Uqalile umntwana wakho ndikhale ngokungathuthuzeleki rhoqo emva kwemini ngaphandle kwesizathu esithile? Iintsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa ukuya kutsho kwiinyanga ezi-4 ubudala zinokubandezeleka koko kwaziwa ngokuba lixesha lokuthakatha. Kwaye le yure yokuthakatha kwiintsana iquka ntoni? Sithetha ngale nto namhlanje ukuze uyiqonde kwaye uyilawule.
Ixesha lokuthakatha liyabavavanya abazali. Kwaye xa bekhala kwaye akukho nto ibonakala ngathi iyabathuthuzela, unokuba novalo njani? Kuya kufuneka uyazi, nangona kunjalo ixesha lobugqwirha yimeko yethutyana kwaye oko kwenzeka kuphela ngenxa yokudinwa komntwana kunye novalo. Ngoko ukuthomalalisa, isitshixo sokuqala kukuzola, nangona zikho ezinye. Zifumanise!
Ithini iyure yokuthakatha?
Yaziwa njengeyure yokuthakatha imeko yovalo ukuba umntwana uyabandezeleka kwaye oko kwenzeka ngokuhlwa. Ezi ziqendu, ezinokuhlala iinyanga ezinobunzima obahlukeneyo, zihlala zinefuthe elibi ekuncanciseni kwaye zivelise uvalo kusapho lonke.
Ezi ziqendu zenzeka ngenxa yokuba abantwana badiniwe kwaye abakwazi ukuphumla nokulala. Ngaloo ndlela ukukhala kuxhaphakile kwezi ziqendu kwaye akuthuthuzeleki imizuzu okanye iiyure. Iyenzeka ikakhulu phakathi kweeveki zokuqala zobomi kunye neenyanga ezine, iqinisa okanye ifikelele kwincopho yayo kwiinyanga ezimbini.
Ziqonde iimpawu
Indlela yokuqonda ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci udlula kwinto eyaziwa njengeyure yokuthakatha? Ukukhala kakhulu kunye nokungabikho kwentuthuzelo ngundoqo ekuyibhaqeni, nangona kunjalo, oku kunokuba yimiphumo yezinye iingxaki, ngoko ke masiyicokise!
- Iziqendu zeyure yokuthakatha Baza kufika bengalindelanga kwaye ngendlela efanayo abafika ngayo baya kuphela.
- Baya kunikwa, ngokuqhelekileyo ngokuhlwa, rhoqo phakathi kwe-17 kunye ne-21 p.m.
- Ukulila kuya kuba qatha kwiveki nganye edlulayo, ukufikelela kwincopho ephezulu malunga neenyanga ezimbini ubudala.
- Umntwana kuya kubonakala ngathi ukubandezeleka intlungu, nokuba ayinjalo.
- Ngokungafaniyo nezinye iimeko, ukulila komntwana akuzola ngezo zinto zidla ngokumthuthuzela.
- Iziqendu zinokuba nde ukuya kuthi ga kwiiyure ezi-5 ngosuku.
- Ngokuphathelele ukuncancisa, unokukukhaba okanye utshintshe amabele rhoqo kwaye ekugqibeleni ulale ngokudinwa.
Khumbula ukuba ukuba kukho ezinye iimpawu ngaphandle kwezi zikhankanyiweyo, ukuba iziqendu zenzeka ngamanye amaxesha kwaye phantsi kwezinye iimeko okanye ukuba zihlala zigqithise, ingaba yingxaki enye kwaye kuya kucetyiswa ukuba uye kugqirha wabantwana ukuze acacise ukuxilongwa.
Uyilawula njani?
Nangona enye yeempawu zezi ziqendu kukuba iintsana zibonakala zingathuthuzeleki, kukho ezinye izinto esinokuzenza ukuze zizive zingcono. Kwaye ukwazi ukuba ixesha lokuthakatha kwiintsana libangelwa yimeko yovalo, ukudinwa kunye nokuphazamiseka okuqokelelweyo, kubonakala kusengqiqweni ukucinga ukuba ukwenza ezi yure zokugqibela zemini. ukhululekile kangangoko nceda uku. Kuba oku kuluncedo…
- Nciphisa utyelelo. Okona kulungileyo kuya kuba kukunciphisa utyelelo lwasemva kwemini kwaye, ukuba lukhona, qinisekisa ukuba akukho ngxolo ingako kwaye umntwana ushiywe yedwa.
- Hlala wehlile: Njengomama kufuneka uqaphele ukuba yinto yesikhashana, isigaba esiya kudlula ngokukhawuleza kwaye asinayo imiphumo emikhulu kumntwana.
- Ukumnxibisa usana nokulubamba kufutshane nomzimba. Ubusazi na ukuba kumazwe apho ukuthwala kudla ngokubakho, zimbalwa izihlandlo zokuthakatha?
- Ukuhlamba umntwana ngamanzi adikidiki. Inokuba yinkqubo elungileyo ukuqhubela phambili ukuhlamba kancinci ukumphumza.
- Phuma uhambe uhambe. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyayithanda imoto ehambayo, ukuhambahamba ngelo xesha kunokumnceda aphumle.
Ubuthetha ngeyure yokuthakatha? Lixesha elenza abazali baxhalabe kakhulu. Yaye kwanokuba siyazi ukuba usana alunanto ingaphezu koko lunako, akunakuphepheka ukuziva buhlungu ngenxa yokungakwazi ukulukhulula ngendlela ebesiya kuthanda ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuhlala uzolile kwaye ubeke bucala ezo yure zemini ukuze uzole yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokulwa nayo.