Kuwo wonke lo nyaka sikwazile ukubona ukuba uluntu luye lwatshintsha njani kwaye kwiintsuku ezingama-365 lingaphezulu kwexesha elaneleyo lokuba abantu baguquke okanye bahlale njengoko benjalo. Abazali nabo bamkela iindlela ezithile zokuba ngumzali kulo nyaka kwaye kubonakala ngathi izakuhlala unyaka wonke ozayo, kwaye ngubani owaziyo? Banokuhlala ixesha elide.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ezinye zeendlela zokuba ngumzali azikulungelanga okanye ucinga ukuba zilungile kwaye nawe uza kuqala ukubazama ukuba banandiphe imvisiswano enkulu yosapho. Usapho ngalunye lwahlukile kwaye ezi ndlela zokuba ngumzali ngoku zisefashini akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uzilandele ungakholelwa kuzo. Kuya kufuneka ufumane eyona nto isebenzela wena nosapho lwakho, nokuba zezi ndlela zokuba ngumzali okanye abanye.
Isidingo sokwenza lula ubomi
Iintsapho namhlanje zinemisebenzi emininzi, zihlala zixakekile kwaye azinalo nexesha lokunxibelelana. Abazali nabantwana maxa wambi baxakeke kakhulu yimicimbi yasekuhlaleni, imisebenzi yasemva kwexesha, okanye ezinye izinto kangangokuba bachitha ixesha elincinci ekhaya. Nje ngeziphumo, Iintsapho zifuna-kwaye zifuna-ukuba neendlela zokuphila ezilula ... zibeke iziqhoboshi kwaye ngokwenene zikwazi ukuba kunye.
Endaweni yokucinga ukuba banokwenza konke, oomama baqala ukuqonda ukuba oku akunjalo kwaye bafuna uncedo ngaphandle kwekhaya. Umzekelo, bajonge ukuqiniswa kootitshala, iingqondo zengqondo, oochwephesha bokucoca ukubanceda ngemisebenzi yasendlini, iingcali zokwenza amaqebengwana emihla yokuzalwa, ukonwabisa abantwana kwimibutho yabantwana, njl
Olu hlobo lwendlela yokuba ngumzali yokutshintsha uxanduva luvumela abazali ukuba bakwazi ukubuyela umva kwaye bakhuphe umthwalo ukuba bachithe ixesha elininzi nabantwana babo kwaye bazinyamekele ngokwasemoyeni. Nangona kucacile ukuba ukuze ukwazi ukucela uncedo kwabanye abantu udinga imali ukuze ukwazi ukuhlawula iifizi zaba bantu.
Abagcini babantwana ababini endaweni yanye
Kubonakala ngathi ukuba noongikazi ababini yinto enokufikelelwa kuphela zizityebi nabantu abadumileyo, kodwa kulo nyaka iintsapho ezininzi ziye ngokuthe ngcembe zikhetha ukuba neenaliti ezimbini. I-Nannies isebenza iiyure ezimbalwa kwaye iishedyuli zazo zilunge ngakumbi kwiimfuno zosapho, ke yindlela yokuyila yokuba nabantu ababini ngeeyure ezahlukeneyo okanye ezilinganayo ukubanceda iveki yonke.
Lo mkhwa ubonakala uqhubeka nokukhula kulo nyaka uzayo, kuba iintsapho zifuna abo bagcina abantwana ukuba babancede ngayo yonke into, ukusuka kukhathalelo lomntwana ukuya kwimisebenzi yasekhaya. Oku kuthetha ukuba kuhlawulwa ixesha elongezelelekileyo kwaye kukho abo banonophela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo Kwahluka kakhulu kubantwana kwaye unethuba lokuqesha abo babanonophela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zomsebenzi, ngaloo ndlela uhlangabezana neemfuno ezahlukeneyo kusapho olunye.
Inkululeko encinci yokuba ngumzali
Uninzi lwabazali luqala ukudinwa kukulandela iimfundiso okanye iindlela zokufundisa abantwana babo kwaye bacele inkululeko yokuba ngabazali. Abazali bafuna abantwana babo bakhule kwaye bakhule ngokukhululekileyo ngaphandle kokubonisa ulawulo oluninzi okanye ukuzimela phezu kwabo, abafuni ukuba njalo Abazali beehelikopta. Imalunga nokufumana abantwana ukuba bafunde ukuzenzela izinto, benokhokelo kubazali.
Le ndlela ikhula ngamandla kwihlabathi liphela njengoko inokunceda ukufundisa abantwana ukuba bazithembe kwaye babe ngabantu abadala abanobuchule. Olu khuliso lufuna abantwana bakhule ngokukhululekileyo, baveze iimvakalelo zabo, babe nolawulo lwabo kunye nokuzimela. Kodwa ke, lo mkhwa uvakala ulunge kakhulu, ufuna ukuqinisekiswa ngabazali. Kulungile ukuba abantwana babe nolawulo oluthile okanye bazive ngathi banokuthatha isigqibo, kodwa bahlala phantsi kweliso elibukhali labazali babo. Umgangatho kukusebenza kunxibelelwano olukhulu lweemvakalelo phakathi kwabazali nabantwana.
Oomama abangatshatanga nootata abangenamaqabane
Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, iintsapho ezinomzali omnye ziye zaxhaphaka ngakumbi kunoko kwaziwa ngokuba 'lusapho lwenyukliya' oluquka usapho olunomama, utata nabantwana. Namhlanje, kukho zonke iintlobo zeentsapho ezinomzali omnye ezikhokelwa ngabafazi okanye ngamadoda, nokuba ngootata, oomama bakhulisa abantwana babo okanye ootatomkhulu okanye oomakhulu okanye oomakhulu abakhulisa abazukulwana babo.
Nokuba injani imeko yakho, ukuba udale usapho lomzali ongenaqabane, ungathandabuzi ukucela usapho kunye nabahlobo bakho uncedo ukuze ukwazi ukuya phambili ukuba yile nto uyifunayo ngeli xesha. Khumbula ukuba ukucela uncedo akubuthathaka kwaye ukukhulisa abantwana, uluntu luyimfuneko.
Khokela ubomi obunempilo
Ukutyeba kakhulu emntwaneni yinkxalabo kwiintsapho ezininzi njengoko zisanda kakhulu kuluntu lwanamhlanje. Uninzi lwabantwana batyebe kakhulu okanye batyebile. Abazali baqala ukuqaphela ukuba ukutyeba kakhulu ebuntwaneni kukonyusa umngcipheko wezifo ezinganyangekiyo kamva ebomini kwaba bantwana kwaye kufuneka banyangwe ngokukhawuleza.
Ngeli xesha lonyaka, abazali abaninzi sele beqalisile ukubanolwazi ngokutya kwabantwana babo kwaye bazama ukunciphisa inani lokutya okungenampilo - njengeehambhega, ukutya okwenziweyo, iilekese okanye iziselo ezihlwahlwazayo - abazitya mihla le ekhaya. Ziyanda iinkampani eziqonda ukuba ukonyusa ukusetyenziswa kwabathengi, kufuneka zinikeze iimveliso ezisempilweni.
Ezi zezinye zeendlela zokuba ngumzali eze kuluntu lwethu kwaye kubonakala ngathi zizohlala. Okucacileyo kukuba abazali baqala ukuqonda ukuba badinga ixesha elininzi bebodwa, ukuba uncedo olongezelelekileyo kusapho ngamanye amaxesha luyimfuneko, kwaye kunjalo ... impilo yomzimba nengqondo ayisiyonto ekufuneka ithathwe kancinci.