Kukho amakhwenkwe namantombazana aneentloni. Kunjalo. Baninzi abantwana abakhoyo, kodwa inyani kukuba ikwelinqanaba lobuntwana, apho bangafuni ukuba kuluntu. Kude kube kwinqanaba lokufikisa apho umntu ngokwakhe abonwa njengeentloni. Xa abazali bethetha ngenkwenkwe okanye intombazana eneentloni, engaphantsi kweminyaka emi-6 ubudala, banokumkhusela kakhulu, okanye benze umfanekiso wokungazithembi ngaye okanye ngaye.
Kususela kwiminyaka ye-3, ngokubanzi, xa besiya esikolweni kwaye izakhono zabo zentlalo zakhiwa, Kuxa beqala "ukuhlelwa" njengeentloni, kodwa yintoni iintloni zobuntwana?
Injani inkwenkwe okanye intombazana eneentloni?
Iingcali zengqondo zichaza ukuba neentloni ebuntwaneni njengokuziphatha okubonakaliswa ngu Intsilelo ephawulwe kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Utyekelo oluzinzileyo nolusisigxina lokubaleka kunye nokuphepha ukunxibelelana nabanye ekuhlaleni kugcinwa.
Mamaxesha amaninzi Iintloni zinokuba nemvelaphi yemfuza. Phakathi kwe-20% kunye ne-48% yabantu baneentloni, kwaye iintsana zizalwa zinomdla wokuba neentloni. Nangona kunjalo, ukubonakala kwayo kukwaphenjelelwa zizinto zangaphandle esinokuzilawula.
Aba bantwana abahlali benika naluphi na uhlobo lweengxaki kwindlela abaziphethe ngayo. Ngamanye amaxesha ungabonakali ekhaya nasesikolweni, eneneni, ootitshala bahlala bezisebenzisa njengomzekelo wokuziphatha kakuhle. Nangona kunjalo, kuqhelekile ukuba babe neemvakalelo zoxinzelelo, ukungazithembi kunye noloyiko.
Njengoko sasifuna ukubonisa Iintloni ngokwazo azimbi, njengoko ikhusela ngokuchasene nokungaziwa. Kodwa ukuba umntwana uneentloni kakhulu, kunokuba neengxaki zokukhula kwaye kukhokelele kukungazithembi kwabantu abadala. Kubalulekile ukusebenza kwiintloni ngelixa uhlonipha indawo kunye nesigqibo sabantwana sokungathethi okanye ukunganxibelelani nabanye.
Iintloni esikolweni nasekhaya
Sikunika iingcebiso okanye isikhokelo sokusebenza nabantwana abaneentloni, kokubini esikolweni nakubantwana bakho, ekhaya. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba abantwana banovelwano olunobutyebi kunabantu abadala ukubona umohluko kwindalo esingqongileyo. Bahlala beqwalasele ukujonga kwethu, imiqondiso yethu, ubukho bethu kunye nokungabikho kwethu. Kuthatha ithutyana de bakwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo ezibangelwe zizenzo zethu, ukuxabana, ukungabikho, umsindo ...
Umntwana ngamnye unendlela yakhe yokunxibelelana nobunzima bokuqonda okwenzekayo. Nangona kuvakala njengobugqwirha, siyayithemba intuition yethu ukufumana elona xesha lililo lokuthetha nomntwana, ngamazwi asibeka entliziyweni yethu.
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba umntwana uneentloni ngumbono olungileyo akunike imizekelo yendlela ongaqala ngayo incoko, okanye imixholo onokuxoxa ngayo noontanga bakho. Unokuluqhelisela olu hlobo lweemeko. Olunye uluvo yile ukuziqhelanisa nemisebenzi yeqela langaphandle, kodwa ukuba unomdla, hayi wena, okanye xa ehamba nawe ukuya evenkileni ubuza ixabiso okanye uyamvumela ukuba ahlawule, ukuze asebenzisane nabantu angabaziyo.
iliso! kubalulekile ukuba ungazikhuselanga ngokugqithisileyo, ungamthetheleli, umjongele phantsi okanye umbize ngokuba neentloni phambi kwabanye abantu okanye abantwana. Babonise ukuba siyabathanda ukuze bazive bethandwa kwaye bekhuselekile. Oku kunokwenziwa kuphela ngamazwi nangezenzo.
Apha Unenqaku elinengcebiso ebanzi.
Amabali anceda ukoyisa iintloni zobuntwana
Sikunika ngezantsi Ukukhethwa kwamabali abantwana oko kunokukunceda ujongane neentloni kunyana okanye kwintombi yakho nasesikolweni. Umzekelo UCarlota akathethi peep. Ibali elilula, apho intombazana ekufumanisa kunzima ukuzithetha kufuneka ibone ukuba yenziwa njani. Libali elincomekayo ukoyisa iintloni kunye nesizungu.
Elinye ibali yile Iwizard encinci ummangaliso wemizekeliso nembali. Ibali elihambisayo malunga namandla obuhlobo kunye nokuzithemba. Eli bali liyabamba, liyafundisa kwaye lonwabisa ngaxeshanye.
Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba ngubani Ndineentloni, funda ibali lakhe apho ukoyisa iintloni kuye kwaba yinto edumileyo. Kuyafana nange IDracolino: ibali ngehlazo. Incwadi yokoyisa iintloni, enkosi kwinamba eculayo enobuhlobo.