Ukukhulelwa lixesha elihle, kodwa xa lihambile kakhulu, usenokuziva ungonwabanga ongathanda ukuba inyamalale, akukho nto ingaqhelekanga, nokuba ikhangeleka ngathi lihlabathi. Kuyatshiwo ukuba msinyane nje ukuzalwa komntwana uqala ukuziva ungonwabanga ngokukhulelwa, kwaye kukho into encinci, nangona konke kuxhomekeke ekubeni unabantwana abaninzi, kunye neeyure zokulala ophethe ukuzidibanisa emva kokubeleka.
Nandipha: ukufanele kwaye nosana lwakho lufanelwe kukuba ukhululeke kwaye wonwabe, kwaye uzikhathalele kakuhle. Kusehlotyeni kwaye kubonakala ngathi kuyinkxalabo, kodwa ukuba unephuli okanye ulwandle kufutshane, zive ukhululekile ukucwina kancinci; ewe: ungalibala nge-ayisikhrim yonke imihla (iswekile eninzi kunye nenqatha elininzi, uyazi) nangona ungathatha indawo yamanzi abandayo (hayi iced) kunye nesiqwenga esihle sesiqhamo sendalo. Ngendlela, andikakuxeleli, kodwa ukuba ukwiveki ye-34, usana lwakho lunokuba nobunzima obungama-2300 gram, kwaye luya kulinganisa i-45 okanye i-46 yeesentimitha.
Le incinci ikhula ngaphakathi kuwe, inembonakalo efanayo naleyo iya kuba nayo ekuzalweni, eneneni ulusu lwakho luqala ukuba lungenamibimbi. Ngamalungu amaninzi akhiwe ngokupheleleyo (imiphunga isenayo, kwaye ukakayi aluvaliwe ngokupheleleyo), alikafiki ixesha lokuzalwa, kodwa ukuba belingekafiki ngaphambi kwexesha lingaphila (amathuba aphantse abe li-100 leepesenti).
Udiniwe kwaye ulele, kodwa njengakwilifu
Ungaziva ngaloo ndlela, okanye usenokucinga ukuba akukho nto ilifu kuba ukuba amathumbu nemiphunga inyukele phezulu kwaye icinezelwe, ayonwabanga, ayisiyiyo eyona nto intle ehlabathini; nangona inyani yile akukho mfazi ukhulelweyo (ngaphandle kokuba ebeneengxaki ezininzi) ocinga iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku malunga nobunzima. Uyakuqaphela ukubetheka emilenzeni, okanye hayi, ukuba ungomnye wabo bahamba yonke imihla.
Mhlawumbi eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokwenza ukuthambisa okungapheliyo (thetha nombelekisi). Y sukuyeka ukuya kwiiklasi zokulungiselela. Phambi kokuba ndilibale, ukuba awukavavanyi ukhetho lwakho lokubeleka, sukuvumela ixesha ukuba lidlule: kokukhona unolwazi, kokukhona uya kuba ngumlinganiswa ophambili, kwaye uya kunciphisa ubungozi episiotomy okanye icandelo lokuyeka.