Akukho mntu ukhathaleleyo de kube yiminyaka emi-2 ubudala kodwa ewe Unyana wam uneminyaka emi-3 ubudala kwaye akathethi ukungazinzi kuqala. Asiqinisekanga ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ulwimi alukaphuhlisi okanye lixesha lokwenza umbuzo. Kwelinye icala, ngaba kunyanzelekile ukuba ujobe kwimizuzu ethile yophuhliso okanye ngaba amandla ahlukeneyo aphendula ekukhuleni komntwana ngamnye nakwinkqubo yabo yokuvuthwa?
Inyani yile yokuba nangona kuyinyani ukuba umntwana ngamnye ngumntu kwaye uya kuqhuba eyakhe inkqubo yophuhliso, kukho ezinye iiparameter ezilindelekileyo ekufanele ukuba ziqwalaselwe. Ayisiyo ngqo imida kwaye yiyo loo nto benokubanakho ukuguquguquka kodwa iminyaka nganye icinga ukwanda kwezakhono kunye nokukhula ngokubanzi komntwana. Kwaye oku kuyabonakala kwimisebenzi emitsha eqala ukwenziwa yinkwenkwe okanye intombazana.
Ukubaluleka kwentetho
Kukho izinto ezithile eziguqukayo ekukhuleni komntwana ezisivumela ukuba siphendule ngokukhula komntwana. Ukufunyanwa kolwimi yenye yazo. Ngesi sizathu, ukukhula kwintetho kwenza ukuba kube nakho ukuphendula ngenkqubo. Ngaphakathi yintoni i- ukukhula kwentetho, sinako ukwahlula ubukhulu. Kwelinye icala, intetho, oko kukuthi, intetho yomlomo. Kuquka ukucacisa, izandi kunye nokukwazi ukwenza amagama. Kwelinye, ulwimi, olunxibelelene ngakumbi nokubanakho ukuvakalisa izimvo zakho. Kubandakanya ukukwazi ukufumana nokunikezela ngolwazi, ukuqonda nokuqonda ngonxibelelwano lomlomo, olungathethiyo nolubhaliweyo.
Nangona kunokubakho iingxaki zokuthetha okanye zolwimi, zihlala zenzeka ngaxeshanye. Isizathu? Kunzima emntwaneni ongakwaziyo ukusebenzisa amagama anezandi ukuze akwazi ukuzibonakalisa ngokuchanekileyo ukuze azenze aqondwe. Ewe kunjalo, ekubeni iyinkqubo ekhulayo, ubunzima bokuthetha ebantwaneni buyavela ngokuhamba kwexesha. Kungokwemvelo ukuba umntwana aqale ukubhuza okanye avakalise kancinci kancinci, kodwa kuyamangalisa ngakumbi ukuba oku kwenzeka emva konyaka. Ewe Unyana wam uneminyaka emi-3 ubudala kwaye akathethi kunokubakho ukulibaziseka kwintetho okanye kulwimi.
Khangela ingxaki yokuthetha
Ukufumana ingxaki nge ukukhula kwentetho, kunokwenzeka ukuba unike ingqalelo kwiindlela zonxibelelwano zomntwana. Kwiminyaka ethile kulindeleke uhlobo oluthile lokukhula ngomlomo. Ukuba oku akwenzeki, kulungile ukudibana. Nika ingqalelo ukuba:
- nge 12 iinyanga: ayisebenzisi izijekulo, njengokukhomba okanye ukuvalelisa ngesandla.
- kwiinyanga ezili-18: ukhetha ukunxibelelana nezimbo zomzimba kunokuthetha nezandi kwaye kunzima ukulinganisa izandi.
- Unobunzima bokuqonda imiyalelo elula yomlomo.
- kwiminyaka emi-2: intetho yokulinganisa kuphela okanye izenzo zabanye kodwa avelisi amagama okanye amabinzana ngokuzenzekelayo. Akasebenzisi ulwimi oluthethwayo ukunxibelelana nabantu ngendlela ayifunayo kodwa wenza izandi okanye aphinda-phinde loo magama. Awunakho ukulandela umkhombandlela olula, uvakalise ngendlela engaqhelekanga, okanye unelizwi elingaqhelekanga.
- Ngeminyaka emi-2, abazali kufuneka baqonde iipesenti ezingama-50 zento ethethwa ngumntwana.
- Ngeminyaka emi-3 ubudala, ukuqonda kwabazali kufanele kube malunga neepesenti ezingama-75.
- Ngeminyaka emi-4 ubudala, abazali kufuneka baqonde phantse yonke into oyithethayo, nokuba uthetha nabantu ongabaziyo.
Ayithethi, izizathu
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni Unyana akathethi, ukusuka kutshintsho kulwimi okanye inkalakahla, i-frenulum emfutshane phantsi kolwimi okanye nayiphi na ingxaki ye-morphological ngaphakathi emlonyeni. Iingxaki zentetho zinokubakho ngenxa yemicimbi yomlomo neyeemoto. Oku kuthetha ukuba kukho ingxaki kwiindawo zobuchopho ezichaphazelekayo kwimveliso yentetho. Kungenxa yoko le nto umntwana engakwazi ukulungelelanisa ukuhamba kwemilebe, ulwimi kunye nomhlathi onokumvumela ukuba avelise izandi.
Ukuba umntwana uneengxaki zokuva, esinye seziphumo zeengxaki zokuthetha. Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ukuba Umntwana oneminyaka emi-3 akathethi i-audiometry yenziwa ukulawula oku ngaphandle.