Zininzi ingozi apho abantwana bevezwa ngenxa yokusetyenziswa gwenxa kwetekhnoloji, itekhnoloji engene ebomini bethu, ngaphandle kokuba uninzi lwethu lwazi ukuba luza kuthatha njani na ukhuseleko. Ukujongana nokuphuculwa kwezibonelelo okusizisela zona, kufuneka sicingisise ngendlela yokukhokela abantwana nolutsha kwi inkcubeko yokuthintelan.
Sithethe nathi UMaria Jose Kwiveki ephelileyo malunga nemeko oomama nootata abaninzi abaphila ngayo namhlanje: abantwana bethu bayakucela ukuba ubene-smartphone, kwaye inyani kukuba asinayo Sazi kakuhle ukuba zeziphi izinto ekufuneka sizixabisile ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo. Kodwa inyani kukuba ayisiwo nje umbuzo wokuba bayayidinga okanye abayidingi iselfowuni, kuba ukuba abakulungelanga ukuyisebenzisa, banokufumana Kubi kakhulu kwaye kunzima ukulawula iimeko. Enye yazo 'kukuzilungisa', ethi yona ichaze Izikrini ezinobuhlobo Imalunga nale: 'xa isini esikhohlisayo kwenzeka apho ngaphambili bekukho isicwangciso sokusondela, sokuzonwabisa, ukufumana ukuthembela komncinci ngumxhaphazi ngokwesondo, ngaloo ndlela ufumane loo nto yamandla onokuthi uqalise ngayo.
Ngamanye amagama: umntu oxhaphaza abantwana ngokwesondo usondela kumntwana okanye kwishumi elivisayo nge-Intanethi (izingxoxo, iiNethiwekhi zeNtlalo, i-whatsapp), fumana ukuthembela kwabo, kwaye ubenze ukuba bakunike imifanekiso eyonakalisiweyo (ngaphandle kweempahla, inkanuko, ..). Nje ukuba inyathelo lokuqala lithathiwe, umntu omdala (ozenza omncinci), ulithengisa ixhoba lakhe, ukuze afumane umxholo ongaphezulu. Ejongane ne-blackmail, umntwana unokuziva engakhuselekanga kakhulu, kwaye amandla akhe okucela uncedo anokuthintelwa, ke, ukuthintela umngcipheko kubaluleke kakhulu. Inyathelo elilandelayo lokuxhaphaza elingasoloko lisenzeka kodwa linokwenzeka, kukuzama ukumanyanisa nomntwana omncinci.
Ukuhamba nokunxibelelana kwi-Intanethi ngokukhuselekileyo, kubalulekile khathalela izinto zakho zangasese, kwaye uhloniphe iimfihlo zabanye; Ukongeza, abantwana kufuneka babenakho ukwala kwaye bacele uncedo. Kwiintsapho apho abantwana behlonitshwayo, apho kukhuthazwa uthethathethwano kunye nokuthembana, apho abantu abadala bemamela abantwana, kunokuba lula emntwaneni ukwazi ukusebenzisa amalungelo abo; Kodwa rhoqo imiyalezo esiyinika abantwana bethu ukuba bayilumke, kufuneka iphindaphindwe, kwaye ibuye ibe mifutshane, ukuze kube lula kubo ukuyifaka ngaphakathi.
Umntwana uboniswa njani ekuzilungiseni?
Sonke kunokuninzi ekufuneka sikufundile, kwaye xa kufikwa kukhuseleko lwabantwana, akunakucingelwa ukukholelwa ukuba siyayazi yonke. Abahlukumezi ngokwesini kwi-Intanethi abanayo iprofayile ethile, kodwa banexesha elininzi lokulandela umkhondo weeprofayili kunye neencoko zabantwana. Nazi oosomashishini (Basebenzisa iifoto zemixholo yesondo abayifumanayo), kunye ngqo (babuza ngokucacileyo imifanekiso). Ukuze 'ufumanise' i-stalker ethile, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba zeziphi izigaba apho bazama khona ukujolisa: i-hitch, ukuthembeka, ukulukuhla, ukuphathwa gadalala.
Ukuba uthintelo alukho, okanye alusebenzi; Ukuba kuye kwafuneka sijongane nesiqendu sokuzilungisa, kufuneka sigcine bonke ubungqina obuyimfuneko. Oko kukuthi: iincoko, imiyalezo, izikrini, njl. I-Blackmail mayingaze ichithwe, kwaye indima yomntu omdala ithatha isigqibo apha, kwaye nje ukuba abazali bayazi, baya kucela uncedo kwiZiko le-Intanethi elikhuselekileyo, kwiPolisa leSizwe okanye kwi-Civil Guard.
Izitshixo zokulwa nokuzilungisa
Uthintelo: thintela u-stalker ekufumaneni imifanekiso eya kumnika amandla:
- Akukho lwazi luyekisayo okanye imifanekiso ebonelelweyo.
- Kuyacetyiswa ukukhusela izixhobo zekhompyuter, ukumisela ngokukhuselekileyo imfihlo yeakhawunti, kunye nokuseka ipassword eyomeleleyo.
- Kuyacetyiswa ukuba unikele ingqalelo ekusetyenzisweni ngabanye abantu kwimifanekiso yabo kunye nolwazi.
Ubuso: ukuzilungisa kukhona, ukuba uyakholelwa ukuba unokwenza ngcono
- Xa kusenzeka, musa ukunikezela kwi-blackmail.
- Cela uncedo, fundisa abantwana bakho ukuba balucele.
- Nciphisa isenzo somxhaphazi (jonga abafowunelwa, tshintsha iphasiwedi amaxesha ngamaxesha, nceda umntwana wakho ukuba atshintshe iiprofayili xa kukho imfuneko).
Ungenelelo
- Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubalula ukuba zeziphi izinto ezingekho mthethweni azenzileyo umxhaphazi (ukunyanzela, ukugrogrisa).
- Khangela ubungqina bezenzo zolwaphulo-mthetho.
- Yenza isikhalazo.
Ndongeza kuyo yonke le nto ngexesha lenkqubo, kufuneka okungenani sikhusele, kwaye sinike inkxaso yeemvakalelo
Kukho imithombo yolwazi ebonisa iipesenti ezili-15 (phantse), ipesenti yabantwana abaphakathi kweminyaka eli-10 neli-17 ubudala abanokufumana izindululo zesini. Ndiyakholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba lixesha lokuba phendula kwaye ubandakanyeke hayi kukhuseleko lwabantwana bethu kuphela, kodwa nakwi-Intanethi ekhuselekileyo.