Xa kufika ixesha lokubhalisa abantwana kunyaka olandelayo wesikolo, kuyavela amathandabuzo okuba bafanele babhalise okanye bangabhaliswa yenza imisebenzi emininzi ukongeza kwezo zifunwa bubudala bakho. Sibhekisa kwimisebenzi ehambelanayo okanye eyongezelelekileyo, ethi nangona sityekele ekucingeni ukuba iyafana, kukho iyantlukwano phakathi kwayo.
Imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo kunye neyongezelelweyo
Imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo yileyo ziyilelwe ukugqibezela ikharityhulam yezifundo esekwe liziko lemfundo ngokwalo. Le yimisebenzi enxulumene nezifundo eziphathwa kweli ziko. Zenziwa kwiiyure zesikolo nalapho utitshala weklasi ngokwakhe ethatha inxaxheba, nokuba kukulungelelanisa iqela okanye ukufundisa umasifundisane ngokwakhe.
Ngokumalunga nemisebenzi yasemva kweeyure zesikolo, umahluko uyaphawuleka. Le yimisebenzi eyenziwa ngaphandle kweeyure zesikolo kunye kule meko azijongwa njengeziyimfuneko. Oko kukuthi, uqeqesho oluncinane ekufuneka abafundi belufumene aluyi kuchaphazeleka ukuba abathanga benze nayiphi na le misebenzi yangaphandle. Kwelinye icala, yimisebenzi eyenziwa ngokuzithandela (voluntary and free-choice activities) ngaphakathi kwamathuba anokuthi iziko lesikolo ngalinye liwenze ngonyaka ngamnye.
Kananjalo ababali xa bevavanya ukufunda kwabantwana, ukusukela oko Abayonxalenye yekharityhulam yezifundo njengakwimeko yemisebenzi encedisayo. Ke ngoko, yimisebenzi enceda abantwana bafunde ezinye iinkalo ezibalulekileyo kuphuhliso lwabo, kodwa ezingaphembeleli nangayiphi na indlela ukufunda kwabo esikolweni.
Ngaba kulungile ukuba abantwana benze imisebenzi yangaphandle kwesikolo?
Imisebenzi yangaphandle enikezelwa ngamaziko emfundo, Ngokuqhelekileyo zijolise ekuphuhliseni umzimba. Ngokubanzi, le yimisebenzi enxulumene nemidlalo efana nebhola ekhatywayo, ijudo okanye ibasketball. Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, ezinye iintlobo zemisebenzi efana nethiyetha okanye iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zomdaniso nazo ziye zakhuthazwa. Yeyiphi imisebenzi enceda abantwana ukuba baphucule iintloni zabo kunye nokubonakaliswa kwemizimba yabo, phakathi kwabanye.
Zonke zinjalo imisebenzi ebonelela ngeenzuzo ezahlukeneyo kuphuhliso lwabantwana. Basebenzisana nabanye abantwana ngaphandle kwendawo yokufunda, bafunde ukuzibonakalisa, baphuhlise ubuchule babo bokuyila kunye nokuziqhelanisa nokuzivocavoca umzimba. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana benze imisebenzi yasemva kweeyure zesikolo, ukuba nje becinga ukuba licebo elilungileyo. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakalisa umdla nakweyiphi na kwezo ndibano zocweyo zifundiswa ngaphandle kweklasi, ungalibazisi ukumnika izixhobo onazo ukuze aphuhlise ezo misebenzi.
Ungaze uphume kuxanduva
Into ebalulekileyo asikokulahlekelwa yimbono, okanye uzama ukunyanzela umntwana wakho ukuba enze umsebenzi wasemva kwesikolo kuba uyayithanda. Ngandlel’ ithile, abazali badla ngokukhuphela iingxaki zabo zobuntwana kubantwana babo. Ngoko ke, banyanzeliswa ukuba benze imidlalo ethile okanye uqeqesho abangaluthandiyo, okanye abanomdla kulo, okanye babenze bazive belungile.
Ngokuchasene noko, ukuba ugalela kunyana wakho ezininzi kangaka okulindelweyo Idala kuphela ixhala kunye nexhala lokukwenza wonwabe, malunga nokwenza into kakuhle ongayithandiyo. Ukuba umntwana wakho uza kwenza umsebenzi wangaphandle kwesikolo, Qinisekisa ukuba yinto enomdla kakhulu kuwe, ukuba uyizame ubuncinane. ixesha elithile. Abantwana kufuneka bazame izinto ezahlukeneyo ukufumana into abayithanda ngokwenene, bavumele ukuba bazifumanele izinto abazithandayo.
Khumbula ukuba imisebenzi yasemva kweeyure zesikolo yenziwa ngaphandle kweeyure zesikolo, oko kukuthi, lixesha elongeziweyo kwiimbopheleleko zabo zemihla ngemihla. Ukuba asiyonto bayithandayo ngokwenene, uya kuba wongeza umsebenzi owongezelelekileyo kusuku olusele luzele yaye loo msebenzi unokuthabatha ixesha lokuzinikela kwezinye izinto eziyimfuneko ngokwenene. Thetha nomntwana wakho ukufumanisa ukuba zeziphi izinto abazithandayo kunye nezinto anomdla kuzo kwaye ke, unokuvavanya ukuba kufanelekile na ukukhangela indawo yalo msebenzi. Ngaphezu koko, Ezi ziindawo ezilinganiselweyo abathi abanye abantwana abanomdla ngokwenene baphulukane nazo..