Ukwenzakala kwabantwana kuqhelekile kunokuba sicinga. Nangona singacingi, uninzi lwabantu lurhuqa oko kubizwa ngokuba ngamanxeba. Yiyo loo nto maxa wambi sizibek’ ityala ngesibakala sokuba, xa sibadala, ulwalamano aluphumeleli okanye mhlawumbi lukhokelela kwiingxaki zokuzixabisa okanye kwanexhala.
Ngoko kusoloko kubalulekile ukuhlalutya ubuntwaneni ukufumanisa ukuba sinaloo mizila ngendlela yamanxeba. Usenokucinga ukuba oku kwenzeka kuphela kubantwana abakhule nzima. kodwa akunjalo. Ngamanye amaxesha la manqaku ngendlela yamanxeba ebuntwaneni afakwe ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka sizichonge kwaye sizisombulule ngokukhawuleza.
Ayintoni amanxeba obuntwana?
Babizwa ngokuba yinto eveliswa kubunzima obuthile esiye sadibana nabo. Yiyo loo nto sizibiza ngokuba yimizila yeenyawo. Kuba bahlala kuthi kwaye baya kuphuma kubo bonke ubomi kunye neemeko ekufuneka siphile. Ukususela kumanxeba sisabela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha ukuzama ukuqhubela phambili, ukufihla imvelaphi yayo yonke le nto. Ngoko sinokuthi Luthotho lwemithwalo esinayo ukusuka sisebancinci kakhulu.. Ifanele ikhankanywe into yokuba maxa wambi ilula kangangokuba ayichaphazeli ngokwenene kuthi kwimihla yethu yemihla ngemihla, kodwa abanye abaninzi bayasichaphazela.
Zeziphi ezona nzame zixhaphakileyo?
ukoyika ukwaliwa
Abantwana abancinci bafuna ukuhoywa kakhulu kunye nokwamkelwa. Ke ukuba oku akufezekiswanga yindawo yabo, iya kubhalwa kwi-retina yomncinci kwaye iya kubatsala ubomi babo bonke. Njani? izanywe kakuhle yenza yonke into ukuya kwi-millimeter ukunqanda ukugxekwa, yiba ngabantu abagqibeleleyoBaya kwenza konke okusemandleni ukukholisa abanye, nangona bezilahla kwaye ngenxa yoko, ubudlelwane abuyi kuhlala busebenza kubo.
uloyiko lokulahlwa
Kule meko akusoloko imeko yokulahlwa njengoko kunjalo, kodwa ye ukungabikho komnye wamanani abalulekileyo ebomini yabantu. Xa kuvakala ukuba lilize, kufika elinye lamanxeba obuntwana. Into esiya kuyiphatha ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: kwelinye icala, ukungathembi abantu okanye kwelinye, ukuxhomekeka kakhulu xa sinomntu osecaleni kwethu.
uloyiko lokuthotywa
Xa ukususela ebuntwaneni sihlala sithethiswa, sigwetywe kwaye oku kuba ngumkhwa, ekugqibeleni omncinci uya kucinga ukuba kukho into naye ehlala ingalunganga. Yintoni eya kuchaphazela ubomi bakhe kunye nokuziphatha kwakhe, kunjalo. Oku Kuya kukukhokelela ekubeni ube nokuzithemba okuphantsi kakhulu engayazi indlela yokuxhamla okanye ukonwabela oko umntu anako.
ukoyika ukungcatshwa
Nangona ukulahlwa kuyelinye lawona manxeba obuntwana abangela ezona ngxaki, ukungcatshwa yenye. Kaloku ikwayindlela yokuba umntwana azive engenakumthemba loo mntu. Into ukuba yandisa ngexesha kakhulu kunokwenzeka ukuba ukuthembela kubonakale ngokungabikho kwayo kubomi bakho abadala.
uloyiko lokungekho sikweni
Xa umntu emncinci, inxeba elinje inokwenzeka xa utata okanye umama engqongqo ngokwenene. Xa bengabonisi uthando oluninzi kwaye bakude kakhulu. Xa sikhula nathi siya kuba ngabo, ekubeni nemfuno enkulu kwinyathelo ngalinye esilithathayo.
Zinokuconjululwa njani ezi ngxaki?
Okona kulungileyo kuko konke kukuthintela. Ke ngoko, kwimfundo esiyinika abantwana bethu, kufuneka sithathele ingqalelo iinkalo ezininzi apho uthando, ukumamela, ukufundisa ngokufanelekileyo, ukunqanda ukukhwaza nokuba nonxibelelwano olungcono Banokuthwala isiqhamo esikhulu. Ukuba sele kusemva kwexesha, akukaze kube buhlungu ukucela uncedo kwaye uvumele ingcali yokunyanga ibe nguye onokukunika amanyathelo angcono okuphilisa loo manxeba ebuntwaneni.