Enye yezona zinto zixhalabisayo kuwo nawuphi na umzali yimpilo yosana ngawo onke amaxesha. Nantoni na engaziwayo okanye engaqhelekanga, yintoni eyaziwa ngcono, inokuba yinkxalabo enkulu kwiintsapho. Xa isisu somntwana sivakala njengamanzi, Kuqhelekile ukuba uzive usoyika kwaye usoyika umbono wokuba kukho into engalunganga.
Nangona kunjalo, isandi esiswini siqhelekile kwiintsana, ngakumbi abo bangaphantsi kweminyaka emi-3 ubudala. Oku kungenxa yezizathu ezininzi, kodwa eyona nto ixhaphakileyo kukungakhuli kwinkqubo yokwetyisa yosana kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi. Nangona ungaze uphoswe yinto enxulumene nempilo yabantwana bakho, kuba zikho nezinye izizathu ezothusayo enxulumene nesisu sakho sivakala njengamanzi.
Ngaba isisu somntwana wakho sivakala njengamanzi?
Ezo zandi zesisu, ezibonakala ngathi ngamaza olwandle kwaye yiyo loo nto ichazwa njengesisu sivakala ngathi ngamanzi, yinto eqhelekileyo kubantwana abancinci. Izandi zinokuqhutywa zizizathu ezahlukeneyo, nangona zixhaphake kakhulu, kwaye akukho nto ikhathazayo, zezi zilandelayo.
- Inkqubo yokwetyisa ikwinkqubo yokukhula: Usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa alunayo inkqubo yokwetyisa esele ikhule ngokupheleleyo. Ngelixa ikhulayo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba isisu sakho senze izandi ezahlukeneyo ezinxulumene neenkqubo zokwetyisa.
- Ulambile: Iintsana nazo zenza amathumbu azo akhale xa elambile, into exhaphake kakhulu kubantu abadala. Ayisiyonto ngaphandle koko umqondiso ovela kwingqondo osixelela isidingo sokutya ukutya.
- Ukwetyisa: Emva kokutya inkqubo yokwetyisa iqala, iijusi zesisu zinoxanduva lokusasaza ukutya. Okwangoku, umzimba udibanisa izakhamzimba ezifumanekayo kolu kutya kunye nenkunkuma, udlulele emathunjini ade apheliswe lilindle. Yonke into ukuba inkqubo yokwetyisa ivelisa izandi eyahlukileyo kakhulu, eyenza ukuba isisu somntwana wakho sibonakale njengamanzi.
- Ukuphazamiseka kwindlela yokwetyisa: Kusenokwenzeka ukuba umntwana unesifo sokugaya esinokubangela urhudo okanye ukuqhina. Obu bunzima kwinkqubo yokwetyisa buvelisa ezo zimpawu zesisu esiswini.
- Colic: Kuqheleke kakhulu kwiintsana ngenxa yokungakhuli kwenkqubo yokwetyisa. Uninzi lwe Iintsana zine-colic, ngamanye amaxesha ingafunyanwa zizandi zesisu.
Nini ukuya kugqirha wabantwana
Kwiimeko ezininzi, isisu somntwana esivakala njengamanzi siqhelekile kwaye akufuneki sibe sisizathu sokukhathazeka. Nangona kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthathela ingqalelo ezinye iimpawu ezinokuba luphawu lwento ebaluleke ngakumbi. Ukuba umntwana wakho ukongeza kwizandi zesisu urhudo, irhasi enukayo, ukugabha, isisu esiqinileyo, esidumbileyo, ekhala, okanye izitulo ezinegazi, kuya kufuneka uye kwiofisi yabantwana.
Eyona nto iqhelekileyo kukuba sesinye sezizathu ezichazwe apha ngasentla, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ugqirha enze uvavanyo. Ngale ndlela, iya kuba ngugqirha wabantwana ogqiba ukuba kuyafuneka na ukusebenzisa naluphi na unyango okanye ukuba ubona kufanelekile ukwenza olunye uvavanyo lonyango. Kuba, nangona kunqabile, zikho ezinye izifo ezinxulumene nengxolo esiswini kunye kubalulekile ukuhlalutya nasiphi na isizathu esinokubakho ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuba nosana ekhaya kungunobangela omkhulu wovuyo, kodwa kukwanomdla omkhulu. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kuhlala kuyimpilo yomncinci kwaye yeyona nto iphanga abazali ubuthongo. Ukuba isisu somntwana wakho sivakala njengamanzi, kufuneka ujonge ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ukuze ubone izizathu ezinokubangela.
Kuba eyona nto iqhelekileyo kukuba kancinci kancinci uyayibona eyona ndawo ifanelekileyo yokuyondla, leyo ithintela ezo ngxaki zokwetyisa. Kananjalo namasiko anceda umntwana wakho ukuba aphucule ukwetyisa kwakhe, indlela yokumbeleka emva kokutya kunye nento ekufuneka uyenzile ukumnceda aqhubele phambili ukutya. Kungekudala ezo ngxolo zingaqhelekanga ziya kudlula zize elinye inqanaba lokufunda kumava amangalisayo wokuba ngumama.