Ukukhetha amagama abantwana kakuhle ayonto ilula. Igama lelinye lezona zinto zibalulekileyo Ubume bomntu, kwiimeko ezininzi, yinto egqiba kwizinto ezahlukeneyo zobomi. Zininzi izinto ezingenelela ekukhetheni igama labantwana, izimvo zabantu besithathu, ukuzibophelela kosapho, kunye neefashoni ezahlukileyo ezivelayo.
Nangona kule mihla kunokwenzeka ukutshintsha igama lakho xa ufikelela kubudala besininzi, kukhethwa ukuba ukhethe igama labantwana bakho, ngethemba, eliya kuhamba nabo kubo bonke ubomi babo. Yintoni ebaluleke ngakumbi, igama abaziva bekhululekile ngalo kwaye banokuyithwala ngebhongo naphina apho baya khona. Ukuba uzifumana ukule meko kwaye awazi ukuba ulikhethe njani igama lomntwana wakho, apha ngezantsi uza kufumana izitshixo zokukhetha igama elifanelekileyo.
Izitshixo zokukhetha igama labantwana
Thatha ixesha lakho, wenze uluhlu kwaye ucinge ngokhetho ngalunye ngengqondo evulekileyo kunye nethuba lokutshintsha ingqondo nangaliphi na ixesha. Ukuba uyayenza ngexesha, uneenyanga ezininzi ukuya khangela kakuhle kwaye ukhethe elona gama lifanelekileyo. Ezi ngcebiso ziya kukunceda wenze isigqibo esicingisisiweyo kwaye ukuba ufuna ukuphefumlelwa, kwi Madres Hoy uya kufumana icandelo elinikezelweyo amagama neentsingiselo zawoNgokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana ukhetho ngendlela oyithandayo.
yenza uluhlu
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokungaphulukani naziphi na izimvo kukwenza uluhlu. Nokuba awazi ukuba uza kuba nonyana okanye intombi, ungabhala phantsi zonke izimvo ezizayo. Kwelinye icala, ukubona igama elibhaliweyo kuya kukunika umbono wokuba ujongeka njani kwaye ukuba uyahambelana neefani. Ungakhathazeki ukuba uluhlu lude kakhulu okanye ukuba uthanda amagama aliqela kwaye kunzima kuwe ukuba uthathe isigqibo, kancinci kancinci uya kuphelisa ukhetho.
Thetha amagama ngokuvakalayo
Unokucinga ngegama kwaye uqhubeke uliphinda entloko xa ucinga ngosana lwakho. Mhlawumbi ekucingeni kwakho kuvakala kamnandi kwaye kuyahlekisa, kodwa ela gama linye linokwahluka kakhulu xa ulibiza ngokuvakalayo. Yitsho igama amatyeli aliqela, usebenzisa amagama okugqibela, oonobumba bokuqala kunye nezinto ezinokubakho, unokumangaliswa kukungangqinelani kwamanye amagama xa zonke ezi zinto ziphononongiweyo ziphononongwa.
Kuphephe ukungaqhelekanga kwaye kunzima ukubiza amagama
Abantu abaninzi kubomi bomntwana wakho kuya kufuneka bathethe amagama abo, esikolweni, epakini, emsebenzini nakubomi babo bobuqu. Igama le-quirky, mhlawumbi ngoku kunokuba mnandi kodwa kwiminyaka engama-20 ayizukuvakalaInokubuchaphazela ubomi bomntwana wakho ngeendlela ezininzi. Kukwabalulekile ukuba ucinge ngendlela yokubiza elo gama, ukuba ngaba liyafikeleleka kubantu abadala okanye ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuba nakho ukuphinda igama lakhe ngokulula xa eqala ukuthetha.
Ulibale uluvo lomntu wesithathu
Akungombuzo wokuba krwada okanye ukwala izinto ezinokwenzeka ngokuthe ngqo. Mhlawumbi kwesinye sezindululo uya kufumana igama elifanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukukhetha igama labantwana kufanele ukuba ibe ngumsebenzi okhethekileyo wabazali, nokuba ootatomkhulu noomalume bayakuvuyela kangakanani ukukhetha igama. Mamela ukhetho lwabantu abakufutshane kuwe, kodwa ungaziva uzinikele ekukhetheni igama ongalithandiyo nje ukukholisa umntu wesithathu.
Ukukhetha igama labantwana lelinye lawona maxesha abalulekileyo yokukhulelwa, kuba yenza ukuba ubone okwenyani umzuzu wokuba nosana lwakho ezandleni zakho. Thintela ukungqubana kosapho malunga nalo mbandela, mamela izimvo zeqabane lakho okanye zabanye abantwana bakho ukuba unazo. Ngokudibeneyo uyakufumana igama elifanelekileyo lelungu elitsha losapho.