Abazali abaninzi baye bajamelana nale meko ngaxa lithile ekukhuleni kwabantwana babo. Abantwana abaninzi batya kakuhle kakhulu kuba beseziintsana, abancinci bathanda incasa entsha kunye nendlela entsha yokwenza izinto. Kodwa inyaniso kukuba abantwana abaninzi bayala ukutya. Ingxaki ivela xa ingabhekiseli ekutyeni okuthile, kodwa kunoko ukugatywa kwenzeka ekutyeni ngokubanzi.
Le meko ibangela ukungakhululeki entsatsheni, abazali banexhala lokuba umntwana wabo angagula ngenxa yokungondleki. Imilo iqala etafileni kwaye ungquzulwano phakathi kwabantwana abancinci nabazali, ekungekho mntu uphumeleleyo kuba ibangela ukucaphuka kwaye umntwana uyaqhubeka engatyanga. Kule meko uzozibuza ukuba ndenze ntoni ukuze umntwanam angakulahli ukutya?
Fumana unobangela
Into yokuqala nephambili yile yazi isizathu sokuba umntwana angafuni kutya. Kungenzeka ukuba kungenxa yomcimbi olula weminyaka, nangona kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo ezinokubangela ukulahlwa kokutya:
- Imiba yobudala. Ngokutsho kweengcali zezondlo, ukusuka kwiminyaka enye i-appetite iyancipha xa kuthelekiswa namandla omntwana kwiinyanga ezidlulileyo. Ukuba umntwana akanqabi isenzo sokutya, kodwa kunokuba ashiye ukutya okuninzi kwisitya, kunokuba ngumcimbi womzimba. Kungenzeka ukuba umncinci unelisekile kwaye Andikwazi ukutya ngakumbi.
- Ukulahlwa kunokuba nemvelaphi yayo izizathu zengqondo. Kungenzeka ukuba imeko embi ngokutya ibangela ukuba umntwana anqabe ukutya. Ukuba ngaxa lithile uye wanyanzelwa ukuba atye into awayengayifuni okanye angayithandiyo, uye wakwazi ukuyila. inkumbulo engalunganga yaloo mava amabi.
- Thatha ukutya okunomxholo ophantsi wezondlo. Ukutya amashwamshwam anetyuwa, iipastries zefektri okanye ukutya okukhawulezayo kunokukhokelela ekukhatyweni kokutya okunempilo. Oku kungenxa yezinto ezibandakanya ezi mveliso njengeziphuculi zencasa, eziye zikhoboke.
- Nakuphi na ukuphazamiseka okuthile. Kwiimeko ezithile kakhulu, ukulahlwa kokutya kunokubangelwa yi-pathology okanye ingxaki yokugaya. Kwezi meko kubalulekile ukuba ugqirha uyalifunda ityala ukuphelisa nayiphi na into enokwenzeka.
Amaqhinga anokukunceda ukusombulula le meko
Wakuba ucacelwe ukuba yintoni unobangela, into omawuyenze kukufumana isisombululo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungazami ukumtyisa umntwana ngokugqithisileyo, ukuba kukho into oyityileyo, mhlawumbi yiloo nto kuphela oyifunayo. Akufanele uphinde ubhenele kwizongezelelo okanye izincedisi ezingamiselwanga kuphela ngugqirha wabantwana.
Ukuba umntwana akasigatya isenzo sokutya kwaye ukwala ukutya okuthile, unako khangela ezinye iindlela xa upheka. Kwiimeko ezininzi kunokwenzeka ukulungisa ingxaki ngeendlela ezincinci zekhitshi ezincinci. Unokusebenzisa ezi zinto amaqhinga Ukuphelisa le ndlela yokuziphatha kubantwana bakho:
- Ungaze unikezele kwi-blackmail yabantwana. Ukuba unyanzelisa ukutya ebhedini, ukubukela imizobo okanye ngendlela yobuntwana, akufanele uyivumele. Kungenjalo uya kufunda ukuba unokuhlala efumana indlela yakhe kwaye uya kukugxeka rhoqo.
- Khonza ukutya kwiipleyiti ezinkulu kakhulu. Ngokwembono, umntwana uya kubona ukuba inxalenye yokutya incinane kunokuba ibonakala. Ngokwenene iya kuba sisabelo sabo esihambelanayo kodwa ukuba usikhonza kwipleyiti encinci, iya kujongeka igcwele kakhulu kwaye inokubangela ukwaliwa.
- Yenza a indawo ekhululekileyo yokuphazamiseka Ukutya. Umabonwakude kufuneka acinywe kwaye izinto zokudlala zibekwe kude, ukuze umntwana angaphazamiseki ngokulula.
- Iincoko ezimnandi nezikhululekile etafileni. Zama ukuyiphepha incoko equka ukulwa ngenxa yento ephosakeleyo oyenzileyo okanye izinyeliso ngenxa yehambo embi. Isidlo kufuneka senziwe kwindawo ekhululekile kunye neyonwabileyo. Thatha ithuba lokubuza umntwana wakho ukuba luhambe njani usuku lwakhe.
Njengengcebiso yokugqibela kwaye mhlawumbi iluncedo kakhulu kuzo zonke, kuya kufuneka uzixhobise ngomonde kunye nokuqonda. Kuphephe ukukhwaza nokuxambulisana ngokutya, Ungade umohlwaye umntwana wakho kuba engafuni kutya.. Inene ngumzinjana, xa umntwana elambile acele ukutya. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba le meko iyakukhathaza kwaye uziva unexhala, ungalibazisi ukuya kugqirha wabantwana ukuze ufumane iingcebiso malunga nale meko.