Uthethwano ngalunye lwamaxesha lusivumela ukuba sibe nengxelo yokukhula nokukhula kwabantwana bethu. Kodwa phakathi kokubonisana kunye nokubonisana, eyakho imibuzo iyenzeka, apho sithelekisa abantwana bethu nabahlobo, abantakwethu abadala okanye abazala. Mhlawumbi kuxa kufikwa ekusebenzeni kwesikolo okanye ukuba kungokuthelekisa izakhono. «Unyana wam mncinci kule minyaka yakhe«Abanye abazali bayathandabuza ngaphandle kokutsho ngokuvakalayo. "Ngaba uya kuba nokukhula okuphakathi kubudala bakhe?" Abanye bayazibuza. Ukukhula kwabantwana ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo yenye yezona zinto zixhalabisayo kubazali kuba umntwana ophendula ngokwaneleyo kwimida ebekiweyo angathetha umntwana ophilileyo.
Ewe kunjalo, akukho lula ukuseka imithetho engqongqo, ikhona abantwana abancinci ngeminyaka yabo xa kuthelekiswa nabanye kwaye basempilweni. Ngamanye amaxesha, sinabancinci abangaphezulu komndilili kwaye bade bagqithe kwelona liphezulu. Kungenxa yoko le nto kungekho nto ilunge ngakumbi kunokujonga kwakhona imigaqo esiyisebenzisayo ukuze singoyiki.
Abantwana abancinci…. kwaye hayi kakhulu
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba uthethe nge Umncinci kubudala? Inokuba yeyiphi ipharamitha esizakhela kuyo xa sijonga abantwana bethu. Ngaphandle kwembono ethandwayo, xa uthetha ngomntwana omfutshane, ubhekisa kumncinci omfutshane kakhulu kunobude obuphakathi kweminyaka yakhe kunye nesini. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphaya kwale nto, oogqirha babantwana bathathela ingqalelo izinto ezininzi xa kumiselwa ukuphakama komntwana kunye nobudlelwane bakhe nokukhula.
Enye yezinto ezibalulekileyo kukuba, umzekelo, ilifa lemfuza. Ukuphakama kwabazali sisalathiso esomeleleyo xa kuziwa ekumiseleni ukuba mde kangakanani umntwana oya kufikelela kubo bakhulile. Ukuba abazali bangaphantsi komndilili wokuphakama, kunokwenzeka ukuba naye umntwana. Enye into ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo sokuba ingaba Unyana wam mncinci kule minyaka yakhe Kuya kufuneka sithathele ingqalelo oko kubizwa ngokuba lizinga lokukhula, Oko kukuthi, izinga lokukhula komntwana.
Isingqisho se ukukhula komntwana, eyaziwa njengezinga lokukhula, ikwabalulekile. Kwiiparameter eziqhelekileyo, abantwana bakhula kwinqanaba eliqhelekileyo kwaye nangona kukho amanqanaba apho bekhula ngakumbi kubude ngaphezu kobunzima, imeko ihlala ilungile. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko zabantwana abangakhuli kwizinga elifanayo nabahlobo babo kuba izinga lokukhula kwabo alikho mgaqweni. Oku kunokuba ngumahluko ngokunxulumene noontanga babo. Ukuba kukho utshintsho olukhulu kumgca we-percentile yiflegi ebomvu njengoko inokuthetha ngengxaki yokukhula.
Abantwana abancinci: ukubhaliswa kunye noonobangela
Iitshathi zokukhula zikuvumela ukuba ulawule abancinci njengoko bekala i ukukhula komntwana umyinge wobudala obunikiweyo, isini kunye nokuphakama. Ke, umgca ubonakalisa umndilili wabemi belo xesha abanokuba nokuphakama okuthile kwinqanaba elithile. Ukuba iipesenti zomntwana zingaphantsi kwe-3%, zithathwa njengomntwana omfutshane.
Kukho izizathu ezimbalwa zoku ubude obufutshane ebantwaneni: ukusuka kubude obufutshane kusapho (nangona inqanaba eliqhelekileyo lokukhula), ukulibaziseka ngokubanzi ekukhuleni nasekufikiseni (abantwana abancinci ngexesha lobuntwana babo kodwa abafezekisa ukuphakama okuqhelekileyo ebudaleni), nakwinto ebizwa ngokuba sisiquopathic esifutshane, intsingiselo ukuba kule meko sithetha ngonyana omncinci okwiminyaka yakhe kodwa esempilweni kwaye ngaphandle kwesizathu esichazayo.
Ukuphakama kunye nokuphazamiseka
Nangona ingenzeki kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuba kukho ifayile ye- unyana omncinci ngeminyaka yakhe kwaye unamathandabuzo, kungcono ukubonana nogqirha kuba kukho iimeko apho ukukhula kunxulunyaniswa nezifo ezithile, ezinje ngesifuba, isifo se-celiac, isifo sokukrala kwamathumbu, isifo sezintso, i-anemia, ukuphazamiseka kwethambo kunye nesifo sentliziyo.
Enye imeko ebangela iingxaki zokukhula ebantwaneni kukusilela kwehomoni: i-hypothyroidism, ukunqongophala kokukhula kwehomoni, isifo seswekile kunye nesifo sikaCushing (ingxaki ebangela i-cortisol eninzi emzimbeni). Iimeko zemfuza zikwanxulunyaniswa nesiqu esifutshane (Isifo esiPhantsi, Isifo sikaTurner, I-Russell-Silver syndrome, i-Noonan syndrome, kunye neengxaki ezinqabileyo zethambo ezifana ne-achondroplasia).
I bIsiqu esisezantsi ebantwaneni Inokubangelwa kukungondleki, amayeza asetyenziselwa ukunyanga i-ADHD okanye i-steroids yesifo sombefu, okanye kwimeko yeentsana eziye zaphulukana nokukhula komzimba okanye zincinci kakhulu kubudala bokukhulelwa ngexesha lokukhulelwa.