Indima yabongikazi kunye nabongikazi kwezempilo ibalulekile kwaye ibalulekile kubo bonke abantu ekufuneka kuthi ngamanye amaxesha bazibeke ezandleni zabo. Umsebenzi wakhe ulidini, unzima kakhulu ngokweemvakalelo kwaye kunjalo, ubugcisa. Akufanele kube lula konke konke ukujongana nayo yonke imihla kunye nemisebenzi emininzi abayenzayo yonke imihla emsebenzini wabo, ke, Bafanelwe ukwamkelwa minyaka le okubhiyozelwa namhlanje, nge-12 kaMeyi.
USuku lobuhlengikazi lwaMazwe ngaMazwe lubhiyozelwe ngokusesikweni ukusukela ngonyaka ka-1974. Usuku olukhethiweyo lukukhumbula ukuzalwa kukaFlorence Nightingale, nothathwa njengomyili wento Indawo yezonyango yanamhlanje. Qho ngonyaka kubanjwa imisitho eyahlukeneyo ukuhlonipha bonke abantu abakulo msebenzi. Nangona ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, lo nyaka unzima wobhubhane awusebenzi ngaphezulu koku khumbula ukubaluleka kwabongikazi kuluntu luphela.
Abantwana bahlala benomdla kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo yezempilo, nangona kunqabile ukuba sime sichaze ukuba yintoni kanye kanye le nto iqulethwe ngulo msebenzi kunye neendima zabongikazi. Kulo nyaka, kunye nokuqwalaselwa kwemihla ngemihla okwenziwe iinyanga, kunye nezo ziqhwaba kubo bonke abaqeqeshi bezempilo imihla ngemihla, abantwana baqhelene nangakumbi nalo msebenzi.
Ke ngoko, inokuba sisihlandlo esifanelekileyo sokuthetha nabantwana malunga nabongikazi kwaye uchaze kancinci ukuba umsebenzi wabo uquka ntoni. Ukuze abantwana bafunde ukuxabisa abo bantu benza okuninzi ukukhathalela abagulayo kwaye ngubani owaziyo, banokufumanisa ukuthanda kwabo kunye nobizo lwabo umsebenzi obalulekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha awaziwa kakhulu.
Wenza ntoni umongikazi?
Abongikazi banomsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu, babakhathalele abantu abagulayo kwaye bakhathalele impilo kunye nokuba sempilweni kwabantwana nabantu abadala, naxa besempilweni. Zihlala ziqhelekile abo bajongene nokwenza iimvavanyo zonyango eziqhelekileyo, ezinje ngokunika izitofu okanye ukutsala igazi ukujonga imeko yempilo yangaphakathi.
Oku kubangela abantwana boyike kwaye bangabathandi abongikazi, kuba banxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo nala maxesha anzima ekungekho mntu uthanda ukuhlala kuwo. Ukuze abantwana bafunde ukuthemba kwaye baphulukane noloyiko lwabo abongikazi, i-Nursing Union kunye neSiseko sayo kunye neminye imibutho, badala iphulo «Jonga uMongikazi», kunye nezixhobo ezininzi ngesiNgesi nangeSpanish kubantwana abancinci.
UVera ngunomatse onobuhlobo onoxanduva lokuxelela abazali nabantwana ngendima yabongikazi nokubaluleka kwabo kwimpilo nakwintlalo-ntle yabo bonke abantwana. Ngamabali, iindibano zocweyo, ukufota imibala kunye neminye imisebenzi, UVera usifundisa ukuba sazi kwaye siwuxabise umsebenzi wokonga.
Ufuna ukwenza ntoni xa ukhulile?
Eyona ndlela yokufundisa abantwana into ekunzima ukuyichaza kukudlala. Mhlawumbi abantwana bakho sele benokhetho olunokuphawula umsebenzi wabo wexesha elizayo, kodwa abasoloko bekwazi ukuwuchaza ngamagama. Wakhe wababuza abantwana bakho ukuba bafuna ukuba yintoni xa bekhulile? Ngalo mbuzo ulula unokufumanisa ukuthanda kunye nezinto ezikhethwa ngabantwana bakho.
Thatha ithuba lokufumana iinkcukacha ngakumbi ngemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo ekhoyo kwisebe lezempilo, kuba uninzi lwabantwana luyayiqonda imeko kagqirha xa ewonke. Kubantwana abaninzi, Ingabonakala ingenakufikeleleka kodwa banokufumanisa ukuba kukho ezinye iindlela, zixabisekile, kodwa mhlawumbi zisondele kule nto bayifunayo kwikamva labo.
Ukonga kubalulekile, ngaphandle kwabongikazi, oogqirha abanakho ukwenza umsebenzi wabo ngendlela efanayo. Abongikazi banoxanduva lokubonelela ngenkathalo, ingqalelo kunye nokuba sempilweni kubantu abaninzi yonke imihla. Indima yabo ibalulekile kwaye yiyo loo nto befanelwe yintlonipho kunye nexabiso labantu bonke.
Lubhiyozele olu suku nabantwana bakho ngokuthetha ngonesi nangako konke abasenzela kona aba bantu. Kuba kuninzi ukubulela bonke abongikazi abangamadoda nababhinqileyo yonke imihla babeka ixabiso labo kwinkonzo yabanye.