilungisa: umsebenzi olindileyo?
Kwingeniso engentla sele sinike iinkcukacha ezininzi malunga nokuthintela, ukuqaqambisa ukubaluleka konxibelelwano losapho: ukuba bayayazi indlela yokuzikhusela kunokungathembi YONKE INTO ejikeleze. Cacisa ngokucacileyo amanyathelo okhuseleko: useto lwabucala kunxibelelwano lwasentlalweni, akukho bonisa imifanekiso esondeleyo, ukujonga kwabazali, akuvumelekanga ukudibana nomntu omaziyo kwi-Intanethi kuphela, gcina izixhobo zikhuselekile, misela indawo eqhelekileyo endlwini yokusebenzisa izixhobo.
Ngamafutshane, imalunga nokudibanisa ukuqonda kunye nokuzilolonga okuyimfuneko kokuba ngumama okanye utata, ngamanye amaxesha oku kuthetha ukusekwa kwemida.
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