Iintsana ziqala uku phuhlisa iindlela zonxibelelwano kwakude kudala phambi kokuba nokuba kufunyanwe izakhono zolwimi. Ngokusebenzisa izijekulo, bafunda ukubonisa into abayifunayo okanye abayifunayo, kuqala ngokulila emva koko ngezandla zabo. Oku kwenzeka emva kweenyanga ezintandathu, xa beqala ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo zemoto kwaye iintshukumo zezandla zabo ziyabavumela ukuba babonakalise oko bafuna.
Le ndlela yokunxibelelana inegama elingaziwayo kwabaninzi, yindlela "yokusayina yabantwana" okanye ulwimi lwezandla lweentsana. Ngendlela elula, ulwimi lwezandla lomntwana lunokuthelekiswa nolwimi lokuthetha ngezandla kubantu abaneziphene zokuva, kunye nabo banengxaki yokuthetha. Kodwa kwimeko yeentsana, intetho yezandla ilungele wonke umntu, ukusukela oko isebenza ukusuka kubudala apho kungekho kubanako ukuthetha.
Kukuthini ukutyikitya kwabantwana?
Abantu banesidingo esingokwemvelo sokunxibelelana, kwaye oku, ngokwendalo jonga indlela yokwenza kuwo nawaphi na amanqanaba obomi. Ukusukela ekuzalweni, iintsana zisebenzisa ukukhala ukubonisa oko zikufunayo, zide zisebenzise iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokulila, ngokwahluka ngamandla, ukwenza kube lula ukuba umama aqonde.
Kancinci kancinci bazisa iindlela ezintsha zokwenza ukuba baqondwe, ngokubhibhidla, ngenkangeleko ebusweni babo nangezimbo zomzimba abazenzayo ngezandla zabo ezincinci, oko kukuthi, sebenzisa oko kubizwa ngokuba lunxibelelwano olungenamlomo. Ayisiyonto ngaphandle kokuziqhelanisa nokusingqongileyo, ukuze "basinde" kufuneka bazenze baqondwe kwaye basebenzise izixhobo abanazo ngokwendalo. Ukutyikitywa kwabantwana akukho nto iyenye ngaphandle kwendlela yokwandisa izimbo zomzimba ezincinci esele zisazi ukuba zenziwe njani, ukuze ngaloo ndlela sinxibelelane nabo ngendlela ebanzi.
Ngokwenyani, ezo zijekulo zincinci zisetyenziswa ngokubanzi njengokukhomba umnwe, ukuvala isandla ukuvalelisa okanye ukuthumela ukwanga ngesandla, sele iyindlela yokunxibelelana ngemiqondiso. Oko kukuthi, nawe ngokwakho ungaziqambela zonke iintlobo zomzimba ukuze uvelise ulwimi nosana lwakho. Nangona kunjalo, kufanelekile ngakumbi ukusebenzisa ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kuba ngaloo ndlela umntwana wakho uya kuba nakho ukulusebenzisa nabanye abantu ingabi nguwe wedwa.
Yiyo ngokwayo indlela yokusayina yabantwana, ulwimi olusele luqokelela zonke iimpawu ezihambelanayo namagama. Nangona le ndlela iqalile ngoLwimi lweZandla lwaseMelika, kufunyenwe ukuba inokulungelelaniswa nalo naluphi na ulwimi lwezandla.
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Ukunxibelelana ngentetho yezandla kuluncedo kubo bonke abantwana. Kanye njengokuba sifuna ukuba bafunde ezinye iilwimi, ukuze ukwandisa ulwazi lwakho kunye nokukwazi ukufumana owona msebenzi ungcono okanye uqhubeke kwamanye amazwe. Intetho yezandla yabantwana iya kubavumela ukuba banxibelelane nabantu abanengxaki yokuva okanye abanengxaki yokuthetha.
Yintoni engachaphazeliyo abantu abazizithulu okanye sisimumu, umzekelo, kubantwana abane-Autism Spectrum Disorder, Down Syndrome okanye naluphi na olunye uhlobo lokukhubazeka oluchaphazela ukukhula kolwimi, Intetho yezandla yosana inokuba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokunxibelelana. Kwiimeko ezininzi, isenokuba yindlela ekuphela kwayo yokunxibelelana, njengakwezona meko zinzima ze-autism.
Kodwa izibonelelo zokutyikitywa kwabantwana zihamba ngakumbi, kuba nakwimeko zabantwana abangenalo naluphi na uhlobo lokuphazamiseka okanye ingxaki enxulumene nokukhula kolwimi, ukukwazi ukunxibelelana nolwimi lwezandla kunokuba luncedo ngokwenene. Khawufane ucinge imeko eqhelekileyo yivalelisa kumntwana wakho xa ubukwibhasi yesikolo, ukuze ukwazi ukumxelela ukuba uyamthanda, ukuba uphethe isidlo sakusasa ebhegini yakhe okanye uya kuba umlindile xa ebuya, usebenzisa intetho yezandla. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, yindlela yokuqinisa ubudlelwane beemvakalelo kunye nokufunda okubaluleke kakhulu kubomi bawo nawuphi na umntwana.