Ukufikisa kufuna umonde kunye nokuzithemba kwabazali, abanomsebenzi wokukhokela kunye nokunika abantwana abafikisayo inkxaso abayidingayo, ukukhuthaza nokwandisa iifayile zabo ukuzithemba, nangona oku kungelulanga, ngenxa yemvukelo engacacanga ebusheni.
Ukukhuthaza ulwazi nokuzazi nokuzithemba yeyona nto iphambili kwimpilo yengqondo wawo nawuphi na umntu, kwaye nangakumbi ebusheni. Ezinye izinto, iincwadi, iifilimu kunye namaxwebhu, anokukunceda kwaye uncede abantwana bakho bomeleze ukuzithemba kwabo, kwaye bafumane ukuzithemba ngendlela esempilweni.
Ngaba ulutsha lufunda iincwadi zokunceda?
Uninzi lweencwadi zokuzinceda zibhalwa ngabantu abadala kwaye ziyilelwe i-ditto, ekwaqhele ukuya kubo ngamaxesha obunzima. Nangona kunjalo ezinye, kunye nezinye ootitshala isayikholoji kunye nokuzinceda ikhethekileyo kwinqanaba lokufikisa kwaye babhale iincwadi eziza kufundwa lulutsha. Oku akuthethi ukuba bayafikeleleka nakubazali, kwaye bayabasebenzela uqonde ngcono amanyathelo athatyathwa ngabantwana bakho ukuya ebutsheni.
Abafikisayo banendlela yabo yokuthetha, ke kuyacetyiswa ukuba bajonge iincwadi nge Uhlobo lonxibelelwano olufanelekileyo kubo. Oku kuyaziwa ngababhali, nokuba yiSpanish okanye amazwe, kwaye loo nto kukufikisa yinto eyenzeka kwihlabathi liphela, nangona ineempawu ezahlukeneyo kwinkcubeko nganye.
Ngokuqinisekileyo kwizindululo esikunika zona sishiya ezinye, kodwa into ebalulekileyo kukuba umntwana ofikisayo usondela kufundo lwezi ncwadi zokuzinceda, ngenxa yabo ukuzazi, kunye nokubonakalisa. Kwaye khumbula ukuba kufuneka sicebise kwaye sicebise ngendlela engenayo encinci. Yile nto sihlala siyicebisa koomama.
Iincwadi ezikhuthaza ukuzithemba kwababhali bamanye amazwe
Enye yeeklasikhi phakathi kweencwadi ezinconywayo kulutsha yile: Izigqibo ezi-6 ezibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakho, Ngu-Briton Sean Covey. Le ncwadi igxile ekujonganeni nezi zigqibo ziphambili kulutsha. Umbhali ujongana nezinto azijonga njengamanqaku aphambili ayi-6 ajongene nawo nawuphi na umfana okanye intombazana efikisayo kwaye abafundise ukuba benze ezona zigqibo zikrelekrele. Iakhawunti amabali obomi bokwenyani ukubonisa indlela yokuphumelela kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, indlela yokwenza abahlobo abalungileyo.
Kumgca ofanayo ngu Imikhwa esi-7 yoLutsha oluSebenzayo, ngumbhali omnye, ekukhoyo vignettes ezihlekisayo ukuyenza ibe nomtsalane ngakumbi. Sebenzisa iikowuti, amabali ayinyani, kunye nee-anecdotes ezihlekisayo. Sisikhokelo se komeleza ubuntu bomntu ofikisayo Kwiindawo ezibalulekileyo ezinje ngomzimba, ubuhlobo, ubudlelwane obusondeleyo, ukuzibekela iinjongo, uxinzelelo koontanga, ukhuseleko kwi-Intanethi, kunye nokunye.
Inomdla kakhulu kukuba Ubugcisa obufihlakeleyo bokunika ikaka (phantse yonke into), NguMark Manson. Yenza uhlalutyo olungqongqo nolonwabisayo malunga noloyiso kunye nemvakalelo yokuba awonelanga ngokwaneleyo. Ngaba kunjalo Kunconyelwa abo bafikisayo abaseta imigangatho ephezulu. Into enomdla malunga nencwadi kukuba iyayitshintsha indlela ekujongwa ngayo nokuziphucula. Sisikhokelo esinomdla kakhulu ekwakheni nasekuphuculeni ukuzithemba.
Ababhali besizwe abakhuthaza ukuzithemba kwabafikisayo
Senze icandelo leencwadi ezipapashwe ngababhali baseSpain, kuba bane isalathiso esikufutshane nokuba baphile ntoni abantwana bakho. Umyalezo othe ngqo kwi Umntwana okhawulezayo: Ungayimisi njani kwaye ulisebenzise ixesha lakho kwiziko, nguPablo Poo. Igama lakhe liya kuvakala liqhelekile kuwe kuba itshaneli yakhe ye-YouTube yenye yezona zilandelwa kakhulu. Ngolwimi oluthe ngqo kwaye luqhelaniswe nolona mncinci, imema kwaye ikhuthaze ukuba ifunde kwaye yenze umzamo.
Umbhali we-psychopedagogue u-Antoni Bolinches ubhale Imfihlelo yokuzithemba, Ukucinga komntu wonke, kodwa ngakumbi ulutsha. Eyona nto kugxilwe kuyo kukuba ubomi kukonwabela amaxesha amnandi kwaye ufunde kokubi. Kuyo ubeka iziseko zethiyori entsha yokhuseleko.
Incwadi encinci yabantwana bam abakwishumi elivisayo. NguJosep López Romero, ibhaliwe ngocwangco nangokubonisa okucacileyo kwabakwishumi elivisayo. Bafana nekhampasi kwizihloko ezahlukeneyo, kubandakanya uburharha okanye umbulelo phakathi kwabanye.