Ukuba ngumama ngamava amnandi. Kodwa emva kokubeleka, oomama bachitha iinyanga ezininzi nosana kwaye ubomi bethu kwezentlalo liphela ngokupheleleyo. Amaxesha amaninzi, oomama bayaphoswa kukwazi ukuthetha nabanye abantu abadala, kuba ukuba ngumzali kubandakanya ukuhlala wedwa ekuhlaleni, ukuziva ulilolo kunye noxinzelelo malunga nokukhathalelwa kosana oluxhomekeke kuthi ngokupheleleyo.
Kodwa oku kungatshintsha, ungathanda ukuba njani ithuba lokuya kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya nosana lwakho? Kwaye hamba nabanye oomama abakwimeko efanayo kwaye bakuqonda ngokugqibeleleyo... Yiyo leyo "Iseshoni yeTit" kwaye sisikhumbuzo, kuba kunyaka ophelileyo olu luvo lwavela kumongikazi ovela kwiziko lezempilo eBarrio del Pilar eMadrid kwaye ukuyibhiyozela badibene kwenye yee-cinema eLa Vaguada (eMadrid) malunga noomama abali-100 abaneentsana zabo kwaye baye baba noTania Llasera njengothixo wabo.
En Madres Hoy sikuzisa udliwanondlebe noAlicia García, "UUmphathi wephepha le-Facebook ukusuka «Iseshoni yeTeta». Usosayensi wekhompyuter oneminyaka engama-34, unentombazana eneenyanga ezili-18 kwaye ulindele enye. Iyaphuma iakhawunti ekupheleni kuka-Agasti kwaye Ujonge ukubuyela kwiSeshoni yeTeta kwii-cinema zaseLa Vaguada xa kuzalwa intombi yakhe".
Madres Hoy: ¿Cómo surgió la idea de la “sesión teta”? ¿Con qué periodicidad se realiza?
UAlicia García: NgoFebruwari 17, eyokuqala Iseshoni yeTeta mbulelo UCarmen Maderuelo, umongikazi ovela kumasifundisane wokuncancisa kwiziko lezempilo laseCastroviejo kufutshane naseLaVaguada.
UTania Llasera kunye noCarmen Maderuelo
Ngale nyathelo, oomama banikwa ixesha lokuzonwabisa ukuze babelane ngamava abo okuba ngabomama, besenza kwangaxeshanye indawo yokwakha ubudlelwane obutsha.
MH: Ngaba kwakulula kubarhwebi bemidlalo bhanyabhanya ukwenza iingqondo zabo? Uyifumene njani?
AG: Emva kokuba uCarmen ethethe nengcali ye-ENT yomntwana, waya kwimidlalo yeqonga ukuya kuthetha nomphathi, wamxelela ngale mbono intle. Abasebenzi be-cinema, ebesoloko ekulungele ukusinceda.
MH: Yahluke ngantoni kuyo nayiphi na enye iseshoni yasentsimini?
AG: Apho ku Igumbi lilungiselelwe umntwana kwisandi nakubushushu. Kananjalo, ayinamsebenzi into yokuba umntwana uyakhala kwaye kufuneka umama aphakame ukuze athobe umsindo kwaye ukuba ulila kakhulu, phuma egumbini ubuyele ngaphakathi. Soloko uhlonipha abanye.
MH: Ngaba iimfuno zomntwana zithathelwa ingqalelo, ngaba kukho iimeko ezithile zobushushu, ukukhanya okanye ivolumu yesandi, umzekelo?
AG: Bahlengahlengisa igumbi kubushushu kunye nesandi ukuze silungele umntwana.
MH: Ngaba yenzelwe oomama kuphela okanye banokuza behamba kunye namaqabane abo okanye izihlobo?
AG: Bathetha ngoomama, kuba thina siqhele ukuthatha ikhefu kwaye sichithe ixesha elininzi nosana, kodwa kukwakho nootata abakule meko, kwaye ke banokuza. Kunjalo Bangakhatshwa nangubani na abamfunayo. Umntu obakhaphayo kufuneka bazi ukuba abayi kumboniso bhanyabhanya oqhelekileyo, ngesandi esikhulu, kwaye ngaphandle kwengxolo, ukuba akunjalo, yonke into ibekelwe impilo-ntle yosana.
I-MH: Ngaba iyayiphucula indlela yokubuyela emva kokubeleka kukamama nangayiphi na indlela, oko kuthetha ukuthini ukubuyela kwengqondo yakhe?
AG: Nangona kungonelanga kuthiwe malunga nesi sihloko, kukho isizungu esihlasela oomama kwiinyanga zokuqala zokuba ngumama, xa usana luxhomekeke kubo iiyure ezingama-24. Oomama abanaxesha lokuphila kwaye ubomi babo bonke lusana. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba ube neendlela zokubaleka ukuze unqamle.
MH: Ngaba oomama bayaphinda, ngaba benza ubuhlobo phakathi kwabo?
AG: Ewe uninzi loomama abaya kwiseshoni bahlala bephinda. Ukuba bayabonana, phantse veki nganye, ekugqibeleni kudalwa ibhondi kwaye baqala ukuthetha kwaye basele nasekupheleni kweseshoni.
MH: Bachitha njani abantwana? Ngaba bayayiphumelela iseshoni ngokuzolileyo okanye ngaba bayoyika ngokuhamba kwengqikelelo?
AG: Ngeli xesha, abantwana banomdla wokuba kwimfudumalo yoonina (okanye oyena mntu ubakhathaleleyo), batye kwaye balale, ke ezi ntsana, bahlala bechitha iseshoni ngokungathi bebesekhaya.
MH: Ulixabisa njani amava, ungaphinda uyenze kwakhona? Ngaba ulixabisile ithuba lokwazisa naluphi na utshintsho ekusebenzeni?
AG: Amava amnandi!l! Ngokuqinisekileyo ndiza kuyenza kwakhona. Ngapha koko, omnye woomama abenza iqela leseshoni ye-boob uyakuba njalo ekupheleni kuka-Agasti, kwaye ujonge ukuya kwiseshoni ye-boob kwakhona, kuba ngoku umntwana wakhe uneenyanga ezili-18 ubudala, kwaye yena, Umdala umntwana awunakukwazi ukuya kwiimuvi ngoku
MH: Ipapashwa njani? Oomama bangazazisa njani ngomhla nexesha "leseshoni ye-boob"?
AG: Sizama ukwenza i-cinema nganye ukuba ibeke iseshoni yazo kwiphepha labo kwaye kule seshoni ibe siseshoni enye, kodwa kude kube ngoku kude kube siyifumana, konke okuxeliweyo kugqityiwe Facebook. Sithetha nomkhombe, kwaye ukuba akukho sicelo, baphakamisa imovie, eyona ilungileyo inokulawula isandi somntwana. Kwezinye iimuvi, sipapasha lonke ulwazi abasithumela lona ukuze lufikelele kuzo zonke iimovie eSpain. Oku kunokuba yinto entle, kwaye into enokwenza uCarmen onwabe kakhulu.
Ngokutsho UChristophe Edeline, umlawuli weemovie zeLa Vaguada, isithintelo kuphela kukuba akukho zoyikisayo okanye iimovie ezenziwayo, ukunqanda utshintsho lwezandi ngesiquphe kwaye ungadluli kwi-decibels ezingama-65, ngelixa eliqhelekileyo li-100 Ixabiso elincinci (€ 6).
Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku udliwanondlebe noAlicia García. Kwelethu icala enkosi ngentsebenziswano nobubele bakho. Ndingakukhuthaza ukuba ulandele iphepha le- Facebook Kwiseshoni ye-tit, kwaye sikukhuthaze ukuba uzame, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuphinda.