Kuyamangalisa, umntwana wakho sele eneenyanga ezintandathu ubudala! kwaye amatsha amatsha sele eza kuqala kweli nqanaba litsha nelibalulekileyo lobomi bakhe. Ukuqhubela phambili kwengqondo yomntwana wakho kumvumela ukuba ahlale phantsi ngokukhawuleza okanye ajike intloko yakhe ukuba ikukhangele. Uye wazuza amandla ezandleni zakhe ezincinci, ezikwaziyo ukubamba ibhotile yakhe kwaye nditsho nokuphakamisa iingalo zakho ukuba ubuze ukuba uyithathe.
Ngoku uhlala ephaphile ixesha elide kwaye njengoko esenza njalo, uyazi ngakumbi umhlaba omngqongileyo kwaye unxibelelane ngendlela esebenzayo ngakumbi. Ukuhleka kwabo kugubungela ikhaya lakho, intliziyo yakho kwaye kukwenza wonwabe yonke imihla ngaphandle kobunzima obunokwenzeka, kuba ukuba ngumama ayisiyondawo yee roses njengoko uza kube ujonga. Eli nqanaba litsha lilayishwe ziindaba esiza kukuxelela apha ngezantsi.
Ukutya okuncedisayo
Umbutho wezeMpilo weHlabathi (i-WHO) ucebisa ukuba kungeniswe ukutya ukusukela kwiinyanga ezi-6, nangona kwezinye iimeko zinokuqaliswa kwiinyanga ezi-4. Akukho mthetho umiselweyo malunga nokutya Ungaqala ngantoni, ugqirha wabantwana ngamnye uya kukunika izikhokelo ezahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa okona kuqhelekileyo kukuqala ngeziqhamo kunye nemifuno ekulula ukuyetyisa, njengebhanana, ijusi yeorenji, zucchini okanye iitapile. Kwikhonkco sichaza nzulu ukuba ukondla umntwana kwiinyanga ezi-6.
Kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo, ekuphela kwendlela eyaziwayo yayiyinto yesiko, oko kukuthi, isekwe kukutya okucoliweyo kunye nesidudu. Nangona iintsapho ezininzi ziqhubeka ngale ndlela, kwelinye icala kusebenza ngokupheleleyo kwaye akubandakanyi nakuphi na ukulibaziseka kosanaNamhlanje oomama abaninzi bakhetha indlela yokuncancisa umntwana (BLW). Le nkqubo inikezela ngokutya okupheleleyo emntwaneni, nangona ingekho lula njengoko inokubonakala ngathi kwaye kubalulekile ukuba ithathele ingqalelo izinto ezithile zokukhula komntwana.
Kule khonkco Uya kufumana ulwazi oluluncedo kuzo zombini iindlela zokwazisa ukutya. Ke unokuba nedatha eyaneleyo ukuthatha enye okanye enye indlela ngokuxhomekeke kwiimfuno zakho.
Ukukhula kosana oluneenyanga ezine ubudala
Kwiinyanga ezintandathu, usana lwakho sele lukwazi ukuhlala xa elele ngesisu, ephakamisa umzimba wakhe ngoncedo lwezandla zakhe. Oku kuyakwenza ukuba ukhase kwangoko, ukuba awukayiqali. Njengoko sele uyazi, lonke usana lwahlukile kwaye Kuyimfuneko ukuba uhloniphe amaxesha abo.
Ngoku unokushukuma ngokupheleleyo kwemilenze yakhe neengalo, ke uyakwazi ukudlulisa into ukusuka kwesinye isandla ukuya kwesinye okanye ukubeka unyawo emlonyeni. Ngokubhekiselele kumbono wakho, ngokubanzi kwiinyanga ezi-6 ihlala ilingana naleyo yomntu omdalaNangona kunjalo, njengoko sihlala sisitsho, kukho ukungafani. Into eqhelekileyo kukuba kule minyaka bayakwazi ukulandela izinto ngamehlo, iithoyi zabo okanye izinto ezinokutsala umdla wazo.
Kungekudala umntwana wakho uza kuqala ukwenza izandi zakhe zokuqala kunye nokubhuza, baqala ngokuthetha amagama afana no "ma" okanye "pa". Oku kubazali kuyinkuthazo enkulu, njengoko usana kubonakala ngathi luthi "mama" okanye "utata". Nangona kunjalo, ngamagama angenantsingiselo okanye intsingiselo emntwaneni, kodwa unokuqhubeka ukukhuthaza ukuze umntwana aphuhlise izakhono zolwimi.
Utyelelo kugqirha wabantwana
Kwiinyanga ezi-6, uphononongo luya kwenziwa kunye nogqirha wabantwana, apho baya kujonga khona izinto ezinjengokuphakama nobunzima bakho (yintoni eyaziwa ngokuba ipesenti). Ikwalixesha lokuba jonga umbono womntwana, ukuva okanye ukukhula kwengqondo. Eli lixesha elibaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni komntwana wakho kwaye kubalulekile ukuba uye kolu tyelelo lonyango ukuze uqiniseke ukuba yonke into yenzeka ngesiqhelo.
Kolu tyelelo uya kufumana zonke izikhokelo eziyimfuneko ukuqala ukondla ziyahambelana Ukuba uya kuphononongo ngolwazi olwaneleyo, ungabuza ugqirha wakho wabantwana nayiphi na imibuzo onokuba nayo malunga neendlela zokondla. Njengoko sele ubonile kwasekuqaleni, ukhetho luye lwahluka kakhulu kwaye kubalulekile ukuba wazi uluvo lukagqirha, nangona isigqibo nakweyiphi na imeko kufuneka sisoloko senziwe ngabazali.