Ekuphakameni komkhuhlane, umkhuhlane kunye neentsholongwane ezahlukeneyo ezibanjwa ngabantwana imihla ngemihla, abazali abaninzi bazifumana benazo umsebenzi onzima wokulawula amayeza kwabancinci. Uninzi lwabantwana lunengxaki yokusela amayeza, nakwimeko ezininzi, bagqibela ngokugabha. Kwaye oku kubangela ingxaki kubazali abachaphazelekayo, abangazi ukuba mabenze ntoni kule meko.
Ayifani nento yokuba usebenze ngokuchasene nokudumba, i-antipyretic, isibulala-zintsholongwane, umzekelo. Ke xa kunokwenzeka ukuba ichiza linyange isifo esingaqhelekanga okanye isifo, kubalulekile ukuba uxelele ugqirha wabantwana ukuba aqiniseke. Kwimeko apho Umntwana uyagabha iyeza Kulawo achazwe njengokusetyenziswa kwesiqhelo, kukho izikhokelo ngokunxulumene nexesha lokuba wazi ukuba wenzeni ngokulandelayo.
Elinye lawona manqaku abalulekileyo ekufuneka uyazi kukuba uninzi lwamayeza ahlala enikwa abantwana, ziyasebenza kwiidosi ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Kwakhona, elona xabiso liphezulu licetyiswayo alikaze lisetyenziselwe iminyaka nganye okanye uluhlu lobunzima. Oku kuthetha ukuba nokuba umntwana uyagabha emva kokuthatha iyeza, kunokwenzeka ukuba umzimba wakhe uthathe ngokwaneleyo ukuze usebenze.
Ngaba kufuneka idosi iphindwe xa umntwana eyigabha?
Yintoni eboniswa ngoogqirha babantwana kwimeko apho umntwana egabha iyeza, kukuba, isekwe kwixesha elidlulileyo ukusukela oko wawuthatha ade ayigabhe, kuya kufuneka enze ngale ndlela. Kungenxa yokuba umzimba uthatha ixesha elincinci ukufunxa izinto zeyeza.
- Umntwana uyagabha nje kwangoko xa esela iyeza. Ukuba sele kudlule imizuzu engaphantsi kwe-15 umntwana ewatyile amayeza, umzimba wakhe awuyi kubamba kwanto. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka unike imali efanayo kwakhona amayeza.
- Ukuba incinci iyagabha iyeza Imizuzu eli-15 ukuya kwengama-30 kamva. Kule meko, umzimba ubenako ukufunxa isixa samayeza, esinokwanela ukuba sisebenze. Unga khupha iyeza Ukuqinisekisa ukuba iyasebenza ngokupheleleyo, kodwa kule meko, isixa siya kuba sisiqingatha.
- Kwimeko apho umntwana egabha emva kwemizuzu engama-30 ukuya kwengama-60. Umzimba sele unalo ixesha elaneleyo lokufunxa phantse onke amacandelo amayeza. Ke ngoko, ngeli xesha AKUZUKUFUNEKA umnike iyeza kwakhona kunyana wakho. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba xa uqokelela ukugabha ubona ukuba umbala weyeza uyavela, into onokuyenza kukuqhubela phambili idosi elandelayo. Ukuba elandelayo yintsimbi yesi-8, ungayiqhubela phambili iye kwi-4 okanye ngo-6.
- Ukuba umntwana iyagabha emva kweyure. Iyeza liya kufakwa ngokupheleleyo, ke kulo mzekelo liya kuhambelana ngokupheleleyo nokusebenza kwalo akukho sidingo sokuphinda idosi.
Amaqhinga okuthintela abantwana ekugabheni amayeza
Ukuze ukwazi thintela umntwana ekugabheni iyeza, kubalulekile ukwazi unobangela. Kukho abantwana abagabha kwakamsinya nje bakubona amayeza, abanye abakwazi kuyinyamezela incasa, ukuba bakhohlela, kunokugabha ngaphambi kokuhlaselwa koku, njl. Fumanisa kuqala ukuba kutheni umntwana wakho egabha iyeza:
- Ukuba uyagabha incasa yeyeza, unokuyixuba kunye nejusi yeziqhamo encinci okanye iyogathi. Zama ukungabikho kakhulu xa ulwelo.
- Ukuba ukhohlelaNgaphambi kokuba unike iyeza, vasa impumlo kwaye uzame ukusela amanzi amaninzi. Lindela uhlaselo lokukhohlela ludlule kwaye umntwana akwazi ukuphefumla ngokufanelekileyo.
- Ukuba ulinganisa iyeza, zama ukubeka incam ecaleni komlomo. Ngale ndlela, iyeza ayizukuhla ngqo emqaleni, ukuthintela umntwana ekugangeni nasekugabheni.